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Is it rare for a man not to want a blow job?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never met one who didn't want it. So my anecdotal evidence says - rare. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
Even though it is rare I cum from a blow job, I still love them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience.. rare as hen’s teeth. I’m interested to see responses to this one. Good shout OP
Trza x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will always want one.
But I have stopped them when it's not 'hitting the spot' or I'm getting bored and my mind wanders. |
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"Even though it is rare I cum from a blow job, I still love them"
Yes I’ve heard a few say they can’t cum from one. |
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Ive met about two in my whole life so rare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met a few that weren't bothered one way or another... Nobody has ever turned one down tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After one from me they never ask again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy who didn't want one for a long time, until he knew me better. It was a trigger for him so I respected that and waited patiently.
Every other guy I've known has always wanted it and enjoyed it! |
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"I have met a few that weren't bothered one way or another... Nobody has ever turned one down tho "
Haha. Saw a few women on the other thread say it gets boring. Never heard a man say ffs stop it you’re boring me  |
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"I met a guy who didn't want one for a long time, until he knew me better. It was a trigger for him so I respected that and waited patiently.
Every other guy I've known has always wanted it and enjoyed it!"
And did he want another one?  |
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By *X2019Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
I suppose I don't mind volunteering in their place if so... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a guy who didn't want one for a long time, until he knew me better. It was a trigger for him so I respected that and waited patiently.
Every other guy I've known has always wanted it and enjoyed it!
And did he want another one? "
Once he trusted me and allowed me to do it, yes he did want more, luckily for me lol |
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"I suppose I don't mind volunteering in their place if so..."
You’re just too kind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've turned them down and don't really see what all the fuss is about.
I've never come from one and this really isn't a challenge either, I know what a good bj is and it just doesnt do things for me like others describe it should  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"Even though it is rare I cum from a blow job, I still love them
Yes I’ve heard a few say they can’t cum from one. "
it is so frustrating, I get so far, and it starts all over again, my ex gave up after a while, it doesn't stop me enjoying the experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a fan of receiving them |
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By *leeperMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
They nice but I can’t cum from one do most time it’s just a tease |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dosent bother me to be honest
Never cum from one always have to finsh my self off
So I can take them or leave them
Is in I not say no but wouldn’t harp on for one
Obviously past the essential suck me to get me hard
On the flip side never meet a guy that didn’t want me to suck him |
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"I have met a few that weren't bothered one way or another... Nobody has ever turned one down tho
Haha. Saw a few women on the other thread say it gets boring. Never heard a man say ffs stop it you’re boring me
I've been that man ! BJ's are great, of course, but yes, interest can wane after too long. I suspect that as with oral the other way not many people would say this in the moment but quite a few actually think it."
Yeah that’s true. I guess a lot wouldn’t say. |
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I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !  |
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I did not enjoy blow jobs when I met Mrs KC and would rather have gone down on her than vice versa. Over time I've enjoyed much more with her and even got to the stage where I can cum from them, but that was over a long time.
I'm not sure how I'd feel if asked by another lady actually. In theory yes, but I could see myself declining.
Mr KC
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home ! "
Haha yep. I don’t think I’d meet one who didn’t. It’s my favourite thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys I've known can only really cum once in an evening, so I'd much rather give him a teasing blow job as foreplay and then we have sex, and that's how he cums. Most guys have been happy with this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met a few that weren't bothered one way or another... Nobody has ever turned one down tho
Haha. Saw a few women on the other thread say it gets boring. Never heard a man say ffs stop it you’re boring me "
I think very few people would be brave or rude enough to say that in the moment ! But yes, oral can go on for too long and I'm not sure men are as wild about BJs as sexual myth would have us believe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not met a guy yet that hasn't wanted me on my knees  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well is it? "
YES! It's very rare!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m afraid I’m not traumatic event when you get a lady who bites instead of suck puts you off for life ae was blood all over the place so not for me I’m afraid  |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
london |
"I will always want one.
But I have stopped them when it's not 'hitting the spot' or I'm getting bored and my mind wanders."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After one from me they never ask again.
. They do say if you do it badly they'll never ask again, saves an awful lot of time, wear and tear on the knees and jaw ache "
Where is my notepad..
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"I’m afraid I’m not traumatic event when you get a lady who bites instead of suck puts you off for life ae was blood all over the place so not for me I’m afraid "
 . Oh blimey! |
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Although I like them I wouldn’t want a lady to spend too much time down there as I like to have some fun with her myself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving them, Mark does love getting them but I've never seen him cum from one yet.
He does say he gets close, but the slightest rhythm change or change of stroke can set it back.
He says if he can tell the girl isn't enjoying it or enthusiastic about it, it's what stops most guys from cumming apparently |
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"I love giving them, Mark does love getting them but I've never seen him cum from one yet.
He does say he gets close, but the slightest rhythm change or change of stroke can set it back.
He says if he can tell the girl isn't enjoying it or enthusiastic about it, it's what stops most guys from cumming apparently"
Change of rhythm or stroke is sooooooo annoying! Especially at the wrong time lol |
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John Wayne Bobbitt isn't so keen, once bitten twice shy
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I've never had anyone actually turn one down...but definitely very mixed levels of enthusiasm over receiving them. But, like everything in life, it's a personal preference...some people love 'em, some people loathe' em, and the majority of people sit somewhere in between.
I think timing can also play a part in enjoyment levels...I'm a big fan of waking him up with a morning BJ, but some people just want a wee and a coffee when they wake up |
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I’m always happy to receive a bj, particularly if the woman enjoys giving them? But I don’t expect a bj as part of sexual play, and rarely cum from it? I can remember the last time I actually cum from a bj, but it was a long time ago....... |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Same answer as the other thread.
I’ve written ‘different’ so many times now that it looks weird |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
Guildford |
I am tempted to say that I enjoy a handjob more than a blowjob. Bit of oil, bit of kissing as she’s stroking my cock... yep, that would do nicely! |
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"I love giving them, Mark does love getting them but I've never seen him cum from one yet.
He does say he gets close, but the slightest rhythm change or change of stroke can set it back.
He says if he can tell the girl isn't enjoying it or enthusiastic about it, it's what stops most guys from cumming apparently"
I know what he means! I tend to revert to putting my cock in her mouth as a ‘cool off’ to prevent me cumming too soon in her pussy...... |
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"Same answer as the other thread.
I’ve written ‘different’ so many times now that it looks weird"
I know that everyone’s different Tea!  . I was interested in hearing people’s opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well is it? "
depends on who's giving it in my opinion.
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"I am tempted to say that I enjoy a handjob more than a blowjob. Bit of oil, bit of kissing as she’s stroking my cock... yep, that would do nicely!"
Oh I love doing that! |
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Enjoy a Bj, dam right I do, expect it, no never, cum from a Bj, yeah for sure, depending on circumstances, but don’t panic as I always cum more than once in a session |
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"I will always want one.
But I have stopped them when it's not 'hitting the spot' or I'm getting bored and my mind wanders."
I tend to say “I really need to fuck you now” at that point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm yet to turn one down |
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By *anjkukMan
over a year ago
Heald Green |
I remember my first gf. I got the impression she wanted to go down on me, but I used to think it was a bit dirty and below her (excuse the pun)
She ended up just doing it one time though and I was like mmmm! These are ok these are!
Never said no since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to be in the mood xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will always want one.
But I have stopped them when it's not 'hitting the spot' or I'm getting bored and my mind wanders.
I tend to say “I really need to fuck you now” at that point "
At that point for me the 'mood' has dissipated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most guys I've known can only really cum once in an evening, so I'd much rather give him a teasing blow job as foreplay and then we have sex, and that's how he cums. Most guys have been happy with this!"
That's what I prefer. BJ as part of foreplay rather than the be all and end all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does nothing for me so I’m not that interested in them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home ! "
Let's hope preferences and expectations are agreed prior |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
I really hope not I haven’t met any yet  |
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Depends if you’re good at them. If you’re shite then I’d rather not |
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I have very little interest in blow jobs. If my partner is insistent as it somehow turns them on I will concede to their lust.
I much prefer a hand job. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
It's something I rarely enjoy. For years it was something I had wanted to have as previous partners weren't that way inclined, pre-swinging, then when I had one it was just ok. I treat it as a prelude to intercourse, just part of foreplay. Also and perhaps the reason why, I rarely cum from oral, so it's not a means to an end for me. It's enjoyable, but only as foreplay. |
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Depends whose asking, I don’t want a nob goblin gobbling me nob |
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I can only speak personally, but I prefer a hand job to a blow job because I'm more likely to reach orgasm. I still enjoy blow jobs though, but if it was a choice between hand or mouth I would go for hand, unless the lady in question claimed to be extraordinary with her mouth. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After one from me they never ask again.
. They do say if you do it badly they'll never ask again, saves an awful lot of time, wear and tear on the knees and jaw ache "
Yep. Same tactics men use with washing up and laundry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well is it? "
I’d say it’s rare not to bloody love one love a good BJ almost as much as I love going down on a woman mmmmmm |
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I find them a little boring tbh.
They are OK for giving me a break during a long session, but that's about it. I'd much prefer her to just kiss me and use her hands.
There seems to be a huge amount of social pressure for his to like blowjobs and expectations from women that it will make guys cum.
I think this makes it worse tbh, as she will try overly hard and I end up laying there just thinking 'why am I not enjoying this?' until I stop it and move us onto something else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're a bit meh: take ages to cum, it's never done right. I'd rather be in control.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Well is it? "
Only if he's never had one done right i'd think |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home ! "
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home ! "
Fiiiiine you’ve twisted my arm!
*drops trousers* |
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It's interesting to see the women on here are mainly saying they have never met a guy who doesn't like them, but about half the guys say they aren't that bothered.
I wonder why that is? |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
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True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had men not want one but they are rare yes.
Many dont cum from them, some love them.
Prior discussion is a good idea for techniques, some love hard and fast, some slow and more tongue flicking.
I like giving them but using them as foreplay is the key here, not the end game |
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Default response, everyone is different, don't generalize.
Personally I like them out of principle, but generally not bothered if the alternative would be me going down on someone else. |
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"Default response, everyone is different, don't generalize.
Personally I like them out of principle, but generally not bothered if the alternative would be me going down on someone else."
I don’t think anyone is generalising??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the rare occasion, perhaps. |
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I think it comes down to technique, I’ve had more bad blow jobs than good so now I just think “meh”.
A good one is amazing, but anything less than amazing seems a waste of effort as I don’t get much from it, especially the “toothy” ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never met one who didn't want it. So my anecdotal evidence says - rare. "
Well, look at who’s offering it. Tssst. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I love a slow, teasing blowjob. I'd say its very rare for a man not to want a blowjob but its also rare to find a woman who enjoys giving them.
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"Most guys I've known can only really cum once in an evening, so I'd much rather give him a teasing blow job as foreplay and then we have sex, and that's how he cums. Most guys have been happy with this!"
That might be the reason to stop someone. Too much starter can ruin the main course! X |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x"
We're going to have to agree to disagree here Nora, we've all seen men destroyed on the forums for a lot less even when they have explained it was a joke and winked on their comment. |
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Having said that, selfishly I do love them and definitely cum! |
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While I enjoy oral its very unlikely I will cum that way |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x"
Well I sort of meant it , it is likely that the subject would have been broached during the messaging foreplay stage . Upon declaring his dislike of receiving oral , that would clearly indicate that we are not compatible and no meet would take place.
And my going home wouldn't be forcing myself on him... it's accepting no for answer . I want to , he doesn't ... I'll get my coat |
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From a personal perspective, there is something very etotic about seeing a woman taking you fully in her mouth.... x |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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I don't mind a blowjob but I won't say it's necessary. For me at least. I'm more a giver than a receiver. Just let me lick you out and that would turn me on more than I would recieving a blowjob. But that's just me really. Can't really speak for every man.. we are all different after all |
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When I was younger I wasn't into them.
But now... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont dislike them but they don't feature all that high on my list |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
Well I sort of meant it , it is likely that the subject would have been broached during the messaging foreplay stage . Upon declaring his dislike of receiving oral , that would clearly indicate that we are not compatible and no meet would take place.
And my going home wouldn't be forcing myself on him... it's accepting no for answer . I want to , he doesn't ... I'll get my coat "
It was the "whether he's liking it or not he's getting one" that took me aback I have to say. |
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Thanks for the comments people. Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only time I say no is if thay tried b4 and wasted my time lol |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
Well I sort of meant it , it is likely that the subject would have been broached during the messaging foreplay stage . Upon declaring his dislike of receiving oral , that would clearly indicate that we are not compatible and no meet would take place.
And my going home wouldn't be forcing myself on him... it's accepting no for answer . I want to , he doesn't ... I'll get my coat "
TBH, I had to read it twice, but guessed that you meant that if he likes it he's getting one but if he doesn't your going home, rather than he's getting one if he likes it or not.
It did read very much like the latter though, which would have been a bit dodgy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not having received one for over 2 years you’d think I’d refused them but that’s not the case 
It would be on their bottom lip before they finished asking ( in the right circumstances obviously ) |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I love giving blow jobs and have only ever had one refusal.
At a cruising spot a couple of years ago. A guy comes up to me, undoes his zip, pulls out his cock. I bend down to put it in my mouth, he turns and walks away?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a bj and returning with a good pussy lick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex husband didn't like BJ, I was married to him for over 20 years and never gave him a BJ. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
We're going to have to agree to disagree here Nora, we've all seen men destroyed on the forums for a lot less even when they have explained it was a joke and winked on their comment."
This is very true.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often, if I had thought I wasn’t in the mood for it, a lady who knows me will know how to seduce me with one. It’s not the blow job more so her sensuality and the eroticism of her using it to seduce me. |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
We're going to have to agree to disagree here Nora, we've all seen men destroyed on the forums for a lot less even when they have explained it was a joke and winked on their comment."
Oh I know and many many a time I’ve commented on those too, how people have taken things the wrong way or people have perhaps worded something wrongly and therefore been bullied and slated for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a part of foreplay yes great but after you let a woman know that you rarely cum from blowjobs sometimes they become obsessed with proving you wrong, see it as a challenge and want to prove how good they are at it, this can be both good and bad, because someone yanking down on you too hard will affect later performance, their ain't a real bone in there
I agree with a lot of whats said above..
The best ones are the ones you aint expecting |
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over a year ago
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
We're going to have to agree to disagree here Nora, we've all seen men destroyed on the forums for a lot less even when they have explained it was a joke and winked on their comment."
Yep, they wouldn't get away with even joking about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not the most interested in receiving oral, but I can appreciate it when done well. Much rather give than receive or 69 for both at once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find them a little boring tbh.
They are OK for giving me a break during a long session, but that's about it. I'd much prefer her to just kiss me and use her hands.
There seems to be a huge amount of social pressure for his to like blowjobs and expectations from women that it will make guys cum.
I think this makes it worse tbh, as she will try overly hard and I end up laying there just thinking 'why am I not enjoying this?' until I stop it and move us onto something else."
Oh my God, yes! This is absolutely true for me. I tend to overthink it and worry I won't get hard or even cum too quickly. It's also a bit awkward for me to just lie there, not doing anything. Wholeheartedly agree with the kissing and using her hands though |
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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago
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To be honest, my fella has never cum with a blow job, he tells me no woman has ever made him cum even though he says he likes it. X |
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I've personally met men who can't cum from them but not yet a guy who doesn't enjoy them. |
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Never turned one down yet..just adore them tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest, my fella has never cum with a blow job, he tells me no woman has ever made him cum even though he says he likes it. X"
This happens more than people think. It's not that the woman isn't doing it right but that some guys just don't from a BJ. Of course they like it and it's frustrating for the ladies, just one of those things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
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That was my thinking too.
I’ve never met a man who doesn’t like them, but I just just be lucky, I would respect it if they didn’t want one (and cry a little ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
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I have been scrolling through this thread since seeing this response and I thought exactly the same as you Sophie. 
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It tickles and isn’t particular pleasant unless it involves going much deeper. That’s the only time it’s been any good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only if he has a mangina |
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"Well is it? "
Male here not a fan.. much prefer eating pussy |
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Im really surprised how many men arnt fussed by blowjobs. I might stop giving them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a few who aren’t bothered by them - but I’m afraid I enjoy giving them. Kinda like it when they can’t stop themselves from coming (more so if can reload or carry on of course ) |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
Well I sort of meant it , it is likely that the subject would have been broached during the messaging foreplay stage . Upon declaring his dislike of receiving oral , that would clearly indicate that we are not compatible and no meet would take place.
And my going home wouldn't be forcing myself on him... it's accepting no for answer . I want to , he doesn't ... I'll get my coat
TBH, I had to read it twice, but guessed that you meant that if he likes it he's getting one but if he doesn't your going home, rather than he's getting one if he likes it or not.
It did read very much like the latter though, which would have been a bit dodgy. "
English being my second language perhaps I'm being ambiguous... |
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"I've never met a man that owned up to not wanting a BJ's .... Whether he's liking it or not , he's getting one/several or I'm going home !
Flip the genders and let's see what the response would be for this comment
True but I didn’t take it seriously. I’m sure she didn’t mean she would force someone. In fact I don’t even know her well and I know she didn’t!
The wink sort of confirmed that x
Well I sort of meant it , it is likely that the subject would have been broached during the messaging foreplay stage . Upon declaring his dislike of receiving oral , that would clearly indicate that we are not compatible and no meet would take place.
And my going home wouldn't be forcing myself on him... it's accepting no for answer . I want to , he doesn't ... I'll get my coat
TBH, I had to read it twice, but guessed that you meant that if he likes it he's getting one but if he doesn't your going home, rather than he's getting one if he likes it or not.
It did read very much like the latter though, which would have been a bit dodgy.
English being my second language perhaps I'm being ambiguous... "
Not a problem.
Think everyone understands now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just from the mere fact a woman is willing to put my penis in her mouth I’m not going to say, nah, you’re good thanks, I will always be grateful to receive. |
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I must be strange
I’m more than happy to tease a women’s body eat her lovely pussy and then slip my cock in her! I don’t ask for or want a BJ
I have them if the women insists she wants to suck me, but I’d be happy without it.
Maybe I’ve never had a good one hence not bothered! |
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Im as rare as hens teeth then. I dont enjoy them, especially to completion, much prefer to give than receive. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Never met one. I’d be a little disappointed if I did as I bloody love sucking cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey laser lips your mamma was a snow blower |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty rare , I've never refused a good sloppy blow job |
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Yes I've met a few, some are just too sensitive for a BJ and prefer a nice lubed hand massage instead |
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By *ub23Man
over a year ago
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Had a few uncomfortable ones that were a bit ’teethy’ Lol
Having said that there’s nothing sexier than a women on her knees and you pulling at her thong while she’s sucking mmm |
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Love this thread - always thought it was just me who found it hard to come from a blow job so I'm relieved to know I'm not alone. For me, the worst ones are where the intensity of the blow job doesn't change with your own level of arousal i.e. either too hard at the start when you're really sensitive, or not quite vigourous enough when you're getting closer. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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I'm not fussed as their is plenty more sexually |
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"I've turned them down and don't really see what all the fuss is about.
I've never come from one and this really isn't a challenge either, I know what a good bj is and it just doesnt do things for me like others describe it should
This is me but the female version lol x I keep trying but it just doesn't rock my world much rather some good old fingering and to have some decent rhythm and pressure in the right places x takes me aaaaaages to cum I'm hard work lol x "
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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If any lady wants to test this theory - I'm available to be asked. |
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Depends on who's giving it & what their (her) technique is like, had a couple I was glad to stop & do something else |
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Not fussed about recieving a BJ, plenty of fun to be had without them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not keen on a tuesday |
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"Love this thread - always thought it was just me who found it hard to come from a blow job so I'm relieved to know I'm not alone. For me, the worst ones are where the intensity of the blow job doesn't change with your own level of arousal i.e. either too hard at the start when you're really sensitive, or not quite vigourous enough when you're getting closer."
The worst ones are the ones who stop because they taste your precum..... |
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"Im not keen on a tuesday "
Damn I give great ones on a Tuesday  |
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"It's interesting to see the women on here are mainly saying they have never met a guy who doesn't like them, but about half the guys say they aren't that bothered.
I wonder why that is? "
A lot of us aren’t making the right connections in here? |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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I have had one or two bad ones, but it will never put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh..... never had a good one to be fair so not particularly bothered with them!! |
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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago
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"Even though it is rare I cum from a blow job, I still love them"
same. It takes some real commitment and atmosphere for me to cum from one, that said I value them as part of fore Play y.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They don't bother me one way or the other I can take it or leave it, if the person I'm with enjoys giving them then I'll gladly accept but if she doesn't then I'm just as happy not to receive one although I enjoy them I never cum through them so it's not a deal breaker for me plus I much rather be the giver of pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on several things.
My mood, the lady involved, the situation, the location etc.
It takes two as i am not that supple. And the activities can to lead on from one to another with a bj far from each others thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Omg...you’re back |
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"Omg...you’re back "
I never left |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg...you’re back
I never left "
Are you Nora |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am always up for a blow job I would say it is rare for a guy not to want one |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
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"I am tempted to say that I enjoy a handjob more than a blowjob. Bit of oil, bit of kissing as she’s stroking my cock... yep, that would do nicely!
Oh I love doing that! "
Well hello... |
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"Omg...you’re back
I never left
Are you Nora "
You can call me whatever you like |
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"Omg...you’re back
I never left
Are you Nora
You can call me whatever you like "
Oi. There’s only one Nora |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg...you’re back
I never left
Are you Nora
You can call me whatever you like "
Hello Doily |
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"Omg...you’re back
I never left
Are you Nora
You can call me whatever you like
Hello Doily "
Considering the thread topic, keep going Doriss, or Nora, keep going....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife never does it so now im no fan of it to be honest id rather pass on a bj |
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So what I've got from this thread is that most of the men don't seem bothered by them, but the women seem to think we all love them
Maybe us guys need to be more honest when receiving them. I know I haven't been as I felt it was something wrong with me for not enjoying it, and I didn't want to upset her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My alter ego doesn't enjoy it |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
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Depends entirely on the situation, I guess.
Maybe he was on a hair trigger and found you incredibly exciting. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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I love giving them. It's a big turn on for me too. Spending time to just give.
I find that people like different things.. Just like women and their oral sex.
It's worth finding out what works and when.. Sometimes foreplay, sometimes its the best most sensetive time when first erect.. Or later on during sex.
Firm, soft and teasing, deep, shallow, mixed in with hands and fingers, just tongue, ball play, nipples at the same time, him in control, me in control. I like to find out what works and doesn't. Everyone is different.
I don't think I've found anyone who didn't like to receive or has declined.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m afraid I don’t have explained earlier in thread why |
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I love giving and Mr always loves receiving. We both get a real kick out of a good BJ. Sexy to give, sexy to watch |
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I know I would never turn one down.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alpha isnt overly fussed about them but i love giving them, he is a very tough nut to crack and one ive not managed to yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love them and want more....encore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the best blowjobs I’ve had, have involved my penis being sucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if it's me no
I don't particularly like them
If a woman wants to do it though
I would let her |
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i know two of my female (non swinging) friends have said it is more common than we think. one had a boyfriend who flatly refused any oral for either of them.
it drove her crazy because she loves it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well is it? "
No |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
St Peter Port |
I adore receiving good oral, but like everything, done poorly, it can be dreadful (and I'm sure that some women would think ezactly the sane thing about men giving them oral!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it’s rare, as a woman who can do it very well.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Teeth darling...teeth.... |
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No not when one is a sub
And one might be in chastity
But I’m sure most are attached and don’t want to be caught , hence why you will only get requests on single guys on this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love giving them, Mark does love getting them but I've never seen him cum from one yet.
He does say he gets close, but the slightest rhythm change or change of stroke can set it back.
He says if he can tell the girl isn't enjoying it or enthusiastic about it, it's what stops most guys from cumming apparently"
That is SPOT ON!!! I am exactly like that! And never cum from a BJ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never met with one, but then, if they were not into it, I probably wouldnt meet with them x |
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"Well is it? "
not really. Met a few that dont. I've found mostly it's due to bad or negative experience in the past
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