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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
Any amount to be honest, if it's an overnight for me then it's not completely all about the sex, it's the company as well, the whole night, the sex is the icing on the cake so to speak.
But that's just what my overnight view is x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’d like a lot of sex in numerous positions..... especially overnight you need to make use of the time you have, so during the night and in the morning too........ so yes I’d expect sex more than once xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More than once in the evening and then morning sex ideally.
Depends though, if a session includes impact play, restraints etc, it could last for hours and I'd be more than happy. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
If I could inject a male standpoint, I would want sex more than once or twice, the whole package, then fall asleep in each others arms or spoons, then when you wake up in the morning, start all over again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me sex is just one aspect of a meet. If we end up falling asleep afterwards then so be it. Or spend a few hours talking then I'm fine with that.
I spend time getting to know people before a meet so I'm always comfortable to go whichever way the night unfolds. Morning sex would be nice before we shower and head back to real life though  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
It depends on how long the sex went on for?
20 minutes then I’d like a repeat. A few hours then fine with a few hours gap and maybe nothing till morning.
I like my sleep so all night sex is really not for me these days. |
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"For me sex is just one aspect of a meet. If we end up falling asleep afterwards then so be it. Or spend a few hours talking then I'm fine with that.
I spend time getting to know people before a meet so I'm always comfortable to go whichever way the night unfolds. Morning sex would be nice before we shower and head back to real life though "
Morning sex and a shower now your talking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I could inject a male standpoint, I would want sex more than once or twice, the whole package, then fall asleep in each others arms or spoons, then when you wake up in the morning, start all over again "
I was going to interject a little piece as well mate, but as it was a question for the ladies, I thought not to. 
But for my pennies worth I would like plenty of cuddles and kisses, with a build up to sex and if it was just the once in the evening, then no big deal as there is the rest of the next day especially in the morning 
And hopefully it will not be a one off , as for me I prefer company over just sex.. sex.. sex.. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It doesn't have to be actual penetration (there's a lot that can be done sexually without that) but I would like constant intimacy - whether that's naked cuddles and laughs, stroking, showering together etc. As far as penetrative sex goes, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person. As long as they were clearly into me I don't mind if it's a two pumps and done thing - we can still talk, kiss etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve done overnight meets, and it varies. We’ve had a okay, then gone for dinner, then come back, had a longer session, gone to sleep and then woken up in the middle of the night to carry on, and then gone again in the morning
 . Tired but worth it.
With my bubble person, it depends if we’re using restraints/having impact play, in which case the first part will be longer, but we’ll usually cuddle and chat, and then go again. |
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"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?"
Not at all, like others have said, if it's a long session then once would be more than adequate but if it were say 20-30 mins then I personally would like a repeat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd assume we knew each other well to have an overnight and that we'd know each others needs. I'd never go in with a set plan, I find that idea a bit too calculated and cold. If I'm staying overnight, we clearly enjoy each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?
In what way?
I guess it would be men feeling like they need to get hard/have penetrative sex several times in one night."
Well yes, but I was curious about his take on it.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?
Not at all, like others have said, if it's a long session then once would be more than adequate but if it were say 20-30 mins then I personally would like a repeat."
Bloody heck.. think of some of us older men we may need longer that 20-30 mins
OAP and proud here |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"It doesn't have to be actual penetration (there's a lot that can be done sexually without that) but I would like constant intimacy - whether that's naked cuddles and laughs, stroking, showering together etc. As far as penetrative sex goes, it depends on the dynamic I have with that person. As long as they were clearly into me I don't mind if it's a two pumps and done thing - we can still talk, kiss etc."
That's how I feel too. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I'd assume we knew each other well to have an overnight and that we'd know each others needs. I'd never go in with a set plan, I find that idea a bit too calculated and cold. If I'm staying overnight, we clearly enjoy each other. "
This is how I'd feel if I stayed overnight with someone.
Go with the flow |
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"Is that not just putting unwanted pressure on guys to perform?
In what way?
I guess it would be men feeling like they need to get hard/have penetrative sex several times in one night."
In my reply I used “lots of play”, by that I meant being attentive to each other , not necessarily penetrative sex . Rather than 1/2 hour humping, turn over and go to sleep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A tip for the ladies:
If he prepares a four or five course heavy meal for you, it's once and done for him.
However a smaller, lighter meal n he's going for it all night |
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"Any amount to be honest, if it's an overnight for me then it's not completely all about the sex, it's the company as well, the whole night, the sex is the icing on the cake so to speak.
But that's just what my overnight view is x"
This. None, once or 10, whatever feels right at the time. |
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I would like dinner followed by 10 minutes of rutting. Tops on, no eye contact, lights off. This will be followed by showers and a solid 8 hours of sleep. In the morning we’ll make small talk on the weather.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few hotel meets and it's only ever been for a an evening and we have several so if it was an overnight I would definitely expect the same with more buildup |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any amount to be honest, if it's an overnight for me then it's not completely all about the sex, it's the company as well, the whole night, the sex is the icing on the cake so to speak.
But that's just what my overnight view is x"
Totally agree. If I like someone enough to spend that much time with them the sex is not what it's about. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I would like dinner followed by 10 minutes of rutting. Tops on, no eye contact, lights off. This will be followed by showers and a solid 8 hours of sleep. In the morning we’ll make small talk on the weather.
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Sounds amazing. Make it a macdonalds and you have a deal. |
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"I would like dinner followed by 10 minutes of rutting. Tops on, no eye contact, lights off. This will be followed by showers and a solid 8 hours of sleep. In the morning we’ll make small talk on the weather.
Sounds amazing. Make it a macdonalds and you have a deal. "
Sounds absolutely perfect. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
An over night is more about the person I'm with and enjoying their company that just the sex and the amount of sex. It would be more about being able to take our time and enjoy each others bodies rather than having the normal more rushed meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me sex is just one aspect of a meet. If we end up falling asleep afterwards then so be it. Or spend a few hours talking then I'm fine with that.
I spend time getting to know people before a meet so I'm always comfortable to go whichever way the night unfolds. Morning sex would be nice before we shower and head back to real life though
Morning sex and a shower now your talking "
Got to be done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you had an overnight meet planned.
How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times?
I would be happy with once long as its kind of long xx"
And women keep telling it's not the size that matters, nice that your honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I’d just turn up and see what happened without expectations to be honest. Obviously we discuss ideas before hand to make sure we’re all on the same page but beyond that , what happens happens |
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"If you had an overnight meet planned.
How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times? "
When you say "How many times" do you specifically mean penetration? You could have one ongoing session with lots of foreplay or do you mean multiple sessions? |
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"If you had an overnight meet planned.
How many times would you like sex to happen. Would you be happy with just once or several times?
When you say "How many times" do you specifically mean penetration? You could have one ongoing session with lots of foreplay or do you mean multiple sessions? "
Multiple sessions....its different if its one long session with other things thrown into the mix, like toys, restraints and what not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If overnight then, IMO, a nice long session with lots of teasing and fucking making sure all are pleased or just worn out haha then crash to wake up to some of the same before breakfast mmmmmm |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
I would want to go with what we find there is between us. Hopefully plenty good conversation flowing into loads of luscious massage, sex, snogs, play, snack, repeat until we pass out in spoons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For an overnight meeting I would like the bedroom smelling sex from the corridor in the hotel and make all the staff looking at us with envy as we walk out... and the bed wrecked of course... |
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We'd probably go with filling up the evening with sex for a two or three hours (or longer). The rest of the evening could be more relaxing by being cuddly and sensual. Night time is for sleeping. Then we could wake up and do much the same again. |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"For an overnight meeting I would like the bedroom smelling sex from the corridor in the hotel and make all the staff looking at us with envy as we walk out... and the bed wrecked of course... "
This |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
All of the best meets I have had haven't been about the quantity, or any set agendas or tick lists , but simply about relaxing, going with the flow, enjoying each others company, and seeing where it leads.
Not all my meets have included penetrative sex either, and yet we've walked away with smiles on our faces - as Meli said there are plenty of other intimate activities, so I don't tend to think of penetrative sex as being a goal, rather just another option on a vast pleasurable smorgasbord to choose from.
The key is everyone being comfortable and walking away with a smile and wanting to repeat the experience. |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
alpha centauri |
Quick, rampant shag first as walking through the room door.
Then a prolonged session till the early hours.
A morning lazy spooning before breakfast.
Then a quicky before the checkout time.
Doesn't have to be with the same guy, if I've managed to get overnight childcare then I'm making the most of the time. |
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"I'd assume we knew each other well to have an overnight and that we'd know each others needs. I'd never go in with a set plan, I find that idea a bit too calculated and cold. If I'm staying overnight, we clearly enjoy each other. "
This for me too. I don’t like plans and pressure. I’m a go with the flow person. |
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"Quick, rampant shag first as walking through the room door.
Then a prolonged session till the early hours.
A morning lazy spooning before breakfast.
Then a quicky before the checkout time.
Doesn't have to be with the same guy, if I've managed to get overnight childcare then I'm making the most of the time. "
Go lady! I like you're way of thinking.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would be happy even if there was no penetrative sex involved. I enjoy the intimacy of just kissing and cuddling while chatting before holding each other while we sleep x"
I would be happy for that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a overnight I expect full sex, more then once.
I wouldn’t arrange a overnight if it only consisted of foreplay and cuddles. "
You've not been cuddled properly then! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a overnight I expect full sex, more then once.
I wouldn’t arrange a overnight if it only consisted of foreplay and cuddles.
You've not been cuddled properly then! "
Ha ha that could be true ...
But unless they provide me with the full service I’m not putting out on the cuddle front.
Getting a cuddle out of me is harder then getting sex from me |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
Nearer than you think |
"Personally I would be happy even if there was no penetrative sex involved. I enjoy the intimacy of just kissing and cuddling while chatting before holding each other while we sleep x"
I'd be disappointed. I want it all. |
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