"I know it's probably not being able to meet. Gonna knock my confidence not seeing anyone for 6 months. Hard time to be alone. Feel for all you fellow singletons"
Loneliness is a killer, sorry you're feeling that way. Try and keep in touch with friends as much as you can. Life will improve, we are all heading the right way. |
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You’re not attractive to me but that doesn’t mean you’re ugly.
Very few people are actually unattractive, most people are actually just plain. Makeup and a decent hairdresser can improve a woman’s looks and a bloke can add a bit of stubble, comb their hair and add a decent aftershave or dress nicely to improve their look.
You’ll attract some women with your looks and certainly height, just don’t get to worried about those you don’t. |
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"No, definitely not ugly.
I think you took my share of height when they were dishing it out though.  "
Lol sorry about that.
Just need to get over myself and keep trying. I'll get there.
Thanks guys |
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"No, definitely not ugly.
I think you took my share of height when they were dishing it out though.
Lol sorry about that.
Just need to get over myself and keep trying. I'll get there.
Thanks guys"
Everyone is getting back into stride, some rebuilding their confidence after months of loneliness.
Good luck. |
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Hey mate, from a bi guy who is also feeling the loneliness of Covid!! You’re a top looking fella and give yourself a boost mate! It’s over soon and pleased your reaching out! (I’d give you a reach around) joking!! Serious you’re brilll! |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "
My opinion is irrelevant
But Yeah fair play OP I wouldn’t of had the confidence to throw that thread up !
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.
My opinion is irrelevant
But Yeah fair play OP I wouldn’t of had the confidence to throw that thread up !
Well played "
I wasn't sure what reaction I would get. Guessing I'm not alone |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.
My opinion is irrelevant
But Yeah fair play OP I wouldn’t of had the confidence to throw that thread up !
Well played
I wasn't sure what reaction I would get. Guessing I'm not alone"
Yeah mate could of gone ether way....
Anyway good for you ! As said above we all kinda feel a tad shit at the minute
 but things are finally looking up |
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"I know it's probably not being able to meet. Gonna knock my confidence not seeing anyone for 6 months. Hard time to be alone. Feel for all you fellow singletons"
I relate to this. I've had a few body image crises during lockdown. I think it's similar to you in not being able to meet and for me not being able to go to clubs. I think while we're isolated like this we're also more vulnerable to the influences of things like social media because we have less other influences to balance it.
I'm sorry you're having a wobble OP and I hope you feel better when things start opening up again. |
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You look attractive to me - but what is my word worth?
It's your voice in your own head you've got to contend with every day. It's not easy - I speak from experience - but you need to make peace with yourself. |
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Beauty on the eye of the beholder. What's attractive to one isn't attractive to another. From your pic I see a good looking bloke.
On here I have days where I feel like the ugliest person going and other days I feel okay about myself. ( feel like this in normal life too) but I'm learning to love myself the way I am.  |
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You shouldn’t define yourself by if people find you attractive or not. We should never seek external validation. The question you should be asking yourself is am I happy with who I am? |
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Shit, if you're ugly OP, I'm Shrek.
Nah, you're not at all. The restrictions have been hard on people, knocking confidences and general mental health all over the place. Hopefully, you'll get a bit of mojo back, and get back on the scene (or whatever kids call it these days idk). - Mr. |
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Ugly is sod all to do with looks... Regardless of how good looking you may or may not be, you will be attractive to some but not to others... Bugger all we can do but be ourselves, not worry about it too much n see what happens |
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"I live here but I am originally from South Wales and I am a Jack fan and a Manchester United fan"
Hello 
Not sure if you posted in this thread by mistake. Read the first post and that's what people are chatting about.
Or start a new thread maybe in the Introductions section to say hello. |
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"Not saying you're ugly at all, just everyone looks better in person, once you see there mannerisms me thinks "
To be fair, most of the blokes I have met, from Fab, have looked better in person... You guys seem to be a bit pants at face pics  |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "
No you're not ugly. Good looking bloke. |
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"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab"
There's supposedly 100 men to every 1 woman on here. We aren't here to fuck everyone who asks. |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "
No pal your not ugly, me on the other hand. Me on the other hand, I can turn milk sour with a, glance |
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"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?
Not ones that aren't attracted to you"
Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him. |
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OP it’s not that your ugly your words this site has many people on it & I’m sure you will find someone it’s like going to a pub/club not everybody fancy’s everyone when you go there but one time you do there would be someone you fancy & they fancy you! Don’t give up keep going |
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"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?
Not ones that aren't attracted to you
Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him. "
I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!  |
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"to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves "
Why do people have to be rude about it... We can't help who we do or don't find attractive... It's not an insult to not fancy someone, stop treating it as such! |
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"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?
Not ones that aren't attracted to you
Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.
I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it! "
I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.  |
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"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?
Not ones that aren't attracted to you
Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.
I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!
I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve. "
Deal! Don't spose I could have Greg Davies aswell, while we're at it? |
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"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?
Not ones that aren't attracted to you
Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.
I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!
I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.
Deal! Don't spose I could have Greg Davies aswell, while we're at it? "
Yeah he's too tall for me. I'll have Micky Flanagan.  |
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"Well if I was not ugly women would be interested in me ?
Not ones that aren't attracted to you
Tom Hardy apparently is hot but I'm not attracted to him and wouldn't fuck him.
I'm the same with Brad Pitt... Steve Buscemi on the other hand would definitely get it!
I'll take one for the team and have Brad so you can have Steve.
Deal! Don't spose I could have Greg Davies aswell, while we're at it?
Yeah he's too tall for me. I'll have Micky Flanagan. "
Sweet... He is too Essex for me so works out well! |
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"I am ugly because no women have showed any interest in me on fab"
It’s fab mate get use to it !
Anyway don’t moan
Trust me that won’t help it’s not a good look !
But yeah do what OP did start a thread and ask ?
If nothing else you will get chatting to all sorts of mostly cool people
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"No you are not ugly average looking though based purely on physical attraction for sex you will never get a hot stunning lady based on your face "
I don't think that last bit is true at all tbf |
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"No you are not ugly average looking though based purely on physical attraction for sex you will never get a hot stunning lady based on your face
I don't think that last bit is true at all tbf"
Have you seen the women with men that in my opinion wouldn’t be good looking ! Men fall in love with there eyes women with there ears !
I’m not saying that apply’s on here but looks aren’t everything |
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"to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves
Why do people have to be rude about it... We can't help who we do or don't find attractive... It's not an insult to not fancy someone, stop treating it as such! "
whats rude about that it’s true of most people - for some people you will be their type for others exactly opposite of their type
all I said was concentrate on those that like you and ignore the rest (ok I said the rest can go fuck themselves ) but thats what I meant
why focus on those that dont like you when there are people that do???  |
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"to some people you will be to others you wont be same as most of us so concentrate on those that think your not and the rest can go fuck themselves
Why do people have to be rude about it... We can't help who we do or don't find attractive... It's not an insult to not fancy someone, stop treating it as such!
whats rude about that it’s true of most people - for some people you will be their type for others exactly opposite of their type
all I said was concentrate on those that like you and ignore the rest (ok I said the rest can go fuck themselves ) but thats what I meant
why focus on those that dont like you when there are people that do??? "
great advice
looks is very subjective and exactly what he said who fucking cares just carry on mate |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "
I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though. |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.
I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though."
But your not ruling it out ether ? |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.
I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though.
But your not ruling it out ether ? "
There are reasons I don't want to get naked with him, none of them are to do with my perception of his attractiveness |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender. "
Are you kidding?? You look like a movie villain!! |
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"I'm totally confused about my attractiveness. I'm not fishing. Just looking for straight yes or no. Don't care your sexuality or gender.
I think you look fucking gorgeous! Doesn't mean I want to get naked with you though.
But your not ruling it out ether ?
There are reasons I don't want to get naked with him, none of them are to do with my perception of his attractiveness "
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