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Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit... |
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over a year ago
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It's because they are guilt stricken. On a sex site looking for sex with strangers is a terrible, disgraceful thing.
Claiming to want quality makes them far classier and eases their sex guilt.  |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit..."
I’d be a bit worried if I had a meet and they slept through it.  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
I’d be a bit worried if I had a meet and they slept through it. "
Ply me with Cherry Lucozade and I'll be fine  |
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over a year ago
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"I always think its maybe a dig at people who have lots of meets.
Who says you can't have quality and quantity. "
it would be possible , but shopping for them might become a full time job , at nearly 30k people online at any one time and many of them confusing the site with instashag, there is alot of rough to get through to find the diamonds  |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit..."
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged. |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged."
.. Is it that mean though? It just says that you are not going to meet everyone '. Nothing wrong with being choosy... Is there?  |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged... Is it that mean though? It just says that you are not going to meet everyone '. Nothing wrong with being choosy... Is there? "
But the probably aren't and messaged 1000's |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged... Is it that mean though? It just says that you are not going to meet everyone '. Nothing wrong with being choosy... Is there?
But the probably aren't and messaged 1000's"
.. Well i guess thats a different kettle of fish.. That's called a hypocrite and there are plenty of those about let me tell you!! |
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Quality v quantity? After many years, we know what we're looking for and don't feel the need to settle for less or hit some sort of weekly/monthly target to fell fulfilled. That's not boasting it's just a fact. If we don't find the right guy we don't meet. It doesn't matter how long it takes because for us this is just a small part of our lives. Quality is subjective but for us it simply means finding someone on the same wavelength as us who can fit into the limitations we're subject to. |
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"I always think its maybe a dig at people who have lots of meets.
Who says you can't have quality and quantity.
it would be possible , but shopping for them might become a full time job , at nearly 30k people online at any one time and many of them confusing the site with instashag, there is alot of rough to get through to find the diamonds "
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"I always think its maybe a dig at people who have lots of meets.
Who says you can't have quality and quantity.
it would be possible , but shopping for them might become a full time job , at nearly 30k people online at any one time and many of them confusing the site with instashag, there is alot of rough to get through to find the diamonds "
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged... Is it that mean though? It just says that you are not going to meet everyone '. Nothing wrong with being choosy... Is there? "
No, I meant me being mean observing most of these profiles are getting no meets at all, quality or otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No matter how you set your criteria, you can only ever meet someone willing to meet you.
There are lots of common phrases used on profiles and each person may interpret it differently.
I take most profiles as a window on how people want others to see them and there's no harm in that. |
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I don’t have either of these statements on my profile also the sentiment does sit well with me.
As a woman here I have found that there is an expectation from certain members of the site that if you have a profile you will have sex with anyone and you may be, dare I say, slightly desperate.
I don’t need to make these statements and am happy to chose who and when I meet and am happy to delete messages from people who do not pique my interest.
I guess some people want to be more explicit in their wants and expectations and I can’t see anything wrong with that. |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged... Is it that mean though? It just says that you are not going to meet everyone '. Nothing wrong with being choosy... Is there?
No, I meant me being mean observing most of these profiles are getting no meets at all, quality or otherwise."
.. Oh I get your point and it's a fair one. I would hate to think someone was being made a fool of. So you are totally right in what you say. I think irrespective of quality or what you look like there should be someone for everyone.. once people treat them fairly (unless they are a complete physco of course  ) |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit..."
Can they not just be talking about when the pandemic restrictions are lifted? Your profile explains what you want to do. Doesn't your own query apply to you for the things you say you like? |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged."
If I was going to shag my way through fab I’d definitely do it alphabetically  |
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"Seems a bit petty to be honest. Simply means than these people haven’t updated their profile since the pandemic. No big deal. "
Curious to see the association to the pandemic. My thoughts were the same a year ago tbh... |
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"Seems a bit petty to be honest. Simply means than these people haven’t updated their profile since the pandemic. No big deal.
Curious to see the association to the pandemic. My thoughts were the same a year ago tbh..."
assume because your OP mentions when neither is happening anyway - i read it to be referring to no meets at the moment because of the pandemic too, but now realise you night just mean people put that up when they even struggle to get meets in general |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit..."
Not at all mean. I for one would be happy to try sleeping with the whole site, except:
1) I'm old and saggy so no takers.
2) Almost no active female candidates locally. So no takers.
3) Oh yes, and a deadly pandemic ongoing, so no takers.
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
I’d be a bit worried if I had a meet and they slept through it. "
It's happened to us  . The guy fell fast asleep, snoring and everything while Mr N and I looked at each other like and giggled. |
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"Another phrase that's been tickling me recently... the number of profiles saying they prefer one over the other when the reality is that neither is happening anyway. Not looking to sleep your way through Fab? Well that's convenient!
Is that mean? I think it's a bit mean. But only a bit...
It does come across as mean but think it is said to make the other person feel honoured to be messaged."
 This , as well as explaining their lack or very low number of veries |
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