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How did you discover Fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I discovered Fab some years ago.
Myself and my then partner had a meet through another site (no longer exists) and they asked us if we were here too.
We had no idea what they meant, that directed us, gave us their username and verified us immediately.
What about the rest of ya? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we decided to start this life style we searched the Internet. Fab was once of the websites that came up. We signed up to a couple but soon decided fab was the one to use. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Myself and my former partner had a 'trusted' couple whom we met intermittently for full swap inc. DP and DVP.
When that relationship ended, for reasons unrelated to swinging, I joined a couple of swinger's sites and later decided to focus solely on Fab, mostly on the forums.
Regrettably the pandemic has wrecked swinging, and will probably continue to do so for the next year despite optimism about the vaccination programme in UK.
Progress in Ireland has been significantly slower, mostly hampered by a limited vaccine supply, that is tied to the EU.
In summation, Fab is a good site that currently satisfies my needs and aspirations, which are pitched very low at present. |
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By *etnetWoman
over a year ago
birmingham |
"I discovered Fab some years ago.
Myself and my then partner had a meet through another site (no longer exists) and they asked us if we were here too.
We had no idea what they meant, that directed us, gave us their username and verified
What about the rest of ya?"
I was just sitting in my local lay-by and this young man politely said
Young man “hello”
Me “ Hello “
Young man “so what you doing here?”
Me” Just sitting admiring the view of the reservoir“
Young man “ Yeah right”
Me” Seriously”
Young Man” Oh so you know it’s a dogging location”
Me”What’s that then”
Young man” People meet or watch sexual activity “
Me Really” Eyes widen and I say so all the time I’ve been coming here to just relax etc, people are meeting for sex” Wow I said
Young Man” Well step into my van and I’ll give you details 
Me” Wish I was 15 years young”  In my head ... lol
Me” Tell me more” intrigued
Young man”Add me on this site called “ fabswingers “ take my number “
So that’s how I ended up on Fab ... lol
Obviously I had to learn my way around the site
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It was around about 2013. I was in a sex less relationship. My wife said to me that I wouldn't get any from her so I might as well get it somewhere else. I ended up going to a swingers club. I got chatting with two very lovely and welcoming couples in the jacuzzi. One of the ladies recommended I join Fabswingers and both couples ended up verifying me. It was only years later that I learned how some guys struggle to get verified. I was very fortunate. Luke |
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I have no idea really.
Dating sites weren't working for me as everyone seemed to be looking for long term relationships / marriage, and I definitely wasn't.
I've always been interested in exploring my sexual side more, and trying new things, but was always held back by previous relationships.
Then I somehow, even though it wasn't what I was looking for, I stumbled across FAB and it seemed full of like minded people that were really open and fun to chat to. It felt like a breathe of fresh air, so I stuck around.
Since being here the people on the forums have helped boost my confidence massively, and I can't wait for things to ease so I can actually start experiencing more than just the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spilt up with my then Feyoncé for good a guy at my work at the time was a swinger use to talk to him on brake sometimes
Told me I should get on hear as I was single
went home though I would check it out made a mans account didn’t go all that well
but did see they had tv/ts had done a bit off dressing in my younger years before meeting my Feyoncé had put it on the back burner
Though I want to explore it more so carted a tv/ts account and never looked back that was 10 years ago |
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An old work mate (who was/might still be on here) when we were chatting about sex and they found out I hadn't had any for ages!
Said I should join Fab and I probs get some.
How wrong they were!! Lol |
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"I discovered Fab some years ago.
Myself and my then partner had a meet through another site (no longer exists) and they asked us if we were here too.
We had no idea what they meant, that directed us, gave us their username and verified us immediately.
What about the rest of ya?"
We tried an app which looked extremely fake then kept searching and stumbled across the site a couple of years back x |
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Fab???
Went to the club in Derby and heard "are You on fab?"
That how it starts...more or less for all of us... unless you're very needy lol
My point is...is it a culture or just let's get laid easily place... true is out there...in the woods lol
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Back in the day there was Adult Friend Finder. It was a toxic place. This lead into some popular places like Swingingheaven and localswingers where you realise the genuine swingers are few and far between, but easy to find.
Take a couple of years off and gravity has shifted to a thanos snap degree and a new pretender has ascended to the throne. Fab life it is now and has been for over a decade. |
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A friend took me to the VA, my first time at a club, had a terrific time. Went back on my own a few weeks later and met a lovely couple who took me under their wing so to speak.. They told me about FAB and when I got home I signed up... On and off for a few years now.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I discovered Fab some years ago.
Myself and my then partner had a meet through another site (no longer exists) and they asked us if we were here too.
We had no idea what they meant, that directed us, gave us their username and verified us immediately.
What about the rest of ya?"
I was seeing someone regular from a different site, they moved across to here and recommended I come across as well. Had a few breaks over the years, but not looked back since!
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Completely by accident a number of years ago on my then bosses computer.
She asked me to continue to work on an order whilst she had a meeting and I needed to open a new page to search for a supplier in Falmouth.
As soon as I typed FA the drop down bar put up all the pages in the history of pages on Fab.
I didn’t dare look at any in case she checked lol but I did google it at home and when I split up with my wife so I ventured on here.
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I had bad depression for a few years and my libido was non-existent but in May 2018 I was horny as hell after 6yrs without sex so asked an old friend about swinging as I vaguely knew he did it but didn't really know much about it. He directed me to Fab and explained it to me, offered advice and here I am! I've made friends and got a lot of good advice and we support each other especially when someone is being rude or abusive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Off the back of swinging heaven back in the day. Back then fab was a tiny little site that was like a backup site to use .
Now it seems fab is the biggest one in uk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wanted to do things to two women and fetish websites were very hard to navigate. I googled swingers and there were two options. This and another site. I joined the other site first but have never ever gone back.
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Pillow talk with a FWB.
We had a very alternative look at sex and after a particularly energetic session we spoke about swingers clubs. Looked for some reviews of clubs and found this place. Both now on here as singles and enjoying it. |
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I was sexually quite shy and had only ever been with my ex husband so all very vanilla. I was on Pof chatting to a guy and had to keep googling things he was saying. Told him this and he directed me to fab. Never actually met this guy as he let me down when supposed to be meeting with a pathetic excuse so I’m still here after a few years |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
Guildford |
I was on another site but it got a bit stale. Can’t remember if I searched or was told but came to fabs and have been on here for a good few years on and off now. I’ve looked at others since but they don’t seem as good... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We randomly meet another couple one Saturday night, at a swingers club (Libs) got on really great had a fantastic night, they asked us if we used fabswingingers, we didn't, next day we joined up and the rest is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I discovered Fab some years ago.
Myself and my then partner had a meet through another site (no longer exists) and they asked us if we were here too.
We had no idea what they meant, that directed us, gave us their username and verified us immediately.
What about the rest of ya?"
I was asking a friend how he intended to celebrate national orgasm day, and I said I’d be taking to Tinder to find a shag, he told me I was wasting my time on there and to join fab. The rest is history ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Web search while I was spiralling upwards into a manic episode and looking for bi experiences. Then found FabGuys. Signed up again last year, on another manic trip, and found the forums. |
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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
My other half told me about it when we started our poly lifestyle.
She was on for over a year (with my full knowledge) before I decided to join 3 months ago.
Wow totally different experience between us  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I guy I was talking to on pof told me he had seen my profile on fab. I was baffled.
Long story short, my head had been edited into some rather alarmingly graphic pictures with graphic profile text.
Revenge porn at its best I guess. Luckily I'm not stupid and I knew who, and he is stupid and uses the same email and password for everything. So I just took it all down.
And then stayed. With the least provocative picture ever and no profile text, and a block list almost as long as the membership of fab (on that profile).
The rest is history. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to work for Sydney University as a project researcher but realised it was better to join in and expand my sexual horizons than violate people's privacy and risk legal action. |
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My 20 something year old friend who isn’t on it suggested to me when we were worse for wear let’s say  I didn’t believe it to be real so bet him £50 if I actually spoke to someone I’d pay up, it was the best £50 I ever lost!!!! |
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We had been using the moresome fantasy as part of our play and wife really wanted to experience her bi side. Shortly afterwards i happened to be reading a newspaper about the skydiver who failed to kill his missus and his philandering and this place was mentioned 
Cue looking further into our fantasy and making it real.
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We were talking about each other's fantasies and were thinking of hiring an escort then good old Google brought up fab. A friend of a friend was telling the Mrs about thier visit to a club and curiousity set in x |
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