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Do women find it sexy when a man does housework
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No. I get twitchy when they miss a bit so i'd rather do it myself
Now if they're good at DIY or cooking that's a different story"
So it's in the balance of DIY and cooking, not shrinking the washing because if the wrong setting lol ???? |
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The only man who does housework in my house is my son and it would be wrong if I found that sexy.
Does anyone want to come and give it try at mine and I'll let you know if its sexy when you've finished? |
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"The only man who does housework in my house is my son and it would be wrong if I found that sexy.
Does anyone want to come and give it try at mine and I'll let you know if its sexy when you've finished? "
Well played!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like today cleaned up did the shopping at Lidl of coarse mowed back garden jet washed patio took dog walk might even get time cook chicken wraps salad maybe can cider then relaxing shower  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexy? No.
Although I will appreciate it if it's being done properly.
 properly ...
Can't be doing with needing to redo it afterwards.... damn slackers "
Pmsl .. pure jokes |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely. "
This.
I hate it when people expect ‘rewards’ for doing what is a normal part of living. There’s no quid pro quo for things that need to be done |
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"No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely.
This.
I hate it when people expect ‘rewards’ for doing what is a normal part of living. There’s no quid pro quo for things that need to be done"
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I’m sure this isn’t the manner in which the thread was meant but it puts me in mind of when guys expect sex for being ‘nice’.
If you’re expecting sex because you treat a person like a human being, then I’ve got news for you; you’re not nice |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework. "
I read an interesting article recently about ‘the mental load’ that quite a few guys could do with looking at |
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Actually like doing the dishes with Radio 5 on in the background. Dusting, ironing and washing machine also fine. I can make quite a decent meal in fact I can do that palm thing with steak.
But I hate hoovering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope.
I find it sexy if a guy stops whatever hes doing, to play or fuck.
Think the whole, "your sexy when you do the dishes" thing. Is just said, if you're just not pulling your weight with the housework. |
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"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework. "
Probably, but if so it’s kind of looking at it from the wrong angle and thinking sex should be their reward for “helping”. When what it is actually is if the woman is a) exhausted from doing everything and b) sick of being a substitute mother, she isn’t going to want sex. Or not with the partner that puts all the burden on her, anyway. |
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"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework.
Probably, but if so it’s kind of looking at it from the wrong angle and thinking sex should be their reward for “helping”. When what it is actually is if the woman is a) exhausted from doing everything and b) sick of being a substitute mother, she isn’t going to want sex. Or not with the partner that puts all the burden on her, anyway."
Yes it is.
I think it's a cliche that needs addressing partly because it is often true but also because it often dismisses as his fault, a man's concerns about his partner's loss of libido. |
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"I expect some of this attitude stems from the times men complain that their partners have gone off sex and people ask them if they "help" with the housework.
I read an interesting article recently about ‘the mental load’ that quite a few guys could do with looking at "
Thanks for sharing that. It made me exhausted just to read the comic! |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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I have my daughter living with me and never seem to stop. I love cooking for us but tidying up,,washing bedding , washing , drying and ironing clothes, hovering, cleaning bathrooms , it’s just endless. |
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"No it’s just being a decent human. Why wouldn’t a man do cleaning? Or a woman ? If your part of the household you contribute however you can surely.
This.
I hate it when people expect ‘rewards’ for doing what is a normal part of living. There’s no quid pro quo for things that need to be done"
Totally agree. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’d have to ask Lu. I can’t imagine my obsession with cleaning and the pile on the rug having to be fluffed up sexy at all. But I’m sure women do find it appealing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is sexy/attractive is a man who can and does sometimes just put out the stops to look after you be that helping around the house or just cuddling you when he knows you’re having a shit day |
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I find a man sexy when I come home to find he has cleaned the house (including bathrooms), done the ironing, hoovering, fixed the squeaky door has a delicious meal in the oven and a lovely hot bubble bath run for me though...... I do wonder how this stranger got in my house  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a man sexy when I come home to find he has cleaned the house (including bathrooms), done the ironing, hoovering, fixed the squeaky door has a delicious meal in the oven and a lovely hot bubble bath run for me though...... I do wonder how this stranger got in my house "
All of it but ironing.. I am not good at it and you left spare keys in the flowers pot... |
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"I find a man sexy when I come home to find he has cleaned the house (including bathrooms), done the ironing, hoovering, fixed the squeaky door has a delicious meal in the oven and a lovely hot bubble bath run for me though...... I do wonder how this stranger got in my house
All of it but ironing.. I am not good at it and you left spare keys in the flowers pot... "
I will let you off with the ironing since you drove all the way from Lancaster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a man that can cook x
A man who has the whole package, cooking cleaning and putting a wash on "
this is sexy , maybe not while in their joggies bleaching the bath (wouldn’t imagine thats sexy on a woman either) but a man that is a rounded package is definitely sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a man sexy when I come home to find he has cleaned the house (including bathrooms), done the ironing, hoovering, fixed the squeaky door has a delicious meal in the oven and a lovely hot bubble bath run for me though...... I do wonder how this stranger got in my house
All of it but ironing.. I am not good at it and you left spare keys in the flowers pot...
I will let you off with the ironing since you drove all the way from Lancaster "
You could it while I bake a Cadbury choc fondant pudding |
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