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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are your thoughts that make you sad/question yourself?
I've just been looking at the moon and it just dawned on me, that I am looking at a place that I will never get a chance to go to ... all the way up there we see it and we want to go ... but one day the future generation they'll probably be travelling there like it's a holiday destination or public transportation.
Something that we'll never be able to do, kind of unfair isnt it? ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are your thoughts that make you sad/question yourself?
I've just been looking at the moon and it just dawned on me, that I am looking at a place that I will never get a chance to go to ... all the way up there we see it and we want to go ... but one day the future generation they'll probably be travelling there like it's a holiday destination or public transportation.
Something that we'll never be able to do, kind of unfair isnt it? ... "
I prefer to be positive and look at the glass half full. It’s not my thing seeing a thread about these kinda things.
Not going to the moon saddens you? You can’t go there, and that’s inflicting sadness. That’s a little odd |
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Why I've done some of the things I've done in the past. If I could go back and change it I would, but I can't.
However I also know there is no point beating myself up about it. I have moved on from the experiences, and I have grown into a different person to what I used to be, and a much better person for it, and I am very proud of where I am now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes me question myself? Everything
What makes me sad? Knowing that I've held myself back due to self doubt"
Change it, it’s never to late. Believe in yourself and aim for the things you desire. You can rock your world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad."
everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it |
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"What makes me question myself? Everything
What makes me sad? Knowing that I've held myself back due to self doubt
Change it, it’s never to late. Believe in yourself and aim for the things you desire. You can rock your world"
Work in progress  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it"
It did indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it"
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do. |
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do."
Sometimes some things aren't possible. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do."
Physical impossibility. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible. "
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well. "
Exactly this. Well said lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well. "
This, really.
The great Randy Newman wrote a song about it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4FumuR--6pg |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get up"
but in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well.
This, really.
The great Randy Newman wrote a song about it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4FumuR--6pg"
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It’s depicted perfectly in Newton’s third law...
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Something hurts you, did you hurt someone else. Be the best you can be and you’ll have the best people around you...live by this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here"
Be positive |
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Listen Atlas , no man or woman from this planet has ever traveled to the moon .
So don’t feel dismayed by the 1960s world space rave bull shit between Russia USA and GB
Let’s plant a flag ???? Mmmm google temperature on the moon then google how anyone can take off from the moon with out a pre built launch pad
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well.
This, really.
The great Randy Newman wrote a song about it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4FumuR--6pg.
It’s depicted perfectly in Newton’s third law...
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Something hurts you, did you hurt someone else. Be the best you can be and you’ll have the best people around you...live by this"
I don't agree.. you can be the best you can be, you can keep giving but still it might be met with indifference. Or worse misunderstood and thrown back at you. Misplaced kindness of sorts?
And yes. Fucking unfair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Listen Atlas , no man or woman from this planet has ever traveled to the moon .
So don’t feel dismayed by the 1960s world space rave bull shit between Russia USA and GB
Let’s plant a flag ???? Mmmm google temperature on the moon then google how anyone can take off from the moon with out a pre built launch pad
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Focusing on reality could be more important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well.
This, really.
The great Randy Newman wrote a song about it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4FumuR--6pg.
It’s depicted perfectly in Newton’s third law...
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Something hurts you, did you hurt someone else. Be the best you can be and you’ll have the best people around you...live by this
I don't agree.. you can be the best you can be, you can keep giving but still it might be met with indifference. Or worse misunderstood and thrown back at you. Misplaced kindness of sorts?
And yes. Fucking unfair. "
But looking at these experiences and looking into what you can learn from it to make your life better....hidden gift many miss in life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here
Be positive "
i will when i care enough to give a toss until then il be bummed out my a mopey thread i shouldnt have looked at but dont tell me how to think im an old man not interested in new tricks thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here
Be positive i will when i care enough to give a toss until then il be bummed out my a mopey thread i shouldnt have looked at but dont tell me how to think im an old man not interested in new tricks thanks "
Perfect example of every action has an equal and opposite reaction. No need for you’re rude words. |
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I'm afraid I'm firmly in the positive/optimistic camp OP...sometimes all you need are the little things. I appreciate those little things, seek them out every single day, and focus on them despite all of the negative stuff that every single one of us has to deal with. Our time on this mortal coil is short, so I'm damn well going to enjoy myself while I'm here...give me more laughter lines please, I've had oodles of fun getting each and every one of them |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well.
This, really.
The great Randy Newman wrote a song about it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4FumuR--6pg.
It’s depicted perfectly in Newton’s third law...
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Something hurts you, did you hurt someone else. Be the best you can be and you’ll have the best people around you...live by this
I don't agree.. you can be the best you can be, you can keep giving but still it might be met with indifference. Or worse misunderstood and thrown back at you. Misplaced kindness of sorts?
And yes. Fucking unfair.
But looking at these experiences and looking into what you can learn from it to make your life better....hidden gift many miss in life"
there are certain things that that doent apply to, certain losses, that stay with you, that cut to your very heart, that never leave you, and keep reminding you year in year out. And it hurts like fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well.
This, really.
The great Randy Newman wrote a song about it. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4FumuR--6pg.
It’s depicted perfectly in Newton’s third law...
Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.
Something hurts you, did you hurt someone else. Be the best you can be and you’ll have the best people around you...live by this
I don't agree.. you can be the best you can be, you can keep giving but still it might be met with indifference. Or worse misunderstood and thrown back at you. Misplaced kindness of sorts?
And yes. Fucking unfair.
But looking at these experiences and looking into what you can learn from it to make your life better....hidden gift many miss in life there are certain things that that doent apply to, certain losses, that stay with you, that cut to your very heart, that never leave you, and keep reminding you year in year out. And it hurts like fuck"
The way I think of it is, when you are on your death bed, that moment your life’s memory flashes before your eyes....will it fill you with regrets...if so, don’t let those images happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here
Be positive i will when i care enough to give a toss until then il be bummed out my a mopey thread i shouldnt have looked at but dont tell me how to think im an old man not interested in new tricks thanks
Perfect example of every action has an equal and opposite reaction. No need for you’re rude words. "
how was i rude in any way there simply because i dont accept what you say hell i even said thanks like my mummy told me if i said what i really though that would be rude but im trying real hard not to open that box anytime soon so thankyou for your thoughtful positive wishes i give them back keep them my gift to you i simply have no use for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here
Be positive i will when i care enough to give a toss until then il be bummed out my a mopey thread i shouldnt have looked at but dont tell me how to think im an old man not interested in new tricks thanks
Perfect example of every action has an equal and opposite reaction. No need for you’re rude words. how was i rude in any way there simply because i dont accept what you say hell i even said thanks like my mummy told me if i said what i really though that would be rude but im trying real hard not to open that box anytime soon so thankyou for your thoughtful positive wishes i give them back keep them my gift to you i simply have no use for them "
I’m not rising. If you can’t see it, it’s not my responsibility to explain |
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here
Be positive i will when i care enough to give a toss until then il be bummed out my a mopey thread i shouldnt have looked at but dont tell me how to think im an old man not interested in new tricks thanks
Perfect example of every action has an equal and opposite reaction. No need for you’re rude words. how was i rude in any way there simply because i dont accept what you say hell i even said thanks like my mummy told me if i said what i really though that would be rude but im trying real hard not to open that box anytime soon so thankyou for your thoughtful positive wishes i give them back keep them my gift to you i simply have no use for them
I’m not rising. If you can’t see it, it’s not my responsibility to explain "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the moon I look at it and it helps me feel close to people because no matter where we are we are all looking up at the same moon and stars   "
That’s a great outlook |
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"I love the moon I look at it and it helps me feel close to people because no matter where we are we are all looking up at the same moon and stars "
'We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars'
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"What are your thoughts that make you sad/question yourself?
I've just been looking at the moon and it just dawned on me, that I am looking at a place that I will never get a chance to go to ... all the way up there we see it and we want to go ... but one day the future generation they'll probably be travelling there like it's a holiday destination or public transportation.
Something that we'll never be able to do, kind of unfair isnt it? ... "
It's amazing that you were born at the time you were. Look at how you have such wonderful science knowledge in your brain. Past generations did not know that the moon was the size that it is. They could not have conceived that one day people would see it through telescopes, realise it's matter and size, know it's distance from Earth and mind blowingly build a craft that would enable them to travel to it and to see the barren waste and craters.
People thought the moon was a Goddess, They thought it was light. They thought it only appeared at night. They thought it was cheese. They didn't know about gravity and that they'd weigh less on the moon.....
You know these things though because you were born now.....
If you MUST have thoughts that sadden you - Don't make it about something that isn't about now, hasn't yet happened and isn't likely to. Set your thoughts to things that you CAN control and improve x |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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I feel sad that I'm excited and impatient to go out for a meal, play at clubs and go on an expensive holiday, then i watch the news regarding the covid issues in under developed country's and atrocities to inocent people living with war and famine.
Makes me feel sad and selfish x |
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If I allow myself to think like that which is not often it's the thought of not being here for my kids/grandkids/ & great grand child & any future little peeps but going to the moon? Never entered my head! X |
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"I have failed at the one thing women are meant to be able to do.
That makes me sad.everyone fails at who there supposed to be the measure of a person is how much they succeed at who they are avengers did drop some pearls didnt it
Disagree totally. Life’s a bitch. Realise this and things change. Bad things are at every corner, but, they are for everyone. You can make it what you want. Push for what you desire and don’t stop until you have achieved the things you want to be/do.
Sometimes some things aren't possible.
That’s where the glass half full has to kick in. If it’s a negative what’s the message? Learn something from it and from a different angle, fight and always get upbut in the end your history is your history your experience is your experience lessons dont change facts of history only things in future and sometimes that future simply is lost god this threads bummed me out now ffs im outta here
Be positive i will when i care enough to give a toss until then il be bummed out my a mopey thread i shouldnt have looked at but dont tell me how to think im an old man not interested in new tricks thanks
Perfect example of every action has an equal and opposite reaction. No need for you’re rude words. how was i rude in any way there simply because i dont accept what you say hell i even said thanks like my mummy told me if i said what i really though that would be rude but im trying real hard not to open that box anytime soon so thankyou for your thoughtful positive wishes i give them back keep them my gift to you i simply have no use for them "
You weren't rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you would start from point of acceptance - that life just is not fair.. maybe everything else will fall into place as well. "
I'd agree with this But life just 'is'. Ideas of 'fair' and 'unfair' are human concepts.
There are things I've done which I felt I 'should' be doing but, while sort of glad I did them, didn't really enjoy the experience.
I have accepted who I am and what I am like and how I want to live my life and I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.
Accept you for you and not others or societies view on what you should be like or should or should not be doing. |
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