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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.  |
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?
A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start. "
I'm half way there then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't go full steam ahead. Plenty of lube or wetness otherwise it will rub. Incorporating licking and sucking always helps but squeezing the balls while you do it or rubbing the perenium can feel great. |
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"Don't go full steam ahead. Plenty of lube or wetness otherwise it will rub. Incorporating licking and sucking always helps but squeezing the balls while you do it or rubbing the perenium can feel great. "
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?
A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.
I'm half way there then "
Then get ya blue knickers on and we're ready to go. Xxx |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Everyone is different what works for one doesn't necessary work for others. No one hand fits all lol - gratuitous pun.
Familiarity works for us we know what each other likes and have a synergy. 
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?
A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.
I'm half way there then
Then get ya blue knickers on and we're ready to go. Xxx"
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By *ayBigMan
over a year ago
birmingham |
"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?
A nice sexy lady in blue knickers would be good start.
I'm half way there then
Then get ya blue knickers on and we're ready to go. Xxx
xxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone seems to have something to add so I'll give my two pence!
Obviously everybody has their own tastes, but if I've ever had any issue it's too much or too little lube
Too little and hands feel like sandpaper going over the head, too much and I barely feel anything at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont pull the skin so far down that its more like your trying to skin a rabbit
Dont smack the balls so hard on the down stroke
Just stuff that has happened to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Use two hands. Plenty of lube or oil. Give the balls some attention. Tits out for something to look at. Don't speed up when we're about to cum. Make it last. Even if someone begs for you to go faster, look them in the eye with a sexy smile and keep it at the same speed. And don't stop until the balls are drained |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Firm but not tight grip down the shaft, light teasing with thumb over the head. To finish slightly firmer up to the glans and vigorous. But not hard squeeze. There's a difference between firm grip and hard grip. |
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Having your foreskin yanked down hard is a no for me.
Firm pressure at the base, stroking my balls and kissing me deeply, that’s the way to get the money shot. |
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By *P994Man
over a year ago
Travelling |
Grip it firm at the base but when you get near the head loosen the grip a bit. Also don’t yank hard on the foreskin and lubrication is your friend. I’m happy for any ladies to practice on me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm.....let’s see if I can recall.....eye contact, the look of pleasure on her face when she’s looking at what’s she’s doing, the naughty look when she knows she ‘owns’ me in that moment.....
Physically, I think it follows from the above. There’s no standard formula for me. |
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
personally don't like my balls played with. But think lube is a must for most. Eye contact does it for me, you can learn alot for a guys look, we're terrible at hiding are tue feeling, if he's liking it his eyes will tell you. Oh and kissing, love a snog and a grope |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’ |
1st, if you got cold hands (some womens are like icebergs),stick 'em in some hot water, clap your hands (minus any shit), ruub those palms vigourously till they look pinky red & feel hot. Now you can touch percy!!!!
2nd, yeah, I know you ladies don't like us guys kerb hangers! Fair enough.... But if we've gone to the trouble of shaving them would it be a little too much to ask for them to be sucked (lefty lucy & righty tighty - you can't do one twin without the other)?Rifgt? No? Tough crowd!
3rd, if we've got foreskin - be gentle please with it! You're not cracking your pepperami (that you've been drooling about mid morning), out now from the fridge with gusto - that will allow hammer!
4th, when you are sucking on Percy Sledge would you also mind holding our squirrel nutkins nut-sacks from time to time gently? If you have long fingernails you have more power than you realise......
I'm stopping here cos it will end up like a treatise on the subject. Other peeps have said it better above!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firm grip but not squeezing. With lube start slowly, pulling the foreskin down (no yanking) then up so the foreskin goes over the head. Sometimes just rubbing the frenulum slowly and varying speed but not fast and furious. Slowly increase speed and on the up (when the foreskin feels tighter) cover head with your hand.
Have to be lying down, you to my side, kissing (maybe licking my nipples and neck also) and letting me run my hands over your naked body. |
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Practice has a lot to do with it. Where do you want me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all very individual isn’t it
For me, I like a wet smooth slippy milking action. Gripped too tight and for me it’s horrendous , lighter/slipping and sliding wins. My balls always respond to ring loosened/tugged.
I hate my head being touched with anything dry. Fingers/teeth, nails. yuk!
I found an amazing video of a woman giving oral and a handjob that is just about the nest I’ve ever seen!
Wx
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Take it in stages. Gentle teasing to start with until it starts to really get hard. Then (and only then) pull back the foreskin, increase the pressure. I like to feel the skin moving a little, too little pressure it just dances over the top. Only start to play with the head further into things, make me wait for it. Eye contact is really important. Feel free to play elsewhere too, those nipples love a lick. And if a finger wonders somewhere it shouldn't you'll soon tell if it's nice or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Don’t tell him your hand is too big for his cock and may as well use only two fingers |
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"I'm taking notes.....
After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice "
The trick is to take your time....eye contact....watch the breathing.... that's just my personal experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a bit like your bits tbh. Lubricant, not too hard, sometimes concentrating on the head and Frenulum, then the full penis shaft. One technic is too massage the head of penis with 3 fingers up and down. Some variant is to massage the perinum and for adventurous the prostate of course at the same time to garantie to finish it off quickly.. |
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"I'm taking notes.....
After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice
The trick is to take your time....eye contact....watch the breathing.... that's just my personal experience."
Very nice vid and I could hear him...love that |
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over a year ago
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So from my very scientific study (not) I’ve come up with some suggestions, take or leave as you see fit..
- Eye contact
- Lube / spit - I’ve never complained that there’s too much
- Put in a show - he’ll be watching
- Start slow and gentle with one hand with slow long confident strokes
- Then use two hands, but not up and down, twist yoyr hands as you stroke up and down
- Increase the speed as he hardens and groans
- In the case of some men talk filth to them
Don’t
- Be afraid of getting your hands covered, it’s going to be messy, just accept it.
- Lift your pinky, you’re not drinking wine
- Maybe use other stimulation too, some men like prostate massage, others nipple licking
Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time. It’s like the pro hand job and I know I’m in the hands of an expert when she start that witchcraft |
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over a year ago
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"So from my very scientific study (not) I’ve come up with some suggestions, take or leave as you see fit..
- Eye contact
- Lube / spit - I’ve never complained that there’s too much
- Put in a show - he’ll be watching
- Start slow and gentle with one hand with slow long confident strokes
- Then use two hands, but not up and down, twist yoyr hands as you stroke up and down
- Increase the speed as he hardens and groans
- In the case of some men talk filth to them
Don’t
- Be afraid of getting your hands covered, it’s going to be messy, just accept it.
- Lift your pinky, you’re not drinking wine
- Maybe use other stimulation too, some men like prostate massage, others nipple licking
Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time. It’s like the pro hand job and I know I’m in the hands of an expert when she start that witchcraft "
Printed and stuck on a night table  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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- Eye contact
- Put in a show - he’ll be watching
Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time."
I don't watch. I like to close my eyes. And I don't like the twist. Just straight up and down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its something I'm not overly confident with.. sucking is fine im pretty damn confident with that so tend to get to sucking ASAP
Few things to try though, thanks gents |
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"Its something I'm not overly confident with.. sucking is fine im pretty damn confident with that so tend to get to sucking ASAP
Few things to try though, thanks gents "
Whilst I know it's entirely personal, I like to see what the guys have to say and also the ladies too. |
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over a year ago
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"So from my very scientific study (not) I’ve come up with some suggestions, take or leave as you see fit..
- Eye contact
- Lube / spit - I’ve never complained that there’s too much
- Put in a show - he’ll be watching
- Start slow and gentle with one hand with slow long confident strokes
- Then use two hands, but not up and down, twist yoyr hands as you stroke up and down
- Increase the speed as he hardens and groans
- In the case of some men talk filth to them
Don’t
- Be afraid of getting your hands covered, it’s going to be messy, just accept it.
- Lift your pinky, you’re not drinking wine
- Maybe use other stimulation too, some men like prostate massage, others nipple licking
Ax for me the twist thing gets me every time. It’s like the pro hand job and I know I’m in the hands of an expert when she start that witchcraft
Printed and stuck on a night table "
Ha! There may be others and it’s not all men (that’s not helpful is it?) but the lube thing is pretty much most guys I suspect |
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"1st, if you got cold hands (some womens are like icebergs),stick 'em in some hot water, clap your hands (minus any shit), ruub those palms vigourously till they look pinky red & feel hot. Now you can touch percy!!!!
2nd, yeah, I know you ladies don't like us guys kerb hangers! Fair enough.... But if we've gone to the trouble of shaving them would it be a little too much to ask for them to be sucked (lefty lucy & righty tighty - you can't do one twin without the other)?Rifgt? No? Tough crowd!
3rd, if we've got foreskin - be gentle please with it! You're not cracking your pepperami (that you've been drooling about mid morning), out now from the fridge with gusto - that will allow hammer!
4th, when you are sucking on Percy Sledge would you also mind holding our squirrel nutkins nut-sacks from time to time gently? If you have long fingernails you have more power than you realise......
I'm stopping here cos it will end up like a treatise on the subject. Other peeps have said it better above! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Q1 - When someone else is doing it rather than me.
Q2 - Eye gazing is goods. Balls and/or butt playing can be a real accelerator. Please watch the nails unless it is playful stroking.
Q3 - Slow, full length strokes (the base of the head is pretty sensitive and pleasurable so gliding over that and not stopping short is good).
Q4 - Having to actually talk on the Zoom call I am taking part in.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Personally...
Standing face to face and kissing whilst receiving A nice firmly griped slow wank, makes me cum so hard. |
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"Use two hands. Plenty of lube or oil. Give the balls some attention. Tits out for something to look at. Don't speed up when we're about to cum. Make it last. Even if someone begs for you to go faster, look them in the eye with a sexy smile and keep it at the same speed. And don't stop until the balls are drained"
Nice! I like the thought of him begging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its something I'm not overly confident with.. sucking is fine im pretty damn confident with that so tend to get to sucking ASAP
Few things to try though, thanks gents "
Just ask... Happy to give pointers between moans  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not sure if this counts but a woman once tongue massaged me on the ‘gooch’ I think that’s the biological term right? as she was twisting and OH. MY. GOD! It was like they struck dove shower gel in Texas! Again not for all but one that might set the fires in him |
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It’s really up to the individual. Usually it works best with some sort of lube or moisture. I like it to be stroked or glided on it rather than a hard tug motion. It’s good to have the balls played with as well.
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?
Q1 - When someone else is doing it rather than me.
Q2 - Eye gazing is goods. Balls and/or butt playing can be a real accelerator. Please watch the nails unless it is playful stroking.
Q3 - Slow, full length strokes (the base of the head is pretty sensitive and pleasurable so gliding over that and not stopping short is good).
Q4 - Having to actually talk on the Zoom call I am taking part in.
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Be careful! Don't forget what subject your talking about and be offering cock advice |
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"I’m not sure if this counts but a woman once tongue massaged me on the ‘gooch’ I think that’s the biological term right? as she was twisting and OH. MY. GOD! It was like they struck dove shower gel in Texas! Again not for all but one that might set the fires in him"
Love the way you put that |
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"I'm taking notes.....
After watching your vid I think you're quite well qualified to be offering advice
The trick is to take your time....eye contact....watch the breathing.... that's just my personal experience.
Very nice vid and I could hear him...love that "
It was fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Slow and steady long strokes listening for the (my) moan then move together mmmmm
Oh and I absolutely don’t like sand as lube |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said, starting off slow and focussing on the base of the shaft with some lube until I get hard, and then incorporating the head before going up and down.
There's something about me being on my stomach or knees as she reaches under that really gets me going as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and I have one more. This applies to blow jobs as well though.
One man come you probably have noticed that they want to do it whilst balls deep inside. Someone probably won’t even realise it, but we are searching for pressure at the base of my cocks because that’s where it feels best.
I think it’s mother nature’s way of increasing the chances of pregnancy. She’s a clever girl! What that means is, when he’s cumming - whether it’s a blow job or hand job, grab the base of his cock and it will probably feel good for him.
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over a year ago
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"Oh and I have one more. This applies to blow jobs as well though.
One man come you probably have noticed that they want to do it whilst balls deep inside. Someone probably won’t even realise it, but we are searching for pressure at the base of my cocks because that’s where it feels best.
I think it’s mother nature’s way of increasing the chances of pregnancy. She’s a clever girl! What that means is, when he’s cumming - whether it’s a blow job or hand job, grab the base of his cock and it will probably feel good for him.
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"Oh and I have one more. This applies to blow jobs as well though.
One man come you probably have noticed that they want to do it whilst balls deep inside. Someone probably won’t even realise it, but we are searching for pressure at the base of my cocks because that’s where it feels best.
I think it’s mother nature’s way of increasing the chances of pregnancy. She’s a clever girl! What that means is, when he’s cumming - whether it’s a blow job or hand job, grab the base of his cock and it will probably feel good for him.
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Duly noted..thank you |
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"I'm taking notes.....
Me too
Me three. Loads of valuable information in here. Good call OP and thanks for all the good advice from the gents  "
Ah thank you and I'll second that...thanks guys for sharing x |
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One of the big tricks is knowing when to stop. If you were to continue vigorously after I cum then it will be very uncomfortable for me. I think it works best slowing down after my orgasm like applying the brakes gently and then keep going for a minute or two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lube .. and be gentle ... it’s not a gear stick ...
Same applies to the clit, some go at it like they’re a DJ at decks.
My clit don’t need no remix "
so true |
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By *ogueAngelMan
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
I think it better to take a practical approach to this situation. 
But everyone is different. I'd advise starting slow and experimenting with grip (doesn't need to be too tight), how far down to pull, and how their body is responding to what you're doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Just don’t squeeze the life out of it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without thought for my personal safety, or for that matter, the aid of a safety net, I’m prepared to sacrifice my body in the name of all things science and hand jobs, so that we may all collectively learn.
I know, selfless right?
Seems that lube / wetness has been a consistent theme in this thread x |
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over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
The build up/ tease and eye contact are big ticks in my book - its all about the mental the physical game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
What makes a good hand job?
A mouth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t neglect the head
But also don’t neglect the rest of it.
The amount of pressure you use is important, find the sweet spot. I can’t speak for all men but enough is enough, not too much, but don’t be afraid to apply some.
Frequency is equally as important. When he moans he likes it, stick with it until it NEEDS to increase. Don’t rush.
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over a year ago
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a desire to make us finish quickly, if you enjoy men taking their time we enjoy the same.
instead of trying just one back and forth double barrel shotgun action, try mixing it with light and gentle strokes along with speeding up and then slowing down again few times.
a cup of the balls, a change in position from lying down to standing up with you on your knees, to a reach around from behind to show you're in charge.
Oil and plenty of it helps! Not sure why but my penis seems to drink massage oil more so than the rest of my skin!
And as with all things sexual, communicate, ask if he's enjoying it and let your partner know that if you can do something different you're all ears |
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"What makes a good hand job?
Any tips you'd like to share?
How do you like yours?
Is there anything that you don't like when having a hand job?"
Don’t yank it like you’re trying to force open the door |
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