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Is it rare for a woman not to want a, pussy lick?
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2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no. |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no. "
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It's key for me! If I were chatting to someone who said they'd not want to go down on me then I wouldn't meet them.
But I can understand being reluctant if it's around that time of the month. I'm not suggesting that that's what happened to you. But it's a possibility. |
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I absolutely love when done right with the right person  otherwise it can become a bit boring or awkward laying there wondering how to politely end it.. throw in some passion and the right connection and its the best thing ever!  |
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"I absolutely love when done right with the right person otherwise it can become a bit boring or awkward laying there wondering how to politely end it.. throw in some passion and the right connection and its the best thing ever! "
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to  "
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it! |
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!"
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too. |
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too. "
If they can't respect your feelings then they don't deserve a minute of your time! |
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over a year ago
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too. "
Do you also get the "you obviously have had it done right" line. Soo infuriating!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is my favourite thing along with a really sensual passionate kiss! My first 2 or 3 partners adored it and I loved it! Maybe i thought I was king Licker at that point now or the ‘Oral Oracle!’ So I was brought crashing down to earth when I met somebody that didn’t like it lol!
I am now quite a bit older and understand there are ladies that don’t like it at all, there are ladies that like being teased and licked slowly, sensually and teased (my ultimate favourite) but also ladies who love it but need the clit intensely and exclusively stimulated with a lot of pressure! To me that is brutal and find it hard to do (maybe because my jaw aches to fuck lol!) |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too.
Do you also get the "you obviously have had it done right" line. Soo infuriating!. "
Yep and then they fail too |
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"I absolutely love when done right with the right person otherwise it can become a bit boring or awkward laying there wondering how to politely end it.. throw in some passion and the right connection and its the best thing ever! "
I love it too it's a real turn on x |
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"It is my favourite thing along with a really sensual passionate kiss! My first 2 or 3 partners adored it and I loved it! Maybe i thought I was king Licker at that point now or the ‘Oral Oracle!’ So I was brought crashing down to earth when I met somebody that didn’t like it lol!
I am now quite a bit older and understand there are ladies that don’t like it at all, there are ladies that like being teased and licked slowly, sensually and teased (my ultimate favourite) but also ladies who love it but need the clit intensely and exclusively stimulated with a lot of pressure! To me that is brutal and find it hard to do (maybe because my jaw aches to fuck lol!)"
You're saying that all women are different? Nah, I don't believe it. |
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too.
Do you also get the "you obviously have had it done right" line. Soo infuriating!. "
Thread bingo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a woman is not interested in receiving oral. Then I won't be interested in a meet.
There are very few things that I can't do without. That though, is top of the list.
If you don't like it, no problem but, I adore it! |
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over a year ago
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too. "
That sucks. For mutual pleasure respect is needed on everything you both do. Sadly there are too many out there who think they can change a person's mind. But at least there are some who will listen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m shocked!!
Why would anyone not like it?
For me it plays a massive part of the experience!!"
Really, you need it explain why some people don’t like certain things ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m shocked!!
Why would anyone not like it?
For me it plays a massive part of the experience!!
Really, you need it explain why some people don’t like certain things ?"
* explained |
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no. "
If its done right what the hell is not to like... Grrrrrrrrr |
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too.
Do you also get the "you obviously have had it done right" line. Soo infuriating!.
Yep and then they fail too "
^^ this
I'm not fussed about it either. Doesn't really do anything for me. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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I love it but i wouldnt let a guy go down on me if i knew i wasnt fresh below, id have to politely decline or suggest stopping play to make sure im nice and clean!
Having said that a lot of guys dont really have the skill to read your body or even take instruction. For example if you say 'oooo that feels good dont stop' then they immediately change what they are doing to doing it too hard or too fast then you lose the orgasm build up and have to start all over...if only they would heed the instructions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no. "
Apparently you’re not as good as you think you are! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd much rather give oral than receive it. We all like to think we're great at sex (or at least one act) but people are different. Enjoy different things. I get a bit bored and dry up if someone starts doing an oral technique they think has worked on lots of women before. |
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over a year ago
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"I'd much rather give oral than receive it. We all like to think we're great at sex (or at least one act) but people are different. Enjoy different things. I get a bit bored and dry up if someone starts doing an oral technique they think has worked on lots of women before. "
People who say they're great at oral sex generally aren't in my experience. One size doesn't fit all. |
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"I'd much rather give oral than receive it. We all like to think we're great at sex (or at least one act) but people are different. Enjoy different things. I get a bit bored and dry up if someone starts doing an oral technique they think has worked on lots of women before.
People who say they're great at oral sex generally aren't in my experience. One size doesn't fit all. "
Exactly! Nor would I want ‘hours’ of it |
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"Love licking, turning a woman on is a massive turn on for me "
But if she didn’t like it it wouldn’t turn her on hence not turning you on so I’m not sure the relevance of your comment to the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fucking love it, i’d be unlikely to meet someone if they didn’t like it. You gotta have these conversations first.. my ex before i met sid hated her pussy licked... probably a contributing factor as to why we didn’t last long. |
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over a year ago
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I like it, and when done well it can be great, but often I get the sense guys expect me to cum in 2 minutes flat and that's just not going to happen, so if I'm feeling pressured i won't enjoy it and would rather we just didn't bother.
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"I absolutely love when done right with the right person otherwise it can become a bit boring or awkward laying there wondering how to politely end it.. throw in some passion and the right connection and its the best thing ever! "
This |
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too.
If they can't respect your feelings then they don't deserve a minute of your time!"
Yeah, we put it on our profile to avoid disappointment on the breathing through the ears guys part  |
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"I don't like it. I don't know why anybody thinks I should really. Just because loads of women like something doesn't mean I have to
Has anyone actually ever told you, you should like it? If I knew someone didn't like something, i wouldn't feel comfortable doing it with them...however much i might like it!
Yes they have told me I should. It's just assumed that I will too.
Do you also get the "you obviously have had it done right" line. Soo infuriating!. "
Used to. Not so much now it's on our profile that I don't enjoy it. We still get contact from guys whose profiles say it's vital for them though |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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People are a myriad of different shapes and sizes, we are wired differently and react differently to stimulus. Our nervous systems are subtly different and we react differently to touch and sensations, so we orgasm according to unique stimulation.
In this way, of course people like and dislike oral or other acts.
It’s a little strange to assume that everyone will like the same acts by virtue of their gender |
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no. "
Iv never been with a woman who didn’t like my head in between her legs for as long as I’d stay down there. Did the women didn’t like this not want to give you oral or do you think it was a totally different reason |
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"I like it, and when done well it can be great, but often I get the sense guys expect me to cum in 2 minutes flat and that's just not going to happen, so if I'm feeling pressured i won't enjoy it and would rather we just didn't bother.
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I agree with this. I really like it but not if I’m expected to be screaming and writhing after 2 minutes then pat them on the back on a job well done.
I like pressure free |
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"I like it, and when done well it can be great, but often I get the sense guys expect me to cum in 2 minutes flat and that's just not going to happen, so if I'm feeling pressured i won't enjoy it and would rather we just didn't bother.
I agree with this. I really like it but not if I’m expected to be screaming and writhing after 2 minutes then pat them on the back on a job well done.
I like pressure free "
Totally agree this is probarly why I got bored with it |
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My ex wasnt a fan of giving this. As a result I went 8yrs without it.
Since joining fab I'm playing catch up
I consider it an essential part of the build up and could happily lie back and take it for hours as it feels so damn good! |
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no.
Iv never been with a woman who didn’t like my head in between her legs for as long as I’d stay down there. Did the women didn’t like this not want to give you oral or do you think it was a totally different reason"
This woman who doesn't like it just doesn't like it. I will happily go down on a guy, in fact I positively enjoy it. I don't like being licked anywhere, a guy once licked my ears, I didn't like that either.
There are also an awful lot of guys whose only foreplay is oral sex...imagine that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the 'definitely do love it very very much' camp but of course others won't.
Its a bit like sexual positions and other foreplay options. Some do, some don't. Doesn't mean they're wrong. Just find other ways of having fun |
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"I like it, and when done well it can be great, but often I get the sense guys expect me to cum in 2 minutes flat and that's just not going to happen, so if I'm feeling pressured i won't enjoy it and would rather we just didn't bother.
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Have you cum yet?
Have you cum yet?
Have you cum yet?
Was it good?
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no.
Iv never been with a woman who didn’t like my head in between her legs for as long as I’d stay down there. Did the women didn’t like this not want to give you oral or do you think it was a totally different reason
This woman who doesn't like it just doesn't like it. I will happily go down on a guy, in fact I positively enjoy it. I don't like being licked anywhere, a guy once licked my ears, I didn't like that either.
There are also an awful lot of guys whose only foreplay is oral sex...imagine that "
Ears!! *cringe* I hate that.
What's foreplay? |
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no.
Iv never been with a woman who didn’t like my head in between her legs for as long as I’d stay down there. Did the women didn’t like this not want to give you oral or do you think it was a totally different reason
This woman who doesn't like it just doesn't like it. I will happily go down on a guy, in fact I positively enjoy it. I don't like being licked anywhere, a guy once licked my ears, I didn't like that either.
There are also an awful lot of guys whose only foreplay is oral sex...imagine that
Ears!! *cringe* I hate that.
What's foreplay? "
Foreplay is what women do to trick men into marrying them and what men do up until the wedding ceremony. |
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over a year ago
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I do start to see if this is an interest for the woman and certainly happy to help her as it’s no fun without mutual pleasure and it always ensures a second meet or more |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Glad to hear it is not just me
That said, like Nicecouple, I have it on my profile in no uncertain terms... I find oral sex tedious and boring (receiving that is) and still I receive messages from guys telling me that I have not met the right guy (seriously?)  |
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"I like it, and when done well it can be great, but often I get the sense guys expect me to cum in 2 minutes flat and that's just not going to happen, so if I'm feeling pressured i won't enjoy it and would rather we just didn't bother.
I agree with this. I really like it but not if I’m expected to be screaming and writhing after 2 minutes then pat them on the back on a job well done.
I like pressure free "
exactly.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no.
Iv never been with a woman who didn’t like my head in between her legs for as long as I’d stay down there. Did the women didn’t like this not want to give you oral or do you think it was a totally different reason
This woman who doesn't like it just doesn't like it. I will happily go down on a guy, in fact I positively enjoy it. I don't like being licked anywhere, a guy once licked my ears, I didn't like that either.
There are also an awful lot of guys whose only foreplay is oral sex...imagine that
Ears!! *cringe* I hate that.
What's foreplay?
Foreplay is what women do to trick men into marrying them and what men do up until the wedding ceremony. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Glad to hear it is not just me
That said, like Nicecouple, I have it on my profile in no uncertain terms... I find oral sex tedious and boring (receiving that is) and still I receive messages from guys telling me that I have not met the right guy (seriously?) "
I've had that too. "They aren't doing it right" "I'll show you, I'll prove to you that'll you like it" blah blah blah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone above says.. I can take it or leave it.
Never really enjoyed it enough to get me even close to climax just through oral ..so would much rather other things that will.
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I think what took me by surprise was that I'd always been told I was good at it. Infact one bi partner said I licked like a lesbian (which she assured me was a compliment lol). Which I think was probably because I enjoy doing it so much.
I'm certainly not complaining, and we are all different, with different things that turn us on. I guess I wanted to give them that pleasure so was disappointed that I couldn't. Particularly as one of them gave the most incredible blow job ever, and I wanted to return the favour, as a natural 'giver' |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Glad to hear it is not just me
That said, like Nicecouple, I have it on my profile in no uncertain terms... I find oral sex tedious and boring (receiving that is) and still I receive messages from guys telling me that I have not met the right guy (seriously?)
I've had that too. "They aren't doing it right" "I'll show you, I'll prove to you that'll you like it" blah blah blah! "
Exactly - tbh I now delete and block, something I never did before but it does get a bit tedious, doesn't it? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I am not a fan either. I would rather be fucked."
In a nutshell...
I have also found in the past with a couple of people - sometimes they would rather rely on oral because they struggle with penetrative sex.
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"I am not a fan either. I would rather be fucked.
In a nutshell...
I have also found in the past with a couple of people - sometimes they would rather rely on oral because they struggle with penetrative sex.
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There is something in that. I came out of an abusive relationship at one point, that scarred me for a while. And for a period, however excited I was I did struggle with penetrive sex. I found that giving oral helped me build up my mood too, get me properly excited and hard for actual sex. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I am not a fan either. I would rather be fucked.
In a nutshell...
I have also found in the past with a couple of people - sometimes they would rather rely on oral because they struggle with penetrative sex.
There is something in that. I came out of an abusive relationship at one point, that scarred me for a while. And for a period, however excited I was I did struggle with penetrive sex. I found that giving oral helped me build up my mood too, get me properly excited and hard for actual sex. "
Completely understand that - a good way of building up confidence in some cases.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think what took me by surprise was that I'd always been told I was good at it. Infact one bi partner said I licked like a lesbian (which she assured me was a compliment lol). Which I think was probably because I enjoy doing it so much.
I'm certainly not complaining, and we are all different, with different things that turn us on. I guess I wanted to give them that pleasure so was disappointed that I couldn't. Particularly as one of them gave the most incredible blow job ever, and I wanted to return the favour, as a natural 'giver' "
Sounds like the women you've been with very much appreciated your technique.
Everyone is different, it doesn't mean you are 'crap' if someone doesn't like it. Stress and worries can make people feel off and even if you were the bestest ever, they might not appreciate it that day.
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"Sounds like the women you've been with very much appreciated your technique.
Everyone is different, it doesn't mean you are 'crap' if someone doesn't like it. Stress and worries can make people feel off and even if you were the bestest ever, they might not appreciate it that day.
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Thanks, there is that. It was more me wanting to show my appreciation. But in the end we are all very different, and there will be things that don't turn me on that will others x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the technique. If they're just licking it's a no...
I've had to stop guys before and just move onto something else because it wasn't doing anything for me."
Some dont even have a clue,unfortunately.  |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"It’s essential for me. In fact you can move in down there for ever
Oh babs babs babs! You’re gonna be inundated with all the ones who can breathe through their ears and lick for hours now! "
Nora, you were right |
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"Depends on the technique. If they're just licking it's a no...
I've had to stop guys before and just move onto something else because it wasn't doing anything for me."
Well that's where communication is key, we aren't mind readers,yes you can tell alot from body language but personally I'd prefer to be given some constructive feedback if the technique I am using is not the technique you like.
I mean it may be you and not him?
His technique may have worked successfully on a 1000 other women in the past and because it's not for you doesn't make him a bad lover. |
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By *abs..Woman
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"Depends on the technique. If they're just licking it's a no...
I've had to stop guys before and just move onto something else because it wasn't doing anything for me.
Well that's where communication is key, we aren't mind readers,yes you can tell alot from body language but personally I'd prefer to be given some constructive feedback if the technique I am using is not the technique you like.
I mean it may be you and not him?
His technique may have worked successfully on a 1000 other women in the past and because it's not for you doesn't make him a bad lover."
You have a valid point there - how do people know what others like without some direction?
I just shout “up a bit, left a bit” “ooo there you go”
Joking apart, as long as it’s natural guidance then I think it’s a good approach it if it’s not quite hitting the spot. If you don’t enjoy oral then it’s best just to say it. |
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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago
gillingham |
Everyone likes and enjoys different things isn’t that part of the fun and experience of meeting new people finding out what makes them go wild with desire and respecting what doesn’t sure we all experiment and new things with the right person can be a supprise but accepting that we’re all different in our desires and likes it what makes swinging so fun and varied and keeps me into the lifestyle personally I love licking a lady and find it so hot to do but I wudnt find it so hot if I knew she wasn’t enjoying it to
I’m waffling sorry you can tell with lockdown I havnt been out much of late lol x |
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"It’s essential for me. In fact you can move in down there for ever
Oh babs babs babs! You’re gonna be inundated with all the ones who can breathe through their ears and lick for hours now!
Nora, you were right "
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"It’s essential for me. In fact you can move in down there for ever
Oh babs babs babs! You’re gonna be inundated with all the ones who can breathe through their ears and lick for hours now!
Nora, you were right
. I’m always right "
Just think of all the practical interviews I have to do now |
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"It’s essential for me. In fact you can move in down there for ever
Oh babs babs babs! You’re gonna be inundated with all the ones who can breathe through their ears and lick for hours now!
Nora, you were right
. I’m always right
Just think of all the practical interviews I have to do now "
Haha. Yell if you need a hand! |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring. "
But tits aren’t a foof |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
But tits aren’t a foof "
I can play with my own foof too! |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
But tits aren’t a foof
I can play with my own foof too! "
But not lick it |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
But tits aren’t a foof
I can play with my own foof too!
But not lick it "
You don’t know that. I may have an extremely long tongue and a very stretchy body. |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
But tits aren’t a foof
I can play with my own foof too!
But not lick it
You don’t know that. I may have an extremely long tongue and a very stretchy body. "
I hope so |
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no. "
I love it! Couldn’t imagine sex without it!! |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring. "
Yep. I've found a dildo I genuinely wouldn't be able to tell apart from the real thing if blindfolded but I still want the real thing! Sex toys can't give you eye contact or respond to you or press the weight of their body against you or smell like that delicious manly scent  . |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
Yep. I've found a dildo I genuinely wouldn't be able to tell apart from the real thing if blindfolded but I still want the real thing! Sex toys can't give you eye contact or respond to you or press the weight of their body against you or smell like that delicious manly scent . "
Exactly! Well put. That even gave me a little flutter |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
Yep. I've found a dildo I genuinely wouldn't be able to tell apart from the real thing if blindfolded but I still want the real thing! Sex toys can't give you eye contact or respond to you or press the weight of their body against you or smell like that delicious manly scent . "
I have pre cum  |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
But tits aren’t a foof
I can play with my own foof too!
But not lick it
You don’t know that. I may have an extremely long tongue and a very stretchy body. "
Or an extremely long 9” clit, with a bit of girth on it |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
But tits aren’t a foof
I can play with my own foof too!
But not lick it
You don’t know that. I may have an extremely long tongue and a very stretchy body.
Or an extremely long 9” clit, with a bit of girth on it "
That too! |
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"2 out of my last 4 partners have not wanted it, and felt uncomfortable when I went down there, so I stopped. I think I'm pretty good at it, and it's probably what I enjoy most about sex. Love being able to drive a woman crazy with my tongue. But for these two it was a no no.
Love to pleasure a woman this way and is a massive turn on for me turning a woman on and cumming in my mouth! But if it's something a woman doesn't like then it should definitely not be expected...but her views respected!
I love it! Couldn’t imagine sex without it!! "
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
Yep. I've found a dildo I genuinely wouldn't be able to tell apart from the real thing if blindfolded but I still want the real thing! Sex toys can't give you eye contact or respond to you or press the weight of their body against you or smell like that delicious manly scent .
Exactly! Well put. That even gave me a little flutter "
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
Yep. I've found a dildo I genuinely wouldn't be able to tell apart from the real thing if blindfolded but I still want the real thing! Sex toys can't give you eye contact or respond to you or press the weight of their body against you or smell like that delicious manly scent . "
Do you have a link to the dildo, asking for a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m shocked!!
Why would anyone not like it?
For me it plays a massive part of the experience!!
Why is someone's choice shocking?"
i understand it’s a choice! But personally for me if im really into who I’m with I absolutely love everything that happens and how can you not love what I would say is a huge part of being with someone!!
Just my opinion btw x |
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"That’s like asking why do dogs lick their balls - simple, cause they can.
If a lady could lick her own foof then us blokes would be fucked
Nah. I can play with my own tits but it’s boring.
Yep. I've found a dildo I genuinely wouldn't be able to tell apart from the real thing if blindfolded but I still want the real thing! Sex toys can't give you eye contact or respond to you or press the weight of their body against you or smell like that delicious manly scent .
Do you have a link to the dildo, asking for a friend "
It's from Godemiche! I got it as a birthday present as I found them super pretty but the texture and flexibility of the silicone is so much better than other silicone toys I've had before! |
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