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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Time to make a change as David Bowie once sang...
However, how much are you willing to change to get that elusive meet?
Level 1 - Shave or beard? (or fuzz on the peach)
Easy to fix, Throw the razor away 'cos the lady likes the Viking look or the man isn't adverse to a fur burger. Or maybe you'll brave the shave and remove your beard to catch the eye?
Level 2 - Ink or removal.
A lorra lorra people seem to like a bit of ink on their beefcake. Would you go for a sleeve to appease the masses? Or undergo removal to get rid of that tatt you got in Benidorm after a rave and a bottle of absinthe.
The list goes on.
How much would you change to get a meet?
Would you expect someone to change themselves to meet your requirements? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.
I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself.  not for others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not. I would never expect anyone to change who they are. As I would never change myself to fit in with another's ideal, I am who I am accept or move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if you change a meet is not guaranteed..... besides if your not my type with beard, ink or anything else your not going to be my type without them "
Wouldn't that be a gutting feeling? You changed and they changed their mind! Not worth it. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, I wouldn't expect someone to change themselves to meet my requirements; I'm not sure I have any aesthetically! I don't mind beard or no beard.
Oh, I'm not particularly fond of people dousing themselves in aftershave/perfume because of sensory reasons but I just deal with it.
I wouldn't change me. I might wear something if I know they particularly like a colour. Or wear my hair up if they have a real thing for it and I know them very well. But other than that, no, not really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s about the personality if the lady’s chatty fun to be with would not expect any lady to change her appearance for date or otherwise visa versa you get what you get only a personal view  |
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I can't physically change obviously. I would wear a particular item of clothing or outfit if it was something I already had. I expect our meets to want to please me, why wouldn't I want to please them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am who I am. Before a meet I will try to present myself in as positive a light as possible but I'm not changing who I am.
For example if I shave my beard it's because I want to not someone else's preference. In fact I am the type of person who often feels the need to go against other people's expectations just to feel good about myself.
Sex isn't that important that I would compromise who I am or my standards just to get my dick wet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.
I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself. not for others. "
This is  . I had a friend and every day I picked one item of clothing for her. It was lovely. |
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No! Why on earth would I meet someone if I don't like them the way they are??!?  And why would I want to meet someone who didn't like me the way I am?
There are plenty of people in the world, it's not too difficult to meet the ones where you have mutual attraction/friendship etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not changing. Would probably shave for a meet unless asked not to.
Essentially if you want to meet me then I presume I am 'ticking your boxes' but I wouldn't change just to get a meet or present myself differently.
Likewise if I likes the other person as they are presenting themselves why would I want them to change? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.
I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself. not for others. This is . I had a friend and every day I picked one item of clothing for her. It was lovely. "
It's nice to be involved in those little "rituals". Being part of someone's day, even if they are far. And caring too. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I won’t dress for others tastes. Take me or leave me
I’ll take you 
Can i have you both?
g’wan then jump in the middle "
if i jumped in the middle of the bed you 2 may be bounced out of the window.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do like to ask what outfit they would like to see me in. I do not follow suggestions always but nice to pick together.
I would not change physical appearance. I do that for myself. not for others. This is . I had a friend and every day I picked one item of clothing for her. It was lovely.
It's nice to be involved in those little "rituals". Being part of someone's day, even if they are far. And caring too. "
exactly. It was very intimate in a non sexually intimate way |
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