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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?
Why would someone need qualifications?"
Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part  |
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"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?
Why would someone need qualifications?
Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part "
Then you are looking for attributes rather than qualifications. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?
Why would someone need qualifications?
Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part
Then you are looking for attributes rather than qualifications. "
As I pointed out it was meant to nbe light hearted - I used poetic licence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The patience of Job, determination, persistence, breadth of mind and thought, forgiveness, empathy and understanding, laissez-faire, a good traveller, charisma, class personality and wit, and somewhere down the bottom physical stamina and a damn good shag.
Fraid I don't suffer fools gladly tho' 
Wolf
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The patience of Job, determination, persistence, breadth of mind and thought, forgiveness, empathy and understanding, laissez-faire, a good traveller, charisma, class personality and wit, and somewhere down the bottom physical stamina and a damn good shag.
Fraid I don't suffer fools gladly tho'
Wolf
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Next question ... how do you measure those...;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Next question ... how do you measure those...;-) "
Not with a sky remote, that's for sure
In all fairness can you realistically measure them... or just look for that in others. Does that then NSA things 'lucky dip' and the in-depth analysis of people for desirables more like dating....?
Wolf
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"What qualifications does one need to be a (good) swinger ...?
Why would someone need qualifications?
Again it is a light hearted thread - I am not actually asking for qualifications such as GCSE and A levels or degrees - I am asking people what personality traits they feel are needed for being a good swinger. And a good swinger is not defined by scientif criteria either - it is just a bit of fun for those who wish to take part
Then you are looking for attributes rather than qualifications.
As I pointed out it was meant to nbe light hearted - I used poetic licence "
Glad we've got that sorted out, I've been onto Sydney University, fecking phone call's cost me a fortune, but they said if I collect loads of photos they'll give me a degree.....I've asked for Sheila Ferguson
Semi-serious answer, thick skin, sense of humour (tho' some seem to be sadly lacking in both departments),what I can only define as "nous" to help sort the wheat from the chaff....
I've personally got 3 GCSEs (Gloriously Cute Slippery Entrances) that I love to use as well |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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Next question ... how do you measure those...;-)
Not with a sky remote, that's for sure
In all fairness can you realistically measure them... or just look for that in others. Does that then NSA things 'lucky dip' and the in-depth analysis of people for desirables more like dating....?
Wolf
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No, you cant - measure them. Again I am being playful, I agree with you that there is an element of (un)lucky dip in swinging and the indepth analysis is left better for the medium to long term relationships  |
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Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.
It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?
Wolf
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"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.
It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?
Wolf
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The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here |
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I've got me 17th Edition Full Scope Part P Domestic Installer's Certificate. If that isn't enough then fuck 'em.
(that should just about cover it I think) |
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"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.
It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?
Wolf
The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here "
Ah... women are a sucker for real-estate :o) lol
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"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.
It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?
Wolf
The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here
Ah... women are a sucker for real-estate :o) lol
Wolf"
maybe that was freudian... rearrange words as appropriate
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"I've got me 17th Edition Full Scope Part P Domestic Installer's Certificate. If that isn't enough then fuck 'em.
(that should just about cover it I think) "
Bloody hell another kitchen fitter with a five day course under his belt . |
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"Absolutely... so somewhere inbetween that is probably perfect.
It's a difficult game, and probably why so many single guys put up the 'I'm having no luck' threads. If they're an unknown and would rather remain unknown to others in a swinging population that likes some attributes known, then no small wonder they have difficulties. But how many apply the marketing mix to their profiles?
Wolf
The estate agent dictorary is always good for a single male on here
Ah... women are a sucker for real-estate :o) lol
Wolf
maybe that was freudian... rearrange words as appropriate
Wolf
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Most thing wrote on here are |
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I would say the qualifications that you need are definitely a sense of humour, a good communicator, an acceptance of oneself, emotionally stable, assertive and confident |
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