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Casual sex allowed again as indoor mixing given go ahead. Sex between people who don’t live together is back on the cards after May 17 as overnight stays away from home are permitted again. Is this the official green light then all guns blazing now or still wait till June 21st  |
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"Casual sex allowed again as indoor mixing given go ahead. Sex between people who don’t live together is back on the cards after May 17 as overnight stays away from home are permitted again. Is this the official green light then all guns blazing now or still wait till June 21st "
Till reading this I was oblivious it had stopped ?
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
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over a year ago
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
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Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
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Idiots.
I've seen too much death and devastation this past year to rush back out there just for a random fuck. I cant believe the amount of selfish people there are (in fact, I can) who are willing to take the piss. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
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Are you aware that each of those people had to be tested, monitored and those events were scientifically studied?
It’s not time to meet people outside of socially distanced guidelines yet.
If you’re in doubt, then go and hug a doctor, see what they say |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Ffs. It isn't a green light, close contact is for family members, not some random FAF.
The rule of 6 and social distancing rules will still apply for none family and people not in your social bubble |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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At every step of the pandemic some people have tried to twist every change of the rules to fit their own selfish desires. Perhaps if they hadn't done so we all wouldn't have had to live with restrictions for quite so long.
Threads like this I find helpful because they bring these people to the fore and I can add them to the list of people i never want to meet. |
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over a year ago
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
Are you aware that each of those people had to be tested, monitored and those events were scientifically studied?
It’s not time to meet people outside of socially distanced guidelines yet.
If you’re in doubt, then go and hug a doctor, see what they say"
Your wrong sorry ! The first UFC event had 15000 people none where checked and masks wasn’t a requirement ! If your referring to the dance events I’m not sure so I can’t comment
and how do you mean they where monitored?
Not been sarcastic I was surprised to see the video of the dance event I’m
Curious how they made that 100% safe
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
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You know they were guinea pig events right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
You know they were guinea pig events right? "
As in ?  never heard that expression |
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"Your allowed to cuddle 
Cautiously. Cautious cuddling sounds a bit naff really. "
Not really. It means you can have physical contact with family that you've not seen or had the healing of a hug from for a long time.
Cuddling isn't a euphemism for 'strange goings on ' at the tube station. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
Are you aware that each of those people had to be tested, monitored and those events were scientifically studied?
It’s not time to meet people outside of socially distanced guidelines yet.
If you’re in doubt, then go and hug a doctor, see what they say
Your wrong sorry ! The first UFC event had 15000 people none where checked and masks wasn’t a requirement ! If your referring to the dance events I’m not sure so I can’t comment
and how do you mean they where monitored?
Not been sarcastic I was surprised to see the video of the dance event I’m
Curious how they made that 100% safe
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Was the UFC event in the US? If so, it’s got nothing to do with UK guidance.
The dance events had specialists in crowd flow, group dynamics, social behaviours, transmission, virology, etc, all watching on video link.
Also the attendees are all being traced post event to see the after effects.
It was a test event, a scientific study |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
Are you aware that each of those people had to be tested, monitored and those events were scientifically studied?
It’s not time to meet people outside of socially distanced guidelines yet.
If you’re in doubt, then go and hug a doctor, see what they say
Your wrong sorry ! The first UFC event had 15000 people none where checked and masks wasn’t a requirement ! If your referring to the dance events I’m not sure so I can’t comment
and how do you mean they where monitored?
Not been sarcastic I was surprised to see the video of the dance event I’m
Curious how they made that 100% safe
Was the UFC event in the US? If so, it’s got nothing to do with UK guidance.
The dance events had specialists in crowd flow, group dynamics, social behaviours, transmission, virology, etc, all watching on video link.
Also the attendees are all being traced post event to see the after effects.
It was a test event, a scientific study"
As I said I was surprised to see it !
And I didn’t know it was that well planned so yeah stand corrected !
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
You know they were guinea pig events right?
As in ? never heard that expression "
As in it wasn't a free for all. As in everything was recorded. As in it was a trial.
As in it was a case study to see the what's, where's, implications, effects etc etc etc. And guess what? The effects of any case or trial need a time frame to find the results. That's the bit we are in now. The waiting.
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
You know they were guinea pig events right?
As in ? never heard that expression
As in it wasn't a free for all. As in everything was recorded. As in it was a trial.
As in it was a case study to see the what's, where's, implications, effects etc etc etc. And guess what? The effects of any case or trial need a time frame to find the results. That's the bit we are in now. The waiting.
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I looked it up when you hit me with that last message !
Honestly had no idea it was a study and I don’t take this lightly but I’m eager for things to get back to normal!
But I’ve no problem putting my hands up when I’m wrong !!  |
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
Have you seen the videos put up last week of the dance events in England and America !
UFC are selling out arena’s !
It’s time to get back to business !
You know they were guinea pig events right?
As in ? never heard that expression
As in it wasn't a free for all. As in everything was recorded. As in it was a trial.
As in it was a case study to see the what's, where's, implications, effects etc etc etc. And guess what? The effects of any case or trial need a time frame to find the results. That's the bit we are in now. The waiting.
I looked it up when you hit me with that last message !
Honestly had no idea it was a study and I don’t take this lightly but I’m eager for things to get back to normal!
But I’ve no problem putting my hands up when I’m wrong !! "
Sweet.
Just goes to show tho how easily things could go from hope to hell. If everyone did the same as you and thought that way without listening to the accompanying message with the images they saw, we could be set back months. And there will be others that have done so and got the "fuck its" and gone out mixing prematurely, that's a given. So that means we need to do what we can to hopefully counterbalance the numpties. |
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Basically what it means is this.... I can hug my son whom I've not seen since feb 2020 and he's allowed to stay overnight.
That's what I'm taking from it anyway.
Shame I'll be starting back at work that day and he's currently working full time plus overtime so it ain't happening anyway. Roll on October when we've both got time off to see each other. |
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It’s time to get back to business !
That statement is annoying as it’s fun we’re all after and using business doesn’t sound much like fun !
Also like everyone is saying it is a bit early to jump the gun ! I think the sign of it’s time to get back to having fun is when the clubs get the green light to open up ! |
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over a year ago
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"According to the BBC website article..
“this means you can have sex with someone outside of your household or support bubble”
Have they got it wrong?
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I just read that too. I think they are still expecting people to use common sense. Meaning a trusted FWB would be okay but maybe not a string of random strangers? |
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It’s time to get back to business !
That statement is annoying as it’s fun we’re all after and using business doesn’t sound much like fun !
Also like everyone is saying it is a bit early to jump the gun ! I think the sign of it’s time to get back to having fun is when the clubs get the green light to open up ! "
Most definitely mate !
My point was obviously taken up as let’s get straight down to sex !
It wasn’t meant like that at all ! Im just sick of this mundane day to day boredom!
and I understand it’s a topic that’s going to throw out strong opinions I should of thought before I spoke !
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
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I agree (have had lots more messages from men since Friday who seem to think the green light is real). However as we have all been encouraged to use Covid 19 self tests now and they are free maybe it is feasible to meet someone on a regular basis using the tests? |
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"Casual sex allowed again as indoor mixing given go ahead. Sex between people who don’t live together is back on the cards after May 17 as overnight stays away from home are permitted again. Is this the official green light then all guns blazing now or still wait till June 21st "
Hopefully we
have a even in Scotland soon after the big day wait until that.. |
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The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks. |
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks. "
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour. |
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks.
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour."
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks.
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour."
Appreciate you throwing good informative facts on here cause one or two on the thread couldn’t see past the narrative that there fed every day on the telly or on what ever other social media site they spend there time reading and getting there opinions on covid !
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"I'm not even thinking about sex till June at the earliest even then I will be very cautious "
Agreed, it's what your right hand is for, or your left of course. DIY  |
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
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This. It is still not ok to "meet".
You can hug friends and family.
Not everyone is double vaccinated yet, and not everyone is testing. |
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"It’s not.
Taking the guidance as a green light to meet random folks for sex is a wild interpretation.
Doing so is still dangerous and still putting others in danger.
If you can’t go to the cinema or go for a drink unless distanced, why would you think that it’s ok to meet for sex?
This. It is still not ok to "meet".
You can hug friends and family.
Not everyone is double vaccinated yet, and not everyone is testing."
Nope !
Apparently to some you have to wrap your self in cling film and keep arms length from everybody !!!!
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks.
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour.
Appreciate you throwing good informative facts on here cause one or two on the thread couldn’t see past the narrative that there fed every day on the telly or on what ever other social media site they spend there time reading and getting there opinions on covid !
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The key point is responsible behaviour.
If you take that as meaning ‘meeting strangers for sex’ when others read ‘you can hug granny again’ then I wonder about your concept of responsible.
If your response to mine is along the lines of ‘sheep’ then don’t bother |
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks.
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour.
Appreciate you throwing good informative facts on here cause one or two on the thread couldn’t see past the narrative that there fed every day on the telly or on what ever other social media site they spend there time reading and getting there opinions on covid !
The key point is responsible behaviour.
If you take that as meaning ‘meeting strangers for sex’ when others read ‘you can hug granny again’ then I wonder about your concept of responsible.
If your response to mine is along the lines of ‘sheep’ then don’t bother"
Yep I agree I can’t be arsed carrying on this conversation I get people have there own opinions and I don’t try push mine on others !
And no I wasn’t classing anyone as sheep but I’m not gonna sit here while one opinion and perspective is been giving to me as fact !
It’s a thread on a hookup site I really don’t take it as serious as some   |
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks.
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour.
Appreciate you throwing good informative facts on here cause one or two on the thread couldn’t see past the narrative that there fed every day on the telly or on what ever other social media site they spend there time reading and getting there opinions on covid !
The key point is responsible behaviour.
If you take that as meaning ‘meeting strangers for sex’ when others read ‘you can hug granny again’ then I wonder about your concept of responsible.
If your response to mine is along the lines of ‘sheep’ then don’t bother
Yep I agree I can’t be arsed carrying on this conversation I get people have there own opinions and I don’t try push mine on others !
And no I wasn’t classing anyone as sheep but I’m not gonna sit here while one opinion and perspective is been giving to me as fact !
It’s a thread on a hookup site I really don’t take it as serious as some "
Again, can’t agree more. People are going to do what they want regardless of government guidelines. The press has plenty examples of this over the last 18 months, what with protests and just general fuckwittery by people who couldn’t care less.
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"The official government line is:
"Guidance for close contact between friends and family will be updated, with people exercising their own personal judgement in line with the risks."
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/further-easing-of-covid-restrictions-confirmed-for-17-may
I take that to mean they want people to make their own informed decisions based on an understanding of the risks.
It also says this:
"The public can make informed, personal decisions on close contact, such as hugging, with their friends and family."
They are pulling back from dictating what you may and may not do and leaving the choice to us, within certain limits of numbers and encouraging responsible behaviour.
Appreciate you throwing good informative facts on here cause one or two on the thread couldn’t see past the narrative that there fed every day on the telly or on what ever other social media site they spend there time reading and getting there opinions on covid !
The key point is responsible behaviour.
If you take that as meaning ‘meeting strangers for sex’ when others read ‘you can hug granny again’ then I wonder about your concept of responsible.
If your response to mine is along the lines of ‘sheep’ then don’t bother
Yep I agree I can’t be arsed carrying on this conversation I get people have there own opinions and I don’t try push mine on others !
And no I wasn’t classing anyone as sheep but I’m not gonna sit here while one opinion and perspective is been giving to me as fact !
It’s a thread on a hookup site I really don’t take it as serious as some
Again, can’t agree more. People are going to do what they want regardless of government guidelines. The press has plenty examples of this over the last 18 months, what with protests and just general fuckwittery by people who couldn’t care less.
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About time some sense
100% agree to much fuckwittery going on !
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"Casual sex allowed again as indoor mixing given go ahead. Is this the official green light then all guns blazing now or still wait till June 21st
It isn't the official green light."
That's not what the dail mail was saying this morning that's where I read the casual sex was allowed again  |
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