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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go for it and say something ..... what’s the worse than can happen? ..... they knock you back.... then maybes things are awkward or maybes they say yes..... you’ll never know if you’re don’t try xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were really interested in someone on here, but knew you had no chance, would you still say something, or just keep quiet"
Does the person know you? From the forums maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go for it and say something ..... what’s the worse than can happen? ..... they knock you back.... then maybes things are awkward or maybes they say yes..... you’ll never know if you’re don’t try xxxxx"
Go for it like lady said yey or ney at least you will know then  |
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"Go for it and say something ..... what’s the worse than can happen? ..... they knock you back.... then maybes things are awkward or maybes they say yes..... you’ll never know if you’re don’t try xxxxx"
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"If you were really interested in someone on here, but knew you had no chance, would you still say something, or just keep quiet"
She knows but I think she suspects I’m just being playful. One of the downsides of using banter in most forum posts haha |
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you have to go for it, you never know you may get the response that you are looking for! dont live your life passing up chances just because you dont think you will get the response you are looking for. |
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You are starting with nothing.
Saying nothing will leave you with nothing.
Saying something could leave you with something or nothing.
So you position doesn’t get less than what it is now but could get better...
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"If you were really interested in someone on here, but knew you had no chance, would you still say something, or just keep quiet"
You don't know you've got no chance, never ever miss out on the opportunity to try to be with someone you really like.
Be polite and respectful and don't burn bridges if she says thanks but no thanks.
You can't live happily thinking "what if"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were really interested in someone on here, but knew you had no chance, would you still say something, or just keep quiet"
If you don't try, you've automatically lost. I tried, and she's now lying here next to me, and I couldn't be happier that I did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d rather know if someone felt this way with me, as long as it wasn’t some kind of awkward relationship already like work colleague or something. Go for it I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course. You don’t know whether you stand a chance or not. What’s the worst that can happen. Either no reply or a no thanks. At least you’d know one way or the other.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"If you were really interested in someone on here, but knew you had no chance, would you still say something, or just keep quiet"
It would depend on how I knew I had no chance. Out of their age range? Not into the same things? Not meeting their preferences? Or just a belief that they wouldn‘t be interested?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having taken comments onboard, I have messaged, probably the hardest message I have sent"
Well done....now you have to get everyone informed on the outcome lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can you be interested in someone and know you habe no chance , surely you stop being interested when they tell you they aren’t "
Brad Pitt said no but I'd still fuck him if he did it for charity.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can you be interested in someone and know you habe no chance , surely you stop being interested when they tell you they aren’t
Brad Pitt said no but I'd still fuck him if he did it for charity. "
Yes, gorgeous celebrities fucking us mere mortals for a good cause, let's see how giving they really are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can you be interested in someone and know you habe no chance , surely you stop being interested when they tell you they aren’t
Brad Pitt said no but I'd still fuck him if he did it for charity.
Yes, gorgeous celebrities fucking us mere mortals for a good cause, let's see how giving they really are "
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I'm a very literal person so taking your original post literally I say, say nothing. If you know you have no chance why make yourself vulnerable.
It's a different story if you only think you have no chance. |
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The trick is to be respectful. If you can do it in a way that is complimentary and not creepy then I can't see what harm you are doing. She might appreciate even if nothing would ever happen between you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends if you're friends or not. If you are, and you ask and she says no, it might spoil the dynamic you already have. So I guess you have to weigh up if it's worth the risk.
Over the years many a good friendship has been lost this way. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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In all honesty? I'd keep schtum. If I genuinely, in a not self deprecating way, had no chance with this person then I wouldn't want to lose the friendship/alter the dynamic. That's more important to me than potentially risking something which I'm pretty certain won't end well.
That being said, part of me thinks that maybe being friends with someone and having feelings for them (and keeping quiet/not being 100% honest) might make someone think I only wanted to be friends to bed them? I can't articulate that well. |
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