Sleazy or not is dictated by yoir relationship with them.
So I’d imagine publicly asking any woman on a swinging forum if they would be interested without first establishing some rapport goes down as both sleazy and a little desperate
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By *illagaz OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sleazy or not is dictated by yoir relationship with them.
So I’d imagine publicly asking any woman on a swinging forum if they would be interested without first establishing some rapport goes down as both sleazy and a little desperate
Just my 2c"
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Can ask what you want on here...should be a place of no judgement...it’s up to the recipient to decide if sleazy...
If it’s dinner at the Ivy with no guarantees of afters...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It sounds a bit gimmicky and more like a ploy to oil someone up thats why i said genuine."
It's more than a genuine lunch date, it's probably best to market it differently |
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Um its a difficult one because it sounds a bit like it has a transactional quality to it.. I will buy you lunch if you let me oil you up?
Personally I would rather just have a massage! But by someone with qualifications, a "Professional"!  |
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I don’t think it’s sleazy but if that was the selling line then I wouldn’t be interested, I’d want some conversation and getting to know before this was discussed. And anything after food should never be expected from either party |
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Feels like a transaction. Food in payment for 'a massage' which is a code word for sex.
I have this scenario planned and it does feel sleazy. Haven't decided yet if that's hot or not.  |
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