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So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing? |
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"I hope you told them to go fuck themselves for being so rude?
Lu  "
Lol nope. I class myself as an ugly fucker so took it as a compliment haha
It was my friends that told me he shouldn’t have said it  |
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over a year ago
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"I hope you told them to go fuck themselves for being so rude?
Lu
Lol nope. I class myself as an ugly fucker so took it as a compliment haha
It was my friends that told me he shouldn’t have said it "
It's fucking rude!
Not to mention bullshit! We're all attractive to some.
No one gets to decide how attractive you are, only how attractive THEY find you...
Assholes everywhere!
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""You are perfect. Only if you were black!" 
If you was black? That’s a strange one haha
Didn’t he know you was white before meeting him?  "
Haha he knew. It was at uni. Not fab. |
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"Someone once told me I looked like Meghan Markle. The photo taken a day? Maybe two? After she's given birth. So basically a mixed race woman who has just given birth. Charming."
Do you just get told you look like every woman with remotely the same colouring at you?
I have a friend who is mixed race and she often mentions how people constantly tell her she looks like anyone basically with similar skin and hair colour...blows my mind!
Side note...Megan Markle is pretty....youre far sexier 
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"Many years ago when I hadn’t been to New York and I mejtioned I wanted to go... someone I was chatting online (American) said- “you should go to The Bronx- lots of your kind there...” lol "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone once told me I looked like Meghan Markle. The photo taken a day? Maybe two? After she's given birth. So basically a mixed race woman who has just given birth. Charming.
Do you just get told you look like every woman with remotely the same colouring at you?
I have a friend who is mixed race and she often mentions how people constantly tell her she looks like anyone basically with similar skin and hair colour...blows my mind!
Side note...Megan Markle is pretty....youre far sexier
Lu "
Oh Lu! You're back and as flirty as ever. Thank you, you always know how to make me blush.
Yes, I've been told I look like every mixed race woman that's vaguely famous at some point in my life. I think perhaps we all blur into one golden skinned goddess and we're not that indistinguishable?  It's ridiculous really, my sister and I are polar opposites in looks, facial features everything and yet people say we look so similar.  |
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"Someone once told me I looked like Meghan Markle. The photo taken a day? Maybe two? After she's given birth. So basically a mixed race woman who has just given birth. Charming."
Regardless of the situation. Meghan is fffiiittt!!! Definitely a compliment x |
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Do you just get told you look like every woman with remotely the same colouring at you?
I have a friend who is mixed race and she often mentions how people constantly tell her she looks like anyone basically with similar skin and hair colour...blows my mind! "
That happens to me too!
Heard everything from Brad Pitt to George Clooney!! |
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From the owner of a club who happened to be standing outside as I approached:
"When I saw you crossing the road I thought you were a real woman". 
Hmmm. I wasn't sure how to take it to be honest. Never shared this with anyone before. |
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On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
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"Just been to doctors and the receptionist checked my temperature on the way in and said "your not dead" which I took as a compliment "
I had a woman say that to me after she’d been riding me......ok I’ll get my coat, just ruined the thread haha |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone once told me I looked like Meghan Markle. The photo taken a day? Maybe two? After she's given birth. So basically a mixed race woman who has just given birth. Charming.
Regardless of the situation. Meghan is fffiiittt!!! Definitely a compliment x"
No chipolata, no. It's not. |
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"'oi bitch, message me when you're a size 10'  Px
obviously took it negatively.. but on the plus side, at least he has faith in me that I'll get to that size eventually   "
Haha loving the positivity!!!
That’s why I’ll never tell a woman “I love your curves”. I do, but I also love my balls and don’t want them cut off in the middle of the night |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
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“Watch out boy she’ll chew you up” x |
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"Someone once told me I looked like Meghan Markle. The photo taken a day? Maybe two? After she's given birth. So basically a mixed race woman who has just given birth. Charming.
Regardless of the situation. Meghan is fffiiittt!!! Definitely a compliment x
No chipolata, no. It's not. "
I beg to differ
Here’s the general room of thumb:
Would I shag Meghan? Yes
Would I shag her 2 days after giving birth, no, I’d wait till her foof healed and the shag her
So the consensus is she’s fit so it’s a compliment haha |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
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is that what that means I get that quite a lot I did win man eater of the year at school now it all makes sense |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
is that what that means I get that quite a lot I did win man eater of the year at school now it all makes sense "
At school? I didn’t even have my first kiss until the day before my 18th birthday  |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?"
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me! |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
is that what that means I get that quite a lot I did win man eater of the year at school now it all makes sense
At school? I didn’t even have my first kiss until the day before my 18th birthday "
I didn’t go any further than kissing neither I was really a good girl  |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me! "
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me. |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
is that what that means I get that quite a lot I did win man eater of the year at school now it all makes sense
At school? I didn’t even have my first kiss until the day before my 18th birthday
I didn’t go any further than kissing neither I was really a good girl "
No further than kissing? I didn’t even get a kiss! |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
“Watch out boy she’ll chew you up” x"
cheeky sod! xx |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me. "
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?"
Why do you look different in all your photos.. some guy said to me the other day 
The difference between make up and no make up |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me.
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here "
This was the day I cemented that I’m an ugly fucker! Always suspected it before lol |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
Why do you look different in all your photos.. some guy said to me the other day
The difference between make up and no make up "
Haha and how did you take that? |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
is that what that means I get that quite a lot I did win man eater of the year at school now it all makes sense "
Ahahaaaa excellent!
... but yeh I think it does a bit
- it’s hugely better than being too ... erm
... still though right lol |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me.
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here
This was the day I cemented that I’m an ugly fucker! Always suspected it before lol"
With you on that. Some of this with me happened a few years back now and some pretty recently too. So confidence is shot to shit now pretty much I'll be honest |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
Why do you look different in all your photos.. some guy said to me the other day
The difference between make up and no make up
Haha and how did you take that?"
Asked all my friends to look and xheck I wasn’t being a catfish |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
is that what that means I get that quite a lot I did win man eater of the year at school now it all makes sense
At school? I didn’t even have my first kiss until the day before my 18th birthday "
I was even sadder than that - I was 21 and and near the end of my year out from uni
The one time a kiss looked as though it might have been potentially happening, at a party when I was about 15, I went and skulked in the garden for an hour or so until the danger passed
I'm not much less awkward now, unfortunately |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
Why do you look different in all your photos.. some guy said to me the other day
The difference between make up and no make up
Haha and how did you take that?
Asked all my friends to look and xheck I wasn’t being a catfish "
I checked  |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me.
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here
This was the day I cemented that I’m an ugly fucker! Always suspected it before lol
With you on that. Some of this with me happened a few years back now and some pretty recently too. So confidence is shot to shit now pretty much I'll be honest "
Wanna help me form “ugly fuckers anonymous”?
First meeting of UFA...... |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me.
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here
This was the day I cemented that I’m an ugly fucker! Always suspected it before lol
With you on that. Some of this with me happened a few years back now and some pretty recently too. So confidence is shot to shit now pretty much I'll be honest
Wanna help me form “ugly fuckers anonymous”?
First meeting of UFA......"
Nit another meeting I gotta attend |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
Why do you look different in all your photos.. some guy said to me the other day
The difference between make up and no make up
Haha and how did you take that?
Asked all my friends to look and xheck I wasn’t being a catfish
I checked "
Yes you did my lovely  |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me.
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here
This was the day I cemented that I’m an ugly fucker! Always suspected it before lol
With you on that. Some of this with me happened a few years back now and some pretty recently too. So confidence is shot to shit now pretty much I'll be honest
Wanna help me form “ugly fuckers anonymous”?
First meeting of UFA......"
Yeah fuck it lets go! |
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"That I generally look unapproachable and grumpy.
I replied with that’s generally the look I go for "
On 9/11 pics you’re smiling - maybe need to try harder if you’re going for the Mean & Moody look? xx |
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"You're a very clever girl because you know to hide your intelligence and men don't like intelligent women". This was meant as a compliment and the giver had no clue what a douche he was being.
"Your nose looks like it's trying to escape from your face". This was someone supposedly just making an observation. |
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“You’re one of the better things to have come out of Fab”
Now I wasn’t that flattered by the “one of” , not that flattering and he could have lied and not mentioned the others ... but the “better” got me.
Better ? As not ... as bad as the rest ???
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"I get you look good for your age which pisses me off a bit. Dunno why but it just does "
It does me too nobody ever says that to young women. Basically they're saying "you look good *despite* your age" |
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Comparing me to a wealthy mutual friend someone told me "you could look good if you had money"
Another friend on noticing my new jacket said "oh I heard they were coming back into fashion" in a tone of voice that implied it was a bad move |
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"I’m just terrified that something I’ve said in the past is going to turn up here
(Not including you _irty desires cause when I said that, I meant that sincerely and in a nice way haha)"
I know am just joking with you lol |
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I got told you’re not as dumb as you look! He said it was a joke and I replied that I was glad I'd exceeded his expectations on my flipping intelligence. |
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"I get you look good for your age which pisses me off a bit. Dunno why but it just does
It does me too nobody ever says that to young women. Basically they're saying "you look good *despite* your age" "
Exactly! |
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"I get you look good for your age which pisses me off a bit. Dunno why but it just does
It does me too nobody ever says that to young women. Basically they're saying "you look good *despite* your age"
Exactly! "
They do mean it as a compliment but it is rather clumsy. Another is "you look better than women half your age" that's just insulting my intelligence. |
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"I get you look good for your age which pisses me off a bit. Dunno why but it just does
It does me too nobody ever says that to young women. Basically they're saying "you look good *despite* your age"
Exactly!
They do mean it as a compliment but it is rather clumsy. Another is "you look better than women half your age" that's just insulting my intelligence. "
Haha yes that too. I don’t like it at all
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"Physio to trainee as I stood almost naked and they looked at my stance......" You can tell he 'used' to work out. "
Hahahahahahahaha I shouldn't be laughing!
I've done it before when someone has stripped off and I've burst out laughing! it was all good when I told them why ... (when I could speak) |
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"Had this said a few times in different variations...
"I don't usually go for girls as big as you!"
I'm still not sure how to take it! "
They say a punch in the face often offends, but in this case I feel it would be called for. |
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"Fat birds don't usually excite me but something about you lol x
Aah you've had that one too! What is wrong with people "
Iv had similar.
You would be really pretty if you lost a bit of weight! |
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"Fat birds don't usually excite me but something about you lol x
Aah you've had that one too! What is wrong with people
Iv had similar.
You would be really pretty if you lost a bit of weight!"
Yep! That one too! "You're really pretty but could do with losing some weight!" |
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"Being told...you have a nice personality.....translates to your an ugly fucker but someone might like to chat with you....just
Lol x"
I hear ya on that one brother |
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"Fat birds don't usually excite me but something about you lol x
Aah you've had that one too! What is wrong with people
Iv had similar.
You would be really pretty if you lost a bit of weight!
Yep! That one too! "You're really pretty but could do with losing some weight!" "
It's laughable in a sad way lol x |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?"
Do you think it was meant good or bad? |
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"The very first time I took part in Face pic Friday I was told I would be hotter if I wasn't Irish.
Really! What is wrong with people. "
By a couple right here in the lounge. I didn't know how to take it because of the connotations but I got over it. |
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Once had a boyfriend tell me I'd be perfect if I had bigger boobs
On here a guy saying he liked an older lady. I mean I know I'm not a spring chicken but still!! |
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"Fat birds don't usually excite me but something about you lol x
Aah you've had that one too! What is wrong with people
Iv had similar.
You would be really pretty if you lost a bit of weight!"
I've had this.. too often to count. Least it isn't just me!! |
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"The very first time I took part in Face pic Friday I was told I would be hotter if I wasn't Irish.
Really! What is wrong with people.
By a couple right here in the lounge. I didn't know how to take it because of the connotations but I got over it. "
That's the most random comment ever. Some people have no manners |
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My most common ones are;
"For a big girl, you've got small boobs" - they're not THAT small
"Youre pretty but you'd be SO much prettier if you lost weight" -
"You look better with _____ coloured hair" - Apologies I didn't get your opinion first
When I first joined these comments hit me hard and it knocked my confidence so much. Now? I don't really care - we can't be for everyone and if people want to make it known and be rude, then that just shows they were never good enough for you in the first place. |
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"On a verification last time we were on someone put - She knows exactly what she wants and how to get it ... made me feel like a man eater
I’m actually quite shy till I get going lol x
“Watch out boy she’ll chew you up” x
cheeky sod! xx"
Xx |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?"
Cheeky bastards!
I get told 'you look good for your age" |
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I always find it a bit weird when people say I look better than my pictures...I'm not sure if they're just blowing smoke up my arse or if I've accidentally activated the gargoyle filter on my pictures |
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"My most common ones are;
"For a big girl, you've got small boobs" - they're not THAT small
"Youre pretty but you'd be SO much prettier if you lost weight" -
"You look better with _____ coloured hair" - Apologies I didn't get your opinion first
When I first joined these comments hit me hard and it knocked my confidence so much. Now? I don't really care - we can't be for everyone and if people want to make it known and be rude, then that just shows they were never good enough for you in the first place."
Most men who say this stuff are normally to scared to ask you out because you would say no...so they attack first.... |
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"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?
At least you got "average" my friend. I've had a whole lot worse said to me!
Oh so have I!
Once went on a tinder date. Meeting at a vanilla club. I turned up early. She eventually gets there 15 mins late, sees me, walks over to the bouncer and told him I was stalking her and asked him to not let me in the club
True story.
That was a low point for me.
That's awful. Mines always been on here. Had my fair share of shit in messages off women and couples. And I mean nasty. To the point of blows all your confidence away and then actually wonder to myself what the hell am I doing here "
Crikey I wouldn’t of thought you would court that sort of abuse being the nice guy you are. You need to change who you chat with or block the shit conversations! |
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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago
trouble most likely, or creating it :) |
"So after yesterday’s fun where I was described as being “only just above slightly average looking”, tell me something someone has said to you where you’ve not known whether to take it as they meant it in a good or bad way?
Did you take it as a good or bad thing?"
I got told I'm quite fit for a fat bird.. I told him to jog on |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
9 times out of 10 my accent will be mistaken as Canadian and not American.
In the past when i've asked why i've been answered with "your vocabulary is too good to be an American's"
Didn't know how to take that; as compliment or insult |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After posting today's pic, someone messaged me to say I look better in clothes than naked. I was like "um, thanks?" Lol
I get told that a lot too actually "
I mean, it was nice, obviously I want to look nice in clothes, but it was the comparison that was a little unnecessary. He could have just said I looked nice |
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"9 times out of 10 my accent will be mistaken as Canadian and not American.
In the past when i've asked why i've been answered with "your vocabulary is too good to be an American's"
Didn't know how to take that; as compliment or insult "
I had no idea you were American lol |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"After posting today's pic, someone messaged me to say I look better in clothes than naked. I was like "um, thanks?" Lol
I get told that a lot too actually
I mean, it was nice, obviously I want to look nice in clothes, but it was the comparison that was a little unnecessary. He could have just said I looked nice "
I know I don’t get why they think that is a compliment maybe I just overthink it too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My most common ones are;
"For a big girl, you've got small boobs" - they're not THAT small
"Youre pretty but you'd be SO much prettier if you lost weight" -
"You look better with _____ coloured hair" - Apologies I didn't get your opinion first
When I first joined these comments hit me hard and it knocked my confidence so much. Now? I don't really care - we can't be for everyone and if people want to make it known and be rude, then that just shows they were never good enough for you in the first place.
Most men who say this stuff are normally to scared to ask you out because you would say no...so they attack first...."
Which is so dumb cause I'm actually really nice |
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