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What are we even doing?!
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It’s been over a year since we’ve been able to actually meet anyone and it’s going to be a few months before there’s a chance to do so again, so what are we actually doing here?
Whilst this *gestures broadly* is going on, some have been here throughout, some bobbed in and out, some have lurked, some left and recently returned, some left to possibly return later but for those of us here now, what are we actually here for?
Has this time changed your view of the site, how you use it or the people that are on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nope not really.
i had a long hiatus, and came back through bordem i guess 
i enjoy chatting to people in forums, and posting pictures.
and when the time comes, i'll enjoy meeting friends old and new all over again  Px |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s been over a year since we’ve been able to actually meet anyone and it’s going to be a few months before there’s a chance to do so again, so what are we actually doing here?
Whilst this *gestures broadly* is going on, some have been here throughout, some bobbed in and out, some have lurked, some left and recently returned, some left to possibly return later but for those of us here now, what are we actually here for?
Has this time changed your view of the site, how you use it or the people that are on here?
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Why are you here OP? |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"It’s been over a year since we’ve been able to actually meet anyone and it’s going to be a few months before there’s a chance to do so again, so what are we actually doing here?
Whilst this *gestures broadly* is going on, some have been here throughout, some bobbed in and out, some have lurked, some left and recently returned, some left to possibly return later but for those of us here now, what are we actually here for?
Has this time changed your view of the site, how you use it or the people that are on here?
Why are you here OP?"
We came back on after the easing dates were announced to reconnect and chat with folks, make a few plans and to chat with friends, although it’s become more about me waffling on the forums (as per) |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I don’t know Tea. I really don’t know. One minute I can’t be bothered with it all, the next I’m hankering for a man.
One day I’ll know what I want. Maybe.
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I think that sentiment is far more common than you would believe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope not really.
i had a long hiatus, and came back through bordem i guess
i enjoy chatting to people in forums, and posting pictures.
and when the time comes, i'll enjoy meeting friends old and new all over again Px "
And I've been enjoying your photos.
I've been using the forums more since lockdown to be honest. Chiming in and talking to people is all we can do. Plus it's always good to make plans and look at something to look forward to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came back from boredom.
And I decided to chat on this forum because it has a better vibe than others.
And I'm now torn. When I arrived back I had no intention of looking for meets. Then I was talking to my wife about going to socials. Now it's maybe a meet or two and a club night...
Tomorrow I might be feeling extra self conscious and decide that I'm done with fab.
And the conversation goes "But really sweety, maybe just meet these two women ... very different, could be brilliant"
And I'm back again |
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"nope not really.
i had a long hiatus, and came back through bordem i guess
i enjoy chatting to people in forums, and posting pictures.
and when the time comes, i'll enjoy meeting friends old and new all over again Px "
I guess when you enjoy posting pictures, this is still as good a time as any! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone feel like they made "plans" with people too early, and now you can't even remember who they are, and the conversation dried up long ago?"
I made plans too early. But I think when things get clearer that the spark will ignite again |
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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago
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I'm here to chat shit with friends and perv
My long term friendships that have survived a year of no physical contact will be consummated this year and off we go again. Regarding newbies my trust is very skeptical because of the instant gratification hunters on here atm so I will start new connections next year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the enforced loneliness has lowered inhibitions and peaked interests, finally came clean to the hubby about wanting to explore my bi side and to my surprise he was more than happy with what im wanting and we decided to join together to keep it honest
Not getting many messages or chats but enjoying making and posting pics just questioning to show a bit more on public or keep them to friends only
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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Anyone feel like they made "plans" with people too early, and now you can't even remember who they are, and the conversation dried up long ago?"
A lot of people thought that this would all be over far sooner than it actually will be, perhaps it’s time to make new connections? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the forums mainly and posting pics of myself and having a look around from time to time. It's made me laugh throughout lockdown and killed some of those hours spent locked down. |
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We started our profile in lockdown.
We are chatting to people and building connections so when the world opens we can hopefully meet them.
We also quite enjoy taking pics and as we can’t put them on FB then we have to put them here 
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What a question.
My answer? Self fucking sabotage if I'm brutally honest with myself and everyone else, well for some part most certainly not all.
I hope to inspire people to think before they break another person to the point they want to die, or feel so betrayed they wonder if they'll ever recover, ever trust, ever love again. It might not be my individual war, but I feel as though I do have a responsibility to warn people of the damage and destruction. Not everyone's story will be the same as mine, not everyone's reaction will be the same as mine, some may be worse and that doesn't bare thinking about.
The more I'm here, the more it convinces me people are inherently thoughtless, liars and unwilling to take responsibility for their shizzle.
On the flip side I've got a wonderful support network here who shock me and humble me, who have saved my life, who have helped in more ways than I ever imagined and I'm eternally thankful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a newbie only being on for a few months I found it very hard to be part of the fab world, I understand others are skeptical of new members but some of us aren’t actually that scary or self centred, patients is a virtue and the lounge has and is a nice place to see the banter and fun on here ... |
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