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The bits we don't love.... the reprise
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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I couldn't leave it without replying to everyone who was brave enough to post on the original thread.... so here I go again 
The OP was.....
So y'all may have noticed I'm naked in my Tits out Tuesday pic this week.
I took the picture this morning and hated it. Absolutely hated it. All I can see are the bits of my body that I can't stand. But instead of deleting it as I would usually, I posted it here. There are three reasons I went that way.
1. I couldn't be arsed to take yet another almost identical boob picture to the ones I already have.
2. This is me. If you're going to see me naked in person you'll see all of me eventually, and if you're not then it doesn't matter anyway.
3. It might encourage those women who think they're fat and have rolls to reconsider.
I should point out, I still picked the least unflattering of a dodgy bunch, I'm not that brave.
And I've been overwhelmed by the positive reaction to the picture. Ok, maybe a lot of it is boob blindness... show the tits and people see nothing else.... but I've also had messages from women saying they wish they had my confidence. It isn't confidence though, although I'm getting more so. It is just the three reasons above (with a bit of one more but that's my secret ).
This ramble is leading to my question. Is there a part of your body you wouldn't normally show? Or have done once and been amazed by the positive reaction? Would you share it with us here? |
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I really ain't got the confidence to do it now. I'm not comfy in myself at all. But.... if/when I start to feel I might wanna do the whole sex thing again, I promise I'll do a pic.
Thank you for taking the lead on this. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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Some lovely photos ladies. We've all got things we don't like about our bodies both men and women. You all have massive respect from me and i admire you all for stepping out of your comforts zones and publicly showing them. Negative comments from people on here through messages aren't nice i know that from my own experiences. Its tough and upsetting but remember someone out there likes you for who and what you are. Big hugs and lots of love from me and again my up most admiration to you all
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Thank you so much on behalf of all of us.
People often don't realise what a lasting effect their negative words and vitriol ca have on a person. And we do all need to try to make the negative quieter and the positive louder when we listen to it x |
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Currently I’m finding hard to show my body as I know I don’t look the same as I use to...the way it looks just makes me feel uncomfortable and not sexy in anyway tbh but I know that is probably just my own thoughts.
You are gorgeous, beautiful, powerful and absolutely amazing NSP x |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's a beautiful pic NSP.
Have just read through this thread and it is wonderful to see such supportive comments and so many being prepared to show their vulnerabilities & insecurities.
I'm currently struggling to come to terms with the lockdown lard & get my head in the right mindset to deal with it, this thread has definitely helped.
K"
Thank you K. I'm glad this is helping you.
The Lounge can be a wonderfully supportive place at times. There are so many wonderful people here. I hope you find your acceptance and more beautiful xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes there is a part and no I won’t show, I had my teeth messed up on a night out before covid and thanks to the pandemic things got delayed and worsened"
I hope you can get it sorted and find acceptance and joy once more |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Thank you to the op for this thread. It's beautiful, and you are beautiful. So many incredibly gorgeous women here and all I see is beauty. I've been doing the whole self acceptance thing on my mum tum,I finally got to a place where I have a pic that shows my tummy and I didn't post it because of the 16 chins! That was a big day. I'm going to follow suit though and be brave and post it on my profile.
Red, Ivy... and so many more... you all look incredible."
It's a lovely pic. And I'm so pleased you did decide to post it!
Well done you!
Next step.... no editing. And no pressure there, this is all about your own time xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I hope you can apply what you are saying to everyone else to yourself NSP.
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You know I can't yet. But I'm working on it.
And I saw what you said in your removed post as well....  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"The honest truth? I am old enough, wise enough, and cynical enough to understand that it's state of mind and not looks that makes meeting people worthwhile."
That may be true, but the nature of this site and so many others is very much visual.
Self love gives a better state of mind anyway I think. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm in awe of all you ladies
There is no pics of me sitting or leaning forward , I just can't do it ...  "
Maybe one day there will be. I've gone from a fully clothed shot of my lips to cleavage (not very exciting at all) as my only picture to this in 12 months.
Once the acceptance clicks there is no stopping a person. I hope you find it beautiful woman xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I really ain't got the confidence to do it now. I'm not comfy in myself at all. But.... if/when I start to feel I might wanna do the whole sex thing again, I promise I'll do a pic.
Thank you for taking the lead on this."
I hope you do. I would love to see your mojo (not a euphemism) and when you do that pic we will know it has returned |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Currently I’m finding hard to show my body as I know I don’t look the same as I use to...the way it looks just makes me feel uncomfortable and not sexy in anyway tbh but I know that is probably just my own thoughts.
You are gorgeous, beautiful, powerful and absolutely amazing NSP x"
All it takes is one moment GG. One moment of "who cares" or "actually I look ok" and you'll be back.
I promise.
Thank you lovely man xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Have changed our profile pic for this. Shows me in all my "glory", with bells on 
Leggings-arse will be reinstated soon  "
You spelt ball wrong!
I love that picture.... it says so much about you and your strength and body beauty.
Leggings arse also good btw |
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over a year ago
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"I hope you can apply what you are saying to everyone else to yourself NSP.
You know I can't yet. But I'm working on it.
And I saw what you said in your removed post as well.... "
I deleted it because it was a thread for empowering women and body positivity.
I wrote nothing I wouldn't say in private and I only messaged the second time because I was so impressed with your energy.
It takes real strength to do what you are doing. You inspired me to post a picture that makes me want to vomit. But I did. Because of you
I have no way of helping you believe you are beautiful. But I do hope you believe that I find you so |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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I am so glad that my spontaneous and random "this is me" has given anyone a bit of courage and confidence, and I want to thank everyone for adding their voices.
I'm hoping it may continue.
You're all amazing and beautiful in your own bodies. Just remember that there is someone who believes that about you even when you don't.... and it will help you accept yourself. |
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Admiration to you all. I would join in but I would use a boob pic but would be a shamless lie but I can't bring myself to post what I see as my worse lol Maybe 1 day ill get there.. but love all the beautiful pics out up for this thread x
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I hope you can apply what you are saying to everyone else to yourself NSP.
You know I can't yet. But I'm working on it.
And I saw what you said in your removed post as well....
I deleted it because it was a thread for empowering women and body positivity.
I wrote nothing I wouldn't say in private and I only messaged the second time because I was so impressed with your energy.
It takes real strength to do what you are doing. You inspired me to post a picture that makes me want to vomit. But I did. Because of you
I have no way of helping you believe you are beautiful. But I do hope you believe that I find you so"
It is a lovely picture and I'm so glad I could inspire you to post it.
Every bit of positivity helps with self confidence, care and acceptance and so you are helping me as I hope I am you.
This and the last thread aren't just about women.... I hope they help everyone who needs it. Each person who has posted something they're not confident about has been a joy to see and to read, and I hope that those who haven't been ready to post pictures are being inspired by those who are. Of all shapes and sizes.
Thank you lovely man xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Admiration to you all. I would join in but I would use a boob pic but would be a shamless lie but I can't bring myself to post what I see as my worse lol Maybe 1 day ill get there.. but love all the beautiful pics out up for this thread x
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One day when you're ready I hope you'll remember this post and do it. Acceptance is the key. Confidence comes later I hope xx |
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"Admiration to you all. I would join in but I would use a boob pic but would be a shamless lie but I can't bring myself to post what I see as my worse lol Maybe 1 day ill get there.. but love all the beautiful pics out up for this thread x
I would be telling everyone else the same lol But thank you x
One day when you're ready I hope you'll remember this post and do it. Acceptance is the key. Confidence comes later I hope xx"
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"Currently I’m finding hard to show my body as I know I don’t look the same as I use to...the way it looks just makes me feel uncomfortable and not sexy in anyway tbh but I know that is probably just my own thoughts.
You are gorgeous, beautiful, powerful and absolutely amazing NSP x
All it takes is one moment GG. One moment of "who cares" or "actually I look ok" and you'll be back.
I promise.
Thank you lovely man xx"
Thank you posh, you always know what to say 
And thank you for saying I’m lovely (I don’t know about that one  ) I hope you are doing ok xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Admiration to you all. I would join in but I would use a boob pic but would be a shamless lie but I can't bring myself to post what I see as my worse lol Maybe 1 day ill get there.. but love all the beautiful pics out up for this thread x
I would be telling everyone else the same lol But thank you x
One day when you're ready I hope you'll remember this post and do it. Acceptance is the key. Confidence comes later I hope xx"
Any time xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Currently I’m finding hard to show my body as I know I don’t look the same as I use to...the way it looks just makes me feel uncomfortable and not sexy in anyway tbh but I know that is probably just my own thoughts.
You are gorgeous, beautiful, powerful and absolutely amazing NSP x
All it takes is one moment GG. One moment of "who cares" or "actually I look ok" and you'll be back.
I promise.
Thank you lovely man xx
Thank you posh, you always know what to say
And thank you for saying I’m lovely (I don’t know about that one ) I hope you are doing ok xx"
I've been utterly crap all day until I saw the first thread. It has brought joy to me xx |
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"Currently I’m finding hard to show my body as I know I don’t look the same as I use to...the way it looks just makes me feel uncomfortable and not sexy in anyway tbh but I know that is probably just my own thoughts.
You are gorgeous, beautiful, powerful and absolutely amazing NSP x
All it takes is one moment GG. One moment of "who cares" or "actually I look ok" and you'll be back.
I promise.
Thank you lovely man xx
Thank you posh, you always know what to say
And thank you for saying I’m lovely (I don’t know about that one ) I hope you are doing ok xx
I've been utterly crap all day until I saw the first thread. It has brought joy to me xx"
I’m glad to hear that it has brought you joy and I hope it made you smile as I know how amazing yours is posh xx |
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I have lots of bits I don't like to show too, but if I like somebody enough to be named with them, I'll hide nothing!
NotSoPosh, your picture is lovely and you're a bloomin' stunner. Anybody would be honoured to play with your wobbly bits! xx |
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"Well done for another positive step Posh, check out personal love bombs for help in acceptance of yourself x
One thing that does really help is being body worship massaged though  "
Can i volunteer for this? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's not so much about what size I am; being smaller than you doesn't come into it. It's more being comfortable in my own skin and having the desire to share that with others.
You can be as self absorbed/attention seeking as you want OP, it's nice to read the threads. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not so much about what size I am; being smaller than you doesn't come into it. It's more being comfortable in my own skin and having the desire to share that with others.
You can be as self absorbed/attention seeking as you want OP, it's nice to read the threads. x"
My non Fab bestie gets this.
Because she has a lovely figure, when she talks about her body negatively, she gets rubbished, but its about self perception, not others xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x"
I love your pictures, so confident xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x
I love your pictures, so confident xx"
Thankyou lovely - I'm really not - but it helps my confidence letting it all hang out |
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"Yeah I think stomach for me, but actually through being on Fab I've gained a lot more love of it and have seen that a lack of "posing" and realness is really appreciated by the male contingent.
Same with my bed face, I've exchanged vids a couple of times with no makeup just naked and just felt really sexy in the moment.
This place is very good at times in getting you out of your self-criticism
I agree, you look awesome and I love your post x "
Thank you x
You're right. It can be great for the acceptance and self love. It can also be a vicious and cruel place. We just have to all learn to quiet the negativity and turn up the volume on the positive. Every bit helps x
Just want to say, this thread and the one before is a HUGE balancer of that, what a flood of body positivity, mutual admiration and empowerment. I actually don't shoe my boobs here, but for today OP I'm gonna make my little square all of me in acknowledgement of you and your awesomeness xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x
I love your pictures, so confident xx
Thankyou lovely - I'm really not - but it helps my confidence letting it all hang out "
I'm surprised you come across as a confident no nonsense woman.
Have I got that wrong? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"My non Fab bestie gets this.
Because she has a lovely figure, when she talks about her body negatively, she gets rubbished, but its about self perception, not others xx"
That's exactly it. You could hear how attractive you are or what a lovely figure you have a hundred times a day but until you believe you do, you won't believe it.
Your avatar was lovely by the way Tessa, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x
I love your pictures, so confident xx
Thankyou lovely - I'm really not - but it helps my confidence letting it all hang out
I'm surprised you come across as a confident no nonsense woman.
Have I got that wrong?"
Definitely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x
I love your pictures, so confident xx
Thankyou lovely - I'm really not - but it helps my confidence letting it all hang out
I'm surprised you come across as a confident no nonsense woman.
Have I got that wrong?
Definitely "
Ok well lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've joined in with a new profile photo for a bit.
At school, and for a few years after, I was always pretty athletic and in good shape... then I discovered beer good food and lost it totally. I've lost some of the weight I put on over the last year or so, but still not a fan of how I look at all
NSP I think you've had a positive impact on a lot of people here  |
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"I've joined in with a new profile photo for a bit.
At school, and for a few years after, I was always pretty athletic and in good shape... then I discovered beer good food and lost it totally. I've lost some of the weight I put on over the last year or so, but still not a fan of how I look at all
NSP I think you've had a positive impact on a lot of people here "
You look great  |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have lots of bits I don't like to show too, but if I like somebody enough to be named with them, I'll hide nothing!
NotSoPosh, your picture is lovely and you're a bloomin' stunner. Anybody would be honoured to play with your wobbly bits! xx"
Thank you lovely xx
It's strange how we are more comfortable being actually naked in the flesh than in photos I think. Yet also makes a lot of sense in many ways. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Amazingly it’s my penis. I’m actually a shy person when it comes to my body. So the fact my dick pic was fabbed gave me a lot of confidence."
The confidence fabs give is pretty amazing really. Well done you! |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Well done for another positive step Posh, check out personal love bombs for help in acceptance of yourself x
One thing that does really help is being body worship massaged though "
Thanks C, I will check it out x
The body worship massage I can completely see helping. One thing that helped me find the strength and will to post the pic was spending a weekend having my least favourite part of me kissed and stroked and worshipped.... along with the rest of me lol
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Aww amazing and inspirational you are thank you and yes you look amazing definitely be proud  "
I hope I have managed to inspire more people.
Thank you gorgeous lady xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I (Mr) looks like a potato with toothpicks for arms and legs!
I am comfortable being naked around others during a meet, but try not to inflict that sight on unsuspecting passers by!"
Potatoes are awesome. They are so versatile.
It's great that you're comfortable naked in person. Maybe one day you'll find that acceptance will transfer to photos. Having someone who loves you for exactly who you are must help |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's not so much about what size I am; being smaller than you doesn't come into it. It's more being comfortable in my own skin and having the desire to share that with others.
You can be as self absorbed/attention seeking as you want OP, it's nice to read the threads. x"
I do get that and honestly I also know it isn't about comparison with others.
I hope you find the comfortable stage soon. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I missed the other thread but love it NSP
Fabbed x
I always have full body pics on my profile because if we're going to get naked then this is me fat belly and all x"
That comes across as being so confident, and it is lovely to see. I know from personal feelings that it isn't always the case though, and so I massively admire you for it xx |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"You are what you are.
Tall short fat thin.
What's more important is how you are to me. I couldn't careless about the rest.
I know you girls worry etc "
We do. And men do too.
You have an excellent outlook and your attitude is something I envy. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yeah I think stomach for me, but actually through being on Fab I've gained a lot more love of it and have seen that a lack of "posing" and realness is really appreciated by the male contingent.
Same with my bed face, I've exchanged vids a couple of times with no makeup just naked and just felt really sexy in the moment.
This place is very good at times in getting you out of your self-criticism
I agree, you look awesome and I love your post x "
Thank you x
You're right. It can be great for the acceptance and self love. It can also be a vicious and cruel place. We just have to all learn to quiet the negativity and turn up the volume on the positive. Every bit helps x
Just want to say, this thread and the one before is a HUGE balancer of that, what a flood of body positivity, mutual admiration and empowerment. I actually don't shoe my boobs here, but for today OP I'm gonna make my little square all of me in acknowledgement of you and your awesomeness xx "
Oh that's wonderful to hear!
I just wanted this to be about body confidence and acceptance and I'm so glad it has been xx |
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"Amazingly it’s my penis. I’m actually a shy person when it comes to my body. So the fact my dick pic was fabbed gave me a lot of confidence.
The confidence fabs give is pretty amazing really. Well done you!"
I despise my cock. And I don't use that word lightly. |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've joined in with a new profile photo for a bit.
At school, and for a few years after, I was always pretty athletic and in good shape... then I discovered beer good food and lost it totally. I've lost some of the weight I put on over the last year or so, but still not a fan of how I look at all
NSP I think you've had a positive impact on a lot of people here "
That's a lovely photo! Well done you!
I hope I have had a positive impact. That brings me joy x |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've bitten the bullet and put a hint of cockerel comb up. Eeek!"
That's a beautiful photo!
And honestly, I wouldn't have spotted the "cockerel comb" (awesome term!) if you hadn't pointed it out x |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Amazingly it’s my penis. I’m actually a shy person when it comes to my body. So the fact my dick pic was fabbed gave me a lot of confidence.
The confidence fabs give is pretty amazing really. Well done you!
I despise my cock. And I don't use that word lightly. "
That makes me sad  |
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I caught up with your thread this morning Posh. It's lush to see such a lovely thread.
Think normalisation of bodies in all their glory is such an amazing thing. Thank you lovely for such a powerful thread |
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By *otSoPosh OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I caught up with your thread this morning Posh. It's lush to see such a lovely thread.
Think normalisation of bodies in all their glory is such an amazing thing. Thank you lovely for such a powerful thread "
Thank you gorgeous. Normalisation is definitely what we need to aim for. Not fetishising or denigrating. Just normalising |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to have a few cock pics dotted about but I've deleted them.
I won't show it partly because I don't want to be judged by that alone and partly because lockdown and knee injuries have been unkind and my belly is far bigger than I want it to be.
So I guess I'm self concious about both.
When I lay down, the belly hides itself so that makes me feel a bit better... |
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"Well that showed me!
A photo I hate and was so reluctant to post, showing my scar and side on tummy, is being fabbed to death!
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It's a bloody lush pic that's why. I fabbed it as soon as I saw it without reading the previous thread first. |
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"Well that showed me!
A photo I hate and was so reluctant to post, showing my scar and side on tummy, is being fabbed to death!
It's a bloody lush pic that's why. I fabbed it as soon as I saw it without reading the previous thread first. "
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"Well that showed me!
A photo I hate and was so reluctant to post, showing my scar and side on tummy, is being fabbed to death!
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That's because you are stunning. Every which way. Was telling hubby about this thread and how I was at your post and pic... he knew exactly who you were and as soon as I said your name his first comments were about how stunning you are! |
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"Well that showed me!
A photo I hate and was so reluctant to post, showing my scar and side on tummy, is being fabbed to death!
That's because you are stunning. Every which way. Was telling hubby about this thread and how I was at your post and pic... he knew exactly who you were and as soon as I said your name his first comments were about how stunning you are! "
That is really kind and well done for posting your picture too, I love that pink set you have x |
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"Well that showed me!
A photo I hate and was so reluctant to post, showing my scar and side on tummy, is being fabbed to death!
That's because you are stunning. Every which way. Was telling hubby about this thread and how I was at your post and pic... he knew exactly who you were and as soon as I said your name his first comments were about how stunning you are!
That is really kind and well done for posting your picture too, I love that pink set you have x"
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