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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x "
Fab is as hard as you make it  |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it "
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x "
What are you finding hard at the moment mate |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard at the moment mate "
Getting attention form more ladies makes me feel like I’m going something wrong |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging "
Could be worse, you could attract no one.
Take it as a compliment, try not to worry about things and keep your hopes up. Things will pick up.  |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
Could be worse, you could attract no one.
Take it as a compliment, try not to worry about things and keep your hopes up. Things will pick up. "
Thank you I’m hoping so |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x "
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging "
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them? |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x"
this and COVID x |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?"
I was not saying it’s a bad thing, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Filter them pesky single men to keep them off your cock
Tell the women how you will smash their doors in if that fails get angry and insult them that should work
No need to thank me |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x"
Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Filter them pesky single men to keep them off your cock
Tell the women how you will smash their doors in if that fails get angry and insult them that should work
No need to thank me "
Not sure that’s the best way to approach things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life is tough for many at the moment and it’s good to talk so op
As for finding it hard to attract a comparable female, woman, lady or other on here I’d say don’t give up, I have an amazing FWB who approached me last year and we regularly see each other (we are bubbled up before anyone goes off on one) so although this was an absolutely surprising outcome it happened none the less so keep the faith and who knows |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x
Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing "
It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people. |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hiw many clubs have you been to?
How many organised socials have you been to?
If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to?
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Clubs are all things I want to try but have been to nervous |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x
Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing
It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people."
Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x
Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing
It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people.
Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do "
I wouldn’t talk about it with randoms anyway  |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x
Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing
It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people.
Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do
I wouldn’t talk about it with randoms anyway "
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing, "
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at? |
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"Hiw many clubs have you been to?
How many organised socials have you been to?
If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to?
Clubs are all things I want to try but have been to nervous "
It ain't just about being nervous, it's been about them being closed too.
So that alone will stop hundreds upon hundreds of profiles communicating or wanting to communicate because they only meet at clubs.
I've said it before a zillion times. This site isn't the holy grail to the road to minge. It's a tool. It's a platform.
Many folks don't interact with new people on here, they use the site to keep up to date with events etc and communicate with people they connect with at said events. |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing,
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at?"
I see what you mean x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hiw many clubs have you been to?
How many organised socials have you been to?
If you're into kink, how many munches have you been to?
Clubs are all things I want to try but have been to nervous
It ain't just about being nervous, it's been about them being closed too.
So that alone will stop hundreds upon hundreds of profiles communicating or wanting to communicate because they only meet at clubs.
I've said it before a zillion times. This site isn't the holy grail to the road to minge. It's a tool. It's a platform.
Many folks don't interact with new people on here, they use the site to keep up to date with events etc and communicate with people they connect with at said events."
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing,
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at?
I see what you mean x "
It's very cock orientated.
Most women will look at it and think "he has no clue what women are looking for" based purely on how you present yourself in the pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See, back in the old days, swinging etc was pretty much the preserve of the older folks; folks who had done all the usual dating and relationship stuff and moved on in life. Once upon a time younger folks enjoyed the whole new world of normal’ type relationships that opened up to them with coming age and didn’t have the need of the swinging to spice up their lives. It seems now that kids have been born bored with ‘normality’ and have to have everything all at once. The big question is will there be anything new left for them to discover when they are 40+ or will they have seen everything in life and be desperately seeking something novel? |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Sorry, single girl here.
Do you mean you're struggling in general,or struggling to attract women? If it's the latter, you may want to think about how you present yourself on here - I can't comment on your profile unless you specifically ask for advice.
Other than that, it can be hard for single guys - especially ones as young as you x this and COVID x
Well o get Covid, but Covid does not stop conversing
It may not stop the ability to, however it sure as shit has stopped the desire to for many many people.
Admins I suppose people don’t want to talk about what they can’t do
I wouldn’t talk about it with randoms anyway
??"
Sex!! |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it "
To a certain degree, my profile is crystal clear on what I like and don't like. It doesn't stop the messages that I clearly wouldn't appreciate.
Doesn't stop the messages with no picture attached and I have had bad meets that I had no influence in it going so wrong and not seeing them again xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
Well I seem to attract more men that women so I’m finding it challenging
If you font want attention from men use the filter. Or enjoy the attention from them?
I was not saying it’s a bad thing,
Ok then maybe consider your profile. Personally all your cock pics and unusual angles in some shots I don't find appealing. It depends who you are aiming your profile at?
I see what you mean x
It's very cock orientated.
Most women will look at it and think "he has no clue what women are looking for" based purely on how you present yourself in the pictures."
This is some really good advice in essence you get out what you put in. I can’t comment unless you ask for advice but all I can say is certain pictures mainly attract men...
When clubs reopen definitely try and get to them and socials, use this site as a platform to keep in touch and build connections from there... that’s what I did when I first started |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general the most successful people on here are the ones who have a great, engaging profile, good pictures and make it clear what they have to offer. They can message and chat well and are just as good in person.
Most people are on here looking for a fantastic connection and amazing sex with someone who’s clothes they want to tear off.
Forgive me, but this post seems a bit of a pity party. What do you think is attractive about that? What were your expectations when you joined?
As has been explained above, you don’t create a profile here and get inundated with people who want to fuck you (especially as sex with strangers has been illegal since you joined). If it’s hard for you here, then maybe it’s not the right place for you. It’s all meant to be fun. You need to get out of your head that being on here will lead to a meet, it might not. It doesn’t always. |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
Fab is as hard as you make it
To a certain degree, my profile is crystal clear on what I like and don't like. It doesn't stop the messages that I clearly wouldn't appreciate.
Doesn't stop the messages with no picture attached and I have had bad meets that I had no influence in it going so wrong and not seeing them again xx"
Sorry you had bad meets x |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I appreciate there's covid and the ratio of guys to girls on here, but would be nice to atleast get my messages read once in a while...
Obviously my profile is crap!? "
This is exactly my point with some things |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"In general the most successful people on here are the ones who have a great, engaging profile, good pictures and make it clear what they have to offer. They can message and chat well and are just as good in person.
Most people are on here looking for a fantastic connection and amazing sex with someone who’s clothes they want to tear off.
Forgive me, but this post seems a bit of a pity party. What do you think is attractive about that? What were your expectations when you joined?
As has been explained above, you don’t create a profile here and get inundated with people who want to fuck you (especially as sex with strangers has been illegal since you joined). If it’s hard for you here, then maybe it’s not the right place for you. It’s all meant to be fun. You need to get out of your head that being on here will lead to a meet, it might not. It doesn’t always. "
I get that |
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"I appreciate there's covid and the ratio of guys to girls on here, but would be nice to atleast get my messages read once in a while...
Obviously my profile is crap!?
This is exactly my point with some things "
Glad I'm not on my own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x "
What are you finding hard?
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
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Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
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Don’t answer Op, it’s a trick question, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong "
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again. "
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again.
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point "
I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.  |
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By *ugsly95 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again.
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point
I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops. "
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us |
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again.
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point "
It ain't pointless to the person having the wank.
People use the site differently. It'll do you good to remember that.
Not everyone is here for the same thing so that does narrow down potential convos massively.
You see thousands of profiles and wonder what is wrong with you or what you're doing wrong.
The answer could actually be you're not doing anything wrong in the slightest, you simply haven't crossed paths with the 1 profile out of each 2000 that you'll be compatible with
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again.
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point
I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us "
How? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us "
The *only* person that ruins anything for anyone on here in terms of meeting/message responses is the individual profile owner that isn't getting meets/responses - no-one else.
Saying other guys have ruined it for anyone is a cheap, and frankly lazy, cop out.
Everything anyone needs to have a positive experience of the site is within their own control - there are no guarantees of meets or even responses of course, but understanding the site, how it works and using the tools at your disposal will improve perceptions and the overall experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again.
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point
I agree.
But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us "
Yes they do. Those types piss women off so that they don't bother replying at all because they assume the man will want wank chat. Or that the man will be abusive if they say no thanks.
Or they miss messages from decent men because their inbox is full of wank chat shit.
Or they give up on meeting or talking to men at all because the creepy men put them off sex. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey just wanted to open this for all the single guys out there like me who are finding this hard atm, you are not alone feel free to message and join in here x
What are you finding hard?
Talking to women, they either don’t reply or delete the messages, I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong
They will look at your profile before replying.
Many will have heard about covid and will know there is a lockdown. Most women won't chat to men on here as they say they want a chat then twist it to wank chat. They will probably be waiting until we can meet again.
Fair enough, but wank chat is Pointless unless it’s before meeting or you happy with each other, if there is no connection there is no point
It ain't pointless to the person having the wank.
People use the site differently. It'll do you good to remember that.
Not everyone is here for the same thing so that does narrow down potential convos massively.
You see thousands of profiles and wonder what is wrong with you or what you're doing wrong.
The answer could actually be you're not doing anything wrong in the slightest, you simply haven't crossed paths with the 1 profile out of each 2000 that you'll be compatible with
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This! |
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over a year ago
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I get what your saying mate ive had some lovely chats with woman just to find out majority was picture collectors or looking to cheat on there partner then he finds out and I’ve had that bollocks to deal with but majority of people that contact me are local guys constantly saying the want to blow me and for me to fuck them it’s like dude I’m gonna tell you politely for a 3rd time I’m not interested at all next one will be a FUCK OFF IM 6ft7 tattoos and a beard as well as sticky I’m eye candy for the guys in my area so I been told but woman don’t even look once let alone twice at me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me OP it's your age. I don't particularly want to fuck someone who could potentially be young enough to be my kid."
That's a totally different webiste |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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Well I chat to some lovely men on here daily it takes a while to build up a rapport with people and find a connection but when you do it’s worth it. I think everyone is finding it a little difficult on here at the moment but hopefully things are looking more positive. I noticed in your bio you said you enjoy cooking and baking maybe you could show some of your personality in your pics  |
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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago
telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton |
I find reading a womans profile helps a great deal find out what theyre about what theyre looking for and not looking for if you dont fit the bill then you might not be for them. If you think you do then add something interesting for the subject and then be creative with your message. Just dont expect a message back, if you do get one back its a bonus. If at first you dont succeed try and try again (just not with the same person) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find reading a womans profile helps a great deal find out what theyre about what theyre looking for and not looking for if you dont fit the bill then you might not be for them. If you think you do then add something interesting for the subject and then be creative with your message. Just dont expect a message back, if you do get one back its a bonus. If at first you dont succeed try and try again (just not with the same person) "
what he said...its not easy but dont give up trying..there are some good eggs on this site |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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But some men are just on here for wank chat while the wife is down the shops.
Well there are ruining it for the rest of us
Yes they do. Those types piss women off so that they don't bother replying at all because they assume the man will want wank chat. Or that the man will be abusive if they say no thanks.
Or they miss messages from decent men because their inbox is full of wank chat shit.
Or they give up on meeting or talking to men at all because the creepy men put them off sex. "
Know you're being ironic 
....but if that really were the case then no-one, men nor women, would ever meet (when it's allowed) and that's patently not the case |
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There are 3 ways a guy can improve his chances on here.
Get good photo’s - different ones that intrigue. No cock pics!
Write a decent detailed profile - with your likes and what you can offer. Show your personality.
Send decent messages - be polite and tailor your messages accordingly to the persons profile. Be realistic - if you have 15 cock pics, are you really going to get a reply from a lot of people?!
If all 3 of them are as good as what you think you can get them then you’ll start seeing results. You’ll stand out from the sea of single guys profiles.
If you aren’t seeing things improve then go through the 3 points again.
FAB is brilliant for people who put the effort in.
Only you can change your odds.
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