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Why do the thoughts of strangers matter op? Just do you. If you’re married then be honest to anyone you plan to meet then they can make an informed decision whether to meet you. Other than that it’s nobody’s else’s business  |
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"Why do the thoughts of strangers matter op? Just do you. If you’re married then be honest to anyone you plan to meet then they can make an informed decision whether to meet you. Other than that it’s nobody’s else’s business "
Sound advice as usual |
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over a year ago
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I personally don't judge people for the choices they make in life; it's their life and they have to live with their decisions. Me, I'm married and on here with consent and I admit to meeting married men in the past. However, if I were to start meeting again, I don't think I would/could go down that road again. I once met a married man many times who then went on to meet with many other women. The fallout when he didn't leave his wife for one of them who had caught the feels was truly awful, even though when they had met him they knew he was married and wanting nsa. I just wouldn't want to get involved in that again. I've definitely changed my opinion over the years and realise the hurt it can cause  |
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"I personally don't judge people for the choices they make in life; it's their life and they have to live with their decisions. Me, I'm married and on here with consent and I admit to meeting married men in the past. However, if I were to start meeting again, I don't think I would/could go down that road again. I once met a married man many times who then went on to meet with many other women. The fallout when he didn't leave his wife for one of them who had caught the feels was truly awful, even though when they had met him they knew he was married and wanting nsa. I just wouldn't want to get involved in that again. I've definitely changed my opinion over the years and realise the hurt it can cause "
And I expect he wasn't bothered anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't agree with it. There are plenty of couples here who are aware each play with others so follow their path. I think deceit is very wrong when in a relationship. |
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"I’m married and I’ve met a number of women both married and unmarried. Even some that say they don’t meet married men despite knowing I was.
It’s up to individuals."
Of course it is up to individuals.
It is still dishonest and disrespectful though.
We always wonder what the unknowing partner has done to deserve being treated so badly? |
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over a year ago
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?"
She doesn’t want me to see other women |
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women "
I’ve only ever men btw |
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women
I’ve only ever men btw"
So you would rather be dishonest??
She is a swinger, would she really be so judgemental??
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women
I’ve only ever men btw"
so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical |
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women
I’ve only ever men btw"
So then why does she not know about your profile if you are still following her rules? |
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women
I’ve only ever men btw so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical "
She’s one of them jealous types |
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women
I’ve only ever men btw so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical
She’s one of them jealous types "
Probably from a history of guys cheating on her lol |
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"I’m married, Mrs has her own profile but doesn’t know about mine why not
Our thoughts exactly.
Why not, seeing that she is on here?
She doesn’t want me to see other women
I’ve only ever men btw so she doesn’t mind you meeting man but no woman very hypocritical
She’s one of them jealous types "
Have you ever asked her why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as the profile states it - after all this is an Adult site, so you make your own mind up
NB; most women I meet are married/attached playing "solo"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It there choice , I don’t judge them , but I won’t meet any married man with our wife’s permission
How many of you are married ? 
We are!"
You said our wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do the thoughts of strangers matter op? Just do you. If you’re married then be honest to anyone you plan to meet then they can make an informed decision whether to meet you. Other than that it’s nobody’s else’s business "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say.
I wonder if that's ever happened on here"
not with mine lol. He's no idea how to set fab up plus we was on here as a couple  |
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say.
I wonder if that's ever happened on herenot with mine lol. He's no idea how to set fab up plus we was on here as a couple "
That’s what you think |
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing? non of our business unless it's our husbands I'd say.
I wonder if that's ever happened on herenot with mine lol. He's no idea how to set fab up plus we was on here as a couple
That’s what you think "
I don't think I know lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?"
Argument is as old as swinging and will go on forever.
People "cheat" to use the favourite word for many different reasons, swinging scene and outside - fact
Married females are far more tolerated than married males. - People I'm sure will disagree but that has been our experiences over many many years on the scene.
As I a previous poster in the end it is down to the individuals, nobody else's business!!! just be honest with them - you are all adults? decide between you and keep it between you and also be aware actions also have consequences.
P.S. Looking for some kind of peer ratification in forums is unlikely
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I wouldn't knowingly meet anyone on here behind someone's back,
As others said,be honest with people though, as it gives people the choice to meet or not and those of us who don't want to meet, hate being deceived. |
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My opinion is super clear on my profile. For married men and women.
Make it known straight away when you start speaking to someone or put it on your profile and then only the people that don’t care will be interested. Easier for everyone.
Most of the single male profiles on here are married, it’s nothing new lol.
I just block and delete anyone who’s married and cheating then we can’t waste each other’s time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people hate it, some don't mind it.
Get the thread to 175 answers, and that will be the outcome. "
I havnt scrolled any further - this is probably the smartest answer in the thread |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
I try not to judge, but as I can’t accommodate and they usually can’t either it’s a pointless waste of time. In a club though I have no real idea what their relationship status is and it doesn’t matter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here a long time and my attitude these days is, I'm not married, so as long as it doesn't affect me, then fine.
I know I could be seen as an enabler, but I could also be seen as a temporary respite from a sexless marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are people's thoughts on married men using the site without their partners knowing?"
Think of it this way....imagine your wife on this site? Meeting some huge cocked guy and doing some really dirty stuff with him....then the other guy next.... |
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By *andm300Man
over a year ago
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As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest.
I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult.
Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her.
So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject. |
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The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach |
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach "
Yes, we find it hilarious!
When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'. |
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach
Yes, we find it hilarious!
When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'."
I think that person was talking about being honest and upfront about it on fab. |
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach
Yes, we find it hilarious!
When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'.
I think that person was talking about being honest and upfront about it on fab. "
yeah I get that I just meant the honest bit. Not honest to the wife. Not saying I'm against it I just find it funny. Not my business what they do though . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some for, some against, some don't care.
Put it on profile so any prospective meet can decide themselves. Don't put honest on profile, draws attention to dishonesty to wife so how can they believe you! In all probability you will get caught by your wife so be ready for the consequences at home. |
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"The only thing about married men on here without their wives knowledge that makes me laugh is when their profile says "genuine" and "honest". Pmsl. Practice what you preach
Yes, we find it hilarious!
When someone describes themselves 'honest and upfront'.
I think that person was talking about being honest and upfront about it on fab. "
Basically honest to get sex, but not to my life partner.
We just wonder why not just say nothing, and stay off the radar?
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By *AABMan
over a year ago
Not far |
Life isn’t black and white. Everyone and every relationship is unique and changeable. Someone cheating when they have a happy fulfilling sexual relationship at home is one thing, somebody in a long term sexless relationship is a quite different situation. |
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"Most people hate it, some don't mind it.
Get the thread to 175 answers, and that will be the outcome. "
Waiting to make a random comment about omelette to close the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has their own reasons for being on here it’s up to the individual what they think
My wife lost her breast to cancer 9 years ago and never took HRT hates being touched by anyone after all this time
Does that make me a horrible person |
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"Everyone has their own reasons for being on here it’s up to the individual what they think
My wife lost her breast to cancer 9 years ago and never took HRT hates being touched by anyone after all this time
Does that make me a horrible person "
If you’re lying to her then yes in my opinion |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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On this subject, everyone believes their opinion is the correct one, have their own reasons for having them and is their choice.
All you can do is be honest with the ones you hope to meet, and if they are comfortable with it then, discussion over.
You won't change peoples viewpoints on the subject so don't try.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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cheating cowards with no regards for anyones feelings. If you are not happy then leave, dont hurt people. Lack of sex tho hard is also not a excuse to cheat and as someone who has been single years we have to go with a huge lack of sex. You asked for a opinion so that is mine. |
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest.
I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult.
Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her.
So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject."
Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day?
She must feel like a human cum sock. |
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest.
I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult.
Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her.
So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject.
Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day?
She must feel like a human cum sock. "
And trust me you think you’re getting punished because she is going through the menopause...  unbelievable |
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"I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not "
likewise I was with a fem FB on here - both married and both honest from day one - we ended up teaming up as a couple for just over two year , some of my best times on here where with her
In both cases, our home sex life was our reason for being here - whilst it was/is never awful, we both needed an extra spark that swinging together brought
Fill your boots "trollers"
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"I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not
likewise I was with a fem FB on here - both married and both honest from day one - we ended up teaming up as a couple for just over two year , some of my best times on here where with her
In both cases, our home sex life was our reason for being here - whilst it was/is never awful, we both needed an extra spark that swinging together brought
Fill your boots "trollers"
J "
Not worth trolling |
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You be surprised how often that happens not just to married men but married women as well
J "
Without a doubt.. where I don’t agree with trolling and everyone has there own opinion.. but you reap what you saw |
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By *andm300Man
over a year ago
guildford |
"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest.
I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult.
Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her.
So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject.
Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day?
She must feel like a human cum sock.
And trust me you think you’re getting punished because she is going through the menopause... unbelievable "
Sorry you find it hard to believe. I don’t think I am being punished but she is going through menopause and I can love and support her though it and also be having a midlife crisis myself. Am I not allowed to struggle too. Is it a crime to be human and honest even when is not complimentary to myself. Can I not be the loving husband and have my own needs or should I ignore my subconscious desires in an attempt to be what other want me to be.
“A human cum sock” made me laugh... I hope she doesn’t Feel like that. I try my hardest to not let her be with me unless it’s clear her body also wants sex.
Feeling deeply Intimate Helps me stay honest and feeling rejected is more about intimacy than sex. Sex and intimacy is different. Intimacy can be hard with kids and a busy life and endless compromises. We have had endless conversations about this.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I definitely try not to judge as I don’t know the full complexities of their personal situation.
There are those that might be considered as justified in being here, there are others that are simply wanting to have their cake and eat it.
The main issue as I see it is one of trusting a person. They can claim a lot of things but if someone is lying to the person that they claim to love above everyone else, then how can they be believed about anything and how do you know who’s being truthful about their situation?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id say its 50/50 bearing in mind we dont get to hear what most think as most dont use the forums ... the truth is most swingers have met married guys/women and dont know they have ..for long as people can lie there will always be cheats and in all walks of life too |
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"As a married man for 20 years i have been quite judgemental in the past about cheaters. I always thought that people should grow a pair and be honest.
I have been very Obsessively honest And it’s worked for me yet it’s been very difficult.
Now at 42 and I guess a bit of a midlife I am noticing a strong urge to cheat. It’s becoming a big fantasy (it works both ways as the thought of my wife cheating on me is a big turn). Weird how our biggest taboos can be our biggest turn on. My wife knows I/we are on here but at times she’s not comfortable with it and I hide the profile. She’s going through menopause and I guess I am getting punished for not Sewing my Wild oats When I was younger. We are deeply in love But I am often unsatisfied sexually and feel rejected despite us fucking most days for 1hr plus Apart from the odd week when she has no interest. I crave orgies and gangbangs or opening up the relationship but my wife has made it clear it’s a deal breaker for her.
So I won’t cheat But it’s tearing me apart inside as I fear getting old without experiencing things and always having regrets. It would be a shame to break up our family just because of my cock. So I have often thought it would be better on us both if I could just cheat and hold a secret. It would make me a better husband in many ways. In the mean time I keep cling to the hope of her changing her mind as I don’t think I will handle guilt well. I hope this helps someone. It’s been helpful for me to articulate my thoughts on the subject.
Why do you feel rejected if you are fucking her 1hr every day?
She must feel like a human cum sock.
And trust me you think you’re getting punished because she is going through the menopause... unbelievable
Sorry you find it hard to believe. I don’t think I am being punished but she is going through menopause and I can love and support her though it and also be having a midlife crisis myself. Am I not allowed to struggle too. Is it a crime to be human and honest even when is not complimentary to myself. Can I not be the loving husband and have my own needs or should I ignore my subconscious desires in an attempt to be what other want me to be.
“A human cum sock” made me laugh... I hope she doesn’t Feel like that. I try my hardest to not let her be with me unless it’s clear her body also wants sex.
Feeling deeply Intimate Helps me stay honest and feeling rejected is more about intimacy than sex. Sex and intimacy is different. Intimacy can be hard with kids and a busy life and endless compromises. We have had endless conversations about this.
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"I was seeing an attached guy until recently and I knew from day one as he was honest from the start....... I do think if they are up front about it then you can make your own mind up about it....... as long as no one gets hurt and it’s all fun then why not
likewise I was with a fem FB on here - both married and both honest from day one - we ended up teaming up as a couple for just over two year , some of my best times on here where with her
In both cases, our home sex life was our reason for being here - whilst it was/is never awful, we both needed an extra spark that swinging together brought
Fill your boots "trollers"
J
Not worth trolling "
Totally agree, not worth trolling. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I don't pass judgment - I try not to, because we never know what the other person's situation is. I say this because I know people whose partner is suffering with a debilitating and life-limiting illness. Do they cheat? I guess they do but I don't think I have the moral right to judge or tell them off for doing so.
That said, I personally avoid meeting attached guys because, unfortunately, it does not always end with just a meet.
It was not on this site, but a few years ago I experienced phone calls from a very upset partner who wondered what my mobile number was doing in partner's mobile.
Fortunately, I had decided after the first (social) meet that this person was not for me so I could reassure the caller that things never went any further than a coffee but even that conversation did not leave me feeling great and I promised myself I would do "due diligence" when meeting people off sites - any sites really - so I would never have to face this situation again. |
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"Married here, she can’t or doesn’t want to give me what I want or need
I make friends here and have fun
Not romantic relationships
Maybe it’s selfish but I want to enjoy and experience
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Yes it is selfish.
Wouldn’t it be funny if she is getting her fun elsewhere. |
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"My opinion is super clear on my profile. For married men and women.
Make it known straight away when you start speaking to someone or put it on your profile and then only the people that don’t care will be interested. Easier for everyone.
Most of the single male profiles on here are married, it’s nothing new lol.
I just block and delete anyone who’s married and cheating then we can’t waste each other’s time x"
very clearly stated on our profile how we feel. Not into destroying some unsuspecting partners life when they find out... |
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"Married men who complain their partners don’t want to have sex with them need too look closer to home!! Maybe your shit at sex and thats why she don’t bother!! Just a thought!!"
If she won't have sex with him surely it's a red flag that he will be crap. |
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These sort of threads make my head hurt. If you throw yourself to the wolves your gonna get bitten unfortunately.
Just live your life how you want to live it. Do I agree with cheating? No Would I ever cheat? No but I'm not gonna bash someone with a moral stick. You never truely know what's going on in a person's life or relationship so no one has the right to be judge and jury |
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"These sort of threads make my head hurt. If you throw yourself to the wolves your gonna get bitten unfortunately.
Just live your life how you want to live it. Do I agree with cheating? No Would I ever cheat? No but I'm not gonna bash someone with a moral stick. You never truely know what's going on in a person's life or relationship so no one has the right to be judge and jury "
This ^^^
Seen sooo many of these threads and the all go the same way. I keep my opinions on the subject to myself cos it is simply none of my business or anyone else's. Have we experienced those you condemn married guys but would welcome married woman, I don't like hypocrisy.
If your guy posting in the forums about the subject and you are a looking for some sort of furomite approval which will not happen, all that will happen is you'll get lynch mob hanging or burned at the stake. Sorry guys
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"These sort of threads make my head hurt. If you throw yourself to the wolves your gonna get bitten unfortunately.
Just live your life how you want to live it. Do I agree with cheating? No Would I ever cheat? No but I'm not gonna bash someone with a moral stick. You never truely know what's going on in a person's life or relationship so no one has the right to be judge and jury
This ^^^
Seen sooo many of these threads and the all go the same way. I keep my opinions on the subject to myself cos it is simply none of my business or anyone else's. Have we experienced those you condemn married guys but would welcome married woman, I don't like hypocrisy.
If your guy posting in the forums about the subject and you are a looking for some sort of furomite approval which will not happen, all that will happen is you'll get lynch mob hanging or burned at the stake. Sorry guys
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Why you sorry.. we all have opinions on it.. and he did ask in an open forum. I my comments also stand for women but you don’t see women starting threads about it.  |
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"Married here, she can’t or doesn’t want to give me what I want or need
I make friends here and have fun
Not romantic relationships
Maybe it’s selfish but I want to enjoy and experience
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What a pathetic selfish entitled attitude. How do you think us single guys manage when we go months or years without sex because we dont have a partner. Cheating is awful and someone always gets hurt. |
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You do you OP and stop asking for other people's approval