Men seem to think it's rare everywhere, but no one I've ever met has actually broached the subject with me.
You have to bring it into conversation so the ladies know!
I always suggest men having their own gear though, as my strap on is for personal use only. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think alot of men are scared to bring it up with wives/gf, when honestly I think alot of those wives/gf would jump at the chance.
I have it right there on my profile that I'm looking for someone who enjoys pegging, but no luck yet. |
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Fortunately we are both openly bi anyway. So wasn’t much conversation to be had. I understand why it’s hard to bring up though. With the whole *will people think I’m gay* undertones.
Chill out. You will find someone eventually. Many many ladies enjoy pegging.
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Unless people communicate then no one is any the wiser about what each other wants. Definitely wouldn’t be using my own strap on with some random dude though. Buying and supplying your own is the way forward! |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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"Men seem to think it's rare everywhere, but no one I've ever met has actually broached the subject with me.
You have to bring it into conversation so the ladies know!
I always suggest men having their own gear though, as my strap on is for personal use only."
Personal use? |
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"Men seem to think it's rare everywhere, but no one I've ever met has actually broached the subject with me.
You have to bring it into conversation so the ladies know!
I always suggest men having their own gear though, as my strap on is for personal use only."
Completely agree! Unless men make it known to us that they enjoy anal play, majority of women won't attempt to find out.
Also agree, toys are personal- I wouldn't share with just anyone - if a guy presented me with a strap on, I'd happily use it on him though   |
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"Unless people communicate then no one is any the wiser about what each other wants. Definitely wouldn’t be using my own strap on with some random dude though. Buying and supplying your own is the way forward!"
Oh definitely, have all my own toys including 2 strap ons |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh it’s totally a regional thing, you get up passed Bristol and you can’t move for strap on’s.
So you after pegging fun too"
Not me mate, I merely highlighted the regional differences in strap on use, it’s something I’ve studied for years, it’s a passion of mine. |
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For me pegging isn't something I'd do on a random meet. Has to be with someone I've grown to know and trust first.
I guess for a woman it's a very different sensation and might not be what they're after in the first instance, but once you start exploring together can be a nice "side dish". |
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