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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a thought, sometimes some people get a lot of messages and would end up being a full time job to read and reply to everyone “not interested”

Don’t take it too personal

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Delete without reply means no thank you per the site FAQ.

Manners includes knowing the norms of the place in which you find yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would be great if people read the site rules and advise and realised that a no reply should be taken as a polite no thankyou.... Also worth remembering that it is not polite (in fact some may say its actually very rude) to expect or feel entitled to a reply, no one owed you there time and energy

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

No they have so many messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op sorry to tell you this, but nobody owes you a reply, drop your expectations and your fab journey will go alot smoother

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

How does that make them bias exactly ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Bias?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

How so?

If you mean rude because of no reply, then I would direct you to the FAB Q&A that's states "no reply = no interest".

Not sure why you say people (I'm assuming women) are "bias" for not replying. Surely it just means you're not for them?

Accept that you won't appeal to everyone - nobody does - move on & your FAB experience will be all the better.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Your assumptions make you seem quite rude imo.

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By *lackieMan over a year ago

Swinton

I put please reply yes or no but i still get no answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to be able to reply to all

But you never know when your going to get

Someone who’s has a hurt ego and throws abuse at you for saying no

Or the grate it’s your loss line or something

Just not worth it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you reply to every unsolicited email and every bit of junk mail through your door with a 'no thanks' or do you delete/recycle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I put please reply yes or no but i still get no answer "

What makes you think you have any authority to tell people what to do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ultimately people replying to messages and it all being productive is ideal but on balance which is better an inbox full of ‘not interested’ or read and delete.

At least with read and delete one would logic they weren't interested. Replies of ‘not interested’ takes one down a depreciating rabbit hole. I’d rather read and delete tbh OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Manners cost absolutely nothing and I am the first to always say be kind .... be respectful and always treat peeps how you like to be treated but you have to take into consideration..... some lovely ladies on her may get 50 upwards messages a day .... they do not have the time to read and answer every message they’d need a pa to do it for them ..... some profiles tell you they don’t answer but don’t take it to heart just move on to the next one..... moaning and posting threads is not going to change it xxxxx

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"I put please reply yes or no but i still get no answer "

No reply=no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about if someone deletes your message, but afterwards has a look at your profile? What does this mean as I get this a lot?

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To turn it around OP - how would getting a "no thanks" reply benefit you any more than a straight delete read or unread? The answer is the same ultimately.

People don't reply because they don't have the time to, because of the potential for abuse in response to turning someone down (ladies can go from the "most beautiful person on Fab" to "ugly munter who was being done a favour" in the space of a "No thanks" message).

Just accept that you're only likely to get a reply if there's an interest in replying and your experience will be enhanced.

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By *arol321Woman over a year ago

Poole

Surely if by ignoring and deleting your messages you think people are rude then you should also be glad that you ‘dodged a bullet’ as you wouldn’t want to get chatting to anyone who you think is ‘rude’.

Or is it that you just think that every woman should want to have sex with you because you want to have sex with them? If that is the case then I think the ‘rude’ person here is staring at you from your mirror.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I just say move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

You do xx

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Not interested.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one "

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

It would be great if people used manners when writing to us, including reading our profile which clearly says that we will delete messages with certain characteristics. Still the majority of the messages we receive have exactly those characteristics, so they get deleted.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress "

Not trying to impress anyone simply being realistic and stating it as it is - take it or leave it, really is that simple.

And you're right manners cost nothing but that works both ways, and would include not expecting a response from a random stranger you happen to have sent an unsolicited message to.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress

Not trying to impress anyone simply being realistic and stating it as it is - take it or leave it, really is that simple.

And you're right manners cost nothing but that works both ways, and would include not expecting a response from a random stranger you happen to have sent an unsolicited message to."

I get plenty and respond

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress

Not trying to impress anyone simply being realistic and stating it as it is - take it or leave it, really is that simple.

And you're right manners cost nothing but that works both ways, and would include not expecting a response from a random stranger you happen to have sent an unsolicited message to.

I get plenty and respond "

And that's your prerogative, just as it's others' prerogative to choose not to do so - doesn't make you any better mannered than them in this instance though.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress

Not trying to impress anyone simply being realistic and stating it as it is - take it or leave it, really is that simple.

And you're right manners cost nothing but that works both ways, and would include not expecting a response from a random stranger you happen to have sent an unsolicited message to.

I get plenty and respond

And that's your prerogative, just as it's others' prerogative to choose not to do so - doesn't make you any better mannered than them in this instance though."

I never said I was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do believe a number of people are overwhelmed by messages. It’s not necessarily being rude, just not being able to respond to everyone.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress

Not trying to impress anyone simply being realistic and stating it as it is - take it or leave it, really is that simple.

And you're right manners cost nothing but that works both ways, and would include not expecting a response from a random stranger you happen to have sent an unsolicited message to.

I get plenty and respond

And that's your prerogative, just as it's others' prerogative to choose not to do so - doesn't make you any better mannered than them in this instance though.

I never said I was"

And I never said you said you were

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

I agree with you m8 i always reply back to a message. It is only manners.

And realistically how many random unsolicited messages do you get a day? And of those, if you didn't reply to them, how many would send you abuse back?

Therein lies one of the main differences between a single male profile on here and a single female one

Still manners cost nothing who are you trying to Impress

Not trying to impress anyone simply being realistic and stating it as it is - take it or leave it, really is that simple.

And you're right manners cost nothing but that works both ways, and would include not expecting a response from a random stranger you happen to have sent an unsolicited message to.

I get plenty and respond

And that's your prerogative, just as it's others' prerogative to choose not to do so - doesn't make you any better mannered than them in this instance though.

I never said I was

And I never said you said you were

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1.why.. simple a no reply is not interested.

2. Do you reply to all junk mail that you get in your post box... its the same as..

3. Usually ends up with some/not all an excuse for abuse.

So, manners I have.. intolerant to abuse. Nil.

So if I don't reply I don't take the chance .. and its my choice who I reply to surely!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Oooo fuck that with a shitty stick. *shudders*

It's hard enough talking to myself, the thought of involving 161 other people plus all their replies to my replies makes my tits itch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oooo fuck that with a shitty stick. *shudders*

It's hard enough talking to myself, the thought of involving 161 other people plus all their replies to my replies makes my tits itch "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Iv never understood how a delete is somehow less rude than "not interested".

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oooooooo new emoje

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooooooo new emoje

Ohhh I love that.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Iv never understood how a delete is somehow less rude than "not interested"."

Summat to do with being acknowledged and gaining inbox access if filters get applied I reckon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Iv never understood how a delete is somehow less rude than "not interested".

Summat to do with being acknowledged and gaining inbox access if filters get applied I reckon "

Ohh good point about the filters, I hadn't thought of that.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oooooooo new emoje

Ohhh I love that."

Me to, although it doesn't look very yawny!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So, you sign in... It says 50 unread messages... Ooohhh you're excited... Mail, at last... Click to open your inbox... Open first one "sorry, not for me"... Ahh that's a shame but never mind... I have 50 more messages! Message 2 to 10 "no thanks" "sorry" "no ta" "nope"... Ok so bit shit but still loads left, I'll be fine... 10 to 49 are exactly the same as the first 10....number 50 "sorry, I do rather like you but have had to stop meeting as I need all my time to answer 100s of messages from random strangers on the Internet for fear of being seen as impolite or rude, but happy fabbing!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooooooo new emoje

Ohhh I love that.

Me to, although it doesn't look very yawny!"

Yeah I wasn't sure what it was at first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't even read the vast majority of the messages I get, never mind read and delete, or read and reply.

Does that make me rude and bad mannered? I think thats just the way I choose to run my FAB account, just as if you choose to reply to every message is the way you like to run your account.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, you sign in... It says 50 unread messages... Ooohhh you're excited... Mail, at last... Click to open your inbox... Open first one "sorry, not for me"... Ahh that's a shame but never mind... I have 50 more messages! Message 2 to 10 "no thanks" "sorry" "no ta" "nope"... Ok so bit shit but still loads left, I'll be fine... 10 to 49 are exactly the same as the first 10....number 50 "sorry, I do rather like you but have had to stop meeting as I need all my time to answer 100s of messages from random strangers on the Internet for fear of being seen as impolite or rude, but happy fabbing!" "

Don't forget the 50 messages you send saying no thanks, invariably lead to more messages saying why not,or fuck you anyway, or let me change your mind etc etc....

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Don't forget the 50 messages you send saying no thanks, invariably lead to more messages saying why not,or fuck you anyway, or let me change your mind etc etc....

Don't forget "your loss"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't forget the 50 messages you send saying no thanks, invariably lead to more messages saying why not,or fuck you anyway, or let me change your mind etc etc....

Don't forget "your loss""

My fav is ' you're loss'

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Don't forget the 50 messages you send saying no thanks, invariably lead to more messages saying why not,or fuck you anyway, or let me change your mind etc etc....

Don't forget "your loss""

Or I wouldn't want to fuck you anyway insert whichever insult you see fit

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

Don't forget the 50 messages you send saying no thanks, invariably lead to more messages saying why not,or fuck you anyway, or let me change your mind etc etc....

Don't forget "your loss"

Or I wouldn't want to fuck you anyway insert whichever insult you see fit

Time-wasting fake!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's meant to be his inbox lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's meant to be his inbox lol"

But I wonder if he would reply to them all saying "thanks for the reply" he isn't rude, remember

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By *ewrocksWoman over a year ago

button moon

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Would be great to see folk respect that the site FAQs state that no reply IS a no thankyou. And that they have no right to dictate how others use their own time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Biased?? Do you know what bias means?

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Nowhere

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

I take that as a no thanks - not interested which as some posts have mentioned is the norm. I do however block those profiles so as to not accidentally message them again. Saves wasting everyone’s time and potentially irritating people with repeat messages.

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

If I tried to reply to very message plus the regular conversations I have on here is need to spend my life on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone reads and deletes ya message without replying, I think that’s answered your question, I’ve seen a single females inbox on here, and it’d be a full time job replying to every inbox...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I tried to reply to very message plus the regular conversations I have on here is need to spend my life on here

Ffs Just stop everything else and spend your life on here, otherwise you're just rude!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Biased?? Do you know what bias means?

I’m as bi as you are in your profile.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Biased?? Do you know what bias means?

I’m as bi as you are in your profile."

Bi-arsed. Wide on of the bumpty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I tried to reply to very message plus the regular conversations I have on here is need to spend my life on here

Ffs Just stop everything else and spend your life on here, otherwise you're just rude!

If you’ll stay with me.

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"If I tried to reply to very message plus the regular conversations I have on here is need to spend my life on here

Ffs Just stop everything else and spend your life on here, otherwise you're just rude!

I know.. how dare I have a life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Biased?? Do you know what bias means?

I’m as bi as you are in your profile.

Bi-arsed. Wide on of the bumpty "

I thought meant your arse prefers both ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do you feel entitled to receive a message back?How is it rude to delete ... what difference would it make if you got a message saying no thank you. It just leads to you asking why and the throwing potential abuse. Read the FAQs...

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By *torm in a G cupWoman over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

If the message is thoughtful and considered then I respond politely when not interested, but I don't bother replying to obviously "cut and paste" messages or very brief (like 3 words or less) messages.

I have had nasty responses back from people who have not coped well with rejection.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

The site would say that the terms and conditions stipulate that no reply should be taken as an indication of no further interest. It could be thought of as good manners to accept the rules we've all agreed to work with as a common courtesy to each other. Expecting differently could be though of as ill mannered.

Fab isn't top priority, especially during a pandemic, where jobs, children, partners, family, health, security and obeying the law come first.

Never expect a reply. You won't be interesting to most people, especially as they get to know you. More so if they know you have unrealistic expectations or demands

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a male I’m not exactly inundated with messages so it’s much easier to send a polite message in return.

Not sure I could do the same if I was swamped x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The site would say that the terms and conditions stipulate that no reply should be taken as an indication of no further interest. It could be thought of as good manners to accept the rules we've all agreed to work with as a common courtesy to each other. Expecting differently could be though of as ill mannered.

Fab isn't top priority, especially during a pandemic, where jobs, children, partners, family, health, security and obeying the law come first.

Never expect a reply. You won't be interesting to most people, especially as they get to know you. More so if they know you have unrealistic expectations or demands "

I dont think most people have unrealistic expectations. Most just expect to meet like minded folk for NSA sex, thats not unrealistic in my opinion but i do take your point about life priorities etc.

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By *orksRockerMan over a year ago

Bradford

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

It's called a sense of entitlement because of a bruised ego...

Really need to think about about things properly before posting.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS over a year ago

Bedford

Poor chap, I know frustrating, politeness is a rare commodity these days in interweb land.

They don't mean to be rude, just msgs take time when there's like zillions.

I like to think if someone doesn't msg me back it's down to them, I don't expect anything so it isn't a problem.

One day you'll hit the jackpot and your inbox will be overflowing.

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By *eandHim2019Couple over a year ago

preston

When I reply not interested it seems to mean keep on talking and send me more messages. So I've stopped and it's delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

If you’ve time to write 400 replies a day or however many mails some single females get, you’ve too much time on your hands.

Nothing gets the point across quicker than a delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Amen!!!

am I being rude?no,I dont think so!

Don't want to get abused for saying,sorry your not my type.

Coz thats exactly what happened few times in past.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

Amen!!!

am I being rude?no,I dont think so!

Don't want to get abused for saying,sorry your not my type.

Coz thats exactly what happened few times in past."
very true i used to have a seperate account with an ex partner and i tried to be nice and reply to everyone even tho the profile said not looking for single men and the amount of lads who took it personaly and started giving out shit was a joke i am now on just as a single man and i read every profile before i send a message and if i dont get a reply then im obviously not there type and it ends there fab should do more about the abuse on this site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

75 posts on your thread op and not one reply from you to a post so is that lacking in manners on your part or in your words are YOU being rude!!!!

I thought not.

FAQ,s No reply= no thank you.

We reply to each and every message because we have time but a large percentage really don’t deserve a reply in my option.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

You’ve not asked for profile advice so I can’t comment on it, but when people get a message they will look at your profile first before looking at the message, the answer maybe there somewhere.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Once you reply to someone, they can always get around your message filters. If we replied "no thanks" to everyone it would essentially make filters virtually useless in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the people would the manners to reply if they got 5-10 messages. But a lot of women get 300+ messages an hour.

I guess the problem is during a ‘bulk delete’ whether your message has been deleted because there’s no interest or it’s been deleted because there’s too many messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why does written rejection matter so much

Do you need an inbox full of Not interested?

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Would be great if you men used your manners read profiles .. searched forums and Q&A before making assumptions we are rude for not replying to you .... starting to get really old this

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Please excuse if I come across rude that’s just me.

Nah. I’m not bothered actually. I didn’t ask for your message I just didn’t filter you out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Just had a prime example. Got a fairly standard but original mail.....

Just replied "good morning and thanks for your mail. Unfortunately you aren't for me. You look lovely, but, alas, not the type of guy I'm usually attracted to. I wish you all the best in your search and happy, safe fabbing! X"

What do I get back??

"Listen you ugly slag, I wouldn't fuck you if my life depended on it. Blocked, c*nt"

And then you can see why most of us delete and font reply! You lose if you do, you lose if you don't!

The ladies never asked for your mail, so why on earth you'd expect the ladies to either take their time up by replying, or to open themselves up to abuse, like that above, you really have not got a clue as to how this place works!! Nobody owes you anything and to 'demand' a reply is not going to do you any favours whatsoever.... Makes you come across as pig-headed and rude, if you want my opinion!

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By *rivateparts!Man over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

That's why I only message friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

Just had a prime example. Got a fairly standard but original mail.....

What do I get back??

"Listen you ugly slag, I wouldn't fuck you if my life depended on it. Blocked, c*nt"

And then you can see why most of us delete and font reply! You lose if you do, you lose if you don't!

It’s rather frustrating when men turn like that, zero respect & you’ve obviously dodge a bullet.

People like that don’t make it any easier for other men on here

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

How rude of the OP not to reply to every answer on his thread, or even one of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

Would be great if you men used your manners read profiles .. searched forums and Q&A before making assumptions we are rude for not replying to you .... starting to get really old this

this was old 10 years ago

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

Wow how rude of the op to make this post and then not even bother to reply to it yet he expects us to reply to his unsolicited mail lol .... oh and op maybe wemon don't like the fact your cheating on here and openly admit it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do you mean by bias op

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By *opcat89Man over a year ago

london

Is it a bit ironic to 'demand' manners from someone that you've randomly messaged/interrupted?

If someone I don't know randomly knocks my front door at 3am and asks to come in for a chat, and they have the nerve to demand I show them manners.... they certainly wouldn't receive a polite and well mannered reply!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Personally I'm amazed how many replies there are here to a question asked daily! That's some real manners, so many people taking the time to set it out...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would seem that way OP and it is frustrating. However, it is also hurtful for them to receive replies that are plain rude and nasty in return when they have taken the time to reply with a polite ‘no, thank you.’ Even if you are the polite one who would not have sent an abusive reply to it, receiving even one is extremely hurtful.

I’ve seen such a case myself, where the man took his rejection into the Forum and voiced it here. It was extremely rude, very unpleasant and that is only one man’s venomous retort. Imagine having replies like that, which are hidden from us, on a regular basis.

I hope that helps you understand why they appear to be rude. They aren’t because under normal circumstances, they wouldn’t dream of ignoring someone who has spoken politely to them. It’s to save time because they simply can’t reply to everyone and it is certainly to protect themselves from lessons learnt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow how rude of the op to make this post and then not even bother to reply to it yet he expects us to reply to his unsolicited mail lol .... oh and op maybe wemon don't like the fact your cheating on here and openly admit it

This 100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sort of get your frustration OP but the rules of social etiquette are different on here as many posters have pointed out. No answer simply does mean no thanks. If you can deal with that, you’ll be much happier on here.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Awww, you've all been so lovely to the OP considering he dumped his load and bugged off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit rude you haven’t replied to the comments on this thread Op, slightly ironic don’t you think ?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Bit rude you haven’t replied to the comments on this thread Op, slightly ironic don’t you think ? "

I think his status "new day new beginning" is code for "sod that thread, deny all knowledge"!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bit rude you haven’t replied to the comments on this thread Op, slightly ironic don’t you think ?

I think his status "new day new beginning" is code for "sod that thread, deny all knowledge"!"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think he may not have known about Forum etiquette. I suspect he thought of it as a site where we leave opinions for others to read and not as a social place where we have conversations and discuss issues. Seems that way, doesn’t it?

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By *ermite12ukMan over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Personally, I prefer when they don't reply. As the next time I decide I like their profile, and send them a message. FAB comes up with a warning message. Something along the lines of: You wasted your time once. Are you dat stoopid, to waste it again?

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"I think he may not have known about Forum etiquette. I suspect he thought of it as a site where we leave opinions for others to read and not as a social place where we have conversations and discuss issues. Seems that way, doesn’t it?

Shall we start some scandalous rumours in his absence? Does he have big dinners? Does he pee on the seat? Was Ringo his favourite Beatle?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I sort of get your frustration OP but the rules of social etiquette are different on here as many posters have pointed out. No answer simply does mean no thanks. If you can deal with that, you’ll be much happier on here.

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i have commented earlier about it and the amount of guys who start calling names is pathetic but i will give one thing about bad manners on this site a message opened and deleted means not interested atleast that way the perso can say you have seen it and disregarded it but the horrible people are the ones who dont even open the message you dont even have to the read the message but by clicking it open and deleting itatleast the guy would have felt somerhing for atleast 5 minutes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have commented earlier about it and the amount of guys who start calling names is pathetic but i will give one thing about bad manners on this site a message opened and deleted means not interested atleast that way the perso can say you have seen it and disregarded it but the horrible people are the ones who dont even open the message you dont even have to the read the message but by clicking it open and deleting itatleast the guy would have felt somerhing for atleast 5 minutes "

Why does somebody have to open a message, it's there call in there freedom to do what ever they want, it's only your sense of ENTITLEMENT that dictates, somebody has to read a message

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

106 comments that’s 106 replies to each and every comment. Waste of time Op ?

It’s a bit hypocritical if you don’t practice what you preach

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

I read them, put them back on unread then delete

if I'm not interested then I'm not messaging back, once you engage in a convo with some they don't back off so yeah I'd rather be rude than have an inbox full of unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shall we start some scandalous rumours in his absence? Does he have big dinners? Does he pee on the seat? Was Ringo his favourite Beatle?

. You twisted fucka!

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By *exy4youxxWoman over a year ago

Pontefract

I don't open some of my messages and just delete them because you get a few of the words before even opening and most of the time get all the message as it's so short.

You can get a good idea how it's going to go .... also I state in my profile first thing I do before reading a message is look at your profile... it gives me an insight to how you may be as a person if we share same interests etc and if I decide he's not for me then message gets deleted and I don't reply... to me sorry it's same as no reply not read means not intersted hope that makes sense lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

I'd it bad manners to make demands of how people use their time on here? I think so.

If they don't reply they aren't interested. Suck it up buttercup.

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

I think its bad manners too start a thread and not engage with your audience.. think the op maybe knows how it feels to not have the time to reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not saying reply to the messages but if they see unread they try again where as if u read the message dont reply and delete they get the message but in a decent way you can then block them but leaving people hanging is just a way of making them feel shite

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Im not saying reply to the messages but if they see unread they try again where as if u read the message dont reply and delete they get the message but in a decent way you can then block them but leaving people hanging is just a way of making them feel shite "

So how is multiple rejection messages going to make them feel any better?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Per the site FAQ, delete without reply means no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There not rejection messages are they reading it deleting it and blocking is a nice way to show your not interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not interested :0)

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple over a year ago

Bexley

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

It would be real manners if guys just read profiles before sending their one line messages and cock shots. I'm guessing you don't get loads of messages every day from people who aren't at all what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I deliberately didn't read the OP, but let me guess... this is a thread about people not responding

Am I right?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"There not rejection messages are they reading it deleting it and blocking is a nice way to show your not interested "

No reply, is a good way to show you’re not interested and also not get a follow up message asking why ?

You have a right to deal with your messages any way you choose, but that means so does everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Per the site FAQ, delete without reply means no thank you."
but even if people did delete it would show people just read messages then click back as unread and the other guy is left wondering if they just delet it then they know and if they dont know after that they should be blocked

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

How is it leaving people hanging to leave a message unread? If it is it suggests a sense of entitlement on the part of the sender that any kind of response (either reply or read/delete) is expected.

Perhaps if the senders of messages simply accepted that once sent they *may* hear nothing further but if they do it's a bonus then everyone would be a lot happier - and those guys that do get hung up on whether their message was even read should start deleting their sent mail as soon as they send it which takes a lot of the angst out of things.

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By *undayTarkaMan over a year ago

South West and North West

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

It's no different from messaging someone after not reading their profile, still kinda rude, oh and the men that copy and paste the same message, even sending the same message weeks later, still pasted!! comical

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Do you reply to every bit of unsolicited junk mail that drops through your letterbox saying thanks but no thanks or do they go unanswered straight into your bin

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

There are a dozen ways to interpret every vague, poorly implemented feature on this site. Don't decide other peoples interpretations based on your own.

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

And lets face it OP, a guy who spits their dummy out over the simplest of things, is a guy that most women on here wouldn't want to meet

Happy Fabbing.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Per the site FAQ, delete without reply means no thank you.but even if people did delete it would show people just read messages then click back as unread and the other guy is left wondering if they just delet it then they know and if they dont know after that they should be blocked "

You know that a message that says "HEY WAN FUCK?" is fully readable in the message preview? Why would you even bother opening it, you've already read all of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only time it's unaccptable and rude ,is when you have Been chatting for a while , going great guns then you get ghosted , . I think a little not interested message then , and you can both block and move on :0) .

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS over a year ago

Dudley

I always reply to most messages, sometimes the abuse I get is unreal, it’s like they think that no one else messages me, then sometimes when you say not interested I get blocked which don’t bother me in the slightest, I’ve even been called racist by certain elements of society for saying I’m not interested....... guess there’s lots of blokes on here with very fragile egos who find it very difficult to handle rejection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to try and reply. Even if it was a thanks but no thanks……but some, and when I say some I mean 99 percent of people, then take this ‘thanks but no thanks’ reply as something to cling on too, and keep messaging, and then I’m still apparently rude for not replying even after I’ve said no. You can’t win. So I delete. The sense of entitlement on here can be overwhelming. I don’t owe anyone a reply and the site would be a better place if this was accepted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I delete unread... Why should I read their messages if they couldn't be arsed to read my profile, beforehand

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

Just a heads up op.. as I have clicked the green arrow.. you fab journey isn’t going to be pleasant if all you do is moan about others!!

Work on yourself maybe

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

Just a heads up op.. as I have clicked the green arrow.. you fab journey isn’t going to be pleasant if all you do is moan about others!!

Work on yourself maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I click on someone’s profile first, if I can see they aren’t for me, why read the message. It’s a waste of my time, and if I’m not interested in the sender, then what’s the point anyway?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

How rude are you ? You don't get what you want so you label people as being without manners.

Well pass me your good manners book so I can see where that idea originated.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

What do you suggest for when a polite no thank you response is sent and the bloke then gets all needy and insistent, eventually some not all get arsey and abusive..?

If not wanting to be messaged three times in as many days by someone who has been let known it ain't happening indicates bias then yup..

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Just a heads up op.. as I have clicked the green arrow.. you fab journey isn’t going to be pleasant if all you do is moan about others!!

Work on yourself maybe

Someone seems to everyone else to do all the work...

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Don't have the time to do that for every message I get.

It would be great if men didn't feel so entitled.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Wish I could just read and delete 90% of forum posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

Wish I could just read and delete 90% of forum posts "

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By *RSTCouple over a year ago

S. Northants

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Unfortunately, some people latch onto a reply (even saying, "sorry, not for us, thanks for the message") and think they can then pester you.

If it's clear someone hasn't made the effort in reading the profile, why should we make the effort to say no thanks? Some profiles would need to employ an assistant and not have time for the swinging.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias."

Oh, I think I just worked out why you perceive them to be bias. The attached thing. Yeah.

Nah.

I don't think you've much leverage to stone throw and question manners when morals aren't even on your agenda.

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

"It would be great to see people using manners and replying back with 'not interested in stead of read and delete as this makes them out to be rude and bias.

Oh, I think I just worked out why you perceive them to be bias. The attached thing. Yeah.

Nah.

I don't think you've much leverage to stone throw and question manners when morals aren't even on your agenda."

This

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By *nfin8yWoman over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

As individuals we each have our own expectations and criteria regarding how we manage our profiles and how we engage (or not) with other people on here. Fab is a very small part of my life and I manage my time here how best works for me. That may not fit with your personal definition of politeness and expectations OP but I make my own choices and I’m not here to try to manage your feelings about the choices I do make.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

...and there he was...gone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...and there he was...gone."

But never ever forgotten!!!!!!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"...and there he was...gone.

But never ever forgotten!!!!!!

Oh and only 29 posts until death too. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

had he been here long?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was it something we said

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By *angero3aMan over a year ago

swords

yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing"

I suggest you start your own thread and we'll start all this from scratch!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing"

With the amount of messages you get in a day, that’s probably easy enough. Now try being a female on here.

Seriously though, haven’t you read any of this thread?

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing"

Instead of ignoring every single post since the original one, try reading a few replies.

OR...type 'manners'in the search box.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing

I suggest you start your own thread and we'll start all this from scratch!"

NOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing

I suggest you start your own thread and we'll start all this from scratch!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s a shame. I hope he’s all right.

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

Not another manners thread. Replying to add to the post count to get this closed haha

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Not another manners thread. Replying to add to the post count to get this closed haha"

Well that's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

women just dont get the time

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By *ixen-XWoman over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

Not only do single women get hundreds of messages but there is also a limit on the number of messages you can send a day even as a site supporter ... I had alot of time on my hands and was polite replying to every message once ... so much so that I had exceeded my message limit that day and yes even as a site supporter couldn't send any more messages out until the following day ... lu ky for me it was 3 minutes to midnight so I didn't have to wait long

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"yes agree reply with no thank you would be nice most just delete manners cost nothing"

Joe many messages do you send out in a day to different women? Now let's say 90% aren't interested. How many no thank you replies would that be and how will they make you feel about yourself?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

How not Joe.... I don't know who Joe is

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

"Not another manners thread. Replying to add to the post count to get this closed haha

Well that's just rude. "

I was doing you girls a favour! You have enough trouble with time from all the messages that I thought one extra thread closing would help!!!

Cant win

Lol

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Not another manners thread. Replying to add to the post count to get this closed haha

Well that's just rude.

I was doing you girls a favour! You have enough trouble with time from all the messages that I thought one extra thread closing would help!!!

Cant win

Lol"

Me girls? Only very occasionally on a Friday night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who was the OP?

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Who was the OP? "

Your boyfriend

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend "

You scared the OP of fabs

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend

You scared the OP of fabs

No you did

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend "

* yore

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend

* yore"

Yawn

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By *host63Man over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

It does wear you down I admit.

If I don't get a reply or if my message is read and deleted I put them on my blocked list.

I won't waste my time or e ergy getting upset about it because they are not worth it

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It does wear you down I admit.

If I don't get a reply or if my message is read and deleted I put them on my blocked list.

I won't waste my time or e ergy getting upset about it because they are not worth it"

This

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend

* yore

Yawn "

* yaw

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend

* yore

Yawn

* yaw"

*bored

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Who was the OP?

Your boyfriend

* yore

Yawn

* yaw

*bored"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies you let us all down.

It appears that as none of you replied yes come fuck me, the OP has left the building.

PS Takes more than that to get rid of me though, used to it.

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