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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when I chat to people it starts off well but sometimes I end up sending multiple messages then obviously i get blocked for it, any advice on how to stop it?"
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"Strong willpower.
Sound and simple advice thanks"
Life is fab. Fab is not life. When you send a message do not concern yourself with whether you get a response, overthinking this will lead to you sending multiple messages. To learn patience, you must learn to forget |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Expect that they’ll be taking to lots of people. Imagine being at a party where there are 10 men to every lovely lady. Wait your turn, so to speak.
She may hear your call amongst all the din around her or she may not. Luck may happen and she catches a glimpse of you amongst all the shuffling and will come towards you for a chat. Everyone else is also chatting to her. It would be rude if she were to ignore everyone else.
Give her a chance to chat to them and she may eventually turn back to you or she may become distracted and inadvertently forget that she had been talking to you.
It would be rude and annoying if you kept shouting to her whilst she was trying to enjoy the party.
That’s how I picture it in my head. I hope it helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If they don't reply then move on. Usually if people don't message back they aren't interested. Granted their might be other factors. Don't take it personally that is the way of fab sometimes x |
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"Expect that they’ll be taking to lots of people. Imagine being at a party where there are 10 men to every lovely lady. Wait your turn, so to speak.
She may hear your call amongst all the din around her or she may not. Luck may happen and she catches a glimpse of you amongst all the shuffling and will come towards you for a chat. Everyone else is also chatting to her. It would be rude if she were to ignore everyone else.
Give her a chance to chat to them and she may eventually turn back to you or she may become distracted and inadvertently forget that she had been talking to you.
It would be rude and annoying if you kept shouting to her whilst she was trying to enjoy the party.
That’s how I picture it in my head. I hope it helps."
That’s really good advice, thank w |
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"Strong willpower.
Sound and simple advice thanks
Life is fab. Fab is not life. When you send a message do not concern yourself with whether you get a response, overthinking this will lead to you sending multiple messages. To learn patience, you must learn to forget "
Thanks really good advice |
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"If they don't reply then move on. Usually if people don't message back they aren't interested. Granted their might be other factors. Don't take it personally that is the way of fab sometimes x"
Yh I guess you are right, thank you |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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Just stop sending multiple messages. Common sense prevails. Either it’s not going to be a thing or you’ll pick it up against a later date. Later date being maybe a date you can actually realistically meet. Needy and desperate is a turn off. For me and most others. |
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"Just stop sending multiple messages. Common sense prevails. Either it’s not going to be a thing or you’ll pick it up against a later date. Later date being maybe a date you can actually realistically meet. Needy and desperate is a turn off. For me and most others. "
Yh normally it’s just habit because I forget this is a website not an app (should be made into a app as well) so normally I’m used to sending a message then notification back and fourth |
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"Expect that they’ll be taking to lots of people. Imagine being at a party where there are 10 men to every lovely lady. Wait your turn, so to speak.
She may hear your call amongst all the din around her or she may not. Luck may happen and she catches a glimpse of you amongst all the shuffling and will come towards you for a chat. Everyone else is also chatting to her. It would be rude if she were to ignore everyone else.
Give her a chance to chat to them and she may eventually turn back to you or she may become distracted and inadvertently forget that she had been talking to you.
It would be rude and annoying if you kept shouting to her whilst she was trying to enjoy the party.
That’s how I picture it in my head. I hope it helps."
This is a perfect analogy x repeat bombarding of messages would get a block from us too x it's needy and an immediate red flag x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This can be off putting with guys when they sent multiple messages. It's hard to keep up with your inbox sometimes, so just give them a little time to reply. Remember no one owes anyone anything on here, if they are interested they will let you know. Good luck  |
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"This can be off putting with guys when they sent multiple messages. It's hard to keep up with your inbox sometimes, so just give them a little time to reply. Remember no one owes anyone anything on here, if they are interested they will let you know. Good luck "
Thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Strong willpower.
Sound and simple advice thanks
Life is fab. Fab is not life. When you send a message do not concern yourself with whether you get a response, overthinking this will lead to you sending multiple messages. To learn patience, you must learn to forget "
I appreciate reigning over that urge to send something again must be hard for some.. especially especially your inbox isn't very busy. But it's not going to work. 9 times out 10 it won't.
So yes. Send and forget. I recall someone saying they delete sent messages so they are not bothered by them unless someone replies! Not sure if it's a solution for you? |
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"So when I chat to people it starts off well but sometimes I end up sending multiple messages then obviously i get blocked for it, any advice on how to stop it?
Before logging into Fab you should fuck a watermelon."
Sage advice right here |
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" This is a perfect analogy x repeat bombarding of messages would get a block from us too x it's needy and an immediate red flag x
What would y’all class as bombardment of messages?"
More than 1 a day tbf we have so. Many to get through, give us chance, some I won't get chance reply to for days but the guys are always so polite and understanding when I do x we all have lives outside fab and it's easy for single, bored guys to Remember that x a lot of us have kids, work long or daft hours and have other friends we chat to etc x
Just relax dude, it's meant to be fun not a stress x |
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