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By *gent Coulson OP Man
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
On the back of the secret couples thread.
There is a huge amount of flirting in the forums, do you use that as a guage that someone is interested in you, or just as playful banter.
Have you followed through with a pm to say the interest is reciprocate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a new thread coming off mine, it's a good discussion area tbh.
For me, it's banter unless it becomes a PM and they tell you explicitly
That's my take on it anyway x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a new thread coming off mine, it's a good discussion area tbh.
For me, it's banter unless it becomes a PM and they tell you explicitly
That's my take on it anyway x "
Or you PM them yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just here to cause some laughter and confusion..
Love your new pic btw, fabbed it earlier  x "
Thanks, lovely!  xx I am very pleased with how it turned out. X |
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In the past when I flirted, on the forum it was just friendly banter anything more was always done via PM.
It did used to make me laugh when you’d receive messages ‘oh am I stepping on your toes’ or alike because of how they’d read a comment in the forum. Just shows others can read too much into words written and that people can just be friends
The joys of the forum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't flirt often but I know it's nothing more than banter on the forums, mostly because of distance, or age range etc and that's fine. It's only a bit of fun and that's what I treat it as  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its fab, it's all got to be taken with a pinch of Salt, until actually at the meet, ppl.blow hot n cold, the grass seems greener on the other side of the fence, only cause there's more shit on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly?
I tend to avoid anyone who flirts with me in the forums unless I already know them.
I love the forums but I have no interest in all the personal drama that goes on...and if you get too close to forumites you eventually get dragged into it all...not my circus, not my monkeys. 
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
They would need to actually tell me they were interested. Like “proper” interested.
Else I’d just think they were being friendly or something.
I’m not good at noticing who flirts with who on the forums either unless it’s mega obvious.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope. as i said the other day on one of the threads..fear of rejection!  Px "
Serous Quack!! Can't let fear take over, if rejected turn round to there lose thats what I do |
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Having seen and been on the receiving end of the behind the scenes stuff, I don't think I flirt that much at all and tend not to flirt with those others flirt with.
It doesn't feel as nasty and "in the air" now people have either left or not been posting but I wouldn't actually know anymore. I'm sure it'll be chewable once restrictions lift and socials start happening again. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Have never really flirted on the forums, and am too blind to notice I've been flirted with unless it's totally in my face - so anything on the forums has never been anything more than a gauge of initial mutual interest I'm chatting directly before taking it to PM where connections and chemistry have been truly established. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I possibly flirt without knowing I'm flirting but I don't do flirty flirting anyway.
If someone flirts with me? Probably got no idea unless I get a PM as well and then not sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know if i am being flirted with in real life, let alone through text without seeing facial expressions, body language ect
Unless its the obvious "You have nice legs, wanna fuck". But i probably wouldnt consider that flirting anyway |
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I never take it seriously, especially from someone on the forums if they are flirting/bantering with lots of others even if they do PM. Who's to say they aren't pm-ing everyone.
Non formites on the other hand are a totally different barrel of fish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never take it seriously, especially from someone on the forums if they are flirting/bantering with lots of others even if they do PM. Who's to say they aren't pm-ing everyone.
Non formites on the other hand are a totally different barrel of fish x"
I never flirt on the forums always in PM  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"I never take it seriously, especially from someone on the forums if they are flirting/bantering with lots of others even if they do PM. Who's to say they aren't pm-ing everyone.
Non formites on the other hand are a totally different barrel of fish x"
Would it matter if they were interested in more than one person from the forums? |
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"I never take it seriously, especially from someone on the forums if they are flirting/bantering with lots of others even if they do PM. Who's to say they aren't pm-ing everyone.
Non formites on the other hand are a totally different barrel of fish x
Would it matter if they were interested in more than one person from the forums?"
Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never take it seriously, especially from someone on the forums if they are flirting/bantering with lots of others even if they do PM. Who's to say they aren't pm-ing everyone.
Non formites on the other hand are a totally different barrel of fish x
Would it matter if they were interested in more than one person from the forums?
Yes."
So would you step away from the forums if you met someone from the forums?
I probably would if they asked me to step away. |
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"I never take it seriously, especially from someone on the forums if they are flirting/bantering with lots of others even if they do PM. Who's to say they aren't pm-ing everyone.
Non formites on the other hand are a totally different barrel of fish x
Would it matter if they were interested in more than one person from the forums?
Yes.
So would you step away from the forums if you met someone from the forums?
I probably would if they asked me to step away. "
It depends on a few things but all previous times have been with non forum users x |
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"On the back of the secret couples thread.
There is a huge amount of flirting in the forums, do you use that as a guage that someone is interested in you, or just as playful banter.
Have you followed through with a pm to say the interest is reciprocate "
Mines always playful banter when it’s public. Those that get the private messages are the special ones I keep that side private x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wayyyyy too many people into the art of top-notch lamp post pissing when it comes to dealing with flirting on the forums. Rather stay away from all that personal politics stuff! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the back of the secret couples thread.
There is a huge amount of flirting in the forums, do you use that as a guage that someone is interested in you, or just as playful banter.
Have you followed through with a pm to say the interest is reciprocate
Mines always playful banter when it’s public. Those that get the private messages are the special ones I keep that side private x"
That is a good way of looking at it.. just taking notes mate.. mind you I say mate in the friendly way not that I would call you a mate after ya nicked me trophy yesterday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't flirt with people I am not attracted to, anymore, unless I know them and they know the score so if I flirt with someone, I almost definitely fancy them... Whether they fancy me back is a different matter |
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