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Following on from the sex drive thread, I genuinely was starting to believe I needed to see a doctor as mine swells, sometimes it swells shut after sex.
If it's a long session... I'm swelling
If it's multiple times over a few days...I'm swelling
I do think it's important to talk about this stuff, if not people will think they're not gonna be as desirable as others or less exciting than others bla bla bla due to swollen chuff or soreness.
So yeah, just a thread about realistic expectations more than anything.
I have learned that I'm not the only one who swells.
And to inform the blokes too. They’ll be thinking us women are fucking machines who can take everything that's thrown at them and still be gagging for more.
If you get a swollen poontang, you're not alone!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it gets to a point where my bits get sore and that's me done for a few days. I've no problem with telling a guy the session is over. I'm not having sore sex for anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Use plenty of good lube.
Some people seem to see using lube as "failing" in some way.
Avoid those people unless you enjoy fanny friction burns.
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It needs to be kept wet, iv a tongue for that |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It swells shut? I'd genuinely not heard of this before. I can be a bit more tender down there after a long, intense session, that's thanks to all the blood rushing down there and generally engorging (what a sexy word) and friction. I'm good at taking breaks and applying lube if needed but it doesn't stop the tenderness, just lessens it a bit. |
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"Following on from the sex drive thread, I genuinely was starting to believe I needed to see a doctor as mine swells, sometimes it swells shut after sex.
If it's a long session... I'm swelling
If it's multiple times over a few days...I'm swelling
I do think it's important to talk about this stuff, if not people will think they're not gonna be as desirable as others or less exciting than others bla bla bla due to swollen chuff or soreness.
So yeah, just a thread about realistic expectations more than anything.
I have learned that I'm not the only one who swells.
And to inform the blokes too. They’ll be thinking us women are fucking machines who can take everything that's thrown at them and still be gagging for more.
If you get a swollen poontang, you're not alone!
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Oh wow never heard of this before, mine gets sore and does feel like it closes up but it's never felt swollen
Oh dear   but it seems like your not alone from the other women that shared they experience it too and have nothing to worry about but its understandable if the doctor's advice will give you peace of mind big hug luv xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get like this if I have too long a contact with latex condoms, not enough lube or really rough sex.
It's more common than you think x"
Not in my world it ain't  |
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"Use plenty of good lube.
Some people seem to see using lube as "failing" in some way.
Avoid those people unless you enjoy fanny friction burns.
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I use lube every time. Still happens after lots of sex. Even if I'm soaked to my knees  . |
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"I'd rather be told if too sore, us guys get sore also and there's not much point in sex if both aren't getting pleasure "
Exactly, but so many people want to live up to expectations or see it as not being good enough etc.
By not being honest we set ourselves and other people up for feelings of "letting people down" and all that bullshit. |
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"Mean to tell me there's little attention to keeping things moist ? "
It doesn't matter how much you moisten your thumb, if you hit it with a hammer it's gonna swell.
I'm not sure if you're being funny or not, but I can't lie, I could test the hammer theory out on your winky instead of a thumb |
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"Following on from the sex drive thread, I genuinely was starting to believe I needed to see a doctor as mine swells, sometimes it swells shut after sex.
If it's a long session... I'm swelling
If it's multiple times over a few days...I'm swelling
I do think it's important to talk about this stuff, if not people will think they're not gonna be as desirable as others or less exciting than others bla bla bla due to swollen chuff or soreness.
So yeah, just a thread about realistic expectations more than anything.
I have learned that I'm not the only one who swells.
And to inform the blokes too. They’ll be thinking us women are fucking machines who can take everything that's thrown at them and still be gagging for more.
If you get a swollen poontang, you're not alone!
Oh wow never heard of this before, mine gets sore and does feel like it closes up but it's never felt swollen
Oh dear but it seems like your not alone from the other women that shared they experience it too and have nothing to worry about but its understandable if the doctor's advice will give you peace of mind big hug luv xx"
How do you explain the feeling of closed-upness other than swelling?
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"I get like this if I have too long a contact with latex condoms, not enough lube or really rough sex.
It's more common than you think x
Not in my world it ain't
Oh well lucky you  "
I actually am very very lucky
I was at the front of the queue |
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"High fives to the swollen fanny brigage .
I've had it many times when my mind wants more but my lady bits say no. Like having eyes bigger than your belly. (Eyes bigger than your fanny?  )"
Exactly! |
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Lube is definitely your friend... not so much swelling, although a prolonged session can be sore but if you touch my clit again straight after I've cum I will bite you or kick you. Bodger will attest to this |
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When the body has had enough it will send you signs, listen to them, from slamming shut, lack of moisture, swelling etc.
Always good to keep an eye on your swelling as could be an indication of something else. In my 20s/30s I used to just swell on one side and about 12-24 hours later get a rush of liquid and the swelling subsided, it wasn’t painful. Turned out one of my glands at the entrance was blocking due to damage. If it doesn’t release on its own it can cause further problems, which are very painful, I’ve been prepped and ready for surgery twice in my 40s to unblock it and keep it open.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Mean to tell me there's little attention to keeping things moist ?
What are you going on about
Dryness if it's occurring do something about it "
Dryness would cause chafing and a burn.
Swelling is different.
Do you have a vagina you haven't told us about  |
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"I'd rather be told if too sore, us guys get sore also and there's not much point in sex if both aren't getting pleasure
Exactly, but so many people want to live up to expectations or see it as not being good enough etc.
By not being honest we set ourselves and other people up for feelings of "letting people down" and all that bullshit."
Yes that is definitely the problem, we're only human and all have limits.
Plus most of us haven't had sex for ages and that needs to be taken into account I think. |
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It's definitely good to talk. Even if we are not affected by the subject ourselves, we can maybe learn something.
I always appreciate anyone who shares.
Mine doesn't swell but yiu can only chuck so much at it.
I have always had a tiny clit..very sensitive but tiny. I didn't know that clits can in fact shrink. This can be down to a few reasons.
Yes...it's definitely good to talk! |
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"Following on from the sex drive thread, I genuinely was starting to believe I needed to see a doctor as mine swells, sometimes it swells shut after sex.
If it's a long session... I'm swelling
If it's multiple times over a few days...I'm swelling
I do think it's important to talk about this stuff, if not people will think they're not gonna be as desirable as others or less exciting than others bla bla bla due to swollen chuff or soreness.
So yeah, just a thread about realistic expectations more than anything.
I have learned that I'm not the only one who swells.
And to inform the blokes too. They’ll be thinking us women are fucking machines who can take everything that's thrown at them and still be gagging for more.
If you get a swollen poontang, you're not alone!
Oh wow never heard of this before, mine gets sore and does feel like it closes up but it's never felt swollen
Oh dear but it seems like your not alone from the other women that shared they experience it too and have nothing to worry about but its understandable if the doctor's advice will give you peace of mind big hug luv xx
How do you explain the feeling of closed-upness other than swelling?
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For me something that's swollen feels bigger than its original size so in this case the vagina rubbing together.
Closed up is what I would say when you try intercourse and its a struggle to do it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I got a swollen poontang I would be in trouble.
An ex, when I was much much younger, told me she was walking with the hoover she was that sore. At the time she seemed pleased and as a young dickhead mine got bigger.
Don't believe i could get anywhere close to that again and wouldn't wish to try now. Hindsight, yes both can get sore and not always up for it (it stings when peeing - no not sti, little splits on foreskin) |
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