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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it comes to oral do u prefer to give or receive?
I’m a giver 100% "
I’ve got to agree with you I very much love giving it compared to receiving from a lady. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 50/50 most of the time
75/25 either direction
Oral is fantastic I love giving but it's very difficult for any woman to fit a massive thick cock in her mouth
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50"
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it |
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50"
What does feel good for you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"
Notsoposh. It turns me on more if I’m giving the pleasure I love it when a woman cums on my tongue.
I just love everything about it. Apart from the aching tongue |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it "
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Notsoposh. It turns me on more if I’m giving the pleasure I love it when a woman cums on my tongue.
I just love everything about it. Apart from the aching tongue "
What if ahe doesn't? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that."
Notsoposh
That’s where communication comes in. I always ask if there is anything the woman wants me to focus on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.
Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving? "
It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue... |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Notsoposh
That’s where communication comes in. I always ask if there is anything the woman wants me to focus on "
See, that wouldn't work for me, because I just don't know. I couldn't say what you should focus on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.
Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?
It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue... "
Scarlettm. Would u let the other person use the vibrator on u ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.
Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?
It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue... "
Oh dear, you may be about to be flooded by messages proclaiming they can change your mind about this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.
Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?
It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue...
Oh dear, you may be about to be flooded by messages proclaiming they can change your mind about this. "
LOL, cunnilingus hehe... I don’t mind it being done to me but not a first choice. I prefer playing with sex toys and masturbating before sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How are we missing the obvious solution.
69 and give and receive at the same time
I've only ever enjoyed that once as well...."
This is a tricky one. Sometimes, it’s more pleasurable to only give or receive. 69 isn’t always pleasurable. Seldom, in my case. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"How are we missing the obvious solution.
69 and give and receive at the same time
I've only ever enjoyed that once as well....
This is a tricky one. Sometimes, it’s more pleasurable to only give or receive. 69 isn’t always pleasurable. Seldom, in my case."
Concentrate on the one thing at a time.... much better. Usually |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How are we missing the obvious solution.
69 and give and receive at the same time
I've only ever enjoyed that once as well...."
I’m not a big fan of 69. It makes the licking part more difficult to get the tongue in the right places. It’s alright if ur giving a rimming lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love to give oral to both make and female, not so bothered about receiving oral.
Scarlettm what is it u don’t like about receiving?
It doesn’t arouse me, I don’t know why, I tend to prefer a vibrator to a tongue...
Oh dear, you may be about to be flooded by messages proclaiming they can change your mind about this.
LOL, cunnilingus hehe... I don’t mind it being done to me but not a first choice. I prefer playing with sex toys and masturbating before sex "
I like toys incorporated into foreplay. Some women aren’t always in the mood to receive and it’s fun to use toys instead. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Notsoposh.
I think if it was me doing it to u And u didn’t know what u wanted if just try several different tactics until I found the one that made ur body react to |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that."
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Notsoposh. It turns me on more if I’m giving the pleasure I love it when a woman cums on my tongue.
I just love everything about it. Apart from the aching tongue
What if ahe doesn't?"
If she’s not enjoying it then I would just stop and use kissing and other pleasurable things like fingers toys etc |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way. "
hi |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi"
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ? |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this."
Its amazing how many messages we get saying how they are great with their tongue or will have me squirting in minutes with their oral skills, I love it from hubby but not others and definitely not off a girl but love giving to both! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this."
Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.
There's a wealth of other pleasures. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ? "
I didnt say that. Jimboba did. |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this."
Why I like giving?
If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more to try. Apparently I have very skilled fingers too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did."
Ohh lol sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did."
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning |
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I can’t decide!
I adore giving, listening to the moans of the person I’m licking or sucking, it’s such a turn on, making them orgasm - perfect.
But I also love to be licked, the orgasm from it is just amazing, simply can’t choose! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this.
Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.
There's a wealth of other pleasures. "
Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.
Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.
Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning "
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this.
Why I like giving?
If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more to try. Apparently I have very skilled fingers too"
Yep.... why do you like giving? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great."
I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this.
Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.
There's a wealth of other pleasures.
Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.
Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.
Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it."
I find the "control" thing intriguing. You're not the first to say it. I never feel that way, maybe that's being male has sonething to do with it.
When I get a sense that someone is doing it for my pleasure rather than their own I tend to stop enjoying it and change the scene. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.
I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol "
You never know.... just be you and show your personality. |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this.
Why I like giving?
If she doesn't like it, there's plenty more to try. Apparently I have very skilled fingers too
Yep.... why do you like giving?"
The reaction when she enjoys it, of course, making her squirm and moan on my tongue. I also like the taste, and feel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.
I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol
You never know.... just be you and show your personality."
I will babe. Thank u for that advice. I’m a decent enough bloke so fingers crossed |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this.
Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.
There's a wealth of other pleasures.
Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.
Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.
Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it.
I find the "control" thing intriguing. You're not the first to say it. I never feel that way, maybe that's being male has sonething to do with it.
When I get a sense that someone is doing it for my pleasure rather than their own I tend to stop enjoying it and change the scene."
For me I think it is because I don't take control at any other point (usually) so it's the novelty of that as much as literally being in control. Having a penis in your mouth puts the owner of said penis in a very literally vulnerable position.
I'd never do it purely for the other person's pleasure. If you do that it becomes boring and that's not good for either participant. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'll be honest, I'm a greedy young lady. Love having a pair of lips on my clit x"
Flirt and fun
This is the kind of woman I want to have some fun with. I love to lick the clit and bury my tongue inside |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Does anyone even know why?
Or have a plan for if the woman doesn't like it?
Genuinely curious about this.
Personally I just like the taste, feel, smell. Sensitive folds of skin against my lips. I do it for me, it's selfish, but if she doesn't like it, as a lot of women don't, then what's the point. No fun at all.
There's a wealth of other pleasures.
Thank you! A completely honest answer..... it's why I always preferred giving.
Totally selfish of me because I love feeling a cock harden in my mouth.... or get even harder in my mouth. I love the heat, the taste, and most of all the power and feeling of control I have over him while I'm making him moan. Completely submissive in every way except when I'm doing this one thing.
Of course I love the fact that he's enjoying it, and if he didn't then I'd change things up or stop and as you say Cat, a wealth of other pleasures. But I enjoy the feeling of giving head so much I've even orgasmed myself over it.
I find the "control" thing intriguing. You're not the first to say it. I never feel that way, maybe that's being male has sonething to do with it.
When I get a sense that someone is doing it for my pleasure rather than their own I tend to stop enjoying it and change the scene.
For me I think it is because I don't take control at any other point (usually) so it's the novelty of that as much as literally being in control. Having a penis in your mouth puts the owner of said penis in a very literally vulnerable position.
I'd never do it purely for the other person's pleasure. If you do that it becomes boring and that's not good for either participant."
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Definitely 100% giving
I get pleasure when giving for hours"
I honestly don't believe I know any woman who finds the thought of hours of receiving oral appealing (ladies please let me know if I'm wrong).
If you've made me orgasm a couple of times, chances are I'm ready for something else. After a few, the last thing I'm going to want is your mouth and tongue anywhere near any part of my nethers, especially the clit. That shiz is painful when it's been that aroused.
And if you haven't found at least the first mini orgasm within a relatively short time, I don't know about other women, but I've lost interest in having your face there.
Sorry about that. |
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"Definitely 100% giving
I get pleasure when giving for hours
I honestly don't believe I know any woman who finds the thought of hours of receiving oral appealing (ladies please let me know if I'm wrong).
If you've made me orgasm a couple of times, chances are I'm ready for something else. After a few, the last thing I'm going to want is your mouth and tongue anywhere near any part of my nethers, especially the clit. That shiz is painful when it's been that aroused.
And if you haven't found at least the first mini orgasm within a relatively short time, I don't know about other women, but I've lost interest in having your face there.
Sorry about that."
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I used to just be 100% a giver as I didn't really get any pleasure from receiving (pre-swinging) but it turns out I just hadn't found someone who knew what they were doing! I do enjoy giving as a sub the only control I have or want is sucking a cock.
I never do 69 as I can't focus on giving him the best oral and my own pleasure at the same time.
I now love receiving but do warn them that I'm a squirter as it puts some men off |
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"I used to just be 100% a giver as I didn't really get any pleasure from receiving (pre-swinging) but it turns out I just hadn't found someone who knew what they were doing! I do enjoy giving as a sub the only control I have or want is sucking a cock.
I never do 69 as I can't focus on giving him the best oral and my own pleasure at the same time.
I now love receiving but do warn them that I'm a squirter as it puts some men off"
Princess phoenix I love a squirter especially while I’m down there |
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I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down |
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"I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down "
That's why I start off gently and increase pressure etc based on vocal and physical indications |
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"I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down
That's why I start off gently and increase pressure etc based on vocal and physical indications "
I tend to change what I’m doing when I’m down on a woman as it’s about reading the body isn’t it.
I’ve only ever had 1 woman give me a great blow job |
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"I do like getting a blowjob as long as it is good. I’ve had ppl who have hurt my chap doing it before. But if I had to choose between giving or receiving oral I’d choose to give hands down
That's why I start off gently and increase pressure etc based on vocal and physical indications "
I’d like to experience ur technique |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.
I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol
You never know.... just be you and show your personality."
She’s always right. Miss. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.
I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol
You never know.... just be you and show your personality.
She’s always right. Miss. "
You know it Mr.
I was going to sleep about 2 hours ago.... |
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50
Notsoposh I no what u mean. Unless it’s done the way u like it u won’t be interested in receiving it
And the way I like it apparently changes.... I'm unpredictable like that.
Agree. Just had four outta five going the good way.
hi
Notsoposh what do u mean four outta five ?
I didnt say that. Jimboba did.
It’s my first night on forum. Still learning
No worries. Welcome. You're getting stuck in, which is great.
I’m trying my best lol. Apparently I’m more likely to get some luck on the forums so I bit the bullet lol
You never know.... just be you and show your personality.
She’s always right. Miss.
You know it Mr.
I was going to sleep about 2 hours ago.... "
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"
Bring out the cake |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake "
^^ he knows |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows "
Yeah stale cake I know |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows
Yeah stale cake I know "
I'm saying nothing..... |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows
Yeah stale cake I know
I'm saying nothing..... "
Say no more say no more Posh |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows
Yeah stale cake I know
I'm saying nothing.....
Say no more say no more Posh "
If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows
Yeah stale cake I know
I'm saying nothing.....
Say no more say no more Posh
If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will "
Definitely will |
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows
Yeah stale cake I know
I'm saying nothing.....
Say no more say no more Posh
If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will
Definitely will "
And the fish slice |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?
Bring out the cake
^^ he knows
Yeah stale cake I know
I'm saying nothing.....
Say no more say no more Posh
If the check doesn't cut it, the fdying pan will
Definitely will
And the fish slice "
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I'd love both. Especially if I like the taste of the juice, the texture of the lips and the overall shape of it.
Even better if there are some pubic hair to rub my nose and beard over before tongue flat that pussy ftw |
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"Until recently I didnt enjoy oral. I found it boring.
Turns out I was just not having it done by someone who paid attention and discovered what actually felt good for me.
So I've gone from 100% giving to being happy with 50/50"
More 70% in favour of giving rather than receiving lady bit instead of sucking blood everywhere stitches blood everywhere and to boot ruined a perfectly good pair of chinos so more of sugar puff fan myself
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"So all you guys like giving.... why? What is it you get out of it that makes you enjoy it so much?
And if she doesn't enjoy it, what do you do?"
I love both giving and receiving. What I get is intimacy at a different level. Both satisfy a number of my senses and I feel the euphoria in my mind. When giving to someone I care, I love to take my time, satisfy her but i also love the visual, the trembling feel in mouth, the taste, the jerk movements of the woman, her sounds. I have been in a relationship with a woman I had daily sex with who was not very keen in both giving and receiving (and even stimulating her with my fingers. Overall, the experience was still great but could be a lot greater. It was like going to a fine restaurant, having a great time but still leaving unable to try the signature dishes. It was frustrating as oral both ways and (stimulating with my fingers) is in my opinion (and in my case) a very important part of foreplay and the easiest way to get aroused. Still though, it was a very satisfactory relationship. |
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More than happy to give and really enjoy it but being totally honest, I prefer receiving (and if MrsN gets me to completion, she is on a promise for breakfast in bed!). M |
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Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though |
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"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though "
I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?! |
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"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though
I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?! "
No she was just a novice hell it hurt blood was everywhere embarrassed emojis what made it worse my mum found out lol came to see me in hospital she said serves yourself right was more concerned about my trousers ahhh loved my chinos ruined blood everywhere |
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"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though
I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?!
No she was just a novice hell it hurt blood was everywhere embarrassed emojis what made it worse my mum found out lol came to see me in hospital she said serves yourself right was more concerned about my trousers ahhh loved my chinos ruined blood everywhere "
Blimey! |
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"Giver I’m afraid as said had unfortunate incident when younger lady bit instead of suck put me off for life I’m afraid do lick to lick sugar puff though
I read that. That sounds horrendous! Did she do it on purpose?!
No she was just a novice hell it hurt blood was everywhere embarrassed emojis what made it worse my mum found out lol came to see me in hospital she said serves yourself right was more concerned about my trousers ahhh loved my chinos ruined blood everywhere "
So that’s why now just like the sugar puff ! |
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