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The dream turned out to be a nightmare
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Come on tell us, just share it with the group. Come on. Come on we're all nosey bitches."
On a serious note, that sucks man. Hopefully it's not so bad that it can't be adjusted or adapted around over time. . Teething pains and such. |
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"The job or the people? "
Both
Long story short
They changed the agreed pay
They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide
And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked    |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"The job or the people?
Both
Long story short
They changed the agreed pay
They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide
And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked "
Ugh! Hope you didn't invest too much time and money into it - hoping something else comes around the corner for you! |
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"The job or the people?
Both
Long story short
They changed the agreed pay
They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide
And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked "
Good on you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.
NBVN x 
Bruised ego
But worked out my self worth and grew a backbone "
Then it was a success... Good on you. 
NBVN x |
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"Hope your feeling better today x
I was
Now I feel like shite 
Must have taken some courage to walk away from something you knew was toxic and not good for you - many don't. Well done. "
I agree - it could have been so easy to stay & make yourself unhappy in the process. Fingers crossed you find something else ASAP xxx
J x |
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"Hope your feeling better today x
I was
Now I feel like shite
Must have taken some courage to walk away from something you knew was toxic and not good for you - many don't. Well done.
I agree - it could have been so easy to stay & make yourself unhappy in the process. Fingers crossed you find something else ASAP xxx
J x"
I was t getting paid enough to be unhappy |
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"Oh I am gutted for you. I hope you're OK.
NBVN x
Bruised ego
But worked out my self worth and grew a backbone
Then it was a success... Good on you.
NBVN x
I feel proud "
So you should! Many would suffer in silence - takes balls to do it.
They sound rather an unprofessional employer.
Something else will come up xx |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
Oh no, gutted for you. Something will turn up again I'm sure and at least you have the experience from this to be able to stand up for yourself and request a contract before moving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to hear that the dream went tits up youngling but kudos on binning them off!!!
Always remember that Barnsley is cool.
Tony
Thanks T
Not as cool as the south of France though "
I concur as we live in the middle!!!!!
Tony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing like going down south and getting shafted.....
Seriously though OP like others have said alot of people stay in work they are not happy in out of fear of the unknown... it will 100% prove to be the right decision in the long run |
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"Sorry to hear that the dream went tits up youngling but kudos on binning them off!!!
Always remember that Barnsley is cool.
Tony
Thanks T
Not as cool as the south of France though
I concur as we live in the middle!!!!!
Tony"
I’ve never lived in the middle but lived in Antibes last year |
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"The job or the people?
Both
Long story short
They changed the agreed pay
They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide
And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked "
Brilliant response. Wish more people had the ability to walk away from a job that's turned sour. Very well done.
Hope good things come your way OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The job or the people?
Both
Long story short
They changed the agreed pay
They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide
And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked "
You did the right thing as its awful staying in a job your not happy with especially when they change the goal posts.
Sorry it didn't work out but your maybe destined to find something better that makes you happy.
Mrs KC |
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"The job or the people?
Both
Long story short
They changed the agreed pay
They added needs and requests I wasn’t happy to provide
And to top it off the client got aggressive and confrontational towards me so I thanked him for the opportunity wished them the best said bye to the rest of the family and staff and walked
You did the right thing as its awful staying in a job your not happy with especially when they change the goal posts.
Sorry it didn't work out but your maybe destined to find something better that makes you happy.
Mrs KC"
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