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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I used to be part of a swinging married couple but it all eventually went wrong after 12 months and now we are separated pre lockdowns, with all the usual family break up problems and it’s not a nice place at all right now.
I look at dating sites and think is it possible to return to find a partner who is non lifestyle and be happy and fulfilled and leave it behind or face the lifestyle single but now potentially miss out on having someone special to spend your life with , for me swinging as a single feels a very empty place.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Roger and I met in a dating site after exiting previous ‘vanilla’ relationships. Swinging and a ‘normal’ relationship can coexist. Good luck in your search  "
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I absolutely believe that sexual non monogamy and a loving/emotional relationship are possible. I’ve had 2 that started here (they have since ended but we are still friends).
Relationships are very complex and they come in many different varieties. Searching often doesn’t work, be content with where you are and you may just stumble across what you need.
I think a place like this is possibly the best place to start.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I absolutely believe that sexual non monogamy and a loving/emotional relationship are possible. I’ve had 2 that started here (they have since ended but we are still friends).
Relationships are very complex and they come in many different varieties. Searching often doesn’t work, be content with where you are and you may just stumble across what you need.
I think a place like this is possibly the best place to start.
V x "
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Everybody in a good relationship needs to be able to be themselves and free to express themselves with the love and support of their partner. If being in the lifestyle is core to being you then surely finding someone the same is a relationship must have going forward? After all if theirs anyone you want to share all of you with including your deviance with its your partner. You don't want to live a lie or keep secrets. Just look on this site there's plenty of people on here in that boat and it's genuinely sad for all involved (and why I try not to judge others who's shoes I don't stand in). |
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"So......
I used to be part of a swinging married couple but it all eventually went wrong after 12 months and now we are separated pre lockdowns, with all the usual family break up problems and it’s not a nice place at all right now.
I look at dating sites and think is it possible to return to find a partner who is non lifestyle and be happy and fulfilled and leave it behind or face the lifestyle single but now potentially miss out on having someone special to spend your life with , for me swinging as a single feels a very empty place.
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I have the same worry OP - I met a guy off Fab & have had the most amazing time with him for over 3 years. But we’ve split up recently and I not only miss him and the fun times we had together but am scared of going back to normal dating and potentially feeling bored. I know I will have to give it a chance but I’ve never felt as sexually connected to someone before and it’s something that’s really important to me  |
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