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What do you look for in a fwb?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this seems like a stupid question, but I ask because everyone is different and has their own criteria on here. I see people after connection and others after friendship that leads onto more etc. So what is it that you are looking for?
Looks?
Stamina?
Personality?
This is just a general question btw so you can say what ever it is you like. With a bit of luck you may find someone in the thread.  |
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I need to fancy them for starters. But personality wise, exactly what I look for in a friend without benefits...sense of humour, intelligence, positive attitude, similar interests, agreeable outlook and beliefs, doesn't take life too seriously etc etc
I'm not looking btw...but that's what I would look for were I looking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who will take me for tea before banging my brains out. Or they can take me for tea after. Whichever I'm not fussy.
Someone who likes a tea break halfway  "
Cake break yup. Or if he did me doggy I can carry on munching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need to fancy them for starters. But personality wise, exactly what I look for in a friend without benefits...sense of humour, intelligence, positive attitude, similar interests, agreeable outlook and beliefs, doesn't take life too seriously etc etc
I'm not looking btw...but that's what I would look for were I looking "
This sounds about right for me. Definitely need to fancy the arse of them, someone I can be me around, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll present my list of demands shortly.  
Sometimes it's easier to anwer these kind of questions thinking of the type of person I'm NOT looking for. Strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A sense of humour, someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, limitless patience for when I'm working away and our meets are occasional.
Someone who knows I'm leasehold and not a long term investment emotionally.
Someone who accepts me for who I am, not for what I do in my real life away from fab.
Everything else is negotiable. |
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"Someone who will take me for tea before banging my brains out. Or they can take me for tea after. Whichever I'm not fussy."
What sort of cuisine do you like 
I don’t imagine a bag of chips a a kebab will do it
Let’s go for a sexy Italian with candles and all that ambiance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like previous posters have said got to be a click or some attraction I’m not in to cake I’m afraid if I can tempt a lady with a Wigan pastie all the better more savoury man myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who will take me for tea before banging my brains out. Or they can take me for tea after. Whichever I'm not fussy.
What sort of cuisine do you like
I don’t imagine a bag of chips a a kebab will do it
Let’s go for a sexy Italian with candles and all that ambiance "
Chips and kebabs are the midnight snack
If I can have focaccia bread and Ice cream I'm sold |
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I want fwb relationships
Men who I can chat shit with whenever, we like to treat each other, we can read each other very closely, we want to spend quality time together and are both not afraid to feel something more for each other without jealousy of each others other partners |
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"I need to fancy them for starters. But personality wise, exactly what I look for in a friend without benefits...sense of humour, intelligence, positive attitude, similar interests, agreeable outlook and beliefs, doesn't take life too seriously etc etc
I'm not looking btw...but that's what I would look for were I looking "
My list would be similar to Lily’s but I also make it clear it’s FWB only I’m not looking to become attached at the hip to any one. Prevents any future misunderstanding |
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point"
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab "
Dude looks like a lady |
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Also anyone that has performed in the circus. Preference goes to sword swallowers and contortionists but will take a lady clown smothered in custard ooh Oooh or a woman in a top hat and tails with jodhpurs with a whip.
Holy shit. I’ve just discovered I have a circus “thing” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks including sex appeal, personality, commonality.
By which I mean I need to fancy them, but also have a laugh, be challenged- differing perspectives are good on things like culture, worldliness. I like to learn from people I meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good conversationalist to start with. Nothing worse than when there are awkward silences and you're trying to come up with something.
Someone I could have a laugh with as well and someone who can get used to hearing "sorry" when an awkward moment happens during sex  |
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady"
I believe I said hair metal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal "
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
For a FWB? Someone I can trust and like being with first, maybe some common interests and build each other up , and then who enjoys the same kind of sex and has similar sex drive. Do you mean a FB ? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Not looking but if I were;
Looks, sex appeal, outgoing and fun personality. Would have to be as insatiable as I. Someone I can lose track of time chatting with and have a good time socially as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone I can have a conversation with, that isn't always sex based. No awkward silences. Able to hang out and do normal everyday stuff like ordering pizza and curling up in front of a film or getting lost in the woods together.
Someone that's interested in me as a person rather than just the fact I have a pussy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone I can have a conversation with, that isn't always sex based. No awkward silences. Able to hang out and do normal everyday stuff like ordering pizza and curling up in front of a film or getting lost in the woods together.
Someone that's interested in me as a person rather than just the fact I have a pussy. "
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap"
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition. "
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something |
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something "
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup. "
They are very much hair metal finger boy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup.
They are very much hair metal finger boy. "
Chill guys..... I was referencing the ska cover anyway by Reel Big Fish |
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup.
They are very much hair metal finger boy.
Chill guys..... I was referencing the ska cover anyway by Reel Big Fish "
see what you started. I'm going to pretend you were referring to Poison |
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup.
They are very much hair metal finger boy. "
That's your opinion. I believe they predate hair metal. That's Mr Finger to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup.
They are very much hair metal finger boy.
Chill guys..... I was referencing the ska cover anyway by Reel Big Fish "
Which cover song were you referring too |
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"Enjoy the same filth.
Doesn't tell lies.
Enjoys anal as much as I do.
Has decent biscuits in the cupboard,
Non of that plane shit your nan has."
You sound like the perfect date ..plenty of bum fun and Bespoke biscuits .. marry me!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup.
They are very much hair metal finger boy.
Chill guys..... I was referencing the ska cover anyway by Reel Big Fish
Which cover song were you referring too"
The lyrics are my status lol.
"Talk dirty to me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who would actually want the friendship side too.
Many seem to confuse a fuck buddy for fwb.
Sex should be the additional bonus, not the main focus point
Somebody who can quote 80's hair metal lyrics at me would be fab
Dude looks like a lady
I believe I said hair metal
Define hair metal. Stop watching spinal tap
Bands from the 80's hair metal scene would be my definition. Spinal tap doesn't influence my definition.
And Aerosmith you deny I. This category? For your sake, I’m humouring you. Aerosmith are hair metal. So learn something
You can define them as hair metal, that's your opinion. I don't see them as such, they've been around since the 70's so they definitely influenced hair metal but I wouldn't say they are hair metal, they lack the spandex, hairspray and makeup.
They are very much hair metal finger boy.
Chill guys..... I was referencing the ska cover anyway by Reel Big Fish
Which cover song were you referring too
The lyrics are my status lol.
"Talk dirty to me""
Oh hell yeah. Fair play. Forgot about that one. Not their best cover |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Funny (that is, my kind of funny - not stand up comedy levels of funny).
Filthy minded
Sexually adventurous
Tactile
Love blowjobs
Love kissing and cuddles
Just a generally good guy who isn’t complicated and is just easy to be with and who thinks I’m the bees knees.
Local (ish). |
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As above - someone i would want as a friend and also someone who wants to put the work in to build that friendship so regular contact is a must. It's not for everybody so I'm never offended if it becomes not what someone wants but I'm lucky enough to have found some lovely guys who enjoy all parts of being my fwb! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As above - someone i would want as a friend and also someone who wants to put the work in to build that friendship so regular contact is a must. It's not for everybody so I'm never offended if it becomes not what someone wants but I'm lucky enough to have found some lovely guys who enjoy all parts of being my fwb!"
Ivy is right above |
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