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Tomorrow is the saddest day of my life
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tomorrow I'll be in stealth mode. Tomorrow is a sad anniversary when I lost someone ...
"My dear Angel, sleep well
Your Daddy just want to tell
I still remember your eyes and smile,
Like you wanted to tell me: "Daddy please don't cry..."
My dear Angel...farewell..."
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Sending you love and hugs. Someone isn’t totally lost if they live in your heart and memories. I know that doesn’t take the pain away but try remember positive memories and celebrate what you’ve had rather than what you have lost xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I have such a day in my calendar too. It's a hard, hard thing. This year it will be the 29th one I've had to face. It never gets easier but somehow we find the strength to cope and the peace to remember with love.
I'll be thinking of you.   |
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I know my Grandad took the grief of his youngest daughter's passing to his grave, so although I don't have personal experience, I know what it's like to support a relative. Hugs to you, Scorpio at a difficult time |
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"Tomorrow I'll be in stealth mode. Tomorrow is a sad anniversary when I lost someone ...
"My dear Angel, sleep well
Your Daddy just want to tell
I still remember your eyes and smile,
Like you wanted to tell me: "Daddy please don't cry..."
My dear Angel...farewell..."
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Big hugs you'll always be a great daddy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong
And carry on
'Cause I know, I don't belong
Here in heaven
Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?
I'll find my way
Through night and day
'Cause I know, I just can't stay
Here in heaven
Time can bring you down
Time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart
Have you begging please
Begging please
Beyond the door
There's peace, I'm sure
And I know there'll be no more
Tears in heaven
Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would it be the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong
And carry on
'Cause I know, I don't belong
Here in heaven
'Cause I know, I don't belong
Here in heaven..."
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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“Grief, I’ve learned is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corner of your eyes, the lump in your throat and that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
I was sent this quote when my grandson died
Sending love OP |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"“Grief, I’ve learned is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers up in the corner of your eyes, the lump in your throat and that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
I was sent this quote when my grandson died
Sending love OP "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You used to say I won't know a win until it cost me
Like I wont' know real love till I've loved then I've lost it
And if you've lost a sister, someone's lost a mom
And if you've lost a dad, then someone's lost a son
And they're all missing now, and they're all missing now
So if you get a second to look down at me now
Mom, Dad, I just missing you now... |
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever"
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tomorrow I'll be in stealth mode. Tomorrow is a sad anniversary when I lost someone ...
"My dear Angel, sleep well
Your Daddy just want to tell
I still remember your eyes and smile,
Like you wanted to tell me: "Daddy please don't cry..."
My dear Angel...farewell..."
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I'm so sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thought of losing a child is devastating.
There really are no words and I am so sorry you and others have to go through such a thing.
Hugs and thoughts |
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though "
As was I.
To lose a child (an assumption I am making based on the OPs first post) is a terrible thing. And in that, you are alone OP but not alone, I know full well that loss. There is a whisper in my halls when there should be laughter, we march on, because that’s what we do.
But your grief does not give you the right to belittle or question another’s empathy in such a manner. I’ll leave it at that. Be strong tomorrow, and the next day, and the day after that, for all days. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though "
I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance. |
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though
I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance."
I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.
It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.
I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If tomorrow never comes
Will she know how much I loved her
Did I try in every way to show her every day
That she's my only one
And if my time on earth were through
And she must face this world without me
Is the love I gave her in the past
Gonna be enough to last
If tomorrow never comes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though
I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.
I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.
It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.
I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM. "
Yeah...but I can't because of your filters. Pretty honest, isn't it? |
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though
I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.
I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.
It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.
I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM.
Yeah...but I can't because of your filters. Pretty honest, isn't it?"
My filters? I’ll go check now. Sorry |
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"I'm so sorry to read this.
I don't think so
I was being genuine.
Yeah...whatever
I’m sorry for your loss, your child will always be looking down on you
Confused as to why you’re questioning this though
I can recognize if someone's honest or not. But now I'm in mood of blues. So please, don't questioned me. Please. Thank you in advance.
I do understand the loss; I lost a son in 2006 and at the time, I wanted to lash out at someone, anyone.
It’s just that I know the poster and saying she’s dishonest would be completely out of character for her.
I’m not questioning you though. And I’m here anytime you need to speak/rant/cry. Just drop me a PM.
Yeah...but I can't because of your filters. Pretty honest, isn't it?
My filters? I’ll go check now. Sorry "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's never a right time to say goodbye
But we know that we gotta go
Our separate ways
And I know it's hard, but I gotta do it
And it's killing me
'Cause there's never a right time
Right time to say goodbye..."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Near, far, wherever you are
I believe that the heart does go on
Once more, you open the door
And you're here in my heart
And my heart will go on and on..." |
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