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"Straight to the point.
Do you mind giving an example?
Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?
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Best get this gem onto my clipboard for copy and pasting. Thanks Luna |
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"Straight to the point.
Do you mind giving an example?
Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?
"
I’m gonna copy and paste that one ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Straight to the point.
Do you mind giving an example?
Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?
I’m gonna copy and paste that one "
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over a year ago
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"Straight to the point.
Do you mind giving an example?
Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?
"
I wonder how many times that’s going to light up your inbox over the next few hours! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Straight to the point.
Do you mind giving an example?
Hello. Would be interested in getting to know me with a view to fucking at some point in the not too distant future?
I wonder how many times that’s going to light up your inbox over the next few hours! "
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One of the best messages I've ever received was a limerick about my profile and username...I wasn't interested in the chap in a biblical sense, but we had a lovely chat because of his first message ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Showing you can actually read is a bonus
Every message we get on this profile about meeting when it is very clear (and in caps too!) that it’s not for that, makes me die a little inside and fear for the future of humanity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as it's clear that the profile hasn't been read at all, fire away "
You put words on your profile? Boy you guys are out of my league. I’d much rather see a profile that’d 6 years old (or there abouts) that states “fill in later”. |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"As long as it's clear that the profile hasn't been read at all, fire away
You put words on your profile? Boy you guys are out of my league. I’d much rather see a profile that’d 6 years old (or there abouts) that states “fill in later”."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of the best messages I've ever received was a limerick about my profile and username...I wasn't interested in the chap in a biblical sense, but we had a lovely chat because of his first message "
It stands out. And it says- effort ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"Polite and in English not text speak and non sexual, clearly showing that they have read my profile.
Or just chatty regarding a forum thread."
Pretty much this. A bit of humour thrown in also helps! |
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"Polite and in English not text speak and non sexual, clearly showing that they have read my profile.
Or just chatty regarding a forum thread.
Pretty much this. A bit of humour thrown in also helps! "
It certainly does. |
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"Something starwars related is good"
Ooooh. How obscure? I could go on about the economic and political ramifications of the Anaxes War College Naval Classification Scheme if you wanted.
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Straight to the point - avoids the small talk.
But can be profile dependent, if their profile gives details on their preferences then no need as ill see it there. It’s got to be something more than ‘Hi’
Intro yourself, what you’re after & what value you think I could add to your search. |
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We like somebody to actually have something to say, most likely responding to our profile text or photos, or something we put on the forum. Just something relevant you would just say to absolutely anybody. Something that indicates they may just be able to hold a conversation.
In my experience, people who say "Hi. How are you?" don't have anything interesting to say. We don't want to just jump into bed with somebody, so suggesting anything like that is a non-starter too.
Just talk to us like we are all mature adults. That's by far the best way of getting interest from us. |
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Let us know what caught your eye, why are you messaging us specifically? What are you after yourself? What do you bring to the table that we should respond to your message?
We like wit, fully formed sentences and manners.
Oh and poor Mr Racer would love people to read the profile, cos the amount of times he's been told blokes like his ass or to cum over him! he deals with messages, me (Mrs) on forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet "
Dammit!
Deletes my number from message* ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet
Dammit!
Deletes my number from message* "
Crap. You did it too? ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire village |
"I got a message out of blue asking for a quickie and a mobile number attached so.... Yeah I think a simple hello is a safer bet "
Yeah, we've had a few like that. Rather uncomfortable to be honest. |
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