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Is it humiliation or not

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

(Caution outdated and to some offensive terms follow - no offence intended by this thread)

Not sure of the term, but should Size Queens be allowed to say no smaller than Xinches (yes I am - if X is assumed to be well above average, no I haven't messaged one).

Is it humiliating and degrading to men smaller? We all know the stereotypical insult of pencil dick your cock is tiny, aaw is too small, *moving little finger up and down* etc. Is this just another way of saying it? Does it foster insecurity in men. Lower their self esteem. Lead to psychological problems.

Just see all the ads for pills, herbs, penis enlargement, extenders, get bigger to really satisfy your woman.They wouldn't exist without a sizist culture.

We, rightfully, would be furious at a only if you are white. If someone was told they are too fat, no blacks, no gingers, no Pakkies, etc.

So is it OK? And where is the line between acceptable and unacceptable. Should 1 objection ban it? What number should?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems to me that guys are more fixed on size than women care to be, porn has a lot to answer for that’s for sure, thinking bigger is better and that’s just not the case at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there's a difference between expressing a preference and being offensive. I'm not a size queen myself, but presumably those ladies require a bigger dick to feel full (I could be totally wrong there) and so they are just seeking satisfaction?

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Of course they should be able to choose. If that’s what they want go for it I say. As with any preference.

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I think there's a difference between expressing a preference and being offensive. I'm not a size queen myself, but presumably those ladies require a bigger dick to feel full (I could be totally wrong there) and so they are just seeking satisfaction?

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion."

this exactly.

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Is it wrong for me to say on my profile I only want guys who have a small or medium sized winky? There are plenty of us on here that are not size queens and that’s okay too....I think....maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unless you are at either side of the measuring scale, it doesn't matter in most cases.

And if size queen's share a preference, then that's fine. I've seen women state 'no bigger than x' before so that's also a preference too.

As long as you use it well, it generally doesn't matter.

I do think men might compare when they see other men with lots of dick pics. Maybe it's that which can cause insecurities?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a below average cock. I don't feel humiliation when I see women who want 8 inches or VWE. Its a preference.

I can't feel shame that I don't meet that requirement just like I can't feel shame that I don't meet the gym rat requirement.

I have no control over it. I didn't do this to myself. It's a genetic gift from my father.

I have a preference for women of a certain disposition. It's not unfair on the women who might want to meet me but don't meet that requirement. Its just how it is.

No one should ever feel like they have to settle. Not size Queens or awkward dudes with control issues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly."

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the OP is projecting a little here.

He doesn't have a small cock but he is projecting how he would feel if he did.

So I will say thank you for your empathy OP. I personally like that you raised this question and helped raise an awkward but usually unspoken conversation

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far."

Just to let you know the vagina doesn’t stay the size of the baby

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far."

depends on what context they’re being used really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Look at the words in the OP, are any too far?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stating a preference and belittling those that don't reach those requirements are two very different things.

Be that size or Anything.

Politically correctness has no room in sex and sexualities.

Outside of the bedroom is different, we should be respectful of all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

depends on what context they’re being used really."

Agree. I would us the N word but believe the African American community use it too each other (personal: let's just get rid of it all together).

But who is it who decides that's a no no?

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS over a year ago

Notts

yes they should ban exams to as it discriminates against stupid people and all tape measures should go in the bin, obvs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

depends on what context they’re being used really.

Agree. I would us the N word but believe the African American community use it too each other (personal: let's just get rid of it all together).

But who is it who decides that's a no no?"

Should be "wouldn't use" not would us

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far."

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"yes they should ban exams to as it discriminates against stupid people and all tape measures should go in the bin, obvs!"

If that happened who would have banned it. Where is the tipping point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

Exactly this

No. But where is your line. Have some things gone too far? Can we reverse it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stating a preference isn't humiliating. If someone is offended by that then they are just insecure tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op would you have sex with just anyone?

Male or female? Young or old? Athletic or fabulous?

I'm sure you have preferences. Are they discriminatory?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

Exactly this

No. But where is your line. Have some things gone too far? Can we reverse it?"

Reverse what? I’m not sure where you’re coming from here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely it's all about how you use it, nothing to with size,?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The average size is 5.5 inches to 6 inches. Anyone who is looking for 8 inches plus, which is going to be the minority of men on here who are that size. Porn films aren’t reality, most men aren’t that big. Any lady who is looking for someone that big, I wish her well in her search and good luck.

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far."

Do you know what contractions are and what they do???

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not quite sure what point you're trying to make here OP but you appear to be trying to compare apples with oranges to be honest.

Is it OK to have a preference, whether that preference be for a large cock, blue eyes, gym fit, Dad bod, big boobs, hairy/shaven or any of the myriad things we each express a preference for? Of course it is.

Is it humiliating to not possess something another person has a preference for? Not in the slightest if it's expressed simply as a preference.

Is it OK to express a preference in a derogatory manner to those who don't match that preference? Of course it isn't.

The biggest perpetrators of cock size fixations are men themselves not women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

Exactly this

No. But where is your line. Have some things gone too far? Can we reverse it?

Reverse what? I’m not sure where you’re coming from here. "

If society said no thats not allowable, if society yhen changed its mind would they be able to reverse it?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I think it's fine for people to post on their own profile. I think it's a step too far to message other people and make comment on their cock not being big enough for you. Unless they ask I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so women who are looking for bigger now have a label saying ''size queens'' just because there are men who are not happy with there dick size ??

and then the suggestion by some women that they have to be a bit loose down there and thats why ??

what ever next eh

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's just a preference, mine would the the opposite, no one over 8"

It's like me being offended if people don't like red heads. I couldn't care less.

The vagina/baby argument is pointless. There's a lot goes on with a womans body when she's giving birth to make room for that!

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

Men with average sized penises are not a protected group of people who have been mistreated in society for a long time. That's very different to people of ethnic minorities or LGBT people. Your comparison is not valid.

Even so, if a particular characteristic is a deal-breaker for person A, person B is not going to get very far with person A if they have that characteristic. Telling somebody they can't say that isn't going to make any practical difference.

Size queens are the minority anyway. There are many more who aren't. Focus on them if it's an issue for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"so women who are looking for bigger now have a label saying ''size queens'' just because there are men who are not happy with there dick size ??

and then the suggestion by some women that they have to be a bit loose down there and thats why ??

what ever next eh "

I did say I was uncertain of the term Size Queens, it is on this and other forums. But I believe it is used to describe women who are unhappy with the mans cock not the other way down.

No looseness was stated nor implied by the poster.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

Exactly this

No. But where is your line. Have some things gone too far? Can we reverse it?

Reverse what? I’m not sure where you’re coming from here.

If society said no thats not allowable, if society yhen changed its mind would they be able to reverse it?"

In relation to what though? Penis size? I don't society has made that judgment. Men probably care a lot more than women do about it, and address the ones who talk about it more. Maybe if fewer men posted dick pics from cleverly crafted angles to make themselves look bigger, some men would have fewer insecurities about it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*are the ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's just a preference, mine would the the opposite, no one over 8"

It's like me being offended if people don't like red heads. I couldn't care less.

The vagina/baby argument is pointless. There's a lot goes on with a womans body when she's giving birth to make room for that!"

yeah the old if a baby will fit then .... lol basic biology the female body/vagina once pregnant with go through many changes to help with the baby and slowly revert back to normal .. you'll also be supised to know that just like cocks no 2 vaginas are the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man."

This is completely untrue. During sex the vagina lengthens, but it can only go so far. The cervix is in slightly different positions depending on the woman, some being lower down than others, and does not open to accommodate large penises. During birth the vagina behaves in a completely different manner than during sex. It shortens and widens and the cervix dilates to expel a baby. Neither happens during sex and the two processes are not comparable.

To your original point though, it is not humiliating to men for a woman to say she prefers a particular penis size, whether that is large or small. If a man feels threatened by a woman stating preferences in a respectful manner it is his insecurity at play and he needs to take responsibility for that without trying to make it her problem.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"so women who are looking for bigger now have a label saying ''size queens'' just because there are men who are not happy with there dick size ??

and then the suggestion by some women that they have to be a bit loose down there and thats why ??

what ever next eh

I did say I was uncertain of the term Size Queens, it is on this and other forums. But I believe it is used to describe women who are unhappy with the mans cock not the other way down.

No looseness was stated nor implied by the poster."

It’s used to describe women who want big cocks not women who are unhappy with a mans cock.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm offended.

What about guys who are just inbetween the two

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it’s about the person not the size of cock tits spanner it’s the click the personality this is only my initial thoughts I might be wrong !

Most time I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure why any guy would find it humiliating. It would be down to their own insecurities. I'm not humiliated by guys that prefer women with ginormous melons!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I see a profile that says 8” and above only I wouldn’t even batter an eyelid amd think negative about myself, that’s their preference and I think they are entitled to it.same as men look for women in body types if a man wants curves he ain’t gonna look for slim and a women wants slim she ain’t gonna look for curves

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"If I see a profile that says 8” and above only I wouldn’t even batter an eyelid amd think negative about myself, that’s their preference and I think they are entitled to it.same as men look for women in body types if a man wants curves he ain’t gonna look for slim and a women wants slim she ain’t gonna look for curves "

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

Having gone through childbirth I did know this. It also takes time to return to it's pre conception norm. I am also aware some women dislike large penises as they find them uncomfortable/painful.

There are men scarred by size issues as not everyone is respectful. Should we try to protect them or are they collateral damage to ignore?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument. "

What if they said:

No fat women. No nasty big arses. Big boobs only. Deepthroaters only. Only swallowers. No minging twats.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

Having gone through childbirth I did know this. It also takes time to return to it's pre conception norm. I am also aware some women dislike large penises as they find them uncomfortable/painful.

There are men scarred by size issues as not everyone is respectful. Should we try to protect them or are they collateral damage to ignore? "

I’m sure there are plenty women scarred by being called fat or fat and ugly or fat slag whenever they say no to someone. And believe me that happens a lot. Are we going to protect them too? Nothing you can do about it. Nasty people everywhere.

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By *EAT..85Woman over a year ago

Nottingham

People need to find peace and confidence in themselves.

The world can be a harsh place. Few people are fully happy with their bodies and it is not possible to pander to everyone and every body type.

Preferences are just that... Impolite or unkind people are also just that...

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument.

What if they said:

No fat women. No nasty big arses. Big boobs only. Deepthroaters only. Only swallowers. No minging twats."

What if they did? Some of those examples could perhaps be expressed in a more polite way but still preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument.

What if they said:

No fat women. No nasty big arses. Big boobs only. Deepthroaters only. Only swallowers. No minging twats."

But they don’t say no small dicks on their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument.

What if they said:

No fat women. No nasty big arses. Big boobs only. Deepthroaters only. Only swallowers. No minging twats."

You're conflating two different things.

Stating "I prefer slim women" is not the same as saying "No fat women".

Same way as saying "I prefer 8+ cocks" is not the same as "no small cocks".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument.

What if they said:

No fat women. No nasty big arses. Big boobs only. Deepthroaters only. Only swallowers. No minging twats.

You're conflating two different things.

Stating "I prefer slim women" is not the same as saying "No fat women".

Same way as saying "I prefer 8+ cocks" is not the same as "no small cocks"."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

Having gone through childbirth I did know this. It also takes time to return to it's pre conception norm. I am also aware some women dislike large penises as they find them uncomfortable/painful.

There are men scarred by size issues as not everyone is respectful. Should we try to protect them or are they collateral damage to ignore?

Yes we should. That kind of language is usually accompanied by violence. See I do have a line.

The size thing doesn't bother me and too few affected but hope they get counselling to help.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"(Caution outdated and to some offensive terms follow - no offence intended by this thread)

Not sure of the term, but should Size Queens be allowed to say no smaller than Xinches (yes I am - if X is assumed to be well above average, no I haven't messaged one).

Just see all the ads for pills, herbs, penis enlargement, extenders, get bigger to really satisfy your woman.They wouldn't exist without a sizist culture.

We, rightfully, would be furious at a only if you are white. If someone was told they are too fat, no blacks, no gingers, no Pakkies, etc.

So is it OK? And where is the line between acceptable and unacceptable. Should 1 objection ban it? What number should?"

Personally I feel that everyone is entitled to their own preferences whether it be about manhood height race etc me being in the less hung department of a cool 6inchs it doesn’t bother me or give me any kind of complex or lower my self esteem. I think if u are the type to worry over those things then it’s something that that person should address and find a way to over come that insecurity

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By *JB1954Man over a year ago

Reading

I have been told a couple of times. That yes when erect I have a big girth. I have never measured. Yet when at school ( all boys) teased about micro penis. Now I do wonder if , being slim build . When erect cock appears bigger than another guy whose body build is bigger than mine ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

Having gone through childbirth I did know this. It also takes time to return to it's pre conception norm. I am also aware some women dislike large penises as they find them uncomfortable/painful.

There are men scarred by size issues as not everyone is respectful. Should we try to protect them or are they collateral damage to ignore?

Yes we should. That kind of language is usually accompanied by violence. See I do have a line.

The size thing doesn't bother me and too few affected but hope they get counselling to help."

If things said and seen on this site is driving people to counselling I really don’t think it’s the best place for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have been told a couple of times. That yes when erect I have a big girth. I have never measured. Yet when at school ( all boys) teased about micro penis. Now I do wonder if , being slim build . When erect cock appears bigger than another guy whose body build is bigger than mine ? "

Some just grow more when erect than others. Like yourself, mine seems pretty small when its soft and hidden away but grows to about normal when hard. I always thought mine was super tiny but apprantly its not lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

Well said. I feel that maybe a lot of men don’t actually know that about the vagina.

Also I agree with the last bit of ur message

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Don't want to assume so forgive.

Have you heard the terms grower or shower? It might explain the school teasing. Personally I am a grower (and proud) who goes beyond the average.

The post above is also above average so you too are hung.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly. Plenty men like small boobs or slim women. That’s like me saying I’m humiliated by that. This really is a non-argument.

What if they said:

No fat women. No nasty big arses. Big boobs only. Deepthroaters only. Only swallowers. No minging twats."
I might put that on my profile. Might improve my message quality!

Seriously op. I think you're taking a negative slant on this. Some people don't have the vocabulary or the social skills to be able to express what they want without sounding like cunts. They are easily avoided.

But yes. It is acceptable and I think it more people should feel they can express exactly what they want. My body my rules.

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By *JB1954Man over a year ago

Reading

Yes I haver never had a female state that cock to small etc. Perhaps been lucky ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion.

this exactly.

This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

But this thread is more than size. Although I am sure the insults and language used around it have caused genuine mental health problems.

Do we realise fully the damage, preferences and choices do and when to should step back and say too far.

But where does that end? Do we all stop having preferences and just have sex with anyone who approaches us for fear of offending them?

Exactly this

No. But where is your line. Have some things gone too far? Can we reverse it?

Reverse what? I’m not sure where you’re coming from here.

If society said no thats not allowable, if society yhen changed its mind would they be able to reverse it?

Another tactic for making it look bigger is clean shaved lol. When I first started shaving my lower region many years ago it was because of my insecurities about size of tackle. Luckily I’m now well an truly over that insecurity and quite like my manhood the way it is including size

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion."
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What size do u enjoy the most then ? As u prefer them not too big

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion..

What size do u enjoy the most then ? As u prefer them not too big "

Happy with anything from 5 to 7 inches really. 7 is probably my favourite, not that there's an exact science to it. The guy himself and his technique has a lot to do with it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This will seem cruder than it is. The vagina is very elastic and very few men would fill one completely. Most babies are much bigger than any man.

Having gone through childbirth I did know this. It also takes time to return to it's pre conception norm. I am also aware some women dislike large penises as they find them uncomfortable/painful.

There are men scarred by size issues as not everyone is respectful. Should we try to protect them or are they collateral damage to ignore?

Yes we should. That kind of language is usually accompanied by violence. See I do have a line.

The size thing doesn't bother me and too few affected but hope they get counselling to help.

If things said and seen on this site is driving people to counselling I really don’t think it’s the best place for them. "

You don't need to be on this site to be affected by it. It is used too often to insult and thus abuse men.

We wouldn't be happy on here, or offline, if it allowed men to physically abuse and beat women (outside of agreed contracts) or vice versa.

Is it better to say, thanks but, nothing in particular, not for me.

Or nah your cocks too small, your arse too big, your boobs too small, your nose too bent.

Why do some women want big boobs to boost there self esteem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion..

What size do u enjoy the most then ? As u prefer them not too big

Happy with anything from 5 to 7 inches really. 7 is probably my favourite, not that there's an exact science to it. The guy himself and his technique has a lot to do with it!"
. I’m in between the sizes lol I’ll take that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women prefer abs others dad bods it’s all just a preference and everyone is entitled to have their own likes and dislikes. That’s my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

There are just as many women who express a desire for a dick that isn't huge (e.g. me) that should balance out any insecurities surely?

It's like guys saying they prefer bigger or smaller boobs. It should be ok to express a preference, in my opinion..

What size do u enjoy the most then ? As u prefer them not too big

Happy with anything from 5 to 7 inches really. 7 is probably my favourite, not that there's an exact science to it. The guy himself and his technique has a lot to do with it!"

Lets be positive and tell them then. Big smiles all round. Personally I like all sizes of natural breasts. All types of pussy but especially with nice pubes. I like all kind and gentle women. Etc. About the only thing I am negative about is Marmite.