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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Ideally, 2 bi men and me.
We go places together as friends, and have sex.
We have a great time in and out of bed and invite others to join us.
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So FWB but with a mm bi-couple...... thats pretty cool. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends
BDSM without sex
FWB
One offs
Fuck buddy
Poly relationship
Short/long term mono relationship
Which type are you mostly looking for via fab, if any?"
Fuck buddies x regulars x my faves x |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s"
Just friendship then? Or you also want to put your penis in ? (Them not the cake) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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General friendship with lots of people and also one or two FWBs if there's a spark.
Plus maybe the odd crazy night of mfm if I can ever two blokes to do it with me 
Not here to shag lots of people really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"General friendship with lots of people and also one or two FWBs if there's a spark.
Plus maybe the odd crazy night of mfm if I can ever two blokes to do it with me
Not here to shag lots of people really."
I’m sure you would have plenty of applicants  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s
Just friendship then? Or you also want to put your penis in ? (Them not the cake) "
I dont share cake with friends, are you mad man???  |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Friends
BDSM without sex
FWB
One offs
Fuck buddy
Poly relationship
Short/long term mono relationship
Which type are you mostly looking for via fab, if any?
Fuck buddies x regulars x my faves x"
Quantity then quality then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up  Px |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"Friends
FWB
One offs
Fuck buddy
Poly relationship
Short/long term mono relationship
Basically open to most things
You would like a man !!!! Choose just one ! "
Till I find what I am looking for fuck buddy |
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"I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s"
I used to own a cake shop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s
I used to own a cake shop "
I would have kept it in business alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a lovely circle of fab friends, some we play with, some we dont. Either way its always lovely to be in the same company.
We have a bit of this & a bit of that  |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s
I used to own a cake shop "
What’s it like to have your cake and eat it ? |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
We like to think of categories like:
acquaintances (who chat / flirt /watch)
playmates (who join in, when asked)
fuck partners (set up before we meet)
But always respect and regard.
X Anne & George |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Prefer the BWF as opposed to FWB on fab, as FWB is a thing off fab and totally different! BWF sums up a fab fwb way better tbh! "
What is that ? All I can find is
Bitch with feelings
Boyfriend without benefits
Neither sounds much fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came here for a little bit of fun or spice. We wanted a series of guest stars for out sexual adventures.
We ended up making friends with some of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer the BWF as opposed to FWB on fab, as FWB is a thing off fab and totally different! BWF sums up a fab fwb way better tbh!
What is that ? All I can find is
Bitch with feelings
Boyfriend without benefits
Neither sounds much fun. "
Benefits with friends? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up Px "
He must have a constant hard on around you |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Friends
BDSM without sex
FWB
One offs
Fuck buddy
Poly relationship
Short/long term mono relationship
Which type are you mostly looking for via fab, if any?"
Friends
BDSM with and without sex |
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"Friends
BDSM without sex
FWB
One offs
Fuck buddy
Poly relationship
Short/long term mono relationship
Which type are you mostly looking for via fab, if any?"
I come here with no wants or expectations, I find it better that way cause then you can’t get disappointed. I’ve made some great friends, I found my best friend, I’ve had some great (and bad) socials, and I’ve had some earth shattering meets.
Sorry to sit on the fence on this one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friends and FWB, all of the other options are possible added bonuses that may or may not happen.
I'm more for whatever happens happens rather than actively trying to make it all happen. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"FWBs but I’m finding it emotionally taxing at present... I’m wondering whether FBs would be better... "
Because you are busy and don’t want the pressure to message much between meets ? Or you’re getting attached and drifting into a normal boring relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer the BWF as opposed to FWB on fab, as FWB is a thing off fab and totally different! BWF sums up a fab fwb way better tbh!
What is that ? All I can find is
Bitch with feelings
Boyfriend without benefits
Neither sounds much fun. "
Benefits with friends = a sex lead friendship
Friends with benefits = friends first and foremost, same as any other friend, knows family and friends etc sex is only a benefit |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Friends and FWB, all of the other options are possible added bonuses that may or may not happen.
I'm more for whatever happens happens rather than actively trying to make it all happen. "
I like that, rather than having a specific thing in mind, it’s the people and connections that determine what becomes |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Prefer the BWF as opposed to FWB on fab, as FWB is a thing off fab and totally different! BWF sums up a fab fwb way better tbh!
What is that ? All I can find is
Bitch with feelings
Boyfriend without benefits
Neither sounds much fun.
Benefits with friends = a sex lead friendship
Friends with benefits = friends first and foremost, same as any other friend, knows family and friends etc sex is only a benefit "
Not many woman like that idea in my experience , friendship is valued way above sex , so FWB works because the sex isn’t that important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends and FWB, all of the other options are possible added bonuses that may or may not happen.
I'm more for whatever happens happens rather than actively trying to make it all happen.
I like that, rather than having a specific thing in mind, it’s the people and connections that determine what becomes "
Exactly, and comes with no disappointments as there's no expectations, and you enjoy people more for who they are not what you want out of them. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"The ideal formula for me is:
Occasional sex + good banter = FWB "
How occasional? Just as the mood strikes? I am curious... what is frequent enough for one, might not be for the other in the FWB result! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer the BWF as opposed to FWB on fab, as FWB is a thing off fab and totally different! BWF sums up a fab fwb way better tbh!
What is that ? All I can find is
Bitch with feelings
Boyfriend without benefits
Neither sounds much fun.
Benefits with friends = a sex lead friendship
Friends with benefits = friends first and foremost, same as any other friend, knows family and friends etc sex is only a benefit
Not many woman like that idea in my experience , friendship is valued way above sex , so FWB works because the sex isn’t that important "
What most people have on fab, regardless of gender, is actually more BWF than FWB though if they're honest! |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Prefer the BWF as opposed to FWB on fab, as FWB is a thing off fab and totally different! BWF sums up a fab fwb way better tbh!
What is that ? All I can find is
Bitch with feelings
Boyfriend without benefits
Neither sounds much fun.
Benefits with friends = a sex lead friendship
Friends with benefits = friends first and foremost, same as any other friend, knows family and friends etc sex is only a benefit
Not many woman like that idea in my experience , friendship is valued way above sex , so FWB works because the sex isn’t that important
What most people have on fab, regardless of gender, is actually more BWF than FWB though if they're honest! "
I think I agree! We want the friendship as trimmings around some regular kinky sex !! Rather than cold one offs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up Px
He must have a constant hard on around you "
pretty much.. im very lucky   Px |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
A handful no more... of good mates with a handful of benefits thrown in.
Definitely not a one night stand kind of thing unless it was that disappointing that a one-nighter is the only option
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"We like to think of categories like:
acquaintances (who chat / flirt /watch)
playmates (who join in, when asked)
fuck partners (set up before we meet)
But always respect and regard.
X Anne & George "
You’ve just broken my statistical model....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mercurial muse and life partner
Poly or mono ?
How about just a life partner and whatever they decide, they'll decide together? "
Thank you, I wasn’t expecting question at this time. |
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"I came here with a one track mind, it very quickly disappeared and now I cant wait to speak to a select few each day
I dont know what that category is so im just going to say someone I can share cake with - that person/s
I used to own a cake shop
What’s it like to have your cake and eat it ? "
Absolutely fantastic |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Question is largely irrelevant to me now
*must resist urge to say this is cute*
Noooo let's say it loudly cos it is really Cute  "
Awwwwwwww if it was my site you’d be paying double if you hook up abs stay |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
I'm starting to wonder now that life is getting back to normal and soon I could go traveling again and take my child.
Perhap I'm here to realise that I can very easily go back abroad working and living. |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I'm starting to wonder now that life is getting back to normal and soon I could go traveling again and take my child.
Perhap I'm here to realise that I can very easily go back abroad working and living."
I like your style ! I’m just putting you as BDSM without sex if that’s ok ? |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I don't like FWB.
I prefer Sex With Friendship.
The core is sex, but enjoy each others company as well.
A meet, followed by a drink and chat. Then maybe sex again. "
It’s called BWF something new I learned today ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up Px
He must have a constant hard on around you
pretty much.. im very lucky Px "
Took the words out my mouth baby |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like FWB.
I prefer Sex With Friendship.
The core is sex, but enjoy each others company as well.
A meet, followed by a drink and chat. Then maybe sex again. "
Precisely BWF, it's not FWB! |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up Px
He must have a constant hard on around you
pretty much.. im very lucky Px
Took the words out my mouth baby "
STOP flirting  get a room......
Have you answered my research question? |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I don't like FWB.
I prefer Sex With Friendship.
The core is sex, but enjoy each others company as well.
A meet, followed by a drink and chat. Then maybe sex again.
Precisely BWF, it's not FWB! "
I think it’s easier for guys. It’s like with someone you actually like and are interested in as a person and also have great sex, and like being with them, but not wanting a relationship, whereas as a FWB is more about the friendship and often average or mediocre sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up Px
He must have a constant hard on around you
pretty much.. im very lucky Px
Took the words out my mouth baby
STOP flirting get a room......
Have you answered my research question? "
Haha apologies OP.
In previous fab incarnations I was always looking for ladies who I company I enjoy, wine, chats, bs, and get then naked with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im perfectly happy in my relationship.
we both use fab to keep up with friends and forums and club nights too.. however i use it additionally because im a whore that likes to wind him up Px
He must have a constant hard on around you
pretty much.. im very lucky Px
Took the words out my mouth baby
STOP flirting get a room......
Have you answered my research question?
Haha apologies OP.
In previous fab incarnations I was always looking for ladies who I company I enjoy, wine, chats, bs, and get then naked with. "
im not sorry OP
i use fab for whatever takes my fancy (when we aren't in an apocalypse. nowadays im biding my time as a prick tease with pretty pictures).
But usually club meets with filthy couples, quick fucks if i feel like them, or glorious girl on girl weekends... depends entirely on my mood.
mainly clubs.. with couples and singles im genuinely friends with in the 'real world', that i'd not have met if it wasn't for fab. The friendship side of this lifestyle is invaluable i think.
Px |
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FWB leading to Poly relationship is the dream
Then you find it, and wonder quite why you keep the fab account open as that's your free time delightfully spoken for!
Certified fab addict I guess, but a grinning smugly one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like FWB.
I prefer Sex With Friendship.
The core is sex, but enjoy each others company as well.
A meet, followed by a drink and chat. Then maybe sex again.
Precisely BWF, it's not FWB!
I think it’s easier for guys. It’s like with someone you actually like and are interested in as a person and also have great sex, and like being with them, but not wanting a relationship, whereas as a FWB is more about the friendship and often average or mediocre sex "
Oh that's harsh, it's nothing to do with sex being mediocre, actually had a proper FWB for 14 yrs and the sex was omfg awesome! It's about real, proper friendship! The kind where you know everyone and they know everyone in each others lives!
BWF is more about sex first! Friends but without the added real life! |
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