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The fear of taking selfies

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So who loves or loathes them? It's quite funny with me as I hate them and get really anxious when taking them, yet believe it or not I'm actually a photographer that has won a few awards for my portrait and themed shoots with other people

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m not a fan. I prefer the natural ones other people take. Problem is I’m the only one ever seems to take pics anywhere! So never any of me

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Strange I'm the complete opposite. Rather take my own I get too flustered if someone else is involved

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool

What do you think is making you anxious about it OP? I quite enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate taking selfies, prefer natural photos, but getting more used to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I love taking photos of others, im a member of a local studio, I did some modelling for the group once, never have I felt so self conscious and uncomfortable, and that's how I feel taking a selfie lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not a lover. I always look awkward or confused - natural ones much better

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By *elethWoman  over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Strange I'm the complete opposite. Rather take my own I get too flustered if someone else is involved "

Same here!

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I love taking photos of others, im a member of a local studio, I did some modelling for the group once, never have I felt so self conscious and uncomfortable, and that's how I feel taking a selfie lol"

Oh I see. So you dislike having your photo taken whether it's by yourself or others? I can understand how that can be the case even with being a photographer. It's very different being the subject.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh I see. So you dislike having your photo taken whether it's by yourself or others? I can understand how that can be the case even with being a photographer. It's very different being the subject. "

I'm not the kind of guy that shouts "look at me" so when everyone that is looking at me with a camera pointed at me I get cold sweats, not good on a portrait photo lol

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh I see. So you dislike having your photo taken whether it's by yourself or others? I can understand how that can be the case even with being a photographer. It's very different being the subject.

I'm not the kind of guy that shouts "look at me" so when everyone that is looking at me with a camera pointed at me I get cold sweats, not good on a portrait photo lol"

Oh bless you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh I see. So you dislike having your photo taken whether it's by yourself or others? I can understand how that can be the case even with being a photographer. It's very different being the subject.

I'm not the kind of guy that shouts "look at me" so when everyone that is looking at me with a camera pointed at me I get cold sweats, not good on a portrait photo lol

Oh bless you. "

Well you look extremely photogenic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate talking them

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh I see. So you dislike having your photo taken whether it's by yourself or others? I can understand how that can be the case even with being a photographer. It's very different being the subject.

I'm not the kind of guy that shouts "look at me" so when everyone that is looking at me with a camera pointed at me I get cold sweats, not good on a portrait photo lol

Oh bless you.

Well you look extremely photogenic "

Oh it's mostly smoke and mirrors .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh bless you.

Well you look extremely photogenic

Oh it's mostly smoke and mirrors . "

I'm not convinced, I know how to use smoke and mirrors lol

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Oh bless you.

Well you look extremely photogenic

Oh it's mostly smoke and mirrors .

I'm not convinced, I know how to use smoke and mirrors lol"

Haha well thank you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I almost always look crosseyed in my selfies because I don't know how to look into the camera.

Therefore I very rarely take any

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By *ockosaurusMan  over a year ago

Warwick


"I’m not a fan. I prefer the natural ones other people take. Problem is I’m the only one ever seems to take pics anywhere! So never any of me "

Same here.

Even when I am with others that are taking photos I'm normally missing from them all.

I think I have a natural aversion to cameras

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By *indergirlWoman  over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Most of my selfies I post are the best of maybe 20 or 30 I've taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Most of my selfies I post are the best of maybe 20 or 30 I've taken "

Very good they are too

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By *om and JennieCouple  over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I don’t hate them, I just have short arms so they tend to be rubbish

J x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not a fan..I take a couple and end up having to pick the best of a bad bunch..and I'm not a lover of having others take my pic either... but thankfully I don't have to own those!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love a good selfie... however, it usually takes me 20 tries til I get one I think looks acceptable haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hate them. Think I only have two that are okay. I was told once that I certainly look better in real life

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By *ong_John2333Man  over a year ago

Birmingham


"Not a lover. I always look awkward or confused - natural ones much better"

Exactly this for me, I dont like taking them at all, maybe its just overthinking it too much.

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By *nliveneTV/TS  over a year ago

Selby

I don't like too much to take selfies i other hand i always let people take selfies with me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not a fan of selfies in my head I look better in the flesh x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham

I fucking detest them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate how I look so no selfies for me

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By *amantha TSWoman  over a year ago

Swindon

Male me has long suffered from a phobia of being photographed. Long story but it's how I came to be. But growing up no school photos, no wedding pics. My mates got me pissed and threw me into a photo booth for my passport photo (which was also my driving licence ID for a while) and fainted when I had to do my military ID.

I'm getting better being in front of the camera as a guy. I can have a pic taken as long as I know where that image is (ie not a snap on a phone) But I think now the anxiety lies in people's reactions if I were to post a pic of male me. Very complex!

So I kind of understand what you're saying. And emphasise. It's not easy, but fair play you're doing it. More than male me!

But I'd do you a trade if you want, femme me will pose for you if you pose for me after

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who loves or loathes them? It's quite funny with me as I hate them and get really anxious when taking them, yet believe it or not I'm actually a photographer that has won a few awards for my portrait and themed shoots with other people"

Taking selfie’s make me feel awkward which really don’t help on a site like this lol.

I look better in person (apparently)

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

Most of my pics are selfie. When you live alone you don't have any option but to photograph yourself. I hate doing it but needs must.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Yes love a selfie x

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By *ubyRonCouple  over a year ago

Lancashire

Struggle with photos whoever is taking them to be honest.

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