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I'm genuinely curious to know why we're all on this site.
Obvs it's about having some fantastic hot sex! But is that the only reason?
I'm single and always on the look out for Mr Right... I know this isn't a dating site but some lucky peeps have met their partners here haven't they?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I took a wrong turn at FriendsReunited and stayed for the excellent tea making facilities, but also because I’m trying to find my mercurial muse and life partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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because i want to be
chatting to fabulous forum members, keeping up with pals, posting pretty pictures to drive my partner mad, and (when BoJo says we aren't grounded anymore) meeting up with friends.
It's also a great place for distraction. Px |
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"because i want to be
chatting to fabulous forum members, keeping up with pals, posting pretty pictures to drive my partner mad, and (when BoJo says we aren't grounded anymore) meeting up with friends.
It's also a great place for distraction. Px "
Nice to finally meet another Billie fan |
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Semen harvesting.
I kid.
I'm more likely to meet people happy to fuck me when I'm not single and not in the "I don't even care if someone is a cheat" way. People who understand non-monogamy and are respectful.
Also people who understand how to respectfully have casual sex instead of the usual ghosting you get after a few months as they think there's a time limit on how long you can continue until you want to marry them and have their babies  . People who recognise that it's entirely possible to be good friends with people you have sex with and just because you spend time doing anything other than bumping uglies it doesn't mean you'll want aforementioned marriage and babies  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To while away the time on the forum (because nobody can have enough time staring at their smartphone) and to make friends.
Some friends are hopefully open to the possibility of getting nekkid. |
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"To type my usual endearing combination of waffle and bollocks.
To ensnare beautiful souls into becoming my friends. Occasionally that translates into me bumping beautifuls with them. "
Mmm waffles and bollocks. Is it like waffles and fried chicken or waffles and bacon? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here because swingers are really cool people to hang out with. Even in a non sexual way. A hotel full with swingers in it is a party waiting to happen even at noon on Tuesday.
There is something about hanging out with people just like you that makes everything more relaxing and fun.
This website gives me access to swingers. It's a laugh. And maybe even sexy time once in a while |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"To type my usual endearing combination of waffle and bollocks...
Mmm waffles and bollocks. Is it like waffles and fried chicken or waffles and bacon? "
Waffles and fried chicken obviously. Bacon is an abomination and the bollocks isn't that unappetizing. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"To type my usual endearing combination of waffle and bollocks...
Mmm waffles and bollocks. Is it like waffles and fried chicken or waffles and bacon?
Waffles and fried chicken obviously. Bacon is an abomination and the bollocks isn't that unappetizing. "
**doesn't like bacon???**  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Semen harvesting.
I kid.
I'm more likely to meet people happy to fuck me when I'm not single and not in the "I don't even care if someone is a cheat" way. People who understand non-monogamy and are respectful.
Also people who understand how to respectfully have casual sex instead of the usual ghosting you get after a few months as they think there's a time limit on how long you can continue until you want to marry them and have their babies . People who recognise that it's entirely possible to be good friends with people you have sex with and just because you spend time doing anything other than bumping uglies it doesn't mean you'll want aforementioned marriage and babies ."
Bumping uglies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To masterbate at strangers videos who are having more sex than me.
It just makes me feel.mire lonely and fragile in the end. I then message a few people, they don't respond. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm here because swingers are really cool people to hang out with. Even in a non sexual way. A hotel full with swingers in it is a party waiting to happen even at noon on Tuesday.
There is something about hanging out with people just like you that makes everything more relaxing and fun.
This website gives me access to swingers. It's a laugh. And maybe even sexy time once in a while "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To make friends and have some amazing sex along the way. Things you can't do alone 
People to go to clubs and partied with rather than being the lemon who doesn't know anyone
Oh and its helped me get over the annoyance of being rejected |
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it "
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought I would broaden my sexual horizon after being the poster child for Madagascar
Turns out, I don’t know what I want and am here to enjoy being here. No expectations and going with the flow.  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys... "
Depends on their approach and perspective. |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
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I was recommended the site by a friend who told me that free chocolate hobnobs were handed out if you posted shit on the forums, it was all lies! I've only been offered plain digestives so far  |
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"I was recommended the site by a friend who told me that free chocolate hobnobs were handed out if you posted shit on the forums, it was all lies! I've only been offered plain digestives so far "
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There's definitely a theme here...biscuits and doughnuts..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was recommended the site by a friend who told me that free chocolate hobnobs were handed out if you posted shit on the forums, it was all lies! I've only been offered plain digestives so far e
There's definitely a theme here...biscuits and doughnuts.. "
Just wait until someone mentions the 'c' word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys... "
Initially yes it screwed my mental health with the messages not being read, or the not for me sorry replies thou I never sent many messages until I joined in the forums now most messages are to forum fun (about 9 out of 10)
I don't get the people who get the no or ignored amd carry on bombarding the messages as it gets nowhere, maybe when you were a kid and you kept hassling your parents for something they would cave in there's just no need for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was recommended the site by a friend who told me that free chocolate hobnobs were handed out if you posted shit on the forums, it was all lies! I've only been offered plain digestives so far e
There's definitely a theme here...biscuits and doughnuts..
Just wait until someone mentions the 'c' word."
Oh I was told there was good cake makers on here
Love q bit of cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys... "
It's easier to be a woman in regards to ability to meet people but not anything else. You can't escape abuse, bullies and judgement whatever sex you are on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I took a wrong turn at FriendsReunited and stayed for the excellent tea making facilities, but also because I’m trying to find my mercurial muse and life partner.
Showing your age there... "
I’m showing my age on my profile too |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm here because I love the swinging community, though it's the club and event scene that I meant to rather than one-on-one meets.
I enjoy the liberation of being around like minded people, the friendliness of most of the venues, and being able to dress how I like.
This site is a way for me to keep in touch with people I've met at the venues, and see what events are happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Semen harvesting.
I kid.
I'm more likely to meet people happy to fuck me when I'm not single and not in the "I don't even care if someone is a cheat" way. People who understand non-monogamy and are respectful.
Also people who understand how to respectfully have casual sex instead of the usual ghosting you get after a few months as they think there's a time limit on how long you can continue until you want to marry them and have their babies . People who recognise that it's entirely possible to be good friends with people you have sex with and just because you spend time doing anything other than bumping uglies it doesn't mean you'll want aforementioned marriage and babies ."
Are there any men like that on here now? Used to be but they seem to be in short supply.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To enjoying making friends with similar mindset, and can definitely say through the forum chats I think I’ve found my match
Ooo do tell!! "
I think most people on here could probably answer that lol |
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This question was asked last night so I'm cooy n pasting...
What a question.
My answer? Self fucking sabotage if I'm brutally honest with myself and everyone else, well for some part most certainly not all.
I hope to inspire people to think before they break another person to the point they want to die, or feel so betrayed they wonder if they'll ever recover, ever trust, ever love again. It might not be my individual war, but I feel as though I do have a responsibility to warn people of the damage and destruction. Not everyone's story will be the same as mine, not everyone's reaction will be the same as mine, some may be worse and that doesn't bare thinking about.
The more I'm here, the more it convinces me people are inherently thoughtless, liars and unwilling to take responsibility for their shizzle.
On the flip side I've got a wonderful support network here who shock me and humble me, who have saved my life, who have helped in more ways than I ever imagined and I'm eternally thankful. |
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys... "
Thank you for acknowledging this. Fab can be an absolute machine for making people feel utterly worthless. I'm shielded to some extent by my particular combination of privileges, but I dread to think what it does to the mental health of people who aren't as fortunate.
(This is possibly the only time I will speak up on behalf of men. I will now return to my usual programme of well-deserved misandry.) |
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys...
Thank you for acknowledging this. Fab can be an absolute machine for making people feel utterly worthless. I'm shielded to some extent by my particular combination of privileges, but I dread to think what it does to the mental health of people who aren't as fortunate.
(This is possibly the only time I will speak up on behalf of men. I will now return to my usual programme of well-deserved misandry.) "
I've been using it as a tool to help my mental health. |
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Here as I keep connections with the people I meet in clubland.
Also met some lovely single ladies and have some prospective socials and fun lined up for June.
The key is not too take it too seriously and enjoy it. |
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This is a good question OP. I’m not really sure I have the answer but here goes;
I don’t want a relationship, there is someone I am fond of outside fab and I know that she doesn’t feel the same, this I can accept. As such getting emotionally involved with someone else, through a relationship, would make me feel dishonest, as I would know that I am still emotionally committed to someone else. Of course time may change everything but that’s where I am for now
So I seek to enjoy the pleasure of other peoples company without the drama or dishonesty and the inevitably difficult “I’m sorry I just want friends”. Fab offers that, as long as I am honest and again Fab allows you to be very upfront and explicit about what you are looking for. I should like to note that when I say “enjoy the pleasures of....” that doesn’t inevitably mean sex, of course, it’s great if it does, but forming friendships and laughter partners is part of fab too. |
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys...
Thank you for acknowledging this. Fab can be an absolute machine for making people feel utterly worthless. I'm shielded to some extent by my particular combination of privileges, but I dread to think what it does to the mental health of people who aren't as fortunate.
(This is possibly the only time I will speak up on behalf of men. I will now return to my usual programme of well-deserved misandry.)
I've been using it as a tool to help my mental health."
I've done the opposite and kept well away (for about two months) when I felt it was getting detrimental to my mental health.
Or my mental health meant I wasn't able to enjoy this place.
Still not quite sure which way round it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my escape from reality.
I can chat with friends and talk about stuff I couldn't talk about anywhere else.
A little bit of me wants to be popular with the ladies and I'll not lie and say I don't want to meet some of the lovelies I've chatted with recently or in the past.
However the friendzone game is strong in this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To find someone as naughty as me and becoming fwb and have a giggle along the way. Sadly to many messers at the moment so I am still looking . However this place I always fun for a read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Orginally I was here for the banter, forum chat and to meet like minded people for the obvious reason.
Just lately though, I ask myself why I'm here a lot, some days it's just not worth it
I ask myself that question alot too... It's a little addictive. I think as a woman tho I'm lucky. It must be soul destroying for a lot of single guys...
Thank you for acknowledging this. Fab can be an absolute machine for making people feel utterly worthless. I'm shielded to some extent by my particular combination of privileges, but I dread to think what it does to the mental health of people who aren't as fortunate.
(This is possibly the only time I will speak up on behalf of men. I will now return to my usual programme of well-deserved misandry.) "
It really is soul destroying for a lot of men. I find it really crap that so few people will empathise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here for friends and flirts and if I'm lucky the odd fumble with one of the female friends or a couple and who knows I won't rule out a relationship but being a single dad of 5 children my priority is with then b4 a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cake!
Seriously though, I'm not actually sure anymore. The forum is more interesting that F*cebook, occasionally it's fun to post pictures and and it's a way to past the time when I'm bored. |
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I've been using it as a tool to help my mental health.
I've done the opposite and kept well away (for about two months) when I felt it was getting detrimental to my mental health.
Or my mental health meant I wasn't able to enjoy this place.
Still not quite sure which way round it was "
My first attempt didn't go so well and I took 3 months off. This time is going alright so far. |
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I'm here because I like talking to myself and since the asbo I can't stand in Peascod Square chatting to randoms about what their sexuality means to them and showing them photos of my junk.
Fab is more than just sex. It has to be because I get precious little of it from here. No. It is about ego maintenance as mine requires regular deflation by means of rejection. As flattering it is to receive an affirmation from a prospective meet, the excitement of the monthly shower and rush of adrenaline as one rushes off to meet the prospective playmete is nothing compared the crushingly bitter disappointment of being stood up and ghosted. That is the fab drug for me, or I would not keep coming back for more.  |
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"This is a good question OP. I’m not really sure I have the answer but here goes;
I don’t want a relationship, there is someone I am fond of outside fab and I know that she doesn’t feel the same, this I can accept. As such getting emotionally involved with someone else, through a relationship, would make me feel dishonest, as I would know that I am still emotionally committed to someone else. Of course time may change everything but that’s where I am for now
So I seek to enjoy the pleasure of other peoples company without the drama or dishonesty and the inevitably difficult “I’m sorry I just want friends”. Fab offers that, as long as I am honest and again Fab allows you to be very upfront and explicit about what you are looking for. I should like to note that when I say “enjoy the pleasures of....” that doesn’t inevitably mean sex, of course, it’s great if it does, but forming friendships and laughter partners is part of fab too. "
Totes agree with most of what you've said.. I'm in love with a man I can't have. But I'm still looking for the one to usurp him....  |
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"This question was asked last night so I'm cooy n pasting...
What a question.
My answer? Self fucking sabotage if I'm brutally honest with myself and everyone else, well for some part most certainly not all.
I hope to inspire people to think before they break another person to the point they want to die, or feel so betrayed they wonder if they'll ever recover, ever trust, ever love again. It might not be my individual war, but I feel as though I do have a responsibility to warn people of the damage and destruction. Not everyone's story will be the same as mine, not everyone's reaction will be the same as mine, some may be worse and that doesn't bare thinking about.
The more I'm here, the more it convinces me people are inherently thoughtless, liars and unwilling to take responsibility for their shizzle.
On the flip side I've got a wonderful support network here who shock me and humble me, who have saved my life, who have helped in more ways than I ever imagined and I'm eternally thankful."
Love this answer... Hit the nail on the head for me... and so bloody honest.
Thank you Peaches x |
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"I'm genuinely curious to know why we're all on this site.
Obvs it's about having some fantastic hot sex! But is that the only reason?
I'm single and always on the look out for Mr Right... I know this isn't a dating site but some lucky peeps have met their partners here haven't they? "
Because I’m single and for whatever reason...that’s how I like it at the moment and have zero interest in delving back into another relationship when I can hang out and have fun when it’s needed with other likeminded open people.
That being said - finding them is another matter amongst the time wasters LOL.
But I don’t find the site a fraction as good as it once was sadly |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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Escapism from everyday life.
For a couple of years I was having the time of my life and unashamedly enjoying a hedenostic lifestyle with a carefree attitude and a free spirit 
Priorities have changed and now it's mainly for banter, keeping up with friends and the occasional drawing project where I sketch sexy people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm on here for a few reasons tbh. For the fun and banter on the forums. To find people interested in sexual things I can't get at home. To meet and socialise with other people and possibly make friends. To find a female FWB. To sleep around as I love casual sex xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question was asked last night so I'm cooy n pasting...
What a question.
My answer? Self fucking sabotage if I'm brutally honest with myself and everyone else, well for some part most certainly not all.
I hope to inspire people to think before they break another person to the point they want to die, or feel so betrayed they wonder if they'll ever recover, ever trust, ever love again. It might not be my individual war, but I feel as though I do have a responsibility to warn people of the damage and destruction. Not everyone's story will be the same as mine, not everyone's reaction will be the same as mine, some may be worse and that doesn't bare thinking about.
The more I'm here, the more it convinces me people are inherently thoughtless, liars and unwilling to take responsibility for their shizzle.
On the flip side I've got a wonderful support network here who shock me and humble me, who have saved my life, who have helped in more ways than I ever imagined and I'm eternally thankful."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because I'm lonely. I've found that I enjoy sex (who knew  ) hopefully to make some friends. But very often it's soul distroying. But I can't seem to stay away |
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I've been using it as a tool to help my mental health.
I've done the opposite and kept well away (for about two months) when I felt it was getting detrimental to my mental health.
Or my mental health meant I wasn't able to enjoy this place.
Still not quite sure which way round it was
My first attempt didn't go so well and I took 3 months off. This time is going alright so far."
That's good to hear. Genuinely hope it continues positively for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm genuinely curious to know why we're all on this site.
Obvs it's about having some fantastic hot sex! But is that the only reason?
I'm single and always on the look out for Mr Right... I know this isn't a dating site but some lucky peeps have met their partners here haven't they? "
Well I already have a partner so it's not for dating and yes she does know I am here (she is too). I consider myself a lifestyle swinger after 15 years of it and enjoy making friends that I may well have sex and adventures with as well as socializing. |
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Another reason for being here is that the WiFi at work blocks Facebook but lets me on here
I also come for the free psychotherapy and self help / self improvement tips. Even if I don't always follow them. But I've also not totally given up on the idea of meeting like minded folks in the flesh, even it's not as all-consuming a goal as it might have been once.
Mainly I just like talking bollocks and realising that no one else agrees with me |
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We are here to broaden our horizons. We're both naturally reserved and finding what we want to add in our relationship in the vanilla world is nigh on impossible, so came on here to explore opportunities |
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"I'm genuinely curious to know why we're all on this site.
Obvs it's about having some fantastic hot sex! But is that the only reason?
I'm single and always on the look out for Mr Right... I know this isn't a dating site but some lucky peeps have met their partners here haven't they? "
for me it used to be to leep an eye out for club events I was interested in... or find guys to invite for group fun. Or simply to day when I was going to a greedy girls event and get the guys there for me.
I've always been keen on the forums though and do love a good social.
Now it's just for the forums and to keep up with friends |
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We're here because before we found each other on the Internet I (Luke) had been very randy and wasn't looking to settle down. As it started to become clear we were moving towards a committed relationship, we started talking about what that would look like given our hopes, desires and experiences. Hannah had been thinking that not being completely monogamous would be really enjoyable with the right people in the right circumstances, having not really considered it in previous relationships. I moved away from the idea of having casual sex as I had previously.
We ended up meeting in the middle, not by ultimatum or negotiating, but very naturally. We both settled on the same position just by being together and communicating.
So we're here to explore our middle ground with others. |
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"I'm genuinely curious to know why we're all on this site.
Obvs it's about having some fantastic hot sex! But is that the only reason?
I'm single and always on the look out for Mr Right... I know this isn't a dating site but some lucky peeps have met their partners here haven't they? "
We like chatting abs meeting new people.,but ultimately it is too have great sex with others in front of each other. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
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The last time I was on here, I meet my ex, never expected to fall in love, this time, it's to make friends, chat with peeps, find lovely ladies to have fantastic sex with.
If the right lady comes along, who knows |
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over a year ago
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I joined to fulfill my fantasies and have a few wonderful sexual experiences. I've achieved that and some. I'm now only here to chat on the forums and with friends and post the odd pic. I can't meet now due to illness and will probably leave after my surgery. It's funny, but now people know I won't be able to meet for sex, they have turned their backs on me. #notrealfriends |
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"I joined to fulfill my fantasies and have a few wonderful sexual experiences. I've achieved that and some. I'm now only here to chat on the forums and with friends and post the odd pic. I can't meet now due to illness and will probably leave after my surgery. It's funny, but now people know I won't be able to meet for sex, they have turned their backs on me. #notrealfriends"
I'm sorry to hear that...
Hope your surgery goes well xx |
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"To type my usual endearing combination of waffle and bollocks...
Mmm waffles and bollocks. Is it like waffles and fried chicken or waffles and bacon?
Waffles and fried chicken obviously. Bacon is an abomination and the bollocks isn't that unappetizing. "
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"Semen harvesting.
I kid.
I'm more likely to meet people happy to fuck me when I'm not single and not in the "I don't even care if someone is a cheat" way. People who understand non-monogamy and are respectful.
Also people who understand how to respectfully have casual sex instead of the usual ghosting you get after a few months as they think there's a time limit on how long you can continue until you want to marry them and have their babies . People who recognise that it's entirely possible to be good friends with people you have sex with and just because you spend time doing anything other than bumping uglies it doesn't mean you'll want aforementioned marriage and babies .
Are there any men like that on here now? Used to be but they seem to be in short supply. "
Absolutely! Of course there's still plenty on here where this place is just another place they look for sex but those who actually identify as swingers I find to be significantly different. Especially those involved in the club scene. Just my experience though and others may have different experiences. |
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over a year ago
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"I joined to fulfill my fantasies and have a few wonderful sexual experiences. I've achieved that and some. I'm now only here to chat on the forums and with friends and post the odd pic. I can't meet now due to illness and will probably leave after my surgery. It's funny, but now people know I won't be able to meet for sex, they have turned their backs on me. #notrealfriends"
They may worry about saying the wrong thing to you so stay away rather than possibly upsetting you. Xx |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
I kind of look for the same thing op, but to find a local fb for hot sex, not just sex with her, but also to have movie nights in on the weekends munching on some haribos and as well to go out for walks and to take a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was looking to buy a car, a grey Talbo to be exact, and google suggested me that website.
I didn't buy the car but ended up fucking the owner of a grey talbo at the back of a Lidl.
Great souvenirs here x the talbo was a diesel
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