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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said?  |
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said? "
Not at all!
Just too many prats on here. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.
Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.
It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said?
Not at all!
Just too many prats on here. Xx"
There are. I know that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said?
Not single ...  "
He said he was. In fact he pretty much told me his life story without me even asking! |
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said?
Not single ...
He said he was. In fact he pretty much told me his life story without me even asking!"
How long had he been on Fabs ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.
Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.
It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move."
It is a very drastic move.
Which is why I was pretty shocked to be honest. If he had decided not to engage with me any more and didn't have the courage to explain why, he could have used the block button. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said?
Not single ...
He said he was. In fact he pretty much told me his life story without me even asking!
How long had he been on Fabs ?"
Only a very short time. He had a new profile but was a returning user. He knew how the site works, winked me initially and I saw his profile had very well worded content, so he appeared to have made an effort with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.
Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.
It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move.
It is a very drastic move.
Which is why I was pretty shocked to be honest. If he had decided not to engage with me any more and didn't have the courage to explain why, he could have used the block button. "
Precisely, what lends itself to my thinking that it was something else that has overwhelmed them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong? 
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo  "
With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, sometimes it’s something happening in other areas of their life that has overwhelmed them.
Just think that you may given them some respite from their troubles elsewhere whilst you were chatting.
It isn’t you. If it’s UNLOS, that’s a drastic move.
It is a very drastic move.
Which is why I was pretty shocked to be honest. If he had decided not to engage with me any more and didn't have the courage to explain why, he could have used the block button.
Precisely, what lends itself to my thinking that it was something else that has overwhelmed them."
Yeah I know it wasn't me.
I have been here long enough to realise these things happen.
It just hasn't happened in a long time and I do wonder why the UNLOS phenomenon happens. |
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo
With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?"
Yes, very!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo
With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?
Yes, very! "
Would a squirt of cream on top of said cake push you over the edge? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo
With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?
Yes, very! "
Offer him a Jaffa Cake and it’s a very different story.  |
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo
With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?
Yes, very!
Would a squirt of cream on top of said cake push you over the edge?"
Pass the Kleenex |
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake? Oh helloooo
With chocolate ganache filling and chocolate curls on the top?... are you turned on yet?
Yes, very!
Offer him a Jaffa Cake and it’s a very different story. "
This is very true! lol |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said? "
Nope happened a fair amount to me on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately happens far too often on here. But also I suppose people are entitled to change their minds. Plenty more fish in the sea x"
Of course. I am philosophical as always. We have to have thick skin on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not to sound like a noob but what does UNLOS mean?
Thanks. Seeing things like UNLOS here all the time and haven't a clue what half them mean "
This is where the Forum is your friend! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Him being single was probably part of the fantasy he was telling you x"
I just think he wasn't expecting anyone to chat with him, and when I did, it scared him because shit could have gotten real and no longer would it have been just a fantasy! |
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"Him being single was probably part of the fantasy he was telling you x
I just think he wasn't expecting anyone to chat with him, and when I did, it scared him because shit could have gotten real and no longer would it have been just a fantasy!"
I mean ffs it's his loss!  |
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"That led to a really nice engaging chat that Was beginning to feel it may lead somewhere and then totally out of the blue....
UNLOS!
Was it something that I said? "
I thought you was going to finish with the mr bright side lyrics “ it started off with a wink , how did it end up like this it was only a wink it was only a wink “  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake? "
Chocolate cake. You have me there, add hot chocolate, topped with cream and sprinkled with marshmallow and I am yours x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you not offer tea and cake within the first 10 messages?
Was that where I went wrong?
What would you recommend? Chocolate cake?
Chocolate cake. You have me there, add hot chocolate, topped with cream and sprinkled with marshmallow and I am yours x"
Btw, his loss, maybe someone elses gain |
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