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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When someone sends u a dm what kinda thing would catch ur attention for u to reply even if u didn’t necessarily fancy them ?
For me it is someone who has something respectful to say. Also a compliment is a winner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"something funny or out of the ordinary  Px "
That’s where I’m going wrong then lol. I try to show my respectfulness and be a gentleman. Never tried humour |
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"its when you get a guy sendng you a pic of him in a monkey suit with the text ' lets swing together'
you seriously need to re-think your life"
Or you need to recruit him as a tag partner, assuming he wasn't hitting on you. His sense of humor is certainly top class |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"something funny or out of the ordinary Px
That’s where I’m going wrong then lol. I try to show my respectfulness and be a gentleman. Never tried humour
Laughter can be an aphrodisiac "
But you need to be yourself also. Insincere people are a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regardless how you dress the table if the menu is not her taste she won’t touch it.
You can be a brillant poet or write hilarious messages if the coating is not her taste it will only go as far as a good laugh but no thank you at the end of the night.
The right mixture of good comms and old fashioned hormone connections is the only recipe for a kiss and further intimate bonding.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"something funny or out of the ordinary Px
That’s where I’m going wrong then lol. I try to show my respectfulness and be a gentleman. Never tried humour
Laughter can be an aphrodisiac
But you need to be yourself also. Insincere people are a turn off"
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I’m not insecure. I just thought that by showing respectfulness was the right way to send a first message. I never even thought of humour lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"something funny or out of the ordinary Px
That’s where I’m going wrong then lol. I try to show my respectfulness and be a gentleman. Never tried humour
Laughter can be an aphrodisiac
But you need to be yourself also. Insincere people are a turn off.
I’m not insecure. I just thought that by showing respectfulness was the right way to send a first message. I never even thought of humour lol"
They didn't say insecure, insincere was what they said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"something funny or out of the ordinary Px
That’s where I’m going wrong then lol. I try to show my respectfulness and be a gentleman. Never tried humour
Laughter can be an aphrodisiac
But you need to be yourself also. Insincere people are a turn off.
I’m not insecure. I just thought that by showing respectfulness was the right way to send a first message. I never even thought of humour lol
They didn't say insecure, insincere was what they said "
Oh Yh lol. Miss read it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always found getting messages read to be the problem. Messages must be lost in the crowd too easily."
Women are inundated with messages, so you'll find the majority u send will be unopened ir not answered....no expectations on fab is a good rule of thumb to work to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always found getting messages read to be the problem. Messages must be lost in the crowd too easily.
Women are inundated with messages, so you'll find the majority u send will be unopened ir not answered....no expectations on fab is a good rule of thumb to work to "
Speak for yourself. I’m swapped in responses.
Ok, that might of been a lie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always found getting messages read to be the problem. Messages must be lost in the crowd too easily.
Women are inundated with messages, so you'll find the majority u send will be unopened ir not answered....no expectations on fab is a good rule of thumb to work to
Speak for yourself. I’m swapped in responses.
Ok, that might of been a lie"
Mate mate mate I'm too long in the fab tooth to fall for that shit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
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I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck "
A quote like that would be normally from a profile with verifications. But, you don’t?
Are you these fakes you speak of |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck "
This is my first time of using the forum
Tbh I didn’t even notice it until today |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck
A quote like that would be normally from a profile with verifications. But, you don’t?
Are you these fakes you speak of"
I’ve not met anyone from here yet who could verify me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a pic sent to me the other day, of a rubber mask with a penis for a nose, now that really caught my attention, nobody has a penis for a nose everyone nose that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck
A quote like that would be normally from a profile with verifications. But, you don’t?
Are you these fakes you speak of
I’ve not met anyone from here yet who could verify me "
Use tge cam rooms can get verified through cams |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck
A quote like that would be normally from a profile with verifications. But, you don’t?
Are you these fakes you speak of
I’ve not met anyone from here yet who could verify me
Use tge cam rooms can get verified through cams "
I get awkward doing selfies for Christ sake lol no way I’d cam in a room full of ppl. Maybe 121 but that’s all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck
A quote like that would be normally from a profile with verifications. But, you don’t?
Are you these fakes you speak of
I’ve not met anyone from here yet who could verify me
Use tge cam rooms can get verified through cams
I get awkward doing selfies for Christ sake lol no way I’d cam in a room full of ppl. Maybe 121 but that’s all "
Wait fir clubs n socials to open remember, ppl arnt w really chatting on fab cuz of lickdown n shit, just stick with it, I promise you it'll cum up tru.os for u at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The art of conversation is hard to explain.
But
If you read people's profiles you can get sometimes find things they might like to talk about or if you keep an eye on status updates you might get an idea of what goes through their heads.
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I completely agree it’s hard to explain, just be yourself... I haven’t actually spoken or messaged anyone that isn’t on the forum if I’m honest for well over a year... I’ve only really messaged forum users through getting to know them reading their posts interacting on threads and flirting.
All I can say is be yourself. I think a lot go wrong when they try to be someone they’re not. Good luck
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A quote like that would be normally from a profile with verifications. But, you don’t?
Are you these fakes you speak of"
I have verifications... I’ve been swinging for years I’ve met quite a few people, nothing fake here... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work "
Sending a dick pic in my first message isn’t my style tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work "
Oh god  gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work
Oh god gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
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Where I've been going wrong all these years |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work
Oh god gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
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So
Mrssapphire u actually like a dick pic ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work
Oh god gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
So
Mrssapphire u actually like a dick pic ? "
Yeh! I keep stick them all in an album under the bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work
Oh god gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
So
Mrssapphire u actually like a dick pic ?
Yeh! I keep stick them all in an album under the bed"
Are they laminated, so they are wipe clean?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work
Oh god gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
So
Mrssapphire u actually like a dick pic ?
Yeh! I keep stick them all in an album under the bed
Are they laminated, so they are wipe clean? "
Yeh I realised after a while, printing fresh ones wasn't cost effective. Especially with the volume of penises I receive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently a picture of your cock and some simple text - 'fancy some of this princess' seems to work
Oh god gets me every time and it wasn't even a message to me
So
Mrssapphire u actually like a dick pic ?
Yeh! I keep stick them all in an album under the bed
Are they laminated, so they are wipe clean?
Yeh I realised after a while, printing fresh ones wasn't cost effective. Especially with the volume of penises I receive "
Lmao |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just any message would be grand 
Do u not get many then ? maybe about 2-3 messages a week "
I just think it’s not the right thing to do in ur first message |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Shows they've really read our profile, intelligence, humour with naughtiness "
Oncemoreroundthesun. I always read a profile no matter how long it is. It’s respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it's clear they've actually read my profile.
Compliment about my outfits.
Generally just being normal."
I know what you mean -I seem to get more messages from men lol and they also dont seem to have read my profile, they dont say nice things about my outfits and they are rarely normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't even open the message if I didn't find them attractive. I've responded to a first message before that was just "baaaaa" because I liked the look of the guy. |
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