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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

My fab journey is changing...

Has your journey on fab changed from when you first started out?

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By *ussieChrisMan over a year ago

Walsall

Not really no.. But I joined mid pandemic.. So...

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Completely, yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

"My fab journey is changing...

Has your journey on fab changed from when you first started out? "
very much so. Its always evolving as I do. Currently its strictly social based and would be without the pandemic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Completely, yes

Yes, me too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not really we set out to fulfil some fantasys and we have, we aim to do it a bit more and hopefully make more friends in the process

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By *otSoPoshWoman over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. Definitely.

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

Totally, 100%. Couldn't be any more different than when I first joined. Thankfully so much for the better. I would do it all differently if I had my time again.

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By * Lexi xWoman over a year ago

stockport

Yes massively.

What a roll a coaster of a ride it’s been.

Mostly ups than downs.

I wouldn’t change any of it apart from one bad apple.

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

Very much so, partly because when I first joined I was half of a couple, I am constantly evolving and that is influencing my journey. The pandemic has also changed my perspective in lots of ways

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes! Very much so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definately!

Am I "H"???!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is changing from when I first started

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan over a year ago

Cheshire

Not really still get all my messages ignored or i get called a freak or similar, because of my pics and being submissive, but not changing anything i am who i am and very happy in my own skin....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell yes! I joined originally as a married woman looking for other women. Then I realised my (now) ex was a massive fucktard, so I ended that.

My first meet in nov 19 recognised my submissive side, and we’ve been seeing each other for 18month.

My desires and interests have changed beyond recognition, and I’ve had experiences I could never have predicted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally ...

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By *acDreamyMan over a year ago

Wirral

How is it changing?

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Definitely changed pretty quickly, went from being part of a fwb couple profile looking for meets as a pair, now on here as a single female and looking forward to what comes from that

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As this is my 4th time back on fab, it has changed, I have less expectations, a more realistic view of how I am, and a better idea of what I'm looking to get out it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How is it changing? "

For me the distance isn’t an issue anymore ... when I first joined I’d only meet local ... not anymore

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Yes, wonderfully so. At the start I had my slutty, slightly angry phase which was brilliant but now I've a wonderful fiancé and I'm looking for different things than I did at the start.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it has. I know what i want and what i will and wont put up with sexually

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Probably not. I just go with the flow. Never really had any expectations or bucket lists I had to achieve.

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

I am always wondering what will the next Fab adventure will be... it’s been an amazing 3 years!

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No, I'm still looking for the same things as I was when I joined.

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By *he rover returnedWoman over a year ago

xxx

Definitely it has, far more confidence in myself now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

very much so

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By *tue555Man over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Yes, but then again so has the swinging scene. FAB has made the scene much more accessible, originally it held up the ethos and attitudes of those involved in the scene but accessibility to a much broader audience has brought with it a whole host of differing attitudes and acceptance, many diametrically opposed, as often seen in these forums.

Don't get me wrong there have been many good times and have gained many long term friendships. Most have headed off now, things change and move on.

FAB like the swinging scene is what you make of it. For us, our time is done here for others there is much to explore and experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Massively... I was like a kid in a sweet shop that had a taste of anyone that took my fancy, I only wanted sex and lots of it... Now I rarely fancy anyone and mostly only sort the local social... But I do live with one of my FWBs

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By *rMojoRisinMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"My fab journey is changing...

Has your journey on fab changed from when you first started out? "

It's just begun, again, so not so far.

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By *all me FlikWoman over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Not really, this has always been naughty light-entertainment interspersed with the occasional virtual sex session ... Fabulous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds exciting for you OP.

Mine is evolving as I go along. I had no expectations coming in due to my accidentally stumbling onto the site and into the Forum.

I have yet to discover what lies ahead.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think mine is slowly coming to an end .though i think i will always be a forumute

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Absolutely it has!

I joined as a somewhat hopeful cougar looking for fun but it’s certainly been a fabulous journey so far. I was confident but wasn’t sure where to go with it, I needn’t have worried. I’ve met some great guys along the way and had a ball

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By *elnkazCouple over a year ago

cheshire

Yep. Totally k

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My journey has changed over the years from a single woman just out of a long marriage seeking sexual liberation to finding the man of my dreams here and beginning a swinging journey together. Then add to the mix hotwife adventures too.... I am incredibly happy.

NBVN x

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By *isAdventure69Woman over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes it has.

I have found the last year trying as a singleton and I am considering changing course.

The original enthusiasm is wearing thin I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not quite sure. I think I'm more measured in what I do and who I'll speak to whereas before I think I was just happy to be spoken to at all. In terms of meeting people, I'll just have to wait and find out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have changed, don't think fab has changed that much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s exactly the same. I joined with very little action and currently there’s very little action.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just been a journey really. Met some great people along the way and have made two really good friends.

If anything, it's Covid that's changed things and I'm not sure I'll return to Fabbing.

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s safe to say that my Fab journey has taken a few twists and turns. Yes I’m looking for different things now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooh yes. My fab journey started in 2009 as I wanted to try new things with my partner and explore sex with another woman.... very different to now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am on a slow gentle wind down to oblivion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I still just drift along and let the world unfold....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not here on a journey and not here for usual purposes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Massively!

I was an extremely damaged and vulnerable 18 year old looking for casual hook ups when I first joined.

Now I'm a fairly balanced 32 year old, happily loved up with the man of my dreams and exploring the world of swinging in a whole new way as a couple

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

It's more an education than a journey.

When you first set out you are naive and the sooner you learn the ways of the site and a lot of the folk that use it, the better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel that it's cyclic. I started off as a couple, then into singledom. Then found someone and back into a couple and then single.

Each time it's changed and then back again to where I started.

I don't think I have changed what I'm looking for or the type of person I'm attracted to, just my personal situation that changes.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have been on here over a decade and my journey and the way I use the site has changed so much in that time

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yes things have changed for me.

I used to think i was fat and ugly.

Now i know.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I think mine is slowly coming to an end .though i think i will always be a forumute

Mine too.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Both of our fab paths are different from when we set out.

My fab journey has changed a few times; taken me down some rabbit holes I never knew even existed in my previous unadulterated life.

Even I don't recognise (me from the old) me anymore.

It's been amazing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My fab journey is changing...

Has your journey on fab changed from when you first started out? "

Hope all okay !

Big hugs and cuddles ! Nothing wanted !

Just my best for you’re future happiness x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah massively first joined as a cple and been on and off as a single for about last 18mths

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My fab journey is changing...

Has your journey on fab changed from when you first started out? "

Change is very exciting

... I hope you have an excellent time x

Ours had changed lots - we rejoined to explore more - it’s had a big hiccup with covid but we’ve made some lovely new friends and fingers crossed we can start to enjoy more soon xx

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By *riar BelisseWoman over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Not changed as such more stalled over lockdown, my next phase was always going to be clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Joined not expecting much, thought I’d cancel app within a week. See what happens when things open up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve chatted to some amazing people hoping to a couple (husband and wife) in the near future

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Not much.

I only fab-meet on one or two occasions a year (period of 3-5weeks each) since 2013 during my annual vacation in the UK/Ireland/Europe.

The rest of the time (in Asia) I use the forum and chat room.

Just that the non-meeting period is prolonged now. Looking at the bright side, I don't have to buy a new wig until my next trip

(? 2022)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. And no. Some of it was always there. Just needed to be woken up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The road is long and full of pot holes

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Yes, a bit. I of course haven’t met anyone for a long time. I’m also a lot more wary of people that message, I rarely reply these days but then the quality of messages has slipped dramatically

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Yes its changed, I used to be popular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular."

You still are mate... and a very nice guy too, I think everything’s changed in some degree for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d been on here previously in the past. And enjoyed making friends to meet as and when it suited!

But that’s definitely changed in the last 4 weeks for me, the forums I used to think were not for me. But I was wrong it’s full of great people and one in particular has blown me away. My whole outlooks changed. For the better too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely

What I look for constantly changes

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular.

You still are mate... and a very nice guy too, I think everything’s changed in some degree for everyone. "

Cheers Tom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular.

You still are mate... and a very nice guy too, I think everything’s changed in some degree for everyone.

Cheers Tom

You’re welcome

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular."
shurrup ya big tart. You’re still popular

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By *cunnylassCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Not really,we're still looking to share guys!

M and M

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular.shurrup ya big tart. You’re still popular

Things have changed indeed.

Once my dear you were budhwar of the grape now sadly withered on the vine

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Yeah, I used to believe what people said unless it was a blatant lie with a glowing neon sign above it

Oh what a fool I was.

Now I've just how ugly humanity is and instead of having wide eyes and a hopeful smile I'm erm... ever so slightly cynical and no longer really interested in sex.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular.shurrup ya big tart. You’re still popular

Things have changed indeed.

Once my dear you were budhwar of the grape now sadly withered on the vine

Face. Bothered though?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes its changed, I used to be popular.shurrup ya big tart. You’re still popular

Things have changed indeed.

Once my dear you were budhwar of the grape now sadly withered on the vine

Face. Bothered though?

Still I suppose it will do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Our fab adventure has changed 100% and is now much more enjoyable thanks to the changes we have made.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, not in the way I anticipated. Since I came on fab, some of the discussions I have had have forced me to reflect internally with regards future projects I want to be involved with and overcome my issues with flying so I can travel and meet new and interesting people and how I now choose to live my life after the pandemic is done and travel is a thing.

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