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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find extremely attractive and sexy....
Could you fuck someone that had brains over looks?
Asking as I met someone a while ago for a social. Wasn't really my type in the looks department, but I was so fascinated by his knowledge and intelligence that he really did it for me...Turned me on massively...
Any similar experiences.? Could you or have you? |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
I like intelligence in a woman, always have. To turn your thread around, I would find a very attractive lady that lacked intelligence, someone that I could tolerate for very long. |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
"I like intelligence in a woman, always have. To turn your thread around, I would find a very attractive lady that lacked intelligence, someone that I could tolerate for very long. "
*Couldn't! Must proof read. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I don't really have a specific 'type' I go for anyway but I'm definitely attracted to the way the mind works. Physical attraction isn't really a thing for me so if they can get inside my mind they win  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him
Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no."
Can’t stand the phrase ‘Friend zone’ its a toxic concept. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him
Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no."
This says what I was thinking but quicker and more efficiently. When reading it add an Irish accent |
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I like intelligence as long as it doesn't turn into arrogance,
Ps on a lighthearted note I find the more intelligent someone is the less common sense they have.
A doctor friend bought a new car and rang me to come and rescue her two times in one day.
A, couldn't work out where the "key" went (it was a push button start)
B, dam car kept breaking down(stop/start)
Still tease her about it now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well a lack of intelligence is definitely a turn off so....
True story. An ex once said to me once "If trees were made of wood, and if fences were made of wood, then when you put a fence in the garden, why doesn't it turn into a tree?" |
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Given that "intelligence" is an inherently classist and ableist construct, I can definitely feel attraction to people less "intelligent" than I am.
I hope people more "intelligent" than I am will treat me in the same manner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like intelligence as long as it doesn't turn into arrogance,
Ps on a lighthearted note I find the more intelligent someone is the less common sense they have.
A doctor friend bought a new car and rang me to come and rescue her two times in one day.
A, couldn't work out where the "key" went (it was a push button start)
B, dam car kept breaking down(stop/start)
Still tease her about it now "
Haha...love it! Probably me that  |
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I fell in love with my partner because of his intelligence and personality. His looks where irrelivant which is rich coming from me as 8m not the sharpest knife in the draw. But they say opposites attract |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Irrelevant to me, i like aspects of intelligence as much as slightly dizzy women, ive experienced sometimes with high intelligence comes lack of commonsense which is a bug bearer of mine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given that "intelligence" is an inherently classist and ableist construct, I can definitely feel attraction to people less "intelligent" than I am.
I hope people more "intelligent" than I am will treat me in the same manner. "
HOUSE! |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
Lilleth, Frasier's other half in Cheers, had lots of intelligence and was imho, seriously attractive. But, she was lacking in the humour dept. So imho, need a bit of humour as well as intelligence, for me at least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely not, If I don't fancy him I friend zone him, there has to be sexual attraction to him
Stephen Hawkins has an amazing brain, am I attracted to him no."
He's also been dead for three years so there's that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely this is a case of we're all "wired" differently? Intelligence can certainly be part of the mix, and different people identify intelligence differently. There's personality too for me. Just because someone's a Nobel laureate wouldn't float my boat alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality counts, a lot."
If the personality not there and there’s not a click as they say only my opinion of course intellectual is good a strong character and knows what she wants I’m a bit of dreamer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can be equally a turn on and a turn off, especially when someone is trying to show off how smart they are! Does my head in and find it so unattractive.
But nope need to have physical attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I met a chap who, in person just didn't do it for me physically and I'd decided that it wouldn't go any further than a social, but as we chatted about his hobby he spoke with such knowledge and passion that I changed my mind! |
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Over looks? No, physical attraction is key for me. I like to be able to talk to people about a variety of subjects, so if they're below a certain level of emotional and/or academic intelligence then we're going to struggle, which would put me off. And if they have no sense of humour then it's a definite no...I'm not compatible with "serious" people in any walk of life, they get irritated by me making jokes about everything |
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"I know that I find intelligence attractive, I also find emotional intelligence attractive and self awareness attractive. I still need physical attraction though. "
Those are all plus points Tea but rarely do they all manifest in one person. Emotional intelligence is an attribute so many cannot get the grips with. It really can be a destroyer |
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I once met a bloke who looked like the hunchback of notre dame with boils.....
I didn't know if I could go through with it but once he recited the entire works of Shakespeare, explained the offside rule , then cried when he saw a new born deer , I fucked him there and then!
Tesco manager threw us out. All fucking brawn and no empathy Tesco managers. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I know that I find intelligence attractive, I also find emotional intelligence attractive and self awareness attractive. I still need physical attraction though.
Those are all plus points Tea but rarely do they all manifest in one person. Emotional intelligence is an attribute so many cannot get the grips with. It really can be a destroyer "
That’s probably why I didn’t meet lots and take time to get to know people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find, if I'm attracted to someone physically, that a lack of personality, intelligence and sense of humour will likely put me off.
But ultimately, if I don't find them attractive physically, they're more likely to be someone I want as a friend! A great personality wouldn't make me sleep with someone unless I fancied them too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I once met a bloke who looked like the hunchback of notre dame with boils.....
I didn't know if I could go through with it but once he recited the entire works of Shakespeare, explained the offside rule , then cried when he saw a new born deer , I fucked him there and then!
Tesco manager threw us out. All fucking brawn and no empathy Tesco managers. "
Hahahahahahahaha oh mio Dio! Just spat my tea out laughing! Brilliant! |
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