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By *BWBI2019 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Anyone else with me on this?!

Life for the last year and a half has taken its toll on my social skills, sexual desire and expression as I'm sure it has for most of us but I feel so overwhelmed by how I actually get that back? How do I meet people? How do I make friends? How do I find the confidence to have sex with people?!

I could stay in this comfort hole and hibernate until I resemble the hoarder goblin lady from Labyrinth but I'm choosing to take steps towards finding my sexual identity again and I look forward to actually feeling sexy because I can't remember what that's like!

So here I am, back on fab, looking to chat with like minded people, make friends and maybe get round to having some fun at some point if I dare haha!

This wet blanket life isn't for me anymore!

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Same as going to the pub, even though I'm double jabbed, I'm not in any rush to get back into the saddle so to speak

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Baby steps OP. Start by doing basic hot girl shit - I've ordered nose strips, face masks, all sorts of crap that will hopefully help me resemble less of an ogress and give me back some of the confidence. When you feel good about you, it's so much easier to deal with others.

Meet people you feel comfortable with in a no pressure capacity and then you'll find that confidence again before too long and be excited about socialising. Good luck out there.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Start with your friends, build each other up. Do things that make you feel good about yourself. You've got this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

101010000111011100011001011110000111 *Does not compute*

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman  over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"Baby steps OP. Start by doing basic hot girl shit - I've ordered nose strips, face masks, all sorts of crap that will hopefully help me resemble less of an ogress and give me back some of the confidence. When you feel good about you, it's so much easier to deal with others.

Meet people you feel comfortable with in a no pressure capacity and then you'll find that confidence again before too long and be excited about socialising. Good luck out there. "

Excellent advice. Thank u

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By *BWBI2019 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Thank you lovely! Good advice! Honestly can't even remember the last time I wore makeup, so I fully on tend on dolling up and taking a few new pictures as a start, maybe even start getting dressed up to go to the supermarket I don't drink but might have to take it up and start going to the pub to get some interaction haha!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wear makeup for the benefit of my flat

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