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Does my profile come across as a fake/cheater?
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"I've been told because of the can't accommodate thing I come across as a potential cheater  "
It's your choice whether you accommodate or not. It's your right. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Being able to accommodate is not all its cracked up to be, I tell you. Even though I can accommodate, and my profile says so, not a single one of my meets happened in my house. Clubs, cars, parties, outdoors, me visiting others is all I have done.
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You explain why you can’t accom so nope, no issue.
If someone says they can’t accom I ask why... just in case they miss the very obvious request for single only on my profile.
Usually anyone genuine is happy to say why, appreciate they might not though.
Being vague or cagey about not being able to accom would potentially make me feel awkward though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think cannot accommodate is the norm - who would want someone you don't know around your house - they could be a psycho and they know where you live. Meet in clubs, hotels is the only way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You explain why you can’t accom so nope, no issue.
If someone says they can’t accom I ask why... just in case they miss the very obvious request for single only on my profile.
Usually anyone genuine is happy to say why, appreciate they might not though.
Being vague or cagey about not being able to accom would potentially make me feel awkward though x"
I've just added that part right before the thread.
But I don't see how an explanation really changes things because to Quote Dr.House People lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had this and here is what I told them.
Ok I'll accommodate just for you, I hope you're ok with us fucking Infront of my slowly dying mother who happens to be on a bed in the front room so you'll have to pass her and the machine which helps her breathe.
And this is a fact. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Some people use it as a red flag, that’s what happens.
If they rule you out for that, then that’s their prerogative. You’ve been around here long enough to know that people discount others for all sorts of reasons, it happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No people have different things going on like kids, house shares etc. I wouldn’t presume anyone was married just because they say they can’t accommodate. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Not accomodating alone isn't a sign of someone cheating, could live with family or have kids with them. It only seems to be when men can't accom they're called cheats though.
There are other flags ie when they can message you, when they can meet such as daytimes only.
So i don't think you do op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's nice to see some women who are reasonable about this.
I think it's a bit cheeky for anyone to question another's profile. If a man did this to a women or couple he would be getting dogs abuse.
Don't get down about it OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people use it as a red flag, that’s what happens.
If they rule you out for that, then that’s their prerogative. You’ve been around here long enough to know that people discount others for all sorts of reasons, it happens"
I know! I was turned down for not having green eyes once 
Life is so cruel! |
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I don't accommodate, it's a personal choice because with my living circumstances it would be inappropriate.
I wouldn't assume someone has a partner or is fake, I'd just ask why they don't and if maybe it would be a possibility in the future after meeting before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will always get the fake profile comments mate regardless of whether you accommodate or not.
Usually from profiles who don't accommodate themselves or have no chance of meeting you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think cannot accommodate is the norm - who would want someone you don't know around your house - they could be a psycho and they know where you live. Meet in clubs, hotels is the only way."
Loads of men don’t care if a women comes over theirs. I normally go to the blokes house on a first meet. Cannot accomm by a man isn’t the norm for a man Iv found. |
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Also, sex while being made to keep quiet is quite hot 
cheaters don’t have bounty’s down their trousers 
