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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!
This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol
If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?
Men what would you have done to you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd give anything a go except the 3 P's Pixie .
There's plenty of unfulfilled fantasies and kinks left for me to do  "
He’s even open to two of them but not the brown sticky stuff  |
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"I'd give anything a go except the 3 P's Pixie .
There's plenty of unfulfilled fantasies and kinks left for me to do
He’s even open to two of them but not the brown sticky stuff "
Ewww just no on all 3 for me sorry  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not keen on her having a strap on, and not into pee and such but she has a riding crop, hand restraints and can do whatever she likes, really."
It seems this is where it’s going!
I thought I was quite naughty in the ways of kinky fuckery but now I’m excited to discover more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!
This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol
If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?
Men what would you have done to you?"
I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta . |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!
This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol
If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?
Men what would you have done to you?"
Ask for his bank card and PIN.
Shave his head, eye brows, wax his chest and legs
Have him come over and do your house work
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get "
If he agrees I’m happy to help out with this  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!
This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol
If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?
Men what would you have done to you?
Ask for his bank card and PIN.
Shave his head, eye brows, wax his chest and legs
Have him come over and do your house work
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His head is already shaved, he wants me to wax his mono brow and his back for him!
I’m pretty sure he’d do my housework... nekid too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get "
I think that may be one of his hard limits lol |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .
Pain
Pee
Poop"
Awww I was hoping one would be Pie. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"I'm not keen on her having a strap on, and not into pee and such but she has a riding crop, hand restraints and can do whatever she likes, really.
It seems this is where it’s going!
I thought I was quite naughty in the ways of kinky fuckery but now I’m excited to discover more "
Enjoy!! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get
I think that may be one of his hard limits lol"
So he does have limits?
Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get
I think that may be one of his hard limits lol
So he does have limits?
Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination."
Used to be one called MOJO I think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get
I think that may be one of his hard limits lol
So he does have limits?
Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination."
The only limits he’s given me are no poop n no men play.
So I’m thinking there must be loads of things we can have a go at!
He has the same mindset as myself, try everything once and if you don’t like it, stop!
I’ll have a look at some sites, thank you x |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.
Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.
Otherwise what do they see as a limit? It's more a sign they haven't thought about what they want or are looking for, and that they haven't considered what others want or will do either. There are people who have a thing for breaking bones. Would that be a limit? What about nettle play? Not something most would do. Plenty of other examples. What a vanilla person sees as wild, crazy and extreme is possibly very tame to someone into BDSM.
But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. |
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"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .
Pain
Pee
Poop"
I thought it was puke 
So glad it isn't! |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.
Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.
Otherwise what do they see as a limit? It's more a sign they haven't thought about what they want or are looking for, and that they haven't considered what others want or will do either. There are people who have a thing for breaking bones. Would that be a limit? What about nettle play? Not something most would do. Plenty of other examples. What a vanilla person sees as wild, crazy and extreme is possibly very tame to someone into BDSM.
But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. "
It depends completely from where you view it, you're absolutely right.
Joined another website (won't mention it in case I'm not allowed to promote others but it begins with an F) and wow! I used to think whips and masks we're wild but......just.....wow.
Anyway, we're vanilla - just clotted cream vanilla with sprinkles. |
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I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.
Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged.
I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.
Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.
Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.
Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.
Otherwise what do they see as a limit? It's more a sign they haven't thought about what they want or are looking for, and that they haven't considered what others want or will do either. There are people who have a thing for breaking bones. Would that be a limit? What about nettle play? Not something most would do. Plenty of other examples. What a vanilla person sees as wild, crazy and extreme is possibly very tame to someone into BDSM.
But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. "
We are having a talk, hence why he’s asked me to find things to do to him and discuss them beforehand. I’ve put what limits he does actually have and we are exploring this together, safely.
Thank you for your input though xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get
I think that may be one of his hard limits lol
So he does have limits?
Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination.
Used to be one called MOJO I think?"
Mojo upgrade  |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"I’d see if he’d let me take him dogging so I could watch him get used by at least 3 men.
If you don’t ask you don’t get
I think that may be one of his hard limits lol
So he does have limits?
Honestly if you are stuck for ideas find a BDSM checklist (not the BDSM quiz that tells you your role) as they list numerous activities, sexual and non sexual and can spring board your imagination.
Used to be one called MOJO I think?
Mojo upgrade "
That's the boy. Gets quite in depth as I recall. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.
Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged.
I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.
Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.
Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens "
Love this response, that’s exactly where we are!
We’re both exploring and looking forward to finding new & exciting ways to pleasure each other x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m ‘seeing’ a guy not on Fab and he’s basically said he’s an open book and nothing is off limits!
This has made me realise I’m a bit more vanilla than I thought lol
If nothing was off limits, what would you do to your male partner?
Men what would you have done to you?
Ask for his bank card and PIN.
Shave his head, eye brows, wax his chest and legs
Have him come over and do your house work
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Aren't you just describing a stag night?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have one of those. But I have hard limits, too many to list. I can't for the life of me think what the third 'p' is , if anyone could enlighten me, ta .
Pain
Pee
Poop"
Ah yes, thank you for the enlightenment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing off limits than flogging followed by pegging, fisting and sounding finishing of with watersports, so men be careful careful what you say to me when saying no limits. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.
Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged."
Oops 
"I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.
Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.
Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens "
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"I'm currently sporting quite a few holes where a pinwheel got through my skin and fluid came out, only one bite mark but have had many more in the past.
Bruises from a well swung wooden spoon and am more than happy being pegged.
Oops
I dont actually know what my limits are yet and have had to be laid out on the floor due to a pain induced fainting so clearly I like some kinds of pain.
Only one of the P's is off limits and although I do have things I would say no to if I had to think about it I know I've allowed stuff to happen in the moment as well.
Bring on the finding my limits as and when stuff happens "
Hahahaa oops indeed, you had quite the swing on you with that spoon |
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I would not say that does not make you vanilla OP, you have met someone who as has an open mind and perhaps experienced more things that you have.
I personally think it’s wonderful that you have met someone who you can explore with and have some fun and enjoy the journey
The limits I am making an assumption that he means regarding exploring, and he is perhaps keeping an open mind or just simply hasn’t found something that he doesn’t enjoy enough to not do. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Nothing off limits than flogging followed by pegging, fisting and sounding finishing of with watersports, so men be careful careful what you say to me when saying no limits. X"
That sounds like hell , I can take a really hard massage and a bit of a nibble !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No one has no limits. Not really. "
We’re exploring together, pushing boundaries and finding limits in a healthy consensual way.
I agree with you though, you don’t necessarily know you’re limits until something is suggested or tried, that’s the fun of exploring x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing off limits than flogging followed by pegging, fisting and sounding finishing of with watersports, so men be careful careful what you say to me when saying no limits. X
That sounds like hell , I can take a really hard massage and a bit of a nibble !!! "
Then don't bend over in front of me in a no limits holes barred meeting xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when someone say they have no limits either they are incredibly naïve or just have not thought it through.
Tell him your fetishes at the moment including whipping his boner with nettles whist being pegged with your rolling pin covered in hot chill paste!
We promise he will come up with some limits fairy darn quickly... |
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"when someone say they have no limits either they are incredibly naïve or just have not thought it through.
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Exactly! I (male) was at a regular nightclub in Berlin once and got talking in a group to a chap from Cameroon. I remember d*unkenly saying I'd try anything once. He immediately quietly suggested to me that we go down the back and do some together.
I suddenly sobered up and was like  .... Well, what I meant waaaas.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like the fact that you found an open minded guy who wants to explore with you. I think it's wonderful.
I would recommend going nice and slow and ticking off every box you can.
Keep in mind, today's hard limit can be tomorrow's soft desire.
And that the reverse is also true.
Hope you have the best of times |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Anyone who says they have "no limits" in that context, I'd be saying no to, or at the very least having a proper talk about things like consent, safety, and, well, limits.
Not having "no limits" doesn't make you vanilla. It makes you safe.
Otherwise what do they see as a limit? It's more a sign they haven't thought about what they want or are looking for, and that they haven't considered what others want or will do either. There are people who have a thing for breaking bones. Would that be a limit? What about nettle play? Not something most would do. Plenty of other examples. What a vanilla person sees as wild, crazy and extreme is possibly very tame to someone into BDSM.
But not realising that that kind of thing exists, or might be encompassed within the term 'no limits', is a sign they haven't thought it through or don't know enough to be able to say that. "
This!
I always think that people who say “I’ve not got any limits” haven’t thought much about it.
Everyone has limits |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like the fact that you found an open minded guy who wants to explore with you. I think it's wonderful.
I would recommend going nice and slow and ticking off every box you can.
Keep in mind, today's hard limit can be tomorrow's soft desire.
And that the reverse is also true.
Hope you have the best of times "
Thank you!
We’ve started making lists of what we’d like to try and looking forward to trying them |
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