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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i mite be just having a moment but im getting so pissed off again with people replying to my profile before they have read it... most of todays messages have been deleted or ive got the hump and been rude im sorry but its all to much now...23/30 messages with no pic or under the age limit or just asking daft questions that are answered in my profile.when will people start to read first ...ps again im sorry to rant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it obviously happens to more than just us then.we get pissed at the number of guys below our age limit,when we ask them to read profile again,they get the hump,because it seems we are calling them stupid.well forgive me for stating what we like n dont like,but if some guys cant read or take heed of what we are after then perhaps they really are stupid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some only look at pictures and then mail without further though. Just changed our avatar picture and received 16 messages. Put the one with me and a whip in hand and they bugger off lol. Think i will be changing back soon lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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can I point out that it is just not guys who don't read... trust me been waiting for a thread like this to hijack with my whinging.....
for example.. couples who at the last minute mail to say "oh by the way... hubs is bi and wants to suck my cock"
or people who start trying to change whay they want for there own benefits...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get them all the time lately, we have kept our profile text to a minimum and stated what exactly we are after but still we get the well thought copied and pasted messages that mention nothing to suggest they have read our profile, guys asking if we fancy meeting now or tonight, and plenty guys assume only Colleen reads and replies to the messages, lol.
such is life eh, these people are sent to try us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can I point out that it is just not guys who don't read... trust me been waiting for a thread like this to hijack with my whinging.....
for example.. couples who at the last minute mail to say "oh by the way... hubs is bi and wants to suck my cock"
or people who start trying to change whay they want for there own benefits...
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You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
of course not all, but does at times seem a high percentage.
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
clacton on sea |
have you tried reading some of the profiles on here lol you need a sypjer book for some,or a degree in cryptology lol.
and then you get the ones that read like war and peace lol and you need to get a cup of coffee and a sarnie before you start so you don't die of hunger or dehydration before you reach the end.
then theres the other extreem where theres just one word.
lol profiles are suppose to be an introduction to the owner of the profile, but some are so complex it's a put off before you even start to read.
again this is a tongue in check responce to the posts  |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"have you tried reading some of the profiles on here lol you need a sypjer book for some,or a degree in cryptology lol.
and then you get the ones that read like war and peace lol and you need to get a cup of coffee and a sarnie before you start so you don't die of hunger or dehydration before you reach the end.
then theres the other extreem where theres just one word.
lol profiles are suppose to be an introduction to the owner of the profile, but some are so complex it's a put off before you even start to read.
again this is a tongue in check responce to the posts "
I LIKE WAR N PEACE PSML XXXXX |
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Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stu very funny pmsl i love it mite try it
Just read the profile and laughed. You found a fellow cyclist who swings yet  "
lol....am seeking a good looking tractor driving turnip that can squeal like a pig  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if yu have the words: pussy, fanny, vagina, shag, hump, roger, cock, dong..
yu will have the average male on here's full attention...
move away from the words above..... and you lost them.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people?????? "
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway "
Actually I thought they were two burds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway
Actually I thought they were two burds. "
I thought you said 2 burps and thought.........how rude  |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
clacton on sea |
"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway "
oooh is there pictures too on the site, wow and i've been doing all that reading for nothing lol i could have just perved the darn pictures instead, why wasn't i told about this in the first place !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway
oooh is there pictures too on the site, wow and i've been doing all that reading for nothing lol i could have just perved the darn pictures instead, why wasn't i told about this in the first place !!!! "
we didn't tell ya coz we didn't want you to get over excited and start drooling all over the room   |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
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"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway
oooh is there pictures too on the site, wow and i've been doing all that reading for nothing lol i could have just perved the darn pictures instead, why wasn't i told about this in the first place !!!!
we didn't tell ya coz we didn't want you to get over excited and start drooling all over the room "
it's ok i come equiped with a mop and bucket for just such a thing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because of so many time-wasters, we've inserted a password on our profile, a couple contacted us showing interest, although they quoted the password, I asked and they confirmed they had read and understood our profile, low and behold a couple of days prior to the meet, they contacted us and said "Sorry, we thought you were a M/F Couple, you're not what we're looking for"!!!
wtf is it with sompe people??????
How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway
oooh is there pictures too on the site, wow and i've been doing all that reading for nothing lol i could have just perved the darn pictures instead, why wasn't i told about this in the first place !!!!
we didn't tell ya coz we didn't want you to get over excited and start drooling all over the room
it's ok i come equiped with a mop and bucket for just such a thing lol "
oh good...i haven't cleaned my kitchen floor today yet...so bring it over and crack on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this really an issue that's worth moaning about and is this something that should be continually posted upon the forums each week?
At the end of the day we all know people aren't perfect and sometimes do things that may annoy us and getting email from people who haven't read a profile properly is going to be an everyday occurrence on sites such as this as we all know. I have had couples send me winks or one liner emails when i state i'm only looking for single women but so what? It does annoy me but i either reply saying no thanks, or ignore them if they sent a wink and just get on with things!
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People not reading profiles is one of those buggy things you just have to learn to live with (by hitting delete)... but if we are honest... if everyone did read profiles before sending a message, there would be one or two folk with empty mail boxes lol |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"People not reading profiles is one of those buggy things you just have to learn to live with (by hitting delete)... but if we are honest... if everyone did read profiles before sending a message, there would be one or two folk with empty mail boxes lol"
Not me wahey xxx |
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"How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway "
When we looked back, we think the couple done it deliberately, some people have strange interests |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How on earth do they not realise that you are 2 men? have they not even had a look at the pics.........thats what most people go straight to anyway
When we looked back, we think the couple done it deliberately, some people have strange interests "
They perhaps thought Kid was a small chested female  My latest thong arse pic seems to have drawn a lot of attention from 'straight' men who probably didn't even read my username before they sent out their copy and paste mails |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean we're supposed to read profiles? We thought we just had to look at pics just kidding before I get jumped on lol xxx"
Can I jump on you anyway ?? xx xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this really an issue that's worth moaning about and is this something that should be continually posted upon the forums each week?"
Thing is not everyone has seen all the threads before. You can see the OP hasn't been on the forums too long, so this is often why threads like this get repeated. There are plenty of other good threads to read if you don't want to read this one (not having a dig btw, just saying).
In the same light, we know these threads don't need to be always here, but neither do these threads need responses saying so, the OP is just venting a bit. Well done to her for not just pinpointing single guys though!
Unfortunately for her and everyone else the people who don't read peoples profiles also don't read the forums... kinda makes sense that doesn't it! lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean we're supposed to read profiles? We thought we just had to look at pics just kidding before I get jumped on lol xxx
Can I jump on you anyway ?? xxxx"
Oh yes razz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean we're supposed to read profiles? We thought we just had to look at pics just kidding before I get jumped on lol xxx
oh would so like to jump you lol "
Whoo hoo I get two jumps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
oh and females, whether single or part of a couple never fall foul of this trait??"
You're right, it's just the guys, they're all rude. |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
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"You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
oh and females, whether single or part of a couple never fall foul of this trait??
You're right, it's just the guys, they're all rude. "
yeah yeah we are crude ,rude,abusive,agressive,pushy,and down right not nice to know,ooooh did i miss any adjectives there all did i cover all the base's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
oh and females, whether single or part of a couple never fall foul of this trait??
You're right, it's just the guys, they're all rude.
yeah yeah we are crude ,rude,abusive,agressive,pushy,and down right not nice to know,ooooh did i miss any adjectives there all did i cover all the base's "
in general, simply poop. |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
clacton on sea |
"You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
oh and females, whether single or part of a couple never fall foul of this trait??
You're right, it's just the guys, they're all rude.
yeah yeah we are crude ,rude,abusive,agressive,pushy,and down right not nice to know,ooooh did i miss any adjectives there all did i cover all the base's
in general, simply poop. "
think we ought to set up a singles swinging site lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
oh and females, whether single or part of a couple never fall foul of this trait??
You're right, it's just the guys, they're all rude.
yeah yeah we are crude ,rude,abusive,agressive,pushy,and down right not nice to know,ooooh did i miss any adjectives there all did i cover all the base's
in general, simply poop.
think we ought to set up a singles swinging site lol "
Hang on one minute, I was meaning men in couples are just as bad, not just single men. |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
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"You're right it's not just the single guys, to be honest I think it's guys in general, single or not.
oh and females, whether single or part of a couple never fall foul of this trait??
You're right, it's just the guys, they're all rude.
yeah yeah we are crude ,rude,abusive,agressive,pushy,and down right not nice to know,ooooh did i miss any adjectives there all did i cover all the base's
in general, simply poop.
think we ought to set up a singles swinging site lol
Hang on one minute, I was meaning men in couples are just as bad, not just single men. "
it's ok i'll just go over there and sit in me own playpen and lay with me own toys so there ner ner lol |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else |
"plenty guys assume only Colleen reads and replies to the messages, lol.
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I have to say that I've probably been guilty of this, and I imagine it's easily done. I know that Wayne's pic was up for a couple of days so you (two!) are an exception, but often there is an avatar of the lady, most of the text is about what the lady likes, and most of the pics are either of the lady or feature her more prominently.
So surely it's slightly understandable that the responses can sometimes be over-specific? I do sometimes catch myself and have to make a conscious effort to add the word 'both' in, despite there being little male material to work with (plus, as a single straight, wouldn't I be spending a greater proportion of my time on the lady anyway), but have had the odd response that is obviously from the man - which serves as a useful reality check. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"plenty guys assume only Colleen reads and replies to the messages, lol.
I have to say that I've probably been guilty of this, and I imagine it's easily done. I know that Wayne's pic was up for a couple of days so you (two!) are an exception, but often there is an avatar of the lady, most of the text is about what the lady likes, and most of the pics are either of the lady or feature her more prominently.
So surely it's slightly understandable that the responses can sometimes be over-specific? I do sometimes catch myself and have to make a conscious effort to add the word 'both' in, despite there being little male material to work with (plus, as a single straight, wouldn't I be spending a greater proportion of my time on the lady anyway), but have had the odd response that is obviously from the man - which serves as a useful reality check."
OH I fully understand it, like you say most couples profiles are lead by everything about the lady, the ladies being the ones used as bait in a sense, so silly for those to complain when it works, also being a straight guy when messaging a couple then obviously I personally have the lady in mind far more than the man.
We (or I) do tend to reply to 99% of messages regardless of what is said, but some messages are along these lines.... "you're hot, would love to fuck you", have to laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"plenty guys assume only Colleen reads and replies to the messages, lol.
I have to say that I've probably been guilty of this, and I imagine it's easily done. I know that Wayne's pic was up for a couple of days so you (two!) are an exception, but often there is an avatar of the lady, most of the text is about what the lady likes, and most of the pics are either of the lady or feature her more prominently.
So surely it's slightly understandable that the responses can sometimes be over-specific? I do sometimes catch myself and have to make a conscious effort to add the word 'both' in, despite there being little male material to work with (plus, as a single straight, wouldn't I be spending a greater proportion of my time on the lady anyway), but have had the odd response that is obviously from the man - which serves as a useful reality check.
OH I fully understand it, like you say most couples profiles are lead by everything about the lady, the ladies being the ones used as bait in a sense, so silly for those to complain when it works, also being a straight guy when messaging a couple then obviously I personally have the lady in mind far more than the man.
We (or I) do tend to reply to 99% of messages regardless of what is said, but some messages are along these lines.... "you're hot, would love to fuck you", have to laugh. "
It don't matter who you address it to as their both cheeky buggers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"plenty guys assume only Colleen reads and replies to the messages, lol.
I have to say that I've probably been guilty of this, and I imagine it's easily done. I know that Wayne's pic was up for a couple of days so you (two!) are an exception, but often there is an avatar of the lady, most of the text is about what the lady likes, and most of the pics are either of the lady or feature her more prominently.
So surely it's slightly understandable that the responses can sometimes be over-specific? I do sometimes catch myself and have to make a conscious effort to add the word 'both' in, despite there being little male material to work with (plus, as a single straight, wouldn't I be spending a greater proportion of my time on the lady anyway), but have had the odd response that is obviously from the man - which serves as a useful reality check.
OH I fully understand it, like you say most couples profiles are lead by everything about the lady, the ladies being the ones used as bait in a sense, so silly for those to complain when it works, also being a straight guy when messaging a couple then obviously I personally have the lady in mind far more than the man.
We (or I) do tend to reply to 99% of messages regardless of what is said, but some messages are along these lines.... "you're hot, would love to fuck you", have to laugh.
It don't matter who you address it to as their both cheeky buggers lol "
oh we do try. |
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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago
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"plenty guys assume only Colleen reads and replies to the messages, lol.
I have to say that I've probably been guilty of this, and I imagine it's easily done. I know that Wayne's pic was up for a couple of days so you (two!) are an exception, but often there is an avatar of the lady, most of the text is about what the lady likes, and most of the pics are either of the lady or feature her more prominently.
So surely it's slightly understandable that the responses can sometimes be over-specific? I do sometimes catch myself and have to make a conscious effort to add the word 'both' in, despite there being little male material to work with (plus, as a single straight, wouldn't I be spending a greater proportion of my time on the lady anyway), but have had the odd response that is obviously from the man - which serves as a useful reality check.
OH I fully understand it, like you say most couples profiles are lead by everything about the lady, the ladies being the ones used as bait in a sense, so silly for those to complain when it works, also being a straight guy when messaging a couple then obviously I personally have the lady in mind far more than the man.
We (or I) do tend to reply to 99% of messages regardless of what is said, but some messages are along these lines.... "you're hot, would love to fuck you", have to laugh.
It don't matter who you address it to as their both cheeky buggers lol
oh we do try. "
illiminate profiles illiminate the problem simples really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are peeps who read mine in full, and still ignore vital information, such as my plate is full and am not looking for more playmates for fun, which I put right at the very top!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im getting couples who say on their profile "not looking for single guys"
and they are looking at my profile lol -and im a single guy
cant they read lol |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"im getting couples who say on their profile "not looking for single guys"
and they are looking at my profile lol -and im a single guy
cant they read lol "
hang on.....now where is my tin hat........oh yeah here with my gun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im getting couples who say on their profile "not looking for single guys"
and they are looking at my profile lol -and im a single guy
cant they read lol hang on.....now where is my tin hat........oh yeah here with my gun "
Passes Femme the ammunition !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im getting couples who say on their profile "not looking for single guys"
and they are looking at my profile lol -and im a single guy
cant they read lol "
People look at profiles for so many reasons, not always looking for a meet.
also some couples state no single males so not inundated with messages but can still go on to message those they may be interested in.
hope this helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shhh...don't tell him, ffs!
I'm playing the long game here. Slowly slowly, catchee monkey and all that"
I realised, I was trying to spoil it for you so I could jib in first. |
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Why do people,mainly guys,block you when they don't like what they are told? We are both fully bisexual and our profile is very very clear as what we are looking for and a guy messaged us saying that we could have fun but when we checked his profile it states he is straight! We replied (politely) initially telling him he wasn't what we were looking for,his reply was to say he thought he had made it clear as to his preference,we replied again,a little more blunt or curt but to the point but still with respect.....he replied saying WE are NOT what people are looking for and it was a pity that people like us spoil what is a good website.....then blocked us!!!!! That will be the toys out of the pram then! Why do guys like that do this sort of thing,we just do not understand it? We don't put all our friends and meets on our profile but we have had lots of fun and long may it continue. |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
why do you assume he was throwing his toys out of the pram?
Have you not considered the possibility that he chanced his arm, got told 'no', so he blocked you so he doesn't inconvenience you by messaging you again accidentally?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do you assume he was throwing his toys out of the pram?
Have you not considered the possibility that he chanced his arm, got told 'no', so he blocked you so he doesn't inconvenience you by messaging you again accidentally?
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How dare you bring common sense and reasoning into this |
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Oh dear..how remiss of us to not take his feelings into consideration! We have so misunderstood his good Samaritan intentions by saving us from pain and anguish at receiving unwarranted attention from him. We always thought a polite refusal would suffice....how wrong were we?????????
We obviously read the insistent messages wrong,,,you know the ones... saying that he was for us and what he could to/for and with us...regardless of what we were/are looking for! |
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