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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() I might do just that. Simply use the single guys mailing me and stop whining. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() it's not that we make a drama. It's the fact people dont bother reading profiles that can rill us all up. | |||
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"I have never been one for whining, I take things as they come and I’ve had a good time on this site What will be will be " As it should be i don’t get all the bitching and sniping in the forums especially over single guys , most are here to be polite and have fun but people continually tar them with the same brush | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave" We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately" You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave" ![]() | |||
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"Filters don't stop anything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again." Dont stop everything* | |||
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"I have never been one for whining, I take things as they come and I’ve had a good time on this site What will be will be As it should be i don’t get all the bitching and sniping in the forums especially over single guys , most are here to be polite and have fun but people continually tar them with the same brush " So what's your point OP... It's the way YOU react that sets you apart??? And this thread isn't a good start! | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() Sorry I have to agree men & women get rejected on here but I only ever see dudes putting up threads complaining about never getting reply’s ! First off your not helping your cause by putting your stuff on blast women don’t like men bitching about not getting hit up ! You move on it’s a hook up site don’t take things so personally! It happens to me often ! Surprising I know ha but it happens Wat some girl might not like about you the next one might ! My advice is don’t broadcast it ! | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave" ‘Some’ men. | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again." Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? | |||
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"If people are rude or annoying then we just don’t meet them Simples This site can be as hard work as you make it or it can be enjoyable " Take everyone and everything on here with a grain of salt ! It’s fun so that’s exactly how I approach it I never get offended by the negatives that can arise ! Laugh it off the problem is usually with them | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again. Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? " Blocking would stop it. I was on about the OPs point, using the "dont allow messages from men" filter. My block list would be enormous if I blocked them all that did it ![]() | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again. Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? Blocking would stop it. I was on about the OPs point, using the "dont allow messages from men" filter. My block list would be enormous if I blocked them all that did it ![]() Ah i get what you are, saying now | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again. Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? " If someone is blocked they can't view or message ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() In my ten years here I've had thousands of rude, disrespectful, nasty and scary messages from men. I've had two from women (one was clearly ill) and less than five from a couple, most of whom were men pretending to be couples. OP, I will not block men just like I wear what I want. Men need to learn how to read with their eyes and treat other humans with respect. | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again. Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? If someone is blocked they can't view or message ![]() You dont have to have replied. I havnt replied to alot that are able to message again. It is simply if they sent you a message when filters are down | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() We’re not all that bad honest some of us are ok at best lol but we get tarred with the same brush. | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() Well how come I’ve only ever had 2? Why are these guys singling out certain woman ? | |||
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"Well how come I’ve only ever had 2? Why are these guys singling out certain woman ? " Oh I remember you now. You saod the same thing a few months back, because YOU havn't received much abuse, it can't be true others do, or we have done something to deserve it, right? I am sure that was your point before, I would be curious if you still think this or your viewpoint has changed. | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again. Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? If someone is blocked they can't view or message ![]() This is how it works. It’s unfortunate but the filters are designed to not bar people you’ve interacted with in the past, from messaging. The site assumes that if you’ve replied, you’re happy to still receive contact. If you’re not, you have to block | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() I’m not sure how their complaints are whining but your complaints are legitimate, OP. If someone is bothered by things, just as you are, then making a thread is justified. We shouldn’t assume that anyone is the judge of what is whining and what is a legitimate complaint | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave ‘Some’ men." Yes, I wasn’t tarring all men with the same brush, simply those who don’t know how to behave ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() No, you don't. | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave ‘Some’ men." ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() Feels like it sometimes | |||
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"It's Friday today, a day nearer things being back to normal. Let's all just snug up and smile through it all. If someone's bothering you, ignore or block and move on. People are people. Whether male or female. There's always going to be people we don't get on with but rise above and move on. Hugs to you all x" I would but I don’t like you ! I’m willing to maybe contemplate a fist pump ? No promises tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() Men with bad attitudes far outweigh the women and couples. Another tip is to just take 'Men' off the Looking for list. Takes your profile off their searches and reduces mail massively. ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() Women have to check their responses to men every day of their lives for fear of retaliation. We laugh at sexist jokes, 'compliments' and all the other crap we are subjected to in the hope that we won't end up being the subject of their sexual gratification. When you get on public transport, do you carefully consider where to sit? Do you dress every morning for yourself and change again because you know your choice will end up in lurid stares and comments from men? It's all men for me until the individual proves otherwise, my sense of safety and freedom depends on it. My male friends have occasionally said things that have immediately put me on guard and when I've told them.they completely understand why. Call your men friends out on every poor behaviour. | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() Yeah but where’s the fun in that, moaning let’s off endorphin’s which gives the moaner an enormous sense of well being, so let people have their moan. And men stop mailing women, you’ve been told once and I’m not telling you lot again! | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() You tell 'em girl! | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() ![]() But then the fabs and messages saying how beautiful they are will disappear too ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() ![]() ![]() There is that, I would miss being told I’m beautiful, it’s very much swings and roundabouts, I’m still undecided. | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() Exactly, and the not reading profiles also applies to solo females and couples ![]() | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I feel so used | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() ![]() Very much so, it surprises me how few women read a profile too | |||
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"There is that, I would miss being told I’m beautiful, it’s very much swings and roundabouts, I’m still undecided. " You're beautiful You're beautiful You're beautiful, it's true I saw your face in a crowded place And I don't know what to do 'Cause I'll never be with you | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There is a lot of bad women on here. And I mean bad. How dare they dictate to us men! Well I'm not havin it. Come at me bitches ![]() ![]() I was waiting for you to arrive ![]() | |||
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"There is a lot of bad women on here. And I mean bad. How dare they dictate to us men! Well I'm not havin it. Come at me bitches ![]() ![]() ![]() Some bottoms need smacking. ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() ![]() ![]() Do you honestly think some men don’t have this problem? Not every guy is a arshole or a sexist pig, both men and ladies have issues, some don’t give a shit some do, this is life, we’re not all the same and we will never be the same | |||
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"The irony of opening a thread complaining about people complaining ![]() I thought irony was when you were after a spoon but you could only find a fork ?! | |||
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"The irony of opening a thread complaining about people complaining ![]() You thought wrong ![]() | |||
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"How about that weather today eh ! ? ![]() It's not raining here. Woop woop ![]() | |||
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"The irony of opening a thread complaining about people complaining ![]() ![]() I have learned so much already today. | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() Haha. Well said ![]() | |||
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"How about that weather today eh ! ? ![]() ![]() I got rain to | |||
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"How about that weather today eh ! ? ![]() ![]() See so easily fixed bro ! Sun is shinning here to ![]() | |||
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"How about that weather today eh ! ? ![]() ![]() ![]() Lucky guy it’s rain rain rain all day by the looks of it | |||
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"The irony of opening a thread complaining about people complaining ![]() ![]() It find these forums very educational at so many levels ![]() | |||
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"The irony of opening a thread complaining about people complaining ![]() I did think about starting a thread to complain about the complaints about complaining but I thought that people would just complain, so I remain compliant | |||
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"The irony of opening a thread complaining about people complaining ![]() Wer all complained out basically ![]() ![]() | |||
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"On fab you don’t need to curry favour with the men folk, you can be an absolute cunt and they’ll still want to shag you. This reads like one of those threads where a woman says here men, I have your back therefore I’m amazing. " I read that as curry flavour, I was thinking I love turmeric | |||
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"On fab you don’t need to curry favour with the men folk, you can be an absolute cunt and they’ll still want to shag you. This reads like one of those threads where a woman says here men, I have your back therefore I’m amazing. " if I don’t agree I won’t have a girls back just for the sake to please her ! Not all us men are as desperate as some women like to make us out to be ! But this sounds borderline complaining so yeah you’r completely correct ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() ![]() ![]() Of course men have that problem too but not in the same way or numbers that women do. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave" She didn't mention abuse. | |||
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"On fab you don’t need to curry favour with the men folk, you can be an absolute cunt and they’ll still want to shag you. This reads like one of those threads where a woman says here men, I have your back therefore I’m amazing. if I don’t agree I won’t have a girls back just for the sake to please her ! Not all us men are as desperate as some women like to make us out to be ! But this sounds borderline complaining so yeah you’r completely correct ![]() ![]() The only problem I’ve ever encountered on here and I’m speaking as someone that’s been here for 11 years now, a guy could be reasonably sound and friendly with me, could write some comments in the forums or by way of a private message, I don’t see or respond to it or I flat out say they’re not my type, that then creates a feeling of rejection and then I get abuse. Anyone that’s been here a while could tell you I’ve had my fair share of abuse ![]() | |||
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"I do find people make a drama out of everything on fab especially over single guys mailing them . Fab as a whole host of filters to block unwanted mail . Simply use them and stop whining ![]() ![]() You sound like you have missed the threads moaning about single men | |||
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"Filters don't stop everything. In fact if anyone has ever messaged before, and you put all filters on, they can still message again. I know this because currently I have men blocked but because I never used this feature until a few months ago, I still get alot of messages from those who have previously, even over a year ago guys like to rear their heads again. Oh i didn't know this, i assumed once you were blocked, you couldnt view or message.. I wonder if it is a bug? " If you set your filters from today to stop men mailing you it will stop any men mailing you that you have not mailed before. If you block someone totally they cannot mail you. | |||
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" You dont have to have replied. I havnt replied to alot that are able to message again. It is simply if they sent you a message when filters are down" That isn't how it works "Filters don't apply and people can message if you've mailed someone before (if you message someone you have filtered, they can reply), you have winked at someone, or you are friends." | |||
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"On fab you don’t need to curry favour with the men folk, you can be an absolute cunt and they’ll still want to shag you. This reads like one of those threads where a woman says here men, I have your back therefore I’m amazing. if I don’t agree I won’t have a girls back just for the sake to please her ! Not all us men are as desperate as some women like to make us out to be ! But this sounds borderline complaining so yeah you’r completely correct ![]() ![]() ![]() Well if you look back on some of what I wrote on threads I’m not here to belittle anyone or be rude on the threads or otherwise I’m well use to rejection and never take it personally I’ve never been nasty to anyone unless I seen someone been bullied on a thread ! Some men are just bitter and naive and it shows more about them if they feel the need to lash out cause ur not interested! | |||
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"I have just seen the most beautiful woman on Fab in this thread ![]() Awww thanks ![]() | |||
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"On fab you don’t need to curry favour with the men folk, you can be an absolute cunt and they’ll still want to shag you. This reads like one of those threads where a woman says here men, I have your back therefore I’m amazing. if I don’t agree I won’t have a girls back just for the sake to please her ! Not all us men are as desperate as some women like to make us out to be ! But this sounds borderline complaining so yeah you’r completely correct ![]() ![]() ![]() I've often noticed you being supportive/ generally cheerful on threads. You make me smile. ![]() | |||
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"Whilst I agree that it’s fairly pointless whining, why should women have to take action to prevent abuse? Men should learn to behave We’re not all that bad, there are some of us that do have respect but unfortunately there are some that don’t That’s life unfortunately You will find equal amounts of couples and woman with bad attitudes to but they never get a mention ![]() Oh I get it now. This a post about not whining while whining it must be the womans fault because it doesn't happen to me. | |||
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"If you aren't a site supporter you won't know that you've messaged someone and been rejected, so, might message them again. If you're blocked, that won't happen. The site makes it so easy to limit who messages; it's up to the individual to use their brain and make use of site tools. " ![]() | |||
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