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over a year ago
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"if they say thanks for the reply thats cool
if they ask why not, ignore
if they persist, block"
I second that!
dont get it myself, if someone knocked me back, I wouldnt wanna embarrass myself by asking y or begging them to reconsider as ive had before...'my age limit is 35 for a guy, ur 56...' 'but I look much younger'...CRINGE!!!!
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"I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?
How do people deal with this response? "
Having a profile that states exactly what I'm looking for and stating I won't reply to anyone outwith my preferences.
I honestly struggle to understand why people get so hot and bothered answering people they're not interested in. |
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"I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?
How do people deal with this response? "
if they're ok with it and say something like 'keep me in mind' we do so and have met some of those guys at a later date..
when they get arsey or pestering, str8 block tbh.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's when they ask why I'm saying no. It can be rather annoying. Isn't a no meant to be a no?
I've just been called stuck up and I think I'm miss perfect as I repeated that I didnt want to meet |
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over a year ago
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Well as a person who has mostly deleated messages without a rely...being on the forums has made me re think this.
As many say...over and over...manners cost nothing.
I too get lots of mail but if the message is polite have started to relply O:-
Its been a very positive experiment |
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"Well as a person who has mostly deleated messages without a rely...being on the forums has made me re think this.
As many say...over and over...manners cost nothing.
I too get lots of mail but if the message is polite have started to relply O:-
Its been a very positive experiment "
its a good attitude to have...I always end my msg's as a no thanks is fine..and often take note.Sounding like a parrot, but I've had meets in the past from ppl that have said no..I just never hounded them for a meet, or asked why why why.. |
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over a year ago
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"Actually I have to.
Deleated a message....and spoke to him in a chat room weeks later without knowing who he was.
He had me in stitches and we met "
i read -had me in stitches and wet....
sorta cock rised me lol |
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"I try to reply to most emails even when I'm not interested. However there's a lot of guys that ask why not?
How do people deal with this response?
Having a profile that states exactly what I'm looking for and stating I won't reply to anyone outwith my preferences.
I honestly struggle to understand why people get so hot and bothered answering people they're not interested in. "
My thoughts exactly.... |
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