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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has been discussed before. If it had the numbers to make it worthwhile. If you had some interested in a poly relationship, as opposed to swinging, I guess it could work. It would no doubt be open to abuse. |
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"This has been discussed before. If it had the numbers to make it worthwhile. If you had some interested in a poly relationship, as opposed to swinging, I guess it could work. It would no doubt be open to abuse."
Why would it be open to abuse? |
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"Nah, it would be the same if not worse than as with actual dating sites, where you get the guys who don't want to date they're just looking for action."
But they already have that on here, why would they have to go into the dating section? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Why would it be open to abuse?"
because ;
( some ) single guys / girls / others looking for a quick fuck and not remotely interested in a relationship - would use it for their own purpose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, it would be the same if not worse than as with actual dating sites, where you get the guys who don't want to date they're just looking for action."
precisely. |
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" Why would it be open to abuse?
because ;
( some ) single guys / girls / others looking for a quick fuck and not remotely interested in a relationship - would use it for their own purpose."
But surely if you were hoping to get a relationship out of it, you wouldn't just jump into bed with the other person, or is that just me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would a swinger site try and get people to form new relationships , it is actually a terrible business strategy. Lots of new couples would want to settle into a relationship together before becoming a swinging couple and jumping straight into the swing lifestyle.
So from a revenue perspective Why would Fab want to pair off their best revenue spinner, ie single women. Single women attract lots of single guys , if Fab starts pairing them off they will most certainly lose money . Also these new couples may dump their single profiles and set up a couple profile instead, revenue halved again.
Last and by no means least , as already said it won't work from the abuse angle. People will just use it as another angle to make them look good to a potential play mate. Ooh I'll meet him/her as they are also looking for a relationship. Erm naw there just looking for a quick legover and wave bye-bye as they run out the door after fooling you into thinking there looking for an LTR.
Ps for those looking for a genuine relationship, tinder and pof have loads of people from here on those sites too. Just use those sites as your dating section, the results will mostly be the same as a Fab dating section. Full of chancers.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This has been discussed before. If it had the numbers to make it worthwhile. If you had some interested in a poly relationship, as opposed to swinging, I guess it could work. It would no doubt be open to abuse.
Why would it be open to abuse?"
same as any dating site, people say what they think you want to hear to get laid - but like any dating site you know that going in so i don’t think its a reason not to do it |
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"Nah, it would be the same if not worse than as with actual dating sites, where you get the guys who don't want to date they're just looking for action."
This. Men will tell a woman anything if he thinks it will lead to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah, it would be the same if not worse than as with actual dating sites, where you get the guys who don't want to date they're just looking for action.
This. Men will tell a woman anything if he thinks it will lead to sex. "
they do that everywhere , do you really think we are not smart enough to suss it out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway "
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, it would be the same if not worse than as with actual dating sites, where you get the guys who don't want to date they're just looking for action.
This. Men will tell a woman anything if he thinks it will lead to sex. "
if a women know this then if she falls for it who is to blame.
take two to tango and you cannot always blame the man. |
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go "
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me! "
 lol its a fair point , but i think single women trying to date already have their guard up to that kinda bs from guys so it would be the same here
i just think if you want a relationship with someone open minded to this kind of lifestyle in the future then its probably easier here than on a conventional dating site , but people can get quite a bit of grief for trying to date on the normal parts of the fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me! "
150? lololol that must be a joke right?
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me!
150? lololol that must be a joke right?
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Wish it was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me!
150? lololol that must be a joke right?
Wish it was "
id mail you but i know what happens to it.
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me!
150? lololol that must be a joke right?
Wish it was
id mail you but i know what happens to it.
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Haha I’ve got 417 unread at the moment but I’d find yours darling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There does seem to be a lot of interest in it so, it would make sense and be benificial.
Wouldn't be beneficial to Fab though would it. ? "
your previous post assumes everyone pays to use fab when many of the features are free
all they would need to do would be make the dating section only open to only site supporters and there you go its financially beneficial |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure really. I think people who are looking for the same kind of thing find each other anyway
don’t they find each other easier though if there is a dedicated place for them to go
I’m not sure I’d trust any men in that section any more than I’d trust them here to be honest. Considering I get about 150 messages a day from men who are looking for the same thing as me!
150? lololol that must be a joke right?
Wish it was
id mail you but i know what happens to it.
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Haha I’ve got 417 unread at the moment but I’d find yours darling "
darling? shit id better leg it quick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There does seem to be a lot of interest in it so, it would make sense and be benificial.
Wouldn't be beneficial to Fab though would it. ?
your previous post assumes everyone pays to use fab when many of the features are free
all they would need to do would be make the dating section only open to only site supporters and there you go its financially beneficial "
Point taken that not everyone pays to use the site but where your financial benefit part fails is forcing people that also want to date to pay for that part of the site would simply mean they wouldn't use that facility as they could simply put that hope or goal of an LTR in their bio of a normal profile . Which most do already .
Also if it was beneficial to Fab they would have done it by now as there has been many threads of this nature. Just my thoughts.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There does seem to be a lot of interest in it so, it would make sense and be benificial.
Wouldn't be beneficial to Fab though would it. ?
your previous post assumes everyone pays to use fab when many of the features are free
all they would need to do would be make the dating section only open to only site supporters and there you go its financially beneficial
Point taken that not everyone pays to use the site but where your financial benefit part fails is forcing people that also want to date to pay for that part of the site would simply mean they wouldn't use that facility as they could simply put that hope or goal of an LTR in their bio of a normal profile . Which most do already .
Also if it was beneficial to Fab they would have done it by now as there has been many threads of this nature. Just my thoughts. "
there are loads of suggestions that don’t get picked up , like for example a proper app instead of this html style site from the early 00’s , i think there is either no appetite to invest in the site or just not much money to be made from it in general so they don’t bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d be up for that , I think I would find dating easier in fab , it’s a little less pressure and as I’m out of practice would be nice to have a more open conversation with somebody likeminded |
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"Yes - date me
Disclaimer- you're never living in my house and I want to fuck other people  "
. Pretty much this although I only want one man so would be ok with not fucking other men. I won’t be not meeting women though
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"I met a past boyfriend on here, there are many who after chatting, say they want a relationship so I think it’s a good idea. Fabcouples has a great ring to it "
It does, though some will want more than 2 in the relationship  |
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By *issButtonWoman
over a year ago
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I personally think it would be a good idea. I want to meet someone open to this lifestyle. Surely this would be a great way to start a relationship off honestly rather than letting out your baggage down the line! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally think it would be a good idea. I want to meet someone open to this lifestyle. Surely this would be a great way to start a relationship off honestly rather than letting out your baggage down the line!"
Agreed |
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"I personally think it would be a good idea. I want to meet someone open to this lifestyle. Surely this would be a great way to start a relationship off honestly rather than letting out your baggage down the line!
Agreed"
Seconded! |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"This has been discussed before. If it had the numbers to make it worthwhile. If you had some interested in a poly relationship, as opposed to swinging, I guess it could work. It would no doubt be open to abuse."
Poly people can swing too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t date a Fab bloke - but since there’s a lot of interest in having a dedicated forum it seems a good idea for those who are interested in finding someone |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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there are loads of suggestions that don’t get picked up , like for example a proper app instead of this html style site from the early 00’s , i think there is either no appetite to invest in the site or just not much money to be made from it in general so they don’t bother "
The problem is apps are redonkulosly expensive to develop (properly) and the issues with getting them through the varying app stores are many (especially apple with its clean cut puritan ways).
Then the cut they take from you with regards to any in app purchases... For a niche market it makes it unviable financially. |
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By *issButtonWoman
over a year ago
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I personally think it would be a good idea. I want to meet someone open to this lifestyle. Surely this would be a great way to start a relationship off honestly rather than letting out your baggage down the line! |
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"With all the flirting going on I thought this was a dating site for the majority
R
Bit pointless being here if not going to flirt
Flirting isn't a requirement to suck cock and lick pussy
R"
Oh do you just send a FAF? |
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"With all the flirting going on I thought this was a dating site for the majority
R
Bit pointless being here if not going to flirt
Flirting isn't a requirement to suck cock and lick pussy
R
Oh do you just send a FAF? "
Pretty much put up a meet and pick who is suitable
R |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are loads of suggestions that don’t get picked up , like for example a proper app instead of this html style site from the early 00’s , i think there is either no appetite to invest in the site or just not much money to be made from it in general so they don’t bother
The problem is apps are redonkulosly expensive to develop (properly) and the issues with getting them through the varying app stores are many (especially apple with its clean cut puritan ways).
Then the cut they take from you with regards to any in app purchases... For a niche market it makes it unviable financially. "
any time i logon there is between 20-45k online just at that moment - plus apps come with ads these days we all know it, it is commercially viable |
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"With all the flirting going on I thought this was a dating site for the majority
R
Bit pointless being here if not going to flirt
Flirting isn't a requirement to suck cock and lick pussy
R
Oh do you just send a FAF?
Pretty much put up a meet and pick who is suitable
R"
I'd rather put a bit more effort in myself and get to know someone than just fuck a random stranger I know nothing about |
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"With all the flirting going on I thought this was a dating site for the majority
R
Bit pointless being here if not going to flirt
Flirting isn't a requirement to suck cock and lick pussy
R
Oh do you just send a FAF?
Pretty much put up a meet and pick who is suitable
R
I'd rather put a bit more effort in myself and get to know someone than just fuck a random stranger I know nothing about "
Fucking random strangers is what we prefer
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