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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been wondering do all these people that post a long list of rules find it makes a difference?
Also if you don't want Sydney university or his mates to use your pics maybe it might be a good idea not to put them in public.
By the way Sydney if my vids turn you on have fun! |
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"You know the profile
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I would probably be cheeky and see how many i could break even if i didnt.  "
Ah I see. Not sure really. I think some people could perhaps put things in a more polite way. Some I just think wow ok! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There preferences on my profile.. hence why most still send the faf messages but no big deal .. i just ignore  "
I tried not to message. I just couldn't help it  |
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"There preferences on my profile.. hence why most still send the faf messages but no big deal .. i just ignore
I tried not to message. I just couldn't help it "
That was different we were both having a rant anout a forum thread |
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Not sure if it makes a difference but we can find it off-putting if a profile has a long list of 'do's and dont's', and heaven forbid if they put capital letters in, that just makes it appear shouty and ranty and is an instant turn off for us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is what i think.
Isn't it better just to ignore the fools. Like or the single Bi guys that keep messaging me. No point putting it in my profile. I look grumpy if i do and I am sure they will still message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get what your saying with the Sydney university thing, I don’t have anything public I wouldn’t want to be seen .... but you do have to understand sometimes peeps are inundated with messages .... if you don’t like a profile move on i say xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hoop 1: Jump through this and touch your toes
Hoop 2: Dance for us, I said dance, that’s not dancing!
Hoop 3: Beg, I wanna see you beg
Hoop 4: Put the special word in the box
Hoop 5: Ah you get the idea. |
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"This is what i think.
Isn't it better just to ignore the fools. Like or the single Bi guys that keep messaging me. No point putting it in my profile. I look grumpy if i do and I am sure they will still message. "
You can block certain groups from messaging you. Ie: men, couples,TVs etc x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Agreed. I just put the forum post to start a conversation. Nothing anyone writes ever bothers me even the rant I got in my inbox the other day. I am still not quite sure why they were upset. Maybe they had a bad lockdown day. |
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It's impossible to tell unless you compare the response with the rules there and without. It could be that people don't write because of the rules, but how would you ever know?
We have pointers about when not to write but that's so we can be clear about why we are not responding. They only have themselves to blame if they ignore what we put in plain view. You can tell in advance if we're not going to reply. Don't complain to us. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I like profile like yours it gives a person something to engage with. The worst are the ones that ask you to do more than say hi and yet have nothing to engage with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I also guess being a guy you forget the rubbish couples and ladies have to put up with. I had a couples profile a few years ago with a friend. That was a real eye opener. Craiglist closing down did not hell either. Or the nutters came here. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
In my world, the more rules, the more closed minded.
Saying that, we have a rule, “only meet in clubs”.
More to do with previous experience and family logistics.
To us, modal operators of necessary are not sexy. |
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