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It's been a long time since I went to any clubs, but I'm planning to visit some (hopefully) soon. My dilemma is that I'm not the biggest lingerie fan, and I have absolutely no idea what to wear.
The more I think about it, the more I'm overthinking and ruling every option out...corsets you can't move in when it comes to sexy time, bodysuits you just have annoying flappy bits when you unpop them at the crotch, babydolls aren't flattering on my body shape, I prefer to keep my tummy covered so not keen on just bra and knickers, I'm not keen on wearing hold-ups so a suspender belt or straps attached to something else are a must for proper stockings 
Help!
Ladies - what do you wear when dressing down at a club?
Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hiya  im not much help, as i love wearing my lingerie when im dressing down.
but there are lots of different options, maybe you could have a 'try on' day at home, and put on all your different bits and see what YOU feel most comfortable in, as that's the most important thing? 
i have friends that go completely starkers, others that don lingerie like myself, bra and knickers, one of those long fluffy-trimmed robes with nothing underneath, little lacey nightdresses.
if you search on the swinging clubs forum, i expect there would be answers to similar questions that you could get ideas from too?
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"What about a basque as they're easier to move in than a corset?
Or like a lingerie dress? Like a sheer/lace/fishnet dress?
A nice robe over a bra and knickers?
A bra and a skirt? "
I have seen some nice basques, but I know from the past that my boobs don't tend to fit in them  I might order some to try.
I'm liking the robe idea though  |
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"I find clothes so restrictive at clubs, I bought some shift dresses specifically for clubs but usually I just wrap my towel around me
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A towel sounds like an appealing and much easier option right now |
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A nice dress, classy..leaving something to the the imagination.
Lace is a turn on for me, especially lacey dresses or body suits.
Corsets pushing boobs to your chin, anything Fishnet, leather, shiney pvc type stuff puts me off  |
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"What about a basque as they're easier to move in than a corset?
Or like a lingerie dress? Like a sheer/lace/fishnet dress?
A nice robe over a bra and knickers?
A bra and a skirt?
I have seen some nice basques, but I know from the past that my boobs don't tend to fit in them I might order some to try.
I'm liking the robe idea though "
I have a couple I got from the same brands that I get bras from in order to get a good fit. They cost a pretty penny but they've lasted me years. One has detachable straps and I fibd it far more comfortable than any strapless bra because the weight is supported by your whole torso instead of just a band around the chest so that's an extra bonus . |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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I usually start in a pretty lingerie set but very quickly end up with just the towel wrapped around me
My last club visit in January 2020 my lingerie stayed on but I did feel really comfortable in it |
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"A nice dress, classy..leaving something to the the imagination.
Lace is a turn on for me, especially lacey dresses or body suits.
Corsets pushing boobs to your chin, anything Fishnet, leather, shiney pvc type stuff puts me off "
Yeah, I think I'll save the corsets and pvc for burlesque 
I'm going to have a good look for dresses though...I wasn't sure if they were something that anybody wore at clubs or if everyone just wore lingerie |
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"What about a basque as they're easier to move in than a corset?
Or like a lingerie dress? Like a sheer/lace/fishnet dress?
A nice robe over a bra and knickers?
A bra and a skirt?
I have seen some nice basques, but I know from the past that my boobs don't tend to fit in them I might order some to try.
I'm liking the robe idea though
I have a couple I got from the same brands that I get bras from in order to get a good fit. They cost a pretty penny but they've lasted me years. One has detachable straps and I fibd it far more comfortable than any strapless bra because the weight is supported by your whole torso instead of just a band around the chest so that's an extra bonus . "
Which brands are your favourite? I struggle to find decent fitting bras so that's good info anyway |
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"I usually start in a pretty lingerie set but very quickly end up with just the towel wrapped around me
My last club visit in January 2020 my lingerie stayed on but I did feel really comfortable in it "
I'm pretty sure I'll be the same once I'm there...it's not as if I'm the shy retiring type 
I know I'm probably overthinking it  |
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"What about a basque as they're easier to move in than a corset?
Or like a lingerie dress? Like a sheer/lace/fishnet dress?
A nice robe over a bra and knickers?
A bra and a skirt?
I have seen some nice basques, but I know from the past that my boobs don't tend to fit in them I might order some to try.
I'm liking the robe idea though
I have a couple I got from the same brands that I get bras from in order to get a good fit. They cost a pretty penny but they've lasted me years. One has detachable straps and I fibd it far more comfortable than any strapless bra because the weight is supported by your whole torso instead of just a band around the chest so that's an extra bonus .
Which brands are your favourite? I struggle to find decent fitting bras so that's good info anyway "
At the moment I'm obsessed with Curvy Kate. Especially their scantily range!
Gossard I also do well from. Playful Promises is good too but I have to be quick as stuff sells out quickly in my size! |
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs [...] Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?"
I honestly don't mind all that much as long as they're actually *there*. I've been to events full of guys, and it's no fun. |
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"What about a basque as they're easier to move in than a corset?
Or like a lingerie dress? Like a sheer/lace/fishnet dress?
A nice robe over a bra and knickers?
A bra and a skirt?
I have seen some nice basques, but I know from the past that my boobs don't tend to fit in them I might order some to try.
I'm liking the robe idea though
I have a couple I got from the same brands that I get bras from in order to get a good fit. They cost a pretty penny but they've lasted me years. One has detachable straps and I fibd it far more comfortable than any strapless bra because the weight is supported by your whole torso instead of just a band around the chest so that's an extra bonus .
Which brands are your favourite? I struggle to find decent fitting bras so that's good info anyway
At the moment I'm obsessed with Curvy Kate. Especially their scantily range!
Gossard I also do well from. Playful Promises is good too but I have to be quick as stuff sells out quickly in my size! "
I can see this isn't going to end well for my bank balance
Thank you x |
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs [...] Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
I honestly don't mind all that much as long as they're actually *there*. I've been to events full of guys, and it's no fun. "
Really?? No women at all?
That surprises me...I thought there was a large loyal club following |
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Sparkling strawberry is my goto. I love a chemise, as they can stay on all evening. and have easy access. You can also get sexy / lacy dressing gowns. Some people like to unwrap, rather than it all out on the plate, as soon as they get through the door. |
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"What about a basque as they're easier to move in than a corset?
Or like a lingerie dress? Like a sheer/lace/fishnet dress?
A nice robe over a bra and knickers?
A bra and a skirt?
I have seen some nice basques, but I know from the past that my boobs don't tend to fit in them I might order some to try.
I'm liking the robe idea though
I have a couple I got from the same brands that I get bras from in order to get a good fit. They cost a pretty penny but they've lasted me years. One has detachable straps and I fibd it far more comfortable than any strapless bra because the weight is supported by your whole torso instead of just a band around the chest so that's an extra bonus .
Which brands are your favourite? I struggle to find decent fitting bras so that's good info anyway
At the moment I'm obsessed with Curvy Kate. Especially their scantily range!
Gossard I also do well from. Playful Promises is good too but I have to be quick as stuff sells out quickly in my size!
I can see this isn't going to end well for my bank balance
Thank you x"
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs [...] Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
I honestly don't mind all that much as long as they're actually *there*. I've been to events full of guys, and it's no fun.
Really?? No women at all?
That surprises me...I thought there was a large loyal club following "
Yep. Went to a particular event towards the end of 2019, and literally no women turned up. The only woman on the premises was one of the owners. Had a nice chat with the people who *were* there, but it wasn't something I'd have left the house for. |
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs [...] Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
I honestly don't mind all that much as long as they're actually *there*. I've been to events full of guys, and it's no fun.
Really?? No women at all?
That surprises me...I thought there was a large loyal club following
Yep. Went to a particular event towards the end of 2019, and literally no women turned up. The only woman on the premises was one of the owners. Had a nice chat with the people who *were* there, but it wasn't something I'd have left the house for. "
Well at least I wouldn't have stood out so much in my "not sure what to wear" outfit were I there |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs [...] Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
I honestly don't mind all that much as long as they're actually *there*. I've been to events full of guys, and it's no fun.
Really?? No women at all?
That surprises me...I thought there was a large loyal club following
Yep. Went to a particular event towards the end of 2019, and literally no women turned up. The only woman on the premises was one of the owners. Had a nice chat with the people who *were* there, but it wasn't something I'd have left the house for.
Well at least I wouldn't have stood out so much in my "not sure what to wear" outfit were I there "
My first club visit was a Thursday night at No 3 ... I was the only woman there |
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"I've not tried the clubs yet but looking forward to it. Surely being naked is easiest? Xx"
Whilst I love being naked in more private situations, I prefer to leave a bit to the imagination in clubs |
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I normally wear lingerie with what is meant to be a beach cover up.
My current favourite is a black almost sheer full length that ties in the middle.
I feel sexy in it but still a bit covered. |
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"Sparkling strawberry is my goto. I love a chemise, as they can stay on all evening. and have easy access. You can also get sexy / lacy dressing gowns. Some people like to unwrap, rather than it all out on the plate, as soon as they get through the door. "
I love sparkling strawberry, never been disappointed with anything I have ordered. |
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs [...] Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
I honestly don't mind all that much as long as they're actually *there*. I've been to events full of guys, and it's no fun.
Really?? No women at all?
That surprises me...I thought there was a large loyal club following
Yep. Went to a particular event towards the end of 2019, and literally no women turned up. The only woman on the premises was one of the owners. Had a nice chat with the people who *were* there, but it wasn't something I'd have left the house for.
Well at least I wouldn't have stood out so much in my "not sure what to wear" outfit were I there
My first club visit was a Thursday night at No 3 ... I was the only woman there "
I'm surprised that didn't put you off for life...I've witnessed how overwhelming it can be when there are only a few women and lots of men  |
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I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh! |
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"A nice dress, classy..leaving something to the the imagination.
Lace is a turn on for me, especially lacey dresses or body suits.
Corsets pushing boobs to your chin, anything Fishnet, leather, shiney pvc type stuff puts me off
Yeah, I think I'll save the corsets and pvc for burlesque
I'm going to have a good look for dresses though...I wasn't sure if they were something that anybody wore at clubs or if everyone just wore lingerie "
I like to dress to impress so smart casual attire, (smart jeans or chinos, crisp shirt, unformal wastecoat (t or along those lines) and a dickie bow. I always wear a dickie bow even when ive been to a butlers in the buff type of event.
Im not into the cheesy sex shop type stuff |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!"
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me. |
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"I normally wear lingerie with what is meant to be a beach cover up.
My current favourite is a black almost sheer full length that ties in the middle.
I feel sexy in it but still a bit covered. "
Good shout Lorna, there are some lovely beach cover-ups |
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"I've not tried the clubs yet but looking forward to it. Surely being naked is easiest? Xx
Whilst I love being naked in more private situations, I prefer to leave a bit to the imagination in clubs "
100%
Fully naked tends to feel abit cringy unless your having a moment with someone. Nothing worse than a orgy type of feel in a club |
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"Sparkling strawberry is my goto. I love a chemise, as they can stay on all evening. and have easy access. You can also get sexy / lacy dressing gowns. Some people like to unwrap, rather than it all out on the plate, as soon as they get through the door.
I love sparkling strawberry, never been disappointed with anything I have ordered. "
I must look on Sparkling Strawberry, I've seen it mentioned a few times in the past |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me. "
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X |
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I too hate fancy underwear so just wear matching lace knickers and bra with hold ups, heels and a figure hugging dress. If in a playroom I am always naked. I feel like a Christmas decoration in too many frills and way out of my comfort zone. Always to wear something you feel comfortable in. |
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"I normally wear lingerie with what is meant to be a beach cover up.
My current favourite is a black almost sheer full length that ties in the middle.
I feel sexy in it but still a bit covered.
Good shout Lorna, there are some lovely beach cover-ups "
Also this is a good time of year to be looking for them and like you said there are some lovely ones about and you can use them for other things as well like going to beach or on holiday. |
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs, but I'm planning to visit some (hopefully) soon. My dilemma is that I'm not the biggest lingerie fan, and I have absolutely no idea what to wear.
The more I think about it, the more I'm overthinking and ruling every option out...corsets you can't move in when it comes to sexy time, bodysuits you just have annoying flappy bits when you unpop them at the crotch, babydolls aren't flattering on my body shape, I prefer to keep my tummy covered so not keen on just bra and knickers, I'm not keen on wearing hold-ups so a suspender belt or straps attached to something else are a must for proper stockings
Help!
Ladies - what do you wear when dressing down at a club?
Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
Any advice and recommendations for good places to shop greatly appreciated "
T has got some seriously sexy club outfits from a variety of places, some you can see in our pics. Certainly a few soft basques which give you a little shape, without being constrictive and have clips for stockings.
And they look awesome! |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me.
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X"
Yes I am and no is the answer regarding clubs.
Liberation do a night once a month in Portsmouth and one in Bournemouth.
There is a spa in Bournemouth that has play rooms and if you are not sure you feel about being naked or in lingerie in public thats not a bad place to start.
There are a few in Kent and London. |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me.
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X
Yes I am and no is the answer regarding clubs.
Liberation do a night once a month in Portsmouth and one in Bournemouth.
There is a spa in Bournemouth that has play rooms and if you are not sure you feel about being naked or in lingerie in public thats not a bad place to start.
There are a few in Kent and London. "
Oooh that's good to know! I was looking at them and couldn't figure out which would be better for a newbie.
Although I'd love to go, I don't think I actually have the guts to haha! |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me.
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X
Yes I am and no is the answer regarding clubs.
Liberation do a night once a month in Portsmouth and one in Bournemouth.
There is a spa in Bournemouth that has play rooms and if you are not sure you feel about being naked or in lingerie in public thats not a bad place to start.
There are a few in Kent and London. "
There's Angels in Melksham just outside of Bristol. Good club and it's not dress down. You do that in the playrooms if you venture into those. |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me.
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X
Yes I am and no is the answer regarding clubs.
Liberation do a night once a month in Portsmouth and one in Bournemouth.
There is a spa in Bournemouth that has play rooms and if you are not sure you feel about being naked or in lingerie in public thats not a bad place to start.
There are a few in Kent and London. "
And yes I did feel safe but nervous the first few times.
What I will say is if you go the 1st time at your not sure it's always worth trying again because every club could be a completely different each time depending on whos there and what mood your in. |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me.
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X
Yes I am and no is the answer regarding clubs.
Liberation do a night once a month in Portsmouth and one in Bournemouth.
There is a spa in Bournemouth that has play rooms and if you are not sure you feel about being naked or in lingerie in public thats not a bad place to start.
There are a few in Kent and London.
Oooh that's good to know! I was looking at them and couldn't figure out which would be better for a newbie.
Although I'd love to go, I don't think I actually have the guts to haha! "
There are a few really good parties and socials locally too. |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!
To the first bit yes absolutely.
The dress or dress down code depends on the club so best to check the dress code.
Most have lockers so what iv done in the past is wear a nice dress with my lingerie underneath then had a couple of other options so I can change if that feels more comfortable to me.
Thanks! You're Southampton too aren't you? Are any of the clubs round here any good? Did you feel safe? X
Yes I am and no is the answer regarding clubs.
Liberation do a night once a month in Portsmouth and one in Bournemouth.
There is a spa in Bournemouth that has play rooms and if you are not sure you feel about being naked or in lingerie in public thats not a bad place to start.
There are a few in Kent and London.
There's Angels in Melksham just outside of Bristol. Good club and it's not dress down. You do that in the playrooms if you venture into those."
Thank you I knew about that one but couldn't remember the name, not been but heard good things. |
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I've got a few crotchless bodystockings that can be worn with a sexy Brazilian or something, til you're ready to take them off, which gets around the issue of restrictive lingerie, suspenders etc.
Sheer, semi sheer, or lace dresses are a good option that can be kept on, though leaves you with the stocking dilemma.
My one drawer has turned into 3 over lockdown, so I'm equally not knowing what to wear, now spoilt for choice.
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"A nice dress, classy..leaving something to the the imagination.
Lace is a turn on for me, especially lacey dresses or body suits.
Corsets pushing boobs to your chin, anything Fishnet, leather, shiney pvc type stuff puts me off
Yeah, I think I'll save the corsets and pvc for burlesque
I'm going to have a good look for dresses though...I wasn't sure if they were something that anybody wore at clubs or if everyone just wore lingerie
I like to dress to impress so smart casual attire, (smart jeans or chinos, crisp shirt, unformal wastecoat (t or along those lines) and a dickie bow. I always wear a dickie bow even when ive been to a butlers in the buff type of event.
Im not into the cheesy sex shop type stuff "
Now we all know how to find you at clubs...look for the dickie bow
I'm with you on the cheesy stuff...I'm sure there are plenty of fans of it, but I don't think it's a look I can pull off very well |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Playful Promises do amazing sets that are beautiful, right now they have 20% off as well (one day I'll work for their marketing team). Sometimes Asos is worth a look for nice lingerie that you wouldn't expect.
I've only been to a few clubs so perhaps I don't have much knowledge but the only thing I'd avoid would be wearing the very popular Ann Summers sets. Like the sheer black with red floral detailing that was popular for a bit. I saw at least six women wearing it last time I was at a club and I was glad I didn't pack mine. |
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"It's been a long time since I went to any clubs, but I'm planning to visit some (hopefully) soon. My dilemma is that I'm not the biggest lingerie fan, and I have absolutely no idea what to wear.
The more I think about it, the more I'm overthinking and ruling every option out...corsets you can't move in when it comes to sexy time, bodysuits you just have annoying flappy bits when you unpop them at the crotch, babydolls aren't flattering on my body shape, I prefer to keep my tummy covered so not keen on just bra and knickers, I'm not keen on wearing hold-ups so a suspender belt or straps attached to something else are a must for proper stockings
Help!
Ladies - what do you wear when dressing down at a club?
Gents - what do you like to see ladies wearing?
Any advice and recommendations for good places to shop greatly appreciated
T has got some seriously sexy club outfits from a variety of places, some you can see in our pics. Certainly a few soft basques which give you a little shape, without being constrictive and have clips for stockings.
And they look awesome! "
She certainly has Lots of inspiration there x |
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Take a mixture and enjoy the costume changes as I’m sure everyone else will , one things for sure pretty much everybody loses at least one pair of knickers in the dark somewhere every visit !
Can only imagine what the lost and found bin looks like at Chams Lol ! |
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"I've got a few crotchless bodystockings that can be worn with a sexy Brazilian or something, til you're ready to take them off, which gets around the issue of restrictive lingerie, suspenders etc.
Sheer, semi sheer, or lace dresses are a good option that can be kept on, though leaves you with the stocking dilemma.
My one drawer has turned into 3 over lockdown, so I'm equally not knowing what to wear, now spoilt for choice.
C"
You certainly have the figure for bodystockings...I'm not sure they'd suit me so much 
I'm leaning towards a dress or robe...I could always wear lingerie and a suspender belt under it
Too much choice can be just as bad as not enough choice |
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"Playful Promises do amazing sets that are beautiful, right now they have 20% off as well (one day I'll work for their marketing team). Sometimes Asos is worth a look for nice lingerie that you wouldn't expect.
I've only been to a few clubs so perhaps I don't have much knowledge but the only thing I'd avoid would be wearing the very popular Ann Summers sets. Like the sheer black with red floral detailing that was popular for a bit. I saw at least six women wearing it last time I was at a club and I was glad I didn't pack mine. "
I've never heard of Playful Promises, but I'm off to have a nosey...my bank balance definitely isn't liking this thread
Yeah, I did think that about Ann Summers and Lovehoney...some of their stuff is lovely and I imagine will be popular. Reminds me of a time in my early 20's when I saved up and bought a gorgeous but very distinctive shirt, and the second time I wore it there was someone else in the same nightclub wearing it |
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"Take a mixture and enjoy the costume changes as I’m sure everyone else will , one things for sure pretty much everybody loses at least one pair of knickers in the dark somewhere every visit !
Can only imagine what the lost and found bin looks like at Chams Lol ! "
Note to self - don't get super expensive knickers |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"Playful Promises do amazing sets that are beautiful, right now they have 20% off as well (one day I'll work for their marketing team). Sometimes Asos is worth a look for nice lingerie that you wouldn't expect.
I've only been to a few clubs so perhaps I don't have much knowledge but the only thing I'd avoid would be wearing the very popular Ann Summers sets. Like the sheer black with red floral detailing that was popular for a bit. I saw at least six women wearing it last time I was at a club and I was glad I didn't pack mine.
I've never heard of Playful Promises, but I'm off to have a nosey...my bank balance definitely isn't liking this thread
Yeah, I did think that about Ann Summers and Lovehoney...some of their stuff is lovely and I imagine will be popular. Reminds me of a time in my early 20's when I saved up and bought a gorgeous but very distinctive shirt, and the second time I wore it there was someone else in the same nightclub wearing it "
Playful promises have a stunning range in by Dita Von Tise |
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"Playful Promises do amazing sets that are beautiful, right now they have 20% off as well (one day I'll work for their marketing team). Sometimes Asos is worth a look for nice lingerie that you wouldn't expect.
I've only been to a few clubs so perhaps I don't have much knowledge but the only thing I'd avoid would be wearing the very popular Ann Summers sets. Like the sheer black with red floral detailing that was popular for a bit. I saw at least six women wearing it last time I was at a club and I was glad I didn't pack mine.
I've never heard of Playful Promises, but I'm off to have a nosey...my bank balance definitely isn't liking this thread
Yeah, I did think that about Ann Summers and Lovehoney...some of their stuff is lovely and I imagine will be popular. Reminds me of a time in my early 20's when I saved up and bought a gorgeous but very distinctive shirt, and the second time I wore it there was someone else in the same nightclub wearing it
Playful promises have a stunning range in by Dita Von Tise"
I've just seen 
And they have Betty Paige stuff |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"Playful Promises do amazing sets that are beautiful, right now they have 20% off as well (one day I'll work for their marketing team). Sometimes Asos is worth a look for nice lingerie that you wouldn't expect.
I've only been to a few clubs so perhaps I don't have much knowledge but the only thing I'd avoid would be wearing the very popular Ann Summers sets. Like the sheer black with red floral detailing that was popular for a bit. I saw at least six women wearing it last time I was at a club and I was glad I didn't pack mine.
I've never heard of Playful Promises, but I'm off to have a nosey...my bank balance definitely isn't liking this thread
Yeah, I did think that about Ann Summers and Lovehoney...some of their stuff is lovely and I imagine will be popular. Reminds me of a time in my early 20's when I saved up and bought a gorgeous but very distinctive shirt, and the second time I wore it there was someone else in the same nightclub wearing it
Playful promises have a stunning range in by Dita Von Tise
I've just seen
And they have Betty Paige stuff "
I know...... I could go bankrupt |
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without wanting to hijack the thread too much... I've been wondering the same thing. aiming to get to a club for the first time over the summer, and haven't got a clue what the craic is for blokes.
in my head its basically night out attire, with smart boxers on for later if the evening goes that way..? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"without wanting to hijack the thread too much... I've been wondering the same thing. aiming to get to a club for the first time over the summer, and haven't got a clue what the craic is for blokes.
in my head its basically night out attire, with smart boxers on for later if the evening goes that way..?"
Smart casual for a non dress down club is preferable. Once the dress down comes, most men will have a towel around their waist or strut around in their briefs (me ).
Lily White in a club? Grrr...  |
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"without wanting to hijack the thread too much... I've been wondering the same thing. aiming to get to a club for the first time over the summer, and haven't got a clue what the craic is for blokes.
in my head its basically night out attire, with smart boxers on for later if the evening goes that way..?
Smart casual for a non dress down club is preferable. Once the dress down comes, most men will have a towel around their waist or strut around in their briefs (me ).
Lily White in a club? Grrr... "
nice one mate, thank you. |
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Note to self - don't get super expensive knickers "
Best bit of advice I was given was not to wear black knickers, as they are hard to find in the dark room afterwards I also pack comfy knickers for the long drive home and a very innocuous t-shirt for the McDs drive through visit that tends to happen! |
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Note to self - don't get super expensive knickers
Best bit of advice I was given was not to wear black knickers, as they are hard to find in the dark room afterwards I also pack comfy knickers for the long drive home and a very innocuous t-shirt for the McDs drive through visit that tends to happen!"
Good tip...only downside is that 99.9% of my wardrobe is black  |
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"I too am a bit unsure of what to wear, I've never been before but keen to have a go when things reopen. But I've no idea what people wear or how things work, I'm actually quite nervous! Is it ok to go and just observe/have some drinks? Can I stay dressed? Or will I be the only one not dressing down? Ahhhhh!"
Absolutely it's ok just to go to observe/socialise. I regularly just socialise if I don't feel like more. As for staying dressed, it depends on the club/event. I've been to some where you can stay fully dressed all night, some where you can in the social areas but have to dress down if you're going into play areas and some where you have to dress down after a certain time. If you know what clubs you're interested in though, if you message the organisers/owners they're usually happy to advise on the rules of each event/night and recommend which is best suited to you depending on your preferences . |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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From a gents point of view a mixture of outfits
For me heels, stockings, with like a body stocking top does wonders, or a short dress that wants me to look to see if the lady is wearing any nickers underneath
s a guy I normally have boxers bad a towel |
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Not sure if i missed it. A kimono with the hair in a bun with chopsticks through it (keeps hair from getting messy and cutlery for a snack). Geishas have sexy and minimalist for 100's of years.
Probably similar for me bar hair and chopsticks, as towel only real althernative (my dickie don't bow).
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Note to self - don't get super expensive knickers
Best bit of advice I was given was not to wear black knickers, as they are hard to find in the dark room afterwards I also pack comfy knickers for the long drive home and a very innocuous t-shirt for the McDs drive through visit that tends to happen!"
I do this
Always have a hoodie, leggings and slippers in the car. |
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Bookmarking this to read later. I was taken to a club once and his advice on what to wear made me stand out and I hated it. Never again.
So if I do again I do not want to stand out. |
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My question woudk be lady's what's best clubs peopleo recommend in London
I got in to. Collecting perfumes
I love to smell nise
I love my lady's to smelling like eswell |
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"My question woudk be lady's what's best clubs peopleo recommend in London
I got in to. Collecting perfumes
I love to smell nise
I love my lady's to smelling like eswell "
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"I've got a few crotchless bodystockings that can be worn with a sexy Brazilian or something, til you're ready to take them off, which gets around the issue of restrictive lingerie, suspenders etc.
Sheer, semi sheer, or lace dresses are a good option that can be kept on, though leaves you with the stocking dilemma.
My one drawer has turned into 3 over lockdown, so I'm equally not knowing what to wear, now spoilt for choice.
C
You certainly have the figure for bodystockings...I'm not sure they'd suit me so much
I'm leaning towards a dress or robe...I could always wear lingerie and a suspender belt under it
Too much choice can be just as bad as not enough choice "
I wasn't convinced about bodystockings myself initially but I've seen women of different sizes wearing them and they can be really quite flattering. You've got a good shape - might be worth a try sometime
C |
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"My question woudk be lady's what's best clubs peopleo recommend in London
I got in to. Collecting perfumes
I love to smell nise
I love my lady's to smelling like eswell "
Why ladies? Ladies going to clubs is a different experience to men going
As for women smelling like swill - thats revolting |
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"I've got a few crotchless bodystockings that can be worn with a sexy Brazilian or something, til you're ready to take them off, which gets around the issue of restrictive lingerie, suspenders etc.
Sheer, semi sheer, or lace dresses are a good option that can be kept on, though leaves you with the stocking dilemma.
My one drawer has turned into 3 over lockdown, so I'm equally not knowing what to wear, now spoilt for choice.
C
You certainly have the figure for bodystockings...I'm not sure they'd suit me so much
I'm leaning towards a dress or robe...I could always wear lingerie and a suspender belt under it
Too much choice can be just as bad as not enough choice
I wasn't convinced about bodystockings myself initially but I've seen women of different sizes wearing them and they can be really quite flattering. You've got a good shape - might be worth a try sometime
C"
Personally I use them for layering under other outfits. If i feel a bit too naked in something I put a body stocking on underneath. |
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I sometimes wear the halter neck black lace dress as in my pics with nothing underneath or a rushed body suit with hold ups or stockings. It has studs ( you know what I mean) underneath but they are easy to undo/redo and I just wear a skirt and belt until it’s time to dress down. I swap skirt and belt for a scarf / sarong wrap... |
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