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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I posted one of my ugly scar and I received more compliments about that one than any other, so maybe people prefer raw photos showing all my faults and horrible parts.
Mrs"
I saw that picture and thought it was beautiful. |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
"I posted one of my ugly scar and I received more compliments about that one than any other, so maybe people prefer raw photos showing all my faults and horrible parts.
Mrs
I saw that picture and thought it was beautiful. "
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I don’t photo shop but I do crop and try and get best angles and also change to black and white sometimes. I don’t mind that but to totally change yourself, especially your face which is actually so obvious I really don’t see the point of it at all. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I don’t photo shop but I do crop and try and get best angles and also change to black and white sometimes. I don’t mind that but to totally change yourself, especially your face which is actually so obvious I really don’t see the point of it at all. "
Oh I totally agree!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe genuine photos so if you have scars stretch marks whatever, the person is attracted to you for you and how you look not what you want them to see or how you want to look, I had this chat with one of my mates and we had a debate about if stretch marks would put us of and honestly I replied with no because as weird as it sounds they can be sexy same with stretch marks or any flaw, flaws are what makes us different and make us human there not to be hidden or frowned upon they are to be embraced and accepted but this is literally just my opinion so don’t bite me head off lol |
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I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago 
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though. |
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I think all my bits are out there but I try to use flattering angles and editing to highlight certain parts of me.
I'm not really a huge fan of my arms or shoulders but I know there isn't a way to get a good picture by editing them out 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd rather see a genuine representation of a potential meet. I've had a few shocks when coming face to face with people from here due to an overzealous editing finger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t see the point in not showing a true representation of who you are.
I appreciate that’s easy for me to say as I’m a fucking rock lobster though."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t see the point in not showing a true representation of who you are.
I appreciate that’s easy for me to say as I’m a fucking rock lobster though.
Fify "
We were at a party
His earlobe fell in the deep
Someone reached in and grabbed it |
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Mine are all true images, mostly very badly arranged selfies. I feel that anybody meeting me should have got a pretty good idea of what I will look like. Though yes I have grown a certain amount around my midriff over the last year and all my pics are at least twelve months old now. |
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though. "
Just spotted it & fabbed it.
Marvelous arse, Mr C xx |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though. "
You keep that picture up you!! |
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A clear representation doesn't have to mean emphasis of what we may think are our most negative traits. I'd prefer that to pics where the user darkens an area, by insufficient lighting and blurs it, to conceal something.
I like to have a reasonably accurate perception of someone from a images, assembled via a few of them, such that I feel as if I can see them in my minds eye, as if I'd been in their company.
Many of us have broad tastes and there are enough of us to make most looks appealing.
Take lots of pics and select a few that you like and think represent you well. |
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though.
Just spotted it & fabbed it.
Marvelous arse, Mr C xx"
Thank you very much.
It's comments like that that make me love fab. Really helping to give me a confidence boost and to feel happy with even the body parts I dislike.
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though.
You keep that picture up you!! "
Thank you... thinking about maybe taking a better one now too |
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though.
You keep that picture up you!!
Thank you... thinking about maybe taking a better one now too "
If you need a hand....?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though. "
Don't take it down, you've had it up this long and got lots of positive feedback - it's clearly helping you with your confidence
If you do want a new one though...
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I edit my tattoos out, and do admit I suck my tum in on most of my pics.
I try and find good angles too.
Occasionally I’ll post one I haven’t posed as much for and let my tum show (part of me I don’t like) and had a positive response which made me feel good.
Each to their own |
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though.
Don't take it down, you've had it up this long and got lots of positive feedback - it's clearly helping you with your confidence
If you do want a new one though...
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I've decided that it's staying up
I probably will need a hand with some new photos too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like both.
Some photos are just really well taken and are great to look at, whilst others are just honest and tell a story about the person in it.
Both are beautiful in their own way, but I quite like the honesty of true representation as it feels more real.
I normally hide the bits of my body I dislike, and to try overcoming that I actually added a photo of my bum to my profile a few days ago
Still unsure if I'm keeping it up for long though.
Don't take it down, you've had it up this long and got lots of positive feedback - it's clearly helping you with your confidence
If you do want a new one though...
I've decided that it's staying up
I probably will need a hand with some new photos too"
Good decision! 
Hmmm, well what about the person who took the first one? |
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