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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?"
I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh lovely im sorry you are feeling low.
I'm really sorry but I'm just off to sleep but please feel to send me a message anytime. X"
Thank you hun. Maybe we can sort out a drink sometime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh lovely im sorry you are feeling low.
I'm really sorry but I'm just off to sleep but please feel to send me a message anytime. X
Thank you hun. Maybe we can sort out a drink sometime "
That sounds lovely. I'm sure we sort something. X |
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"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?
I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to "
Your pictures tell a different story, definately not ugly! The end of the lockdowns is something to look forward to, at the very least |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?
I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to
Your pictures tell a different story, definately not ugly! The end of the lockdowns is something to look forward to, at the very least"
Lockdown has shown the holes in our relationship and he doesn't make me feel special anymore. I would love fwb with someone who will care for me as a friend as well. But i think that's wishful thinking |
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"Something got you low, or is it lockdown taking a toll?
I just feel down and ugly. Need to redo my pink but can't afford it. Just want something to look forward to
Your pictures tell a different story, definately not ugly! The end of the lockdowns is something to look forward to, at the very least
Lockdown has shown the holes in our relationship and he doesn't make me feel special anymore. I would love fwb with someone who will care for me as a friend as well. But i think that's wishful thinking "
Could be that he's struggling too, potentially, but I understand where you're coming from, definately. Why don't you try and have a flirt, arrange some meets? |
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"Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help "
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way ...
Cant be easy with your partner away theough the week |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have tried to sort out a few foursomes.
We have a couple we used to play with although they seem more interested in him since lockdown. He meets them alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps I’m not the best to advise as a single man but have you told your partner honestly how you feel?
I think often there is an expectation both ways that you know exactly how the other person is feeling.
The other issue is often things are not fully said in case the other persons feelings are hurt.
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"I have tried to sort out a few foursomes.
We have a couple we used to play with although they seem more interested in him since lockdown. He meets them alone"
Ooh, that's a little harsh! Have you had a chance to speak to him about it? (You can dm if you want to chat) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What was his reply to that?"
He said he had told them to speak to me...i got a message from the guy..saying they WERE borrowing my husband. Nothing since then |
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"What was his reply to that?
He said he had told them to speak to me...i got a message from the guy..saying they WERE borrowing my husband. Nothing since then"
The thing about swinging is that there needs to be communication and boundaries to which you both agree to.
Doesn't sound like meeting alone is within your boundaries and its certainly not up to you to speak with them about it!
He needs to stop meeting them alone and you both need to communicate ... good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand fully what it's like to feel down especially in this situation is think people should talk to each other more im for to talk or just to listen |
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You are a very pretty girl and will have no problems finding a wonderful fwb.
Just chat to them to make sure there is a connection. Look for someone with the qualities you would look for in a friend. Above all enjoy the search. Flirt and have fun. |
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"What was his reply to that?
He said he had told them to speak to me...i got a message from the guy..saying they WERE borrowing my husband. Nothing since then"
Why are you not involved with the 3 of them meeting ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help "
If you even need someone to talk to just message me and I’ll have a chat don’t have to be a naughty chat, just want to help |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone fancy a chat...my depression is at an all time low and hubby working all hours doesn't help "
Sorry to hear that your feeling down, and reading through the thread for what's happened, my inbox is always open  |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
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I'm going through the same myself and after speaking to the doctor you realise just how common it is and how it's ok to ask for help. You also find out that there are so many things that help such as simply talking to someone, exercise and having a damn good cry every now and again. You also find out that things that you think should make you feel better like alcohol are actually depressants ! In simple terms don't bottle it up but dont be afraid to ask for help if you need it |
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