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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any advice or experiences for singles who want to try and have fun..in a MFM ? 
Couples adding a third is relatively easy dynamic.. but 3 singles seems a difficult scenario.. comments welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try the clubs when they open, it's much easier to organise there "
It’s more about the dynamic.. that’s my issue.. as in if it’s a hubby he would normally take the lead with an extra guy like me.. but we’ll be more equal in this scenario.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it a mfm you're after I suggest you have a chat with the other man over a pint or cup of tea first."
my problem with that as a single female that would be meeting those 2 guys , is i would feel intimidated and actually totally vulnerable to meet 2 men that already know each other and have discussed plans for the meet
its probably me being paranoid and maybe a power dynamic thing but its not a scenario i would feel safe in |
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"Any advice or experiences for singles who want to try and have fun..in a MFM ?
Couples adding a third is relatively easy dynamic.. but 3 singles seems a difficult scenario.. comments welcome "
Is it particularly important to you that the other two people aren't a couple? |
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"Try the clubs when they open, it's much easier to organise there
It’s more about the dynamic.. that’s my issue.. as in if it’s a hubby he would normally take the lead with an extra guy like me.. but we’ll be more equal in this scenario.. "
We meet some many people and you know what there all looking for something different try or broadening your Horizons different club night or events lots of guys out there looking for strong male in 3ways or in even couples play.
But definitely in club's ..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it a mfm you're after I suggest you have a chat with the other man over a pint or cup of tea first.
my problem with that as a single female that would be meeting those 2 guys , is i would feel intimidated and actually totally vulnerable to meet 2 men that already know each other and have discussed plans for the meet
its probably me being paranoid and maybe a power dynamic thing but its not a scenario i would feel safe in "
I’d understand your paranoia and would prefer the woman to lead more in this scenario |
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"Try the clubs when they open, it's much easier to organise there
It’s more about the dynamic.. that’s my issue.. as in if it’s a hubby he would normally take the lead with an extra guy like me.. but we’ll be more equal in this scenario.. "
Ground breaking thought..... All meet for a social first and discuss how everyone want things to go and what everyone's boundaries and limits are!
Here all week folks and happy to help  |
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"Any advice or experiences for singles who want to try and have fun..in a MFM ?
Couples adding a third is relatively easy dynamic.. but 3 singles seems a difficult scenario.. comments welcome "
I have two bi female friends I hook up with, for fmf threesome fun. We’re all solo players who met through Fab
I found the clubs too much like hard work as a solo guy, and finding one solo female to play with in a club was a challenge enough, don’t fantasise over meeting two lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Let the lady guide you - you’d surely want to chat with her first? ... even if just a little ... then you could both pick an extra you’d feel was a good fit
Kx |
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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago
Cowdenbeath |
I will only do 3somes if all are single and not known to each other. Playing with a couple or if the other 2 have a history does nothing for me. For me i like the dynamic of all 3 being in the same position and all getting the same from the experience x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Any advice or experiences for singles who want to try and have fun..in a MFM ?
Couples adding a third is relatively easy dynamic.. but 3 singles seems a difficult scenario.. comments welcome "
at a club..relatively easy if you are nice and get along with people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Let the lady guide you - you’d surely want to chat with her first? ... even if just a little ... then you could both pick an extra you’d feel was a good fit
Kx"
You know me.. I’d completely like to let her have everything she wants and would want her of course to take what’s hers to take.. she’d be the main focus and hers is the most important voice.. not just a little.. I’d listen a lot.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will only do 3somes if all are single and not known to each other. Playing with a couple or if the other 2 have a history does nothing for me. For me i like the dynamic of all 3 being in the same position and all getting the same from the experience x"
Wow that’s really interesting as I’m the opposite.. I wonder if you ever find somebody taking more control or trying to be more dominant..? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm looking to be the F in a MFM and all will be singles. So let me know if you discover the secret lol"
Hey Kitty who’s the other guy that’s joining us..?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When meets are allowed again, post in the meets section "
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Thanks Ivy.. I have some who are interested so it’s not that I’m searching but definitely it’s the feeling of all 3 getting the dynamic right |
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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago
South Shields |
Had MMF where none of us had met before.
I had chatted to the lady for a week or so before hand so we sort of knew what she would like.
The other guy was very respectful and we played to the ladys rules and we had a great time.
There are plans for us to get together again and then add another male. |
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